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I Just Discovered That All The Young Men In My Compound Has Slept With My Wife / I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men / Since She Discovered She's Older. Our Relationship Has Become Weaker. (2) (3) (4)

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Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 11:14pm On Dec 18, 2020
I blame the foolish girl for keeping the child when the baby daddy isn't there. Now, an interested man is having doubts because a child is involved.

Ladies, stop being a single mother. The odds are always against you. Always

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Re: .. by nurain150(m): 11:19pm On Dec 18, 2020
OscarJaden:
hey hag

never you quote Jodha in such a way again
Report the rule I broke .well done s
Re: .. by Dayoebe(m): 11:45pm On Dec 18, 2020
GofuckYourself:
Runnnnnn

Never ever date a single mum

Never ever ever

You will just be an assistant baby daddy

Run for your life and peace of mind

You can fûck her as much as you want but never ever ever commit

Except you are okay sharing her with her baby daddy 1.. irrespective of how she swears he is the devil's incarnate he knows what to do
He knows how to rub her back
He know how to bite her ear lobe softly and she opens her legs for him
That's how he got her pregnant

If she claims she was raped it s a lie run

Follow this advice and be happy and save

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Re: .. by moradeyo59302: 7:24am On Dec 19, 2020
1.never live with a woman who's not your relative or wife.2.relationships with single mothers must be avoided,nothing good can come out it.

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Re: .. by endsarrrs(f): 7:25am On Dec 19, 2020
OscarJaden go away or i will crush you to D. E. A. T. H cheesy tongue
OscarJaden:
hey hag

never you quote Jodha in such a way again
W. H. O S. A. I. D I S. H. O. U. L. D N. O. T Q. O. U. T. E J. O. D. H. A A. G. A. I. N
Re: .. by OscarJaden(m): 7:37am On Dec 19, 2020
Jodha:


My dear...there is really dignity in labour...I feel really good when I spend my own money and buy stuffs I want with my own money...it makes me really happy...that's why I must double my hussle...
so true
Re: .. by TheLionsPride: 7:44am On Dec 19, 2020
Wealth7723:
Good evening nairalanders.

I’ve been going out with this girl for close to 4 months now and recently we moved in together cuz I want us to get to know each other more.

My instincts has been telling me something is off. That there’s something she’s hiding from me. Just yesterday,I just discovered that she has a child and she didn’t want me to know. The last straw they broke the camels back was when I also discovered that she was into girls too in the past.

I haven’t confronted her yet. I need your candid advice on how to approach this issue.
When you need the best from yoir lawyer,give him every detail of information. U just gave us the summary and we wld be left with nò other choice than to imagine. What did you find out? How did you find out? How accurate are your observations.? Pls dont leave us in d dark
Re: .. by Themainboy22: 9:35am On Dec 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
I blame the foolish girl for keeping the child when the baby daddy isn't there. Now, an interested man is having doubts because a child is involved.

Ladies, stop being a single mother. The odds are always against you.
Now read what you wrote again and tell me the sense in it. @bolded, Instead of encouraging abortion, why not advice the ladies to close their legs. Or better still, use condom if they are not ready to bear consequences that comes with unprotected sex. It is called common sense
Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:39am On Dec 19, 2020
Themainboy22:
Now read what you wrote again and tell me if there's any atom of sense in it. Instead of encouraging abortion, why not advice the ladies to close their legs. Or better still, use condom if they are not ready to bear consequences that comes with unprotected sex. It is called common sense

You can't always close your legs forever and you can't always be careful, so this is the best choice. Besides, I should also tell guys to hold their loins and protect themselves while having sex but apparently you all think it's only the woman that needs to do that.

So, woman, if all fails, remove the unwanted pregnancy. If he won't marry you, he doesn't deserve to be a father.
Re: .. by Themainboy22: 10:39am On Dec 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


You can't always close your legs forever and you can't always be careful, so this is the best choice. Besides, I should also tell guys to hold their loins and protect themselves while having sex but apparently you all think it's only the woman that needs to do that.

