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UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by ubunja(m): 4:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
The life expectancy of women is directly proportional to the age difference between them and their man. THE REVITALIZED OLD MAN. I grew up in the city but I did the last two years of my Secondary education in the village. It's a long story that began with me dropping out of secondary school back in the city and going on a series of misadventures with bad company that landed me in jail. My mother, understanding my lawlessness was due to my lack of a father figure, sent me to the village to resume my secondary education under the guidance of an older cousin who was a teacher and an up and coming preacher. It was while in the village that I first encountered the power of an age gap in a marriage. An age gap being the difference in age between a man and a woman in a relationship. So an old man of the community had lost his younger brother. And as per custom the late brother's wife became his wife. From what I heard she was a young wife. A lot younger than the old man. Though I never met her personally. The brother's death and the old man's acquiring of the young widow happened not too long before my arrival. Now, a young nephew of mine told me how taking over the young widow "kwamenza wavuka khwatshu umadala" (she revitalized and re-energized the old man). It would have been a forgettable story if not for the boy who kept bringing it up every chance he got. He was endlessly amused by how a frail and failing old man had gained a new lease of life from his younger wife. And everyone in the homestead hilariously agreed. The aged man had been getting slower and tired because of his age, but since tapping that young ass he recharged. I saw him around. Walking upright, energetically, with a spring to his step. As if he owned the world. I was assured that not too long ago he no longer had any of that. ELLEN G. WHITE. Fast forward a few years later and I'm reading from the influential Seventh-Day Adventist author Ellen White (she of the widely popular The Desire Of Ages book) and in her book A Solemn Appeal (published 1870) under the chapter "Marriage Relation" she writes: "Another cause of the deficiency of the present generation in physical strength and moral worth, is the union of men and women in marriage whose ages widely differ. It is frequently the case that old men choose to marry young wives. By thus doing the life of the husband has often been prolonged, while the wife has had to feel the want of that vitality which she has imparted to her aged husband. It has not been the duty of any woman to sacrifice life and health, even if she did love one so much older than herself, and felt willing on her part to make such a sacrifice. She should have restrained her affections." https://m.egwwritings.org/en/book/4.139 Mrs White (American, 1827 – 1915), has been hailed for her writings especially on health reform, diet, temperance and natural remedies. And it was her protégés, the Kellogg brothers, who studied her work and went on to invent the iconic breakfast cereals and are on the list of people who invented peanut butter. And the next time you eat a granola energy bar you can thank White who requested one of the Kellogg brothers to invent it. Ellen White was arguably one of the brightest to ever write on human health and happiness. And reading her work on the negative effects of age gaps on women's health contrasted with the revitalizing effects of the same on older men at once took my mind back to the village and the old man revitalized and re-energized by his marriage to a much younger woman. Curiosity sparked, Google became my friend... THE DENMARK STUDY. My friend G pointed me to a study published in 2010 by one, Sven Drefahl, that provides statistical evidence that older men gain vitality/energy/life from a union with a younger woman. Sven, a demography researcher, did a study at the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research - that will be in Germany - where he accessed and assessed neighboring Denmark's marriage records, in his words, "to examine how the age difference between spouses affects their survival." Demography is the study of populations. Apparently Denmark keeps one of the most detailed records on their population. By going through the records of almost 2 million married people Sven discovered that men are quite the thieves of life. Vampires infact. Patterns and trends revealed how older men are able to live off their younger wives' vitality, or what we can call "life force". Mr. Drefahl's findings are presented here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3000022/ Below are five quotations from the web link above that illustrate key findings from Drefahl's analysis of Danish marriage records. Remember "mortality" in science and academia means "death". # "male mortality increases when the wife is older and decreases when the wife is younger." # "the risk of dying in men decreases as the age gap increases. The younger the wife is compared with her spouse, the lower the mortality of the husband; the older the wife is compared with her spouse, the higher the mortality of the husband." # "female mortality is higher if the wife is younger than her husband." # "The lowest risk of dying is found in women who are about the same age as their husbands," # "having a younger spouse is beneficial for men but detrimental for women." Visit Sven Drefahl's personal website: www.sd.de/index_en.html THIEVES OF LIFE. We have always known of the strange changes that happen to people's bodies when they marry. Like how two people who get married end up looking somewhat similar facially. Marriage has an acknowledged effect on our looks. Sven Drefahl's Denmark study adds another dimension to