angelfallz:


Lol. using your first sentence i would kind of agree about women being the backbone.

But your second sentence, women can't be the backbone, because he is also supporting her financially. Moreover, A man that is comfortable financially, why would he need financial support?

A woman who is also working with the stress accrued to career work, can't really offer emotional support.

true @ your second sentence especially for career women, but at the end it all boils down to what we all want individually.

samsard:
LMAO. You're a ridiculous man. I'm irreligious and have zero regards for frauds on pulpit. If there is hell, it walks with me

Did you just called our respected men of God frauds on pulpit I hope you beg for forgiveness so you won't burn for eternity in the hottest lake of fire. Come to Jesus and be saved

GOTVee:



Did you just called our respected men of God frauds on pulpit I hope you beg for forgiveness so you won't burn for eternity in the hottest lake of fire. Come to Jesus and be saved

You're delusional. You guys are frauds on pulpits.

Silentgroper:
why are u pained?

He's the pained one, not me....

Why is he ranting here, relationship is overhyped... Yen, yen, yen...

Relationship is by choice... You too can choose, even animals choose....

If he doesn't want any female in his life, he feels there is nothing a woman contributes to his existence. So be it.... Including you, nothing is by force abeg... Abi women dey beg una?

Okuda:
una for nigeria dey get relationship all wrong. the issue os deep if we wnt to start askimg the question of what went wrong. its in Nigeria i saw buying gifts for a girl buy her love. in almost all the cases. and nigerian men are the cause. they dont know how to talk to women. hold conversations other than lets go out to do this and that. na so so enjoyment here and there.

Only intelligent ladies are interested in conversation, all these dumbos are just after consumables.

odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

You are a real nigga... Welcome to our club

Before you marry be sure you do enough investigation, testing and sampling.
Don't be deceived. There are many secrets that you need to discover. Many have married ashawo, olosho, single mother, slay mamma, drug pusher, murderer, idol worshipper, masquerade, demon possessed wife, rape victim, cultist, hooligan, hoodlum, drug addict, alcoholic, amebo, tatafoo, grave digger, gold digger, criminal, psychiatric patient, 419er, cannibal, etc etc without knowing

Don't allow marriage turn you into a fool.
Many use marriage to escape poverty.
It is more of marriage for benefits not marriage for love.
Shine your eyes.

dalass:



He's the pained one, not me....

Why is he ranting here, relationship is overhyped... Yen, yen, yen...

Relationship is by choice... You too can choose, even animals choose....

If he doesn't want any female in his life, he feels there is nothing a woman contributes to his existence. So be it.... Including you, nothing is by force abeg... Abi women dey beg una?

Bt na una dey go shiloh go dey beg God for husband na.

God then hears ur cry nd send us to u guys bt una go still fvck up.

No be say we dey una oo, we are just merely listening to God

TemmyT002:
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.

Where would one meet them? At shiloh?

So what happens next when one has been ensnared? It is just so difficult having to endure such liabilities without so much benefit. The sex is also overrated - a lot them are rubbish at it; they just want to be penetrated and think sweaty, energetic and so-called multiple rounds is all that is about...
Boring!
It is just about children for me but in my case, it was not easy to just keep her as a baby mama - curses!
Damn family and their religious and so-called cultural and traditional ways.
Some cannot even bring up children properly - they get angry quickly and do not stick to any routines and structure the children for a successful life. Many cannot wait to send the children to school even before 2 years old despite some not even employed. Chai - successful Nigerian men gets scammed easily by women. But most of the women are spoiled by men - and that gives some of them mouth and expectations beyond their worth.
Fancy broke women cursing some men as broke!

odinson1:


My children

Children from d lady you didn't Wed huh? Anyways I doubt any woman would want to b tied down as a baby mama.

whemmytopsy:

Only intelligent ladies are interested in conversation, all these dumbos are just after consumables.

Then get an intelligent woman bro!

SweetCunt97:
Children from d lady you didn't Wed huh? Anyways I doubt any woman would want to b tied down as a baby mama.

As far as the man has Wealth and fame,most women would kill to bear his children

MyGeneration:
Relationships are source of free sex for guys

what is free sex?

ojuu4u:



Something which is burden to them , yet they don't let go of it.

If women are problems for you leave them for us who appreciate them.

The ways these guys believe they wise than God who created males and females to complement each, is sickened

Perverted everywhere.

ikpu nnegi

EXLOVER:
Some people are just capping for capping sake, even people that call themselves alpha male online, girls are this girl's are that. I can't be in a relationship, baby mama all the way crew, this are just write up. Many live in one room, like me i don't do relationship for now, even when the girls want it, I prefer fwb, that is what i can afford for now, I don't want to waste any girls time, when the time comes, and i'm financially okay, I know i will need a woman that i will want to spend the rest of my life with.

Who wouldn't like being welcomed with a kiss, or going to vacations, buying gift, or having someone by your side? We just have to work for the good life we want, for now, we don't need anyone to suffer with us.

Is it wrong to have a faithful person suffer with you and stay with you till you're okay financially? I believe such experiences is what form basis of true love in marriage sha..when you both pass through the hard times together.

Nigerian girls are beginning to see materialism as true love. They are fast losing any sense of genuine love devoid of luxurious lifestyle. They no longer believe in having anything to do with broke or struggling guys and that's why the rich guys keep using and dumping them without proposing marriage to them because they never loved them genuinely.

Mod im happy you ve enjoyed as many free slice as you want,
And your finger don burn too.
Am happy that you ve learned.
Now choose.
Marry or not.

We all met too many things in this life that we re trying to keep up to which was propounded by some highly crooked fellow...
Now you ve seen clear, say na scam.
Now choose.
Shikena

odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

remain single then ....broke man

Rapsodee:
Is it wrong to have a faithful person suffer with you and stay with you till you're okay financially? I believe such experiences is what form basis of true love in marriage sha..when you both pass through the hard times together.

It's not wrong, but me personally i don't like it.

EXLOVER:
It's not wrong, but me personally i don't like it.

I understand

SweetCunt97:
Then get an intelligent woman bro!

It's a known fact that they are hard to come by.

If you're a woman would you endorse this?

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do

Stage a protest against who nah?

Who say make u no marry pass one wife

Binhamid:


Bro forget hold conversation. Only few girls will even take you serious if you are trying to only talk when you meet each other. Most of them are looking for men to flex them and buy stuffs that their 7 months salary can't buy. If na talk you wan talk you are on your own boss.

you are wrong. women see convos wey different. no be whatsup talk. this is from experience.

angelfallz:


What you said about gifts also happens abroad. It just depends on the woman.

actually not. it happens but on the minutest of scale. oyibo no dey hungry o. wetin u wan give am wey she no go fit buy with just 2mins walk to bug supermarket? you sef u go begin see the worthlessness of the things

Blackpearlxx:
remain single then ....broke man

nobody is marrying you old hag!

you are right jawe! relationships are overrated. since i stoped dating or calling a girl, ask a girl out or invited girl over my life has been in a real PEACE OF MIND

odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

Buying gifts is all well and good but how many women will voluntarily buy gifts for their partner; even when the bulk of the money they have has come from the male partner.
Are you going to give me money to buy gifts for the children when you have already given her enough money to buy gifts for children and herself. On top, she gets gifts and additional amount of money.
I get so annoyed these days when missus address me like I am a sugar daddy or uncle or toaster. Use your brains and money for heaven's sake...

is that not BOB MARLEY OR LUCKY DUBE

LeeSantos:
no woman no crime.

i dey tell you

NCarthur:
These days relationship is a waste of time.

walahi!

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Yes o, relationships are a waste of time.

Just bang and go