So, woman, if all fails, remove the unwanted pregnancy. If he won't marry you, he doesn't deserve to be a father.
I don't literally mean you should close your legs forever. What happened to being a virgin till you get married? You can't always be careful? Yes! that's when you start opening your legs anyhow. But if you think abortion is better than what could have been simply avoided by applying self-control, good for you. But remember that abortion comes with it's own consequence.
Re: .. by Collegelove: 11:08am On Dec 19, 2020
GofuckYourself:
Runnnnnn

Never ever date a single mum

Never ever ever

You will just be an assistant baby daddy

Run for your life and peace of mind

You can fûck her as much as you want but never ever ever commit

Except you are okay sharing her with her baby daddy 1.. irrespective of how she swears he is the devil's incarnate he knows what to do
He knows how to rub her back
He know how to bite her ear lobe softly and she opens her legs for him
That's how he got her pregnant

If she claims she was raped it s a lie run
Yes. All what you said here is true.
Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 11:19am On Dec 19, 2020
Themainboy22:
I don't literally mean you should close your legs forever. What happened to being a virgin till you get married? You can't always be careful? Yes! that's when you start opening your legs anyhow. But if you think abortion is better than what could have been simply avoided by applying self-control, good for you. But remember that abortion comes with it's own consequence.

Abortion doesn't come with any consequence. But do you know what does? Having a child! Raising children is hardwork and stress and no one deserves to go through that when they ain't ready for it. They'll only constantly feel punished.

Self-control isn't always a guarantee that you won't get pregnant, especially if the guy likes it raw all the time. It would be nice if guys wore protection all the time the same way ladies go on pills everyday, but since they'll never do it, then the foetus gats to go.

Why would any sane person be raising a child the nigga didn't want or isn't ready to take care of?

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Re: .. by Womanizer(m): 11:22am On Dec 19, 2020
There are other dirty secrets she's still bidding from you
Re: .. by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 19, 2020
Searching for Nigerian girl between the ages of 20 and 35 today who don't have a child outside wedlock or have not aborted one whether by taking pills or by D&C will definitely take forever.

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Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 11:43am On Dec 19, 2020
Nonexistent2:
Searching for Nigerian girl between the ages of 20 and 35 today who don't have a child outside wedlock or have not aborted one whether by taking pills or by D&C will definitely take forever.

Searching for any Nigerian guy between the ages of 20 and 35 today who doesn't have an illegitimate child somewhere or who hasn't impregnated a lady before will definitely take forever.
Re: .. by Wealth7723: 12:47pm On Dec 19, 2020
GofuckYourself:
Runnnnnn

Never ever date a single mum

Never ever ever

You will just be an assistant baby daddy

Run for your life and peace of mind

You can fûck her as much as you want but never ever ever commit

Except you are okay sharing her with her baby daddy 1.. irrespective of how she swears he is the devil's incarnate he knows what to do
He knows how to rub her back
He know how to bite her ear lobe softly and she opens her legs for him
That's how he got her pregnant

If she claims she was raped it s a lie run

Thanks for your advice.
Re: .. by Wealth7723: 12:48pm On Dec 19, 2020
Jodha:
How did yhu know she is into girls..is it hearsay?? ....

No it isn’t hearsay. I came across her message she sent to a girl she’s asking out.
Re: .. by Starz825(m): 1:10pm On Dec 19, 2020
Jodha:


My dear... I'll still be busy tomorrow o... I'll still be running around... it's not easy asswear... cry
come and invest and save yourself some days off stress...
check my signature and chat me up
Re: .. by mrblessed(m): 1:18pm On Dec 19, 2020
I don't think what to do in this case is difficult. Flee and don't look back! That she hid such sensitive issue from you means there maybe more you aren't aware of. Is this the character you want to have as a wife? Do you wish to begin a family on a pile of falsehood? You deserve better. You can't be tied down because of her past indiscretion. She should be able to carry her cross.
Re: .. by Themainboy22: 3:25pm On Dec 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Abortion doesn't come with any consequence. But do you know what does? Having a child!.

Self-control isn't always a guarantee that you won't get pregnant, especially if the guy likes it raw all the time. It would be nice if guys wore protection all the time the same way ladies go on pills everyday, but since they'll never do it, then the foetus gats to go

Why would any sane person be raising a child the nigga didn't want or isn't ready to take care of?

I've seen you are a serious advocate of abortion, and since you don't believe both pregnancy and abortion could possibly be avoided all the time, I give up. But kindly advice them to make sure they have enough money for abortion before engaging into the sexual activities. I'm sure some most of them would have loved to get rid of the pregnancy through abortion, but couldn't because they are not financially able and the guy/guys is/are not ready to sponsor them.
Re: .. by femi4: 4:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
Wealth7723:
Good evening nairalanders.

I’ve been going out with this girl for close to 4 months now and recently we moved in together cuz I want us to get to know each other more.

My instincts has been telling me something is off. That there’s something she’s hiding from me. Just yesterday,I just discovered that she has a child and she didn’t want me to know. The last straw they broke the camels back was when I also discovered that she was into girls too in the past.