the equation: AGEING. Which confirms something most of us have long suspected. Haven't we all noticed, or atleast heard it spoken, how a fresh young woman who marries a much older man, a few years into the marriage she seems to look a little more mature, a little bit older for her age? Almost as if her body is trying to match her older husband's maturity and age? We all have seen or heard about this. And it's rather gratifying to understand this is a legitimate quantifiable phenomenon backed by tangible verifiable statistics. When a woman marries a much older man - say a man about 15 years older, extreme I know, - the man will live much longer than he should. While the woman will die much earlier than she should. (Sven made it clear though that even an age gap as small as 3 years had a negative effect on the woman.) If you're a young woman of 20 who's going to marry an older man of 35, the stats prophesy you'll die before your time. While your older sweetheart will live past his time. You'll die earlier because some of your years will transfer to your older husband. Your years given to him are the reason he'll live longer than expected. And you die sooner than expected. As you boast to your friends that you make your older man "feel young again", he can correctly boast to his own friends "I make my girl feel old". Because he's literally draining you. Just as a married couple ends up looking the same, it is the case most visibly demonstrated with big age gaps, that a couple also ends up ageing the same as well. The woman's ageing process accelerates while the older man's ageing process slows down. A clear effort of the two bodies trying to match their age. Just as the bodies are matching their looks. It is noteworthy that Sven, after presenting his research on the effects of age gaps on women admitted, "It can be concluded that the driving force of the observed mortality differences by the age gap to the spouse remain unclear." Meaning scientists can not explain the exact root cause of the phenomenon. They can only quantify and verify it. Ellen White fills in that gap for us, "the wife has had to feel the want of that vitality which she has imparted to her aged husband." In marriage, younger women lose some of their life force to their older husbands. LIFE FORCE. The next logical question if you're a woman will be; Can women benefit, like how men benefit, by marrying a much younger man? And the answer to that question is a disappointing NO. You can cancel those cougar ambitions. Because according to Sven's findings it STILL kills a woman to marry a much younger man. Just as it kills her to marry a much older man. Demet! Women can not steal life. If a man is younger, the woman dies early. If a man is older, the woman still dies early. Any age gap, no matter who is behind or ahead, costs the woman her vitality, her energy, her life. Life is always transferring from a woman to the men. Now, it's important to note: AGE GAPS IN MARRIAGE KILL WOMEN REGARDLESS OF THE LENGTH OF THE MARRIAGE. As Sven puts it, "marriage duration does not change the coefficients for the age gap to the spouse, suggesting that duration of marriage does not account for the mortality differences of age-discrepant marriages." The sweet spot for women to not die early - as per the Denmark statistics - is for them to be with a man of the same age as them. Roughly. To avoid being unequally yoked as it were. When a woman marries a man of her age she lives her life to the fullest. FAMOUS COUPLES IN AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS: Here are some popular age gap couples and the age gap between. Regina Daniels & Ned Nwoko: 40 years. Dolph Lundgren & Emma Krokdal: 38 years Michael Douglas & Catherine Zeta-Jones: 25 years. Donald Trump and Melania: 24 years. Leonardo Dicaprio & Camila Morrone: 23 years. Jason Statham & Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley: 20 years. George Clooney & Amal Clooney: 17 years. Eddie Murphy & Paige Butcher: 17 years. Jay-Z & Beyoncé: 12 years. What do you think? # MGTOW # TheRedPill 30 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Biingoo: 4:24pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Ugolistikp: 4:26pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
We await the miseducation |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Tony142: 4:29pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Copy and paste as usual from Reddit. Let the she*male just do a little editing and feed his minions. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Bright12660(m): 4:30pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Full of content as usual. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by IceColdVeins(m): 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Martinez39s(m): 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Damn! What's that smell? Something delicious and intellectual is being cooked... can't wait. 25 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Bright12660(m): 4:34pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ardar:No prob. As long as he goes to that place where I'm too lazy to go to, and copy & paste it here for everyone, especially so I can read or access it, it's not your concern. 67 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Bright12660: You're very loyal to your master, as long as he teaches you how to hate women. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by leksite120(m): 4:42pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Regex: 4:43pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Degrezhaa: 4:43pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Bright12660(m): 4:48pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ardar:Perhaps you should put your blame on Feminists who have been teaching you ladies how to hate, extort men and prevent them from having access to their kids. Besides Ubunja doesn't teach anyone how to hate women. He is even helping you ladies the more sef. Open your eyes 50 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Bright12660: Yeah and in return you've decided to fight the feminist hatred with more hatred. I don't know why you guys always deny that your teaching don't breed hate but feminism does. Continue learning hate while women learn theirs, it will only end in tears. