patoski39:
;Dits just always in us to want to impress this babes especially when there's a little cash to throw around , most times we can't just help it ..

2nd bolded, I fit switch side with d gal even if e no reach d amount wey she dae ask, things rough 4 me here ,, no vese

ichidodo:
Yeah, but you see, I wanted to f**k her...been fantasizing about that months..but I didn't want to fight this fire without getting my wallet burnt in the process as she had been spoilt thanks to the simps we have in our society....I just had to be creative...I had Game to help me... Taking her out allowed me to get in her head (besides the fact I'm an extrovert and I don't like flexing alone), to show her what I'm about...Give her a taste of what it would be like to hang out with a High Valued male...I worked her mind very hard before working her body eventually...I was a motherf**ker.

luminouz:
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What's the point of taking her out and even buying her stuff in the first place?

Na you wan impress her na

ichidodo:
If you take somebody out, you've got to buy stuff like food and drinks then become a jolly good fellow so as to make the outing fun and pleasant....You also do that to separate the person away from that which will spoil your agenda... Isolation so that you get to know the person up close and personal...So you her mumu button... Eventually next time till further notice you don't have to stand on unnecessary ceremonies like that anymore...You just press the mumu button and Voila! Okafor's law will take over from there....

luminouz:


Lol.... I'm immune to such CRAVINGS!! NA ONLY ME I DEY TRY SATISFY O

patoski39:
Make hunger kill dem abi

luminouz:
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You nailed it bro. I was surprised he even called her...like for what? You wanted to show her say u still get money na

patoski39:
Make hunger kill dem abi

luminouz:


Lol.... I'm immune to such CRAVINGS!! NA ONLY ME I DEY TRY SATISFY O

Skepticus:


It's expected for me to ignore opinions that celebrate being a simp but i'll quote his comments to illustrate a weakness that I see, being displayed by Nigerian guys more than any men of other nationalities in Sub-Saharan Africa.

It's the mugu/maga mentality. American pimps call it the trick mentality. Something they tell their girls to watch out for, to milk simps successfully. The rich, middle-class and poor, all have that mentality when it comes to dealing with women. These men feel ONLY MONEY is what would get women to have a conversation with a man in the first place and buy her loyalty. The thing that the ignoramuses don't know, is that most who will make money or wealth, (depending on the society where they are), don't get to have the wealth flowing that much to continually increase for their life time. Only a few (some are rated in Forbes) are able to have it increase continually and even in death. These guys (continously wealthy) can afford to simp successfully with their money for a lifetime, even as they have to pay more to keep the woman (if you start off with a woman, throwing cash, you'll have to continue to make more to keep her, as her taste and greed increases). It's not a guarantee of loyalty, anyway. For the most of us, we'll come across money for a relatively short period of time in paid employment, self-employment, business etc till, when the money start to decrease because of factors that are usually beyond's one's control like decreased productivity that comes with aging, unfavorable government policies, competition, changing times etc. That's why it's necessary to try as much as possible to maximize your skills, knowledge and potential in generating income and investing it (Like Creeza opined) on things that are worthwhile to ease the stress of the rainy days, rather than throwing decent cash like a fool on frivolities and worthless nonsense like "fair-skinned" women (the albatross of Nigerian simps). It's not about the red pill or some other nomenclature. It's just COMMON SENSE


No offence to you, Kaycee54321. The experience you shared is appreciated, because it has a lot we can learn from.

First of all, Kaycee54321 goes on to say that a girl "tricking" 3 or more men to give her money or other favours is not a "runs girl" - Pure Bullshiit. That's the coping mechanism betas use when they see a woman close to them (as friends or relatives), using her hypergamy in its worst exploitative state. I have female relatives and friends who do this. They and i, know it's runz and i tease them by calling them "bitches". No sugar-coating.

Also, instead of him to learn from the experiences of the foolish magas that these men made themselves over pussy that other men are also fuuccking "anyhow", he comforts himself by wishing to make as much as these men to take over from their stupidity. From experience, who women mock and laugh at these guys behind their back but will play submissive and feminine, massaging the fool's ego when they are with him.

