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Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by vivsravine: 10:34am On Dec 17, 2020
ABROAD SISTERS, STOP SHAMING US

How do I start this write up without offending those involved?

Trust me I don't care, because enough is enough of the nonsence you ladies portray over there and forget so soon how you started.

It's no longer news what most of our sisters do to our brothers in the name of marriage overseas is quite alarming.

The news is so hard to bear and you start to wonder who actual birth these type of women, who forget humble beginning.

A man leaves all the ladies in the countries they reside and comes home to pick you as a wife, sometimes they even forget about those good girls they had a life with before they left the country.

He sponsors everyting about you, gets married to you and starts a life with you over there, in less than five years you become wiser than the devil and you begin to act like assistant devil.

Many will have the nerve to call the cops on their husband's in the slightest provacations some of these men go to jail because of martial issues while some of these women become as selfish as cain and they won't give a hoot and many of our brothers lose all their properties over there.

You easily become authoritative because you feel you have arrived and you can't be talked to, many go to the extent of sponsoring their exes to their country of abode, others would build houses here in the country without the consent of their husbands, some will even buy cars and other properties without letting their husbands be in the know.

The records of domestic violence has increased amongst ladies who were picked from here to such civilised countries, they go there and feel they are now wild and cling to have ample rights to discern what happens and nobody can dare them.

Many of our brothers has been deported, some have lost their chances of ever going back to that country and even other countries, many deny them access to their children and finally others go about killing their husbands because of inheritance.

Stop this show of shame and retrace your steps home, stop this abuse you know you can never do back home, in as much as I don't support injustice of any kind, lets stop this bad behaviour and guard your homes.

So many brothers no longer value Nigerian women because of this act that has eaten into them negatively, its a dent on all ladies because even the good ones are now affected badly.

It's another season for them to come back home and pick a wife, you will be with him soon and you will be excited of relocating but immediately you get there, you become as wild as a cat and hunt like a leopard.

So sad, because of this acidious acts, our brothers now come home, marry us and leave us here to take care of the kids while they go hustle and come back intermittently.

Remember karma is a bitch you can win but you won't always win, the repercussions are always closer, nemesis doesn't miss its address and certainly vengeance is of God .

Make ammends now and retrace your steps, don't forget humble beginnings your character is your voice even in your absence it would speak for you.

Ahudiya speaks ©

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Kapilta(m): 10:37am On Dec 17, 2020
I hate relationship and anything bout it.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 17, 2020
Kapilta:
I hate relationship and anything bout it.
But you prefer transactional sex abi, what does that make you?

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:40am On Dec 17, 2020
Western society is femcentric I pity guys who dont have redpill knowledge and decide to marry overseas...

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:41am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
But you prefer transactional sex abi, what does that make you?

Relationship is subtly transactional sex

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by donbachi(m): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2020
Anything dat will happen to you.should befall ur enemies.dat is the biggest problem some of our guys are facing down here.when they are in nigeria,they are GOD fearing women.the moment they crossover,even GOD will start fearing them.its a common thing.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 10:44am On Dec 17, 2020
DEMZEE:


Relationship is subtly transactional sex
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2020
Lemme stay here.
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex


Zzor, stop derailing. Comment in response to the OP's comment

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by fati2001(m): 10:45am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:47am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex

There will always be a transaction in relationships, we call it compromise and sacrifice.

Then every man in a relationship is irresponsible then because there are transactions in relationships

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 10:53am On Dec 17, 2020
It's the reigning thing.

Ladies act up all dolly before they are married. Once they get in, alongside her family they start to consult all sorts of covern to have the man killed and then transfer the man's wealth to her family. Mothers control and use their daughters and the ladies make themselves available.


Men do not open up too much to your wives before 7 years into a relationship


Or have your systems put in place that you don't get the Duncan Mighty treatment

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JOACHINpedro: 11:19am On Dec 17, 2020
Congrats to anyone making marriage undesirable for this generation. They're sure doing a good Job embarassed

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Sundrus: 11:21am On Dec 17, 2020
Pierocash:
I often say it. Nigerian women are the most wicked sets of women on earth. I read an article sometime ago about 10 different Nigerian women abroad,who where murdered by their husbands and are serving jail terms.

It is only a Nigerian woman you send to university she replies you with a new wedding card invitation.

Don't marry a black woman from Nigeria and relocate her abroad, marry her here,leave her here to take care of your kids. If you do otherwise, you either lose your life there,or lose your properties.
woman wey go cheat on u or ruin ur life go do am irrespective of anything. Just pray make u meet the right lady wey get conscience & sense of good judgement. I know say such ladies dey, but them dey very few.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 11:25am On Dec 17, 2020
OP, you better be careful before JovialJune, apatheticme & CHoccolaTE will soon accuse you of being a male pretending to be female.


Meanwhile.. the biggest disgrace to womanhood are those urgent 2k girls - dirty lazy girls who refuse to work legitimate jobs for their money.. rather they whoore around, begging for alms from men up and down, then come on NL forming feminism.

bambiala girls putting real hardworking women to shame.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 11:40am On Dec 17, 2020
OchoL:
OP, you better be careful before JovialJune, apatheticme & CHoccolaTE will soon accuse you of being a male pretending to be female.


Thank you for bringing my attention here kiss

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 11:48am On Dec 17, 2020
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Jessepaid(m): 11:58am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex

Shit...well...

Let us be irresponsible...

When we were responsible una play us 419

Cheers to an irresponsible 2021..

Deep down we all want love.. but you know that ain't easy in this generation

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2020
OchoL:



Empty rants again as usual.

The difference between women here and women over there is LAZINESS!

