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Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Killertune20: 5:31pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Thread closed 6 Likes |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by fati2001(m): 5:32pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Killertune20: said by someone from a poor and retarded black nation |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by James4358(m): 5:59pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
@op! U r right! Date ladies within ur league. There r stil nice ladies out ther that undastnds the nature of the economy & hussle like the guys do to pay their own bills! While some other ladies wont afford a menstraul pad if u remove guys from their lives! |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by lovelybugs(f): 6:11pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
I think I get where you're coming from. But, the only thing stopping women from making their own money is 1) Most of them weren't raised to make money 2) Society isn't even encouraging women to make money. If you grew up in Nigeria as a female odds are you've been told that having a 'husband and children of your own' is the greatest thing you'll ever achieve. The truth is that most men have been raised to be providers and the women raised to be caretakers. Some women lack the innovative thinking required to be successful. So they take the good ol route that has proven to be quite reliable time and time again. And I can't say I blame them. How many businesses will give you 100k upwards with just one phone call and some small petting? Nigeria is hard for everyone. That's not enough excuse to be lazy. Anyways, this issue isn't even peculiar to Nigeria alone. It also exists in developed countries. The only difference is that the society there encourages women to aspire to be something more than a wife and hard work genuinely pays there. As for the men who leave responsible women, chase after gold diggers and when they get hurt take to the internet to vent, I've learnt long ago not too feel sorry for them. Most of then don't even deserve good women. PS: just cause a woman is working and earning 12k doesn't mean she won't bill you ooo 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Men are made to provide, so if its financially and otherwise, I see no need to wail 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Bennysam: 6:21pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
fati2001:Confirm from white shit eater |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Killertune20: 6:23pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
lovelybugs: I didn't want to make the post lengthy, but I think you have said the things I left over, nice one |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Bennysam: 6:23pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
lovelybugs:No society stops you from making money but laziness and urgent 2k you receive from you type makes it difficult for you to make money |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by longetivity(m): 6:24pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
An average Nigerian is a gold digger 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Killertune20: 6:24pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Zzor: It's the truth, men are made to provide, but why put extra pressure on men? When you can clearly see the permutations? |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Killertune20: 6:25pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Bennysam: Free the idiot, I didnt want to reply shim |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by fati2001(m): 7:09pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Bennysam:and it's better than black sticky shit. |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
bunch of broke hoes 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by virginprincess(f): 7:21pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
longetivity:Yes very true, average nigerians (men), are gold diggers. 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Bennysam: 7:33pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
fati2001:After you will start looking for GOD fearing man |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by tobechi74: 7:34pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Economy is bad. Is it not bad for guys too? I see women mechanic hustling, who says there are no jobs women can do. The fact is most jobs are technical and slay queen lack the intellect required. Only good on stylist and design. The school their papa sent Dem did not improve her intellect, it only increases her perceived value making g her feel she is too big to sell in filling station. |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by fati2001(m): 7:38pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Bennysam: is that all you have to say ?
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Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by fati2001(m): 7:40pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Killertune20:idiot ur new name... en pain you.... and that's the fact. |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Godwin5766(m): 8:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Zzor:you're wrong! |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by aderoju3921: 11:03pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
:An average Nigerian is a gold diggerYes very true, average nigerians (men), are gold diggers. |
Re: Why Nigeria Ladies Will Always Depend On Men For Financial Assistance! by Phraences: 11:34pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
lovelybugs: Growing up i always hated hearing "is that how you will sweep in your husband's house?", "is that how you will cook in your husband's house?". It made me hate marriage and my imaginary husband. There were so many unformed feelings i had. Not until i listened to Chimamada Adichie who expressed all i was feeling so eloquently. Nigerian parents need to do better with their female children. They are more than marriage. |
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