Guys, would you rate "Charlie", the guy in Austria, or the Division 4 footballer in China, as smart if this " fair-chic" (was your friend) and told you about how he tricks them for money?

If you knew your friend was a pathetic guy who throws good money at women just to get their attention and continues to worship them with money when he gets nothing in return or just few sex, would you leave your millions in his hands knowing, he won't mind spending it, on a fair-skinned chic on Instagram? Be honest.

21cents:
Reason why every hustling dude should stay woke of their plans. bang those ones waiting for you at the finish line while you go for a young untouched virgin worthy of your resources.

No perforated hymen should be accepted after all your struggles. like Caveadullam said: Wh0res should be forced into extinction. pity yourself abeg.

Martinez39s:
Drunk ke? What sort of obvious lie is that? If he was truly drunk, he would have clarified AND not proceed to call those who rightfully disapproved of his post "bitter idiòts". Why call them "bitter idiòts" when your post was actually all shades of simphood and defiant of the red pill?

Funny enough, even if he was truly drunk, his drunken words will then communicate his true desires: he maybe acting red-pill as a hustling boy, but when he makes huge money, he will simp by exchanging something of value (money) for something without value (pusśy and sex). He clearly has his eyes on the worthless, fair-skinned runs girl, and he will simp for her if he has bastard money now.

True. A lot of men arrogantly claim red-pill and alpha. They are arrogant pùssy worshippers who don't know they pùssy worshippers. They always think they are players and they have everything control only to be dealt hard. It is their type that will marry in western societies and think they have everything under control. They are the ones that make females think all redpillers are just bluffing and are closet simp. Just let them be and leave them to experience.

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The truth is you will never know who among us is truly red-pill until great and permanent riches comes in. At that moment, you will be shocked when you see former redpillers succumbing to the flesh and splashing great cash on any sexy bitçh all in the name of "it's nothing to me, I can afford it. I don't mind", "it's my money", "man must sha spend" and all other nonsense. Unknown to them, they will start depending on only money to sort everything out with women and they start playing the love/nawalt game. MEN!

emmaodet:


Bro, most of us are just one Mouth Action away from plantation oooo

Creeza:
Make money bro but never to spend on a woman( don't as a rule of thumb make it the priority. Except she is your mother who in most cases won't care if you do or not)

Your time, attention and money are your milk, guard them jealously and ruthlessly. Spend every last Kobo on yourself, invest in you. if you have money lying around which you don't know what to do with it, buy crypto and stach the gaddamn Bitcoin in a wallet ( Bro Bitcoin just passed $23000. About 11 million in Black market exchange)

Ever wondered why she keeps jumping from one dumb ass simp to another? They got dough but they give it out freely and their time and attention comes to her as a bonus. For example “ Spit on me I'm your tufiakwa”


Only Simpsons make statements like that and women hate it. Even if they chuckle to it doesn't make it any romantic.

She is the Tufiakwa and you should spit on her.

No one will buy the cow if the milk is free

emmaodet:


Bro, respect.
Your point that touched me most is that - most men won't have the cash constantly or more forever because the only constant thing in life is change.
That is absolutely true because life is always turning and like my people do say - "Money is a visitor" and when it visits you, pleaseeeeeeee endeavor to use it welllllllll and i mean welllllll because when it goes....hmmmmmmmm.......

Martinez39s:
Make dem go hustle, abi dem no get hand? Seriously, why do you care?

HectorX:
Female nature.

And she still doesn't see anything wrong in what the lady did.

MrColdsweat:


Loyalty is the most important concept in masculinity. From the beginning till this day, all male groups, gangs, secret cults, teams are rooted in loyalty. A gang of criminal, through loyalty, created one of the greatest empires, the roman empire.

In the ways of men, once a man picks you from the bottom and raises you to a respectable position, you owe that man loyalty irrespective of whatever society. To men, loyalty is priceless. Loyalty cannot be bought.