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by virginprincess(f): 4:56pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Mtcheeeeeeeeew. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Bright12660(m): 5:01pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ardar:I wonder since when does Ubunja teaching people about redpill knowledge become teaching them hatred? 29 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by odinson1(m): 5:05pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Finnese001: 5:08pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by NiRfreak(m): 5:19pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Nice article. But on average in Nigeria, men usually die first before their wife. is this poverty or Nigerian factor. Then in Benin we have alot of landlady than landlord...(juju death I supposed) Abi the age-gap theory can not predict who dies first regardless of the wide age Gap seen in Nigerian marriages? 7 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by ichidodo: 5:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
I can attest to that... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Youngzedd(m): 5:36pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Food is ready. Regina Daniels is going down, Ned Nwoko living it ![]() Check her no filter and makeup free photo and you will see that the 20 years old is not looking her age. 13 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by emmaodet: 5:37pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ubunja: Why are they always quick to criminalise men? why is it that men have a long list of names like dog, deadbeat father etc Now it is ''Thieves of Life'' Vampires of Vitality. Haba Did all these old or advance men forced the ladies to marry them? is it not out of greediness, and laziness they decided to cash-out on old men when they have hundreds and thousands of their mate to start life with. Instead of ''thieves of life'' why not ''Greediness of ladies'' or something similar. Moreover, it is trade by barter. You must have something in life to exchange for another if not, you become a scammer. The man exchanges is resources for vitality .... Finish 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Firstorderwizard(m): 5:46pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
This write up is too intellectual for some mofos above me 7 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by ubunja(m): 5:56pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Rukkydelta: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by TSBO: 5:58pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by NiRfreak(m): 6:05pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ubunja:He seriously missed it... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Living long and marriage to a very young woman are not mutually exclusive. A researcher may study the correlation of gridlock / terrible annual traffic and life expectancy and finds out that those who spend more time in traffic have lower life expectancies. The research is not purely scientific and direct if the dependent variables of gridlocks that are compared with the independent variables of death are not found at roads where they are traffic jams. For instance, the result might have gone that way because people who return late from work due to traffic eat late at night and this practice is not healthy and can cause heartburn. The result might have also gone that way because people who return late from work due to traffic encounter armed robbers waiting for them at their gates. This means that if a person who is caught up in traffic daily eats dinner before leaving his office and has armed security details guarding him, he will not die because of a habitual gridlock experience. It is different from saying "smokers die young" because smoking does not need another variable to cause death as it directly damages the lungs. There's no direct scientific proof that supports the truth of you assertion above Ubanja . Bianca Ojukwu is still pretty and living her best life after the death of her husband. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Digmygold: 6:15pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ubunja: Grandpa meanwhile you are ex husband to old hoes. ![]() Now its our young girls you want to start turning single mothers, poverty's siamese like you comparing yourself to Ned Nwoko wey dey buy house for woman. Dead beat mofo. Old toad, still sitting home all day waiting for woman to turn sugar mummy to grandpa like you. Lol you go wait for life. Na ogun go drink your blood. MiseduGAYshit trash. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by Tenshades(m): 6:39pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Some vagina people are pained as usual. See them raising up their mouths howling like hungry village dogs. ![]() ![]() ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by DEMZEE(m): 6:39pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Interesting write-up |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) How Age Gaps Kill Women. by ubunja(m): 6:40pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ethicallyright:well if someone who studies populations for a living came to this conclusion you're now just fighting statistics. And you can't win that fight. 1 Like |
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