A woman abroad works and contributes just as equally as the man. Hence why they have grounds to expect contribution in domestic affairs from their husbands.

Unlike here in Nigeria where must wives are either unemployed, under-employed or self- employed.. contributing so little to the financial upkeep of the household .. they think they are 'contributing' because they pay for their own sanitary pads, hair & nails lol..

Majority employ housegirls to do their chores. So basically all they are is a decorated housewife who does nothing all day but maltreat their slaves househelps.

You can't expect equality with men in a society that you contribute little to no value too.


What are you saying and what is the thread about?

A traditional man wants a stay at home wife because he likes it that way, and his authority cannot be questioned which is fine with the wife

A working class wife here is expected to submit and abide by the rules of her husband regardless of equal financial responsibility they both provide, and most times, she has no choice but to follow suit, because well, this is Nigeria

Now, in the abroad

A husband who brings his wife over there and sponsors her education and whatnot, still expects the wife to obey and abide by his rules regardless of her bringing 90% of her income, when she doesnt comply, issues start to happen whereby the husband will question himself as the man of the house, wife decides to use the law to her advantage, she realises she doesnt have to continuously be married to him hence divorce, he flips and becomes vengeful by killing her, or loses everything to her, becomes depressed and kills himself

Now, what is the root cause of the problem? The root cause is the inability of a typical naija man to tame his domineering persona cos he feels since he brought his wife over, therefore he owns her, their law doesnt give fvck about that, in other to be safe than sorry, why not see her as an equal, do things like equal human beings and live peacefully, surely it shouldn't be that hard,

Pls focus on what the thread is about next time, I like intelligent debate.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Akunatakasi(m): 12:49pm On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex

I go soon recommend your ban.. watch and see.. I go call seun on phone to give you 30years ban .. always going off topic

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 12:54pm On Dec 17, 2020
JovialJune:



What are you saying and what is the thread about?

A traditional man wants a stay at home wife because he like it that way, and his authority cannot be questioned which is fine with the wife

A working class wife here is expected to submit and abide by the rules of her husband regardless of equal financial responsibility they both provide, and most times, she has no choice but to follow suit, because well, this is Nigeria

Now, in the abroad

A husband who brings his wife over there and sponsors her education and whatnot, still expects the wife to obey and abide by his rules regardless of her bringing 90% of her income, when she doesnt comply, issues start to happen whereby the husband will question himself as the man of the house, wife decide to use the law to her advantage, she realises she doesnt have to continuously be married to him hence divorce, he flips and becomes vengeful by killing her, or loses everything to her, becomes depressed and kills himself

Now, what is the root cause of the problem? The root cause is the inability of a typical naija man to tame his domineering persona cos he brought his wife over, their law doesnt give fvck about that, in other to be safe than sorry, why not see her as an equal, do things like equally like human beings and live peacefully, surely it shouldn't be that hard,

Pls focus on what the thread is about next time, I like intelligent debate.

A ridiculous rant again as I expected.

You are obviously still a young girl.

My prayer point for you is that you bear sons who will fall victim to the highlighted - let's see your online bravado and rants when that happens wink

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 12:55pm On Dec 17, 2020
Funny thing about these men abroad is that, they can take any bullshit from other women abroad comfortably, even if she tells them to do weird irritating things, they'll gladly do it, but if it's our naija ladies, they will be fuming from their mouth to the head, with smoke visibly coming out, lmao, you guys will be fine o.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 12:56pm On Dec 17, 2020
JovialJune:
Funny thing about this men abroad is that, the can take any bullshit fromn other women abroad comfortably, even if she tells them to do weird irritating things, they'll gladly do it, but if it's our naija ladies, they will be fuming from their mouth to the head, with smoke visibly coming out, lmao, you guys will be fine o.

That's because Nigerian women have rendered themselves useless!

When you spend your entire youth being a bambiala to men, how do you expect such men to respect you?

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 12:57pm On Dec 17, 2020
OchoL:


A ridiculous rant again as I expected.

You are obviously still a young girl.

My prayer point for you is that you bear sons who will fall victim to the highlighted - let's see your online bravado and rants when that happens wink


Lol I already have sons, I am and will continue to train them and teach them right on how to treat ladies well, regardless of where they are in future

Cheers.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 12:59pm On Dec 17, 2020
OchoL:


That's because Nigerian women have rendered themselves useless!

When you spend your entire youth being a bambiala to men, how do you expect such men to respect you?


Dude, you keep going off topic, I know the pain comes from personal experience, you will be fine.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 1:00pm On Dec 17, 2020
JovialJune:



Lol I already have sons, I am and will continue to train them and teach them right on how to treat ladies well, regardless of where they are in future

Cheers.

You have sons indeed grin

Please train them to worship the female gender very well o. Train them to be totally subservient to women. They will benefit greatly from doing so wink

Cheers.

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 1:02pm On Dec 17, 2020
JovialJune:



Dude, you keep going off topic, I know the pain comes from personal experience, you will be fine.

The school fees your father ( a man) not your mother.. used to send you to Covenant university was a costly investment rendered useless. How can a recent graduate lack basic comprehension skills like this cry

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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by OchoL(f): 1:07pm On Dec 17, 2020
Pierocash:
I often say it. Nigerian women are the most wicked sets of women on earth. I read an article sometime ago about 10 different Nigerian women abroad,who where murdered by their husbands and are serving jail terms.

It is only a Nigerian woman you send to university she replies you with a new wedding card invitation.

Don't marry a black woman from Nigeria and relocate her abroad, marry her here,leave her here to take care of your kids. If you do otherwise, you either lose your life there,or lose your properties.

I'm a woman that fears my own gender.

I pity all the young men in my family.. girls of nowadays are worse than Jezebel

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