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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Tribalism123(m): 2:36pm On Dec 14, 2020
Kriss216:

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.


Omoh
I no fit laugh o

Very big CURRENT FOOLISHNESS. Birds of a feather.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 2:37pm On Dec 14, 2020
I don't and will never understand why you lots date students. There are countless mature babes out there but nah, you guys prefer immature and emotionally imbalanced students to pounce on then later you start complaining.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Lenient001: 2:38pm On Dec 14, 2020
I couldn't even read it to the end in regards of those two lines begins with lady A and lady B.

Walahi, guy you're the one damned nimcompoop i've ever met.
Lavishing an immense of fortunes on such an ashawo. Yet, you even decided to go for her friend!

Nah you be the real doll.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by 2kurupt(m): 2:41pm On Dec 14, 2020
Buffalo2:
OP, the ex was really giving you good sex right? cos from all you have typed about her no sane person will roll with such a fellow for two weeks talk more of two years but deeper analysis of your write up reveals that you were definitely enjoying "something" from the relationship and by all standard that "something" must be SEX.
You know it's such kinda badt girls that know how to finish work in the other room cheesy he forgets there's more to a relationship than just hot sex

CONCLUSION: Leave lady B and lick your wound alone cos lady A will not hesitate to harm lady B if the relationship continues
On a serious note he is also at risk

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by poweredcom(m): 2:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
Brother you be Bart Simpson oo

Imagine now after wasting money on a stupid naija gal ..if I were you I will travel.to Namibia or Congo and get a woman or even cotonou

I don tell una many naija ladies of this generation are finished

Even that ur new girlfriend no even sure ...just try let one of Dem give u a child and carry your child and train na so be the way u less they will currupt ur kid

@womenareapes see brother wey mumu
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Edusouls(m): 2:48pm On Dec 14, 2020
You are an intelligent gal, don’t mind fakers all over nairaland, see hungry dude wey never chop wella, is claiming she stole her 600k, nonsense people everywhere..
CalliDora1:
This story reeks of lies.

She stole your 600k kor. Lies!

Please you guys should be adding graphics to this your lies whenever you're typing it.

I'm out!
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Riverville(m): 2:49pm On Dec 14, 2020
Death to Simps
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by bigcasava1(m): 2:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
Na so u been disturb her no forget oo! So allow her na her turn now.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by codedphyness(m): 2:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
Kriss216:

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.



if dis guy read dis ur summary him go burst into tear cuz u don finish am kpatakpata
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 2:56pm On Dec 14, 2020
First of all, you ve gone too far, dating two friends, even though you broke up with one first before taking up the other one. Dont ever try it again.
But there is still solution.
There are two things you can do.
1.. Take your new lover, and go very far... Try as much as possible to cut any medium with which she might get to you, or get to know your whereabout.
Or
2... Take a strong heart, and steer clear from both ladies.
If not, that ex of yours will cause you much damage than you can imagine..
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by SILVERLINES: 3:04pm On Dec 14, 2020
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

SIMP cheesy
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by thuxzwda1: 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Shots fired! So the gorhoyal is sleeping with ur ex huh?

I never knew men tolerated Cheats o, abi your dick ain't nothing to write home about? Or you not attractive? Never tolerate such disloyalty abeg.

See brother wey mumu, so if they left you would have married such hot pants? Abi na so d cunt sweet ni


kaya n Mata for you....that's how it works�
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by DasaintHope(m): 3:06pm On Dec 14, 2020
IamD18:
The way you described your ex and her mum in a disgusting way says a lot about you

This is someone I'm sure you once professed your love for and had some nice moment with, all of a sudden, you are describing her and her mum in such manner. cheesy

I'm more concerned about the one you are dating now, because if things should go sour someday, you'll describe her in a terrible way too.

And just so you know, you don't date your ex's friend and expect her not to react. You can't even convince me that you had nothing with your Ex's friend then when you both were seriously dating. smiley
Try they use your sense small small abeg

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Eberex(m): 3:07pm On Dec 14, 2020
Kriss216:
School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!

The guy no mention anything about bedmatic.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Lamanii22(f): 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2020
Kriss216:
School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!



Mehn.... I don't know where all these kinda guys live... That money would have really helped my business grow lol ....

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by GGirll: 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2020
This too happened to my cousin. He dated a girl n somehow she got pregnant n he didn't tell anyone out of fear,d girl stole his 400k to her mum n later her mum told him to do court wedding n finally he did court, trad n white wedding this year. Just yesterday I called him n he started telling me that d wife had been misbehaving, he goes to work n will come home to see no one only to call her n ask her whereabouts she wouldn't pick and always come home late like 10,11,12pm with d kid n he told my uncle since his dad is dead, d uncle called d girl cautioned her but it kept going on n on until he stated locking her out for 3 hours just to punishbher n make her stop but she kept on. He then called d mum n explained n still no change d laat time she did that n came home late she told him always she was at her mum's shop. He asked her if she wants him to open a ship for but she said no. As I type now. He came home one day n d girl had moved all her belongings n that of her child n had moved out. Now I asked him to change his door keys n probably relocate to cool off his brain n plan on d next line of action. I asked him is he's still in love with her n if he needs d child n if he can do DNA test in d child but he told he doesn't want both d child n d mum again in life. He told me how she poisoned his food d last time if not that he drove himself quickly to d hospital he would have been dead yet he forgave her n now they want to kill him n take all his properties. Pls I need your advise for him or someone should make this a new topic since I don't know how to post such thanks.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by ParagonBeauty: 3:12pm On Dec 14, 2020
Wahala be like bicycle! Sorry Bros, seem you too like happening babe. When the foundation is destroyed, what can they righteous do