But you women will disagree because you are not capable of loyalty. In your lifetime, there are very little to no situations where you women are required to be selfless. To offer something without expecting something in return.

Therefore, when men offer advice to fellow men on issues concerning our relationship with the opposite gender, you women are in no position to object or advice men because you are ignorant of the virtues and components of masculinity and the ways of men.

patoski39:
actually I don't, just being sarcastic

Martinez39s:
I actually don't have such cravings. I don't even see the need to flash here and there. Flash for whom? Person why no dey add value for my life? No matter how small the money is, I can't exchange it for sex/pùssy. Money is value, sex and pusśy are not. Puśsy = $0.00. If I must part with my money, I must have gotten something of equal or greater value in return. If a girl will not have sex with you until you give her money, show her the door. If you discover that money must be spent in your pursuit to fùck a girl, abort mission. The people she is fuckińg for free don't have two heads; they may not even look as good as you, or as rich as you. Is she the only girl in the world?

The need to impress women with your hard-earned cash and the need to care for them out of pity with the same cash even though they add no value to your are manifestations of a demonic simp spirit.

Skepticus:


Nothing bad if it is enroute to getting pusssy, especially when everything clicks and the pusssy seems like it's coming. We are sexual beings for a reason. It's not bad "spending wisely" since you are the one who reached out to her to satisfy your sexual urge.

Our financial level may differ, but spending above your financial strength or what you can tolerate, on a woman who you know isn't loyal to you (except only, what you offer) is the problem.

Another one, which is common among Nigerian guys is "indiscriminate" spending (often to the level of borrowing from others) to prove to the woman that you have money, which sets you up for further manipulation as the woman sees you as another "blustering idi.ot/maga" with money can exploit for "quick" money without offering much more than her overused, disloyal pussay.

However, nothing beats, taking yourself out and giving yourself that treat you deserve after a hard work alone (or with your trusted buddies) without the unnecessary stress of trying to keep a woman "comfortable" when you bring her along with the ride.

Skepticus:


Nothing bad if it is enroute to getting pusssy, especially when everything clicks and the pusssy seems like it's coming. We are sexual beings for a reason. It's not bad "spending wisely" since you are the one who reached out to her to satisfy your sexual urge.

Our financial level may differ, but spending above your financial strength or what you can tolerate, on a woman who you know isn't loyal to you (except only, what you offer) is the problem.

Another one, which is common among Nigerian guys is "indiscriminate" spending (often to the level of borrowing from others) to prove to the woman that you have money, which sets you up for further manipulation as the woman sees you as another "blustering idi.ot/maga" with money can exploit for "quick" money without offering much more than her overused, disloyal pussay.

However, nothing beats, taking yourself out and giving yourself that treat you deserve after a hard work alone (or with your trusted buddies) without the unnecessary stress of trying to keep a woman "comfortable" when you bring her along with the ride.

Asekhamid:
My story:

I started dating this girl a while back after I graduated from school(we attend the same school)...she was so beautiful but I just took it by nothing..we met where we charge phones and luckily a friend of mine knew her(they stay very close) and got her number...

chukshobayo:




But how do we know an untouched virgin? supposing you are a very religious how do you identify one without seeing her unclothedness. Also am aware of surgeries to correct such, learnt some girls take some home remedies to make it tight. what of those whose womanhood is always tight no matter who they sleep with where will you correctly discern a Virgin amongst them?

