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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:16am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Seyzcham91:Alaye are you sure, do you mean you are not also the type that dispose all his life savings to pekus ![]() ![]() |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:19am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Frustrated007:So you too you want our girls to remain single for life Abi, Does marriage under the act allowed marrying four wives? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:21am On Dec 15, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:What is this fwb abeg |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by KenBen217: 5:22am On Dec 15, 2020 |
TemmyT002: because alot of men understand there ain't nothing like real love. what does real love even mean?? get the definition,then search around and see that it doesn't exist. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nairaboi(m): 6:48am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Deejay1000:Back bone as how? God no give you spinal cord? 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 7:27am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: No amount of masturbation, sex doll, can match having sex with girl, most especially the girl you love. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Deejay1000(m): 7:46am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Nairaboi:back bone as in support. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Deejay1000(m): 7:47am On Dec 15, 2020 |
IkeGod221:click on my signature bossman. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 8:56am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: What you know about her is less than 10%. If you live with her under the same roof, you will know another 10%. If you Investigate her close friend you will know another 10%. If you investigate her parents you will know another 10% You will never know her because of lies and cover up. Just call her and ask her to tell you about herself in full. Has she committed abortion before Was she raped before Was she molested as a kid Who disvirgined her Will she support you with her money Was she circumcised Does she have other sex partners Etc etc etc 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Seyzcham91(m): 10:29am On Dec 15, 2020 |
haha ! you no serious ![]() for the past months i never toast, call any girl to come visit me or dey chat any girl up sef cuz las las na my pocket and account go sweat am but e get one babe wey dey carry pussy come meet me for house steady sha even though i no dey call her to come she sha go show up be like e gbadun my dick so na her pussy dey help me release stress for months now Hassanmaye: 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 15, 2020 |
EXLOVER: Story Story Story....... 1 Like |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Xyzkwenu: You have a lot of an Idle Time at your disposal. This Is absolute waste of time advising a blockhead..... |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 12:11pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
ojuu4u: This Is the only sensible thing I've seen you post since the creation of Adam...... |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 12:42pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Evolutionlove: Because senseless runs in ur family, look at ur dad is most stupid person from Creation. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by professore(m): 1:34pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Zzor:you understand better anyways, I wish you all the best zzor, I'm sorry for all the things I said. I'm so sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Blackpearlxx(f): 2:52pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Goldmaxx:indeed...you know your mama is the old hag here |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 3:00pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Many people have free rent, free food, free water, free electricity, free transportation, free hair styling, free house-help, free security, free subscription (TV, internet, phone), free clothing, free medical bills, free vacations, free education, etc etc and they nag, insult, quarrel and fight if their demands are not met. Entitlement mentality is a state of mind in which an individual comes to believe that privileges are rights, and that they are to be expected as a matter of course. Simply put: approaching relationships with a strict requirement and expectation of having all your needs met by your partner is so, so wrong. Thinking that sleeping with a guy or being in a relationship with him automatically entitles you to his money is wrong. It does not work that way. If you believe that, how then are you different from a prostitute who exchanges her body for money? The issue of entitlement to money in relationships has been further explained in this instructive piece here. Having said that, we should add that entitlement in relationships is a mental thing so there can be an error in evaluating it from a superficial perspective. It is simple: there are things that can be expected in relationships and if you are harping on those and demanding them as a right, you cannot be wrong. You are in fact, entitled to things like faithfulness, honesty, communication and someone who actually makes the effort to make things work. In a way, this can be called a healthy entitlement mentality. If, on the other hand, things that should be seen as privileges are being seen as rights, the mentality becomes flawed. This is where guys come in. Relating to sex in a relationship [not marriage] as a right is wrong. If a girl chooses to give it, it is a privilege. Same goes with the entitlement to a woman’s culinary skills. Whether dating or married, having a woman make meals for you is [arguably] a privilege. Why? Because anyone can and should cook, especially in modern families where both partner work and pitch in with the same effort all round. And more importantly, as said here in this piece, because cooking is not, and should no longer be seen as an inherently-feminine skill. In all, for relationships and marriages to be different and less resentful than the marriages of older generations, a better balance needs to be found and struck between what to feel entitled to, and what to be thankful for in a relationship. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
professore:No problems, we are cool. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by EXLOVER(m): 9:21pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Evolutionlove:once upon a time. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
ojuu4u: Hehe lol e pain am lol...... ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 4:20pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
dalass:Lol ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 4:22pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
EXLOVER:Thank you I will never be confused again no be everything person go know |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 5:14pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: Lol! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() People looking at me like... ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 7:49pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
dalass:You think all this kings forming big boys all the governors don't beg their wives go and investigate. The power of women is in the other room, women who understand that rule the world 1 Like |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 7:54pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: Your plain manner of speech was refreshingly hilarious... Yes. You're right... Thanks for telling it as it is... Many are just hypocrites.. Unfortunately some guys will now copy their lies... Strong people don't need to hide behind anything, they tell it as it is and are appreciated for it |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 6:18am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:Like there are a lot of white males willing to endure an African woman's ways. |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by SlurUsername1: 6:24am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Deejay1000: SIMP PERSONIFIED 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships are Overrated by SlurUsername1: 6:28am On Dec 17, 2020 |
professore: 2 Likes
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