Repent and give your life to Christ, is only Jesus that can save you not Nigeria police whether your ex sign undertaking or not

As for your lady B she should do the same. Safety is of the Lord.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by ogubolokento(m): 3:14pm On Dec 14, 2020
After mixing roots just to nack,she allow you rest na.....
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Collegelove: 3:15pm On Dec 14, 2020
CalliDora1:
This story reeks of lies.

She stole your 600k kor. Lies!

Please you guys should be adding graphics to this your lies whenever you're typing it.

I'm out!
lol
It could be 60k.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Lewisdinho(m): 3:16pm On Dec 14, 2020
You're a first class material in the department of SIMPS. Can't believe guys like you still exist.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Bishop(m): 3:17pm On Dec 14, 2020
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section


Yoruba people in trying to describe grave danger would say. 'you are using the fang/teeth of a live cobra to scratch {soothen the discomfort in } your nose.

Both Lady A and Lady B, will cause you great harm.

I pray the Lord preserve your soul.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Sailorsoldier1: 3:23pm On Dec 14, 2020
CalliDora1:
This story reeks of lies.

She stole your 600k kor. Lies!

Please you guys should be adding graphics to this your lies whenever you're typing it.

I'm out!
so u think its impossible to steal 600k ?
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by CandyOps(m): 3:24pm On Dec 14, 2020
Kriss216:

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.

You sound like you a first class graduate of the dept of Literature and English cheesy

Your skills in summary is astonishing

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by SweetCunt97(f): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2020
thuxzwda1:



kaya n Mata for you....that's how it works�
Eheeeeen! Where can I get one
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Myhusband(m): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2020
Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables


interesting, myhusband continue reading


This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


but why op?



I don't even know where to start, the level of your naivety is nauseating and annoying. as a married man, I can't even flirt with a lady that's engage with someone not talk of the one sleeping around. you think you could cope with her infidelity but you don't feel if you could cope when she dash you unknown diseases with her infidelity


to even think you're still sponsoring her to school and sending her parents money, someone you're yet to pay her bride price and you don't see a red flag


the part that's annoying most is still following the same path of mistake, you're now following her friend out again, so her friend in your dumb animal sense is saint? if someone can be a friend to a Lady of questionable characters, it means she's half if not 70% of your Lady A nonsense charisma


if you really love yourself and peace of your mind, cease to relate with anything that had to do with your Lady A and go for counselling about relationship or meet an experience Elderly people around you


your future love life is in jeopardy if you don't make correction of your emotional trait on time

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 14, 2020
Edusouls:
You are an intelligent gal, don’t mind fakers all over nairaland, see hungry dude wey never chop wella, is claiming she stole her 600k, nonsense people everywhere..

Lol... And it's even more annoying that people believe him.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 3:34pm On Dec 14, 2020
Collegelove:
lol
It could be 60k.

grin Maybe. The guy just pack lies full ground.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by egworlordor(m): 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2020
You’re still calling that demon your ex. She’s your destiny destroyer
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by akanjikokoro: 3:40pm On Dec 14, 2020
Since you are the ATM of Lady A already she can not leave for life. You better go for deliverance or absorb her as second wife.
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Seyzcham91(m): 3:41pm On Dec 14, 2020
you see why you guys should Try and Stop Letting this Vagina People know you have money or your whole background.

from all indications its obvious you a lavish spender despite knowing some of her secrets and her wayward being which i know maybe she has used her Pussy Hook your Brain cuz me can't imagine being densed and dull with naija girls like this

which brings me to my conclusion "that girl never loved you and will never but will not wanna let go of you cuz of the ATM You have shown yourself to be
Naija girls don't let go of Lavish money spender with no brain and sense which is the category you belong

naija girls only associates with the benefits and thats all there is to it nothing else
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 14, 2020
Bros no vex o but you be money miss road angry grin grin I Bleep for free and still get loyalty you spend heaven and Earth you still cheated on. op you be maga leave women and turn gay grin grin angry grin
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Druss(m): 3:42pm On Dec 14, 2020
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

First of all I wish you well. You are not the first person to date or marry the friend of their ex. Ignore the insults.

Secondly you didn't provide enough details about lady B. Is she in university? How have you ensured that mistakes made with lady A hasn't repeated.

Thirdly if you are worried about her, then that is another discussion. I have seen enough in life to know 1 plus 1 is not always 2.

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