Zabiboy:


It also played out with me and my aunt too ..
According to her, when konji finish me, i go run go marry

Asekhamid:
My story:

I started dating this girl a while back after I graduated from school(we attend the same school)...she was so beautiful but I just took it by nothing..we met where we charge phones and luckily a friend of mine knew her(they stay very close) and got her number...
I called her and we got along then but we couldnt see before I left school but we started dating nonetheless...she was so sweet and nice and caring...she couldn't spend a day without hearing from me..we talked a lot and I asked her some personal questions like how many times she has had sex and she said once(saying she was raped) and she has only dated once in her life which ended in 2017
I went for my clearance in school by January and we spent time together every night and also her birthday was coming so I stayed longer just to spend it with her..
My first redflag was when I took her phone just to send games and noticed her WhatsApp and messenger were passworded..I asked her to open it and she declined saying she like her privacy..every night I was with her,she was receiving numerous calls from guys in my presence but I acted cool like nothing happened...on her birthday I invited her over and wanted to Bleep her as she was already naked but I declined because I wanted to prove that I really love her and not after sex...she actually tabbed me later for that
We continued our relationship until when I travelled to my villa for ileya during august and sent her money to come ..she came and we spent time together...this time I asked to check her WhatsApp and she opened it...lo and Behold she had accepted to date another guy..I confronted her and she said "I just wanted to know if he is deceiving me".. I was angry but ignored and I bleeped her that day with the anger in me and she apologised for it...
We continued the relationship but her cheating couldn't leave my mind as I became over protective of her...any time she uploads a guys pic I would accuse her of dating until one day she blocked me..
I called her a week later to apologise and we got talking again but this was when her rudeness started to me but I overlooked because I love her..any little disagreement she would use foul language on me and I will be the one to apologise and we settled but I noticed that her chats started getting late and she now hardly picks my call which was strange and this made me panic(worse mistake)
I became mister nice guy and started calling always,chatting always,sending her card and all that...
We were chatting one day about sex when she told me she wanted to tell me something
" what would you call a guy and a girl who have their own relationship but they do see everyday and have sex every Sunday?"...I asked her who the person was but she said it was her friend,so I told her "sexmate"...
Everyday I tried to show her I loved her more than other guys and became so so needy and this pushed her further away...
Few weeks ago we were on a video call when she said her close friend(a guy) doesn't last on bed and what can he use for it..she also said the guy was having issues with his girlfriend as he cheats and sleeps with numerous girls..she always told me the guy was her friend right from primary school so I took it as nothing...I asked her how she knew that,she said they are very close and he tells her everything and I told her a solution..
So lately she had a quarrel with her former bestie which she told me...I chatted with the bestie a few days ago and the bestie told me to warn her and also told me this
" let me tell you the truth,she does not love you and she has someone else she loves and she is just deceiving you"...I asked who the guy was and she said it was that same close friend who I stated i n the paragraph above and they have been dating for I came into her life...she even told me that they do see everyday and she goes to his house everyday Sunday(if you read a few paragraphs before you would understand perfectly)
I was sleepless that night and made further investigation and I saw some old pictures they took together and it proves they were dating then(but dunno about now)
So I confronted her and she flared up at me saying I just concluded without asking her and even said that she was dating the guy..I appolgised for coming into conclusions and I just needed to know the truth but she said since I don't trust her then no need for a relationship..
I started apologising again and again but it was worse as she even ignores my messages and cuts my calls..
I called her recently and she was asking for the money I promised her in a rude manner and I promised her i would send it soon.
I almost did but something touched my mind and I realised I was being used and manipulated by this girl so I didn't and just stopped begging or calling her...
It didn't hurt much kos she was cheating on the guy with me not the other way round but the love in me died that day..

This is my story and it happened just recently..

emmaodet:



Bro, from your write up, you made a lot of wrong moves or actions.
You were too in love with the girl. Your action made it known that you needed the girl more than she needs you, like a man short of options.
I will advise you to -
- Stop the relationship and learn from it. Please don't ever take her back even if she comes begging.
- Count your loss
- You need to improve your self-esteem and go out more, approach more ladies to have abundance mentality.

Martinez39s:
He is just like Kaycee: false redpillers and alphas giving us a bad name and making women think we are just bluffing.

Martinez39s:
When we men make money and we choose to enjoy and flex, is it necessary to string a girl along and spend hard cash on her? Why can't one go alone and spoil himself without a woman in the picture? Anyway, that lady thought you were a simp looking for her attention and validation.