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Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Please, why is it that when you send someone(both gender) a message on social media(emphasis on WhatsApp),most times, they reply late like the next day or hours later? I mean, it's really frustrating to me. Why will I send some a message and they won't even bother to reply back immediately? I get it though; some people have like 200+ whatsapp contacts and might be chatting with like 50 persons concurrently. But at least, try to reply back. It's not only girls who do this but also males too. Or maybe I'm expecting too much? Please anwsers are needed. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Madibahisback: 11:39am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Go make some money And they'll reply before you chat seff 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Cubana04: 11:40am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Are you inlove? |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 11:41am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Madibahisback:I'm not talking solely to the females. Even males do it also. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Some people take their time to do things. That I logged into WhatsApp or Facebook doesn't mean I'm available for chitchat. Most times when I log into Facebook to watch comedy kits, I get beeps from chat and I hate that. Even when I communicate on WhatsApp, my line usually ends with "get back to me as soon as you can". |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by ouzo1(m): 11:48am On Dec 20, 2020 |
na yeye people behavior be that.. just activate block industries for their matter. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by BigJoe19: 11:49am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:They're busy, you should get busy too and is also true some people have many chats to reply, I'm also included, sometimes I have almost 2,000 chats to reply 100 is a really tough task to do. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Lamanii22(f): 11:50am On Dec 20, 2020 |
I stopped chatting long time ago.... WhatsApp is filled wiv beefs and showoffs.... I only upload my status then view some that's all. ... 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Rockyfancino(m): 11:57am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Messangers aren't meant for instant replies. There's a particular definition I saw on the internet that explains it better. Just because I'm online doesn't mean I'm available to chat. There should be a limit to how long it takes to reply. Do you even know that some people hate texting but it's just that WhatsApp is a must have app. Yeah, people like me chat but not very often and it's your level of closeness that determines how fast I'll reply. I prefer calling instead. If you're not close at all and it falls in a time when I don't have time to chat, I may totally miss your message because I often don't scroll down my chat list. I'll just attend to the one I see within my eye reach and a little below it. Or I simply use the search feature to jump directly to who I have in mind. Also, if you're a stranger and your topic is important, I'll keep it in mind. Mostly, I don't know how to use messangers for chit-chat. I didn't even have it installed before but these days it's a must to have it. Hope you draw a point or two? 1 Like |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Rockyfancino(m): 11:58am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Exactly it's filled with too many unimportant nonsense these days. 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by iLegendd(m): 12:22pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
I used to think women who don't reply quickly are forming or proud and I hate it until I started getting hundreds and thousands of messages from clients via WhatsApp, email, SMS, etc. combined and I finally realized it's not easy. Now, I'm doing that thing I used to hate. Not intentionally, but time. Some chats have no importance, so I archive them with a brief reply or no reply at all. Also, when you see someone online on Facebook "Mobile online," it doesn't mean the person is actually online. I know of someone that died some years ago, but his FB is always showing "online." If you send him a message, you'll wait forever to get a reply. You'll think he is snubbing you, but no, he isn't The solution is to get productive and put yourself in a position you won't be waiting for people's replies, but instead, people will be waiting for yours. Simple. 5 Likes |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by usj(m): 12:26pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:this is why I act that way; 1. I could be busy at that time. 2. I dont reply to one word massage at all e.g Hi, hello, Whats up, hey or bro. The sender must put in some effort. 3. Forwarded messages, I hate that shit. If you keep forwarding messages I simply stop reading and replying to your messages. 4. Expecting me to do all the chatting, most especially women you will type a thousand word before they type 10 words. 5. Short hand, typing words incorrectly, internationally, I simply ignore. 6. Some times I'm just not in the mood for talking or chatting with anyone, if you're an introvert you will understand that. 7. Some times I'm just overwhelmed by too many massages. Group chats 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Fuckhypocrite: 12:42pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:Maybe na business people full your list Me i get 5k wasap contact coz i run tv That too much chat doesn't allow me to enjoy wasap 4 chat and most of my list have been complaining that i do snub bt is nt like that I enjoyed telegram more |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Fuckhypocrite: 12:45pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
BigJoe19:excatly Same here, too many chat will nt allow u to enjoy wasap |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
iLegendd:
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Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by BigJoe19: 1:01pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Fuckhypocrite:Lol, I miss the days I have just 100 chats on WhatsApp, very easy to reply then. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Tohsynetita1: 1:06pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:I think it's because the era of internet usage is "we are always online" opening data alone, message will troop in and you might not be there at the moment, Or probably whenever you see it, you might not be in the mood of chatting, probably you are busy, feeling you will reply later. But you will forget. I can remember, during the era of 2go social media that you chat only when you on the app and not the data, that's not common. So, that's the disadvantages. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Fuckhypocrite: 2:05pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
BigJoe19:lol no be only u My status view na 260plus imagine 4k contact omo e no easy at all But it is well |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by StubbornGENIUS: 2:23pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
iLegendd:The facebook part is true.I haven't logged in to fb for months now but people complain about me ignoring them. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by NobleDeSage001: 3:19pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
That you see me online does not mean that I may be disposed to chat or reply your message immediately. If I am a little busy, I can only respond right away if the chat is from my family member, girlfriend or a very dear friend. Also, if I look at the pop messages, I quickly read up what is coming in and decide if I should open or ignore. So, your level of intimacy with the people you are trying to chat up may be a contributing factor. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by NobleDeSage001: 3:22pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
That you see me online does not mean that I may be disposed to chat or reply your message immediately. If I am a little busy, I can only respond right away if the chat is from my family member, girlfriend or a very dear friend. Also, if I look at the pop up messages, I quickly read up what is coming in and decide if I should open or ignore. So, your level of intimacy with the people you are trying to chat up may be a contributing factor. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nazgul: 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:You need to be more specific What kind of messages do you send and they didn't reply? Is messages for financial assistance? Casual greeting? Communication between you and your lover? Business? Gossip? |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Djex614: 3:24pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:WhatsApp is not a must have app o. for like 4 months now I uninstalled my WhatsApp. To the op, chatting is not for everyone me inclusive. if its important I'll call else forget it. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nazgul:secondary school friends type of chat. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nazgul: 3:41pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:It's not necessary that they reply na...those are casual chats and occasional gossips. Most might be so occupied and may see your chats as irrelevant. Never bother yourself tho, just focus on your goals and with you accomplish them, everyone people would celebrate when you reply them. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:48pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Turning on your data may make those app active and make it seems like you're snubbing. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by paulolee(m): 4:10pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
was complaining at first but I got a better circle, always talking business when am on watsapp and everyone is complaining about it that I TOO DEY FORM RUBBISH |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nazgul:thank you. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Camelot65: 4:42pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Seriously I have no such time to engage in chit chat with anyone...... I switched off my active status on facebook (I go there to read from groups) then log out for days...... As for whatsapp, I try my best to reply the most important messages, check status then leave. Not everyone you see online wants to chat, you feel this way maybe because you're still a teenager (secondary school graduate /100 lvl student), You'll learn with time. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by ewelike98925: 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
:excatly Same here, too many chat will nt allow u to enjoy wasapLol, I miss the days I have just 100 chats on WhatsApp, very easy to reply then. |
Re: Please I Have A Question To Ask And I Need Honest Anwsers. by Deicide: 5:22pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
If you want Quality chat move to Telegram. WhatsApp is not about chatting as it use to before it's now for View my status I view yours and besides there is no Distraction on Telegram. |
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