I haven’t confronted her yet. I need your candid advice on how to approach this issue.
japa
Re: .. by Jodha(f): 4:27pm On Dec 19, 2020
Starz825:

come and invest and save yourself some days off stress...
check my signature and chat me up

Omoh I have trust issues with most of these investment platforms...any time I put my money nai dem dey crash..
Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 4:40pm On Dec 19, 2020
Themainboy22:
I've seen you are a serious advocate of abortion, and since you don't believe both pregnancy and abortion could possibly be avoided all the time, I give up. But kindly advice them to make sure they have enough money for abortion before engaging into the sexual activities. I'm sure some most of them would have loved to get rid of the pregnancy through abortion, but couldn't because they are not financially able and the guy/guys is/are not ready to sponsor them.

Abortion is cheaper than raising a child, even better than raising a child in a horrible environment. Not all single mothers are living good. Some are living with abusive men or in slums where children are being exposed daily to the dark side of life. I'd rather the child was not born than subject them to that. Thank you.

Besides why keep a child the father himself didn't want? What is the lady trying to prove? Them use suffering swear for her?
Re: .. by Starz825(m): 7:30pm On Dec 19, 2020
Jodha:


Omoh I have trust issues with most of these investment platforms...any time I put my money nai dem dey crash..
yeah...I understand you...
but then chat me up or make you drop your number...
I already sent you a message through mention dont know if you see it, it's like Nairaland admin is trying something funny here..
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Dec 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Abortion is cheaper than raising a child, even better than raising a child in a horrible environment. Not all single mothers are living good. Some are living with abusive men or in slums where children are being exposed daily to the dark side of life. I'd rather the child was not born than subject them to that. Thank you.

Besides why keep a child the father himself didn't want? What is the lady trying to prove? Them use suffering swear for her?
I'm not a pro-abortion guy, but you're right. Aborting is better than being a single mother especially when one doesn't have the resources to cater for the child.

Self control is still the best way though. Nothing beats it.
Re: .. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:06pm On Dec 19, 2020
Activist001:

I'm not a pro-abortion guy, but you're right. Aborting is better than being a single mother especially when one doesn't have the resources to cater for the child.

Self control is still the best way though. Nothing beats it.

Self-control pro deflowering or post deflowering? Self-control pro sex or post sex?
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Self-control pro deflowering or post deflowering? Self-control pro sex or post sex?
Self-control pro or post deflowering.

There is no self control in post sex na. The deed has already been done. grin
Re: .. by Originalsly: 8:35pm On Dec 19, 2020
How can you ever build or have a healthy relationship with someone who is not open? How can you trust her? Is it a fact that she has a child?... and was into girls? You need to first find that out.... if true.... at least she should've told you of the child. Move on of it's true.
Re: .. by Priam: 8:38pm On Dec 19, 2020
Jodha:


Omoh I have trust issues with most of these investment platforms...any time I put my money nai dem dey crash..

Nne, tread carefully.... You're right to be cautious.

I'd advice you visit the MBA Fore.x threads on the Investment section of NL to read up more about these scams

By all means avoid Ponzí schemes, it usually ends in tears.

Kachifo
Re: .. by Jodha(f): 8:47pm On Dec 19, 2020
Priam:


Nne, tread carefully.... You're right to be cautious.

I'd advice you visit the MBA Fore.x threads on the Investment section of NL to read up more about these scams

By all means avoid Ponzí schemes, it usually ends in tears.

Kachifo

Thanks I will...I appreciate...
Re: .. by frozen70(f): 2:14am On Dec 20, 2020
Wealth7723:
Good evening nairalanders.

I’ve been going out with this girl for close to 4 months now and recently we moved in together cuz I want us to get to know each other more.

My instincts has been telling me something is off. That there’s something she’s hiding from me. Just yesterday,I just discovered that she has a child and she didn’t want me to know. The last straw they broke the camels back was when I also discovered that she was into girls too in the past.

I haven’t confronted her yet. I need your candid advice on how to approach this issue.

It's a very simple approach

Ask her to tell you more about her past relationships

Then ask her more questions about the child

Go ahead and ask her about her previous relationships with girls

Her response will give you a clue on what to decide about your relationship with her
Re: .. by Dufil(m): 7:39am On Dec 20, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Searching for any Nigerian guy between the ages of 20 and 35 today who doesn't have an illegitimate child somewhere or who hasn't impregnated a lady before will definitely take forever.
I'm a guy, I take exemption.

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