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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:32pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
jedisco:There are different kinds of white ladies. Some are very sensible. Nigerian women take undue advantage of the gender chaos in THE West. It is Like they discovered Gold. Men won't change. They know what they married and they expect it. In fact, they would be more compromising than if they were in Nigeria. It's the women that change of their own accord and for the worst. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: My uncle just came back last two years for a homebased wife. He was in his early 50s. Haven’t you noticed majority of the guys always typing that fallacy are the ones in Nigeria? They should better find way to leave this country and send dollars for me. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by bukatyne(f): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR: How did you determine the head of the home from this picture? What is your definition of the 'head of the home'? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by angelfallz(m): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: You're comparing apples and oranges. Men and women aren't the same. But I'm sure you knew this. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by chrisj2(m): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
lightpurple: Life is only easier in the us for the women based on what the man has gone through. You just said, Nja is a problem, and if not, the women will have returned. So the man has done them a huge favour! Regardless, they can return to nja after all the money spent on them and take the children with them. No one is forcing these women to come abroad or to educate themselves about what might be in store for them |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by HisMajesty1(m): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Really? But that's what we see every time. See, I've been following your line of argument on this particular thread and I understand it, but then, emotional things hurt more. Let's leave this case since it's still been investigated. My uncle in Albany, New York told me that the very moment newly migrated Nigerian women in the US fully understand how so much the laws favour them (usually they get tutored by more experienced Nigerian women who have stayed longer and surely seperated from their husband's and have gotten all the man has) they start provoking their husband's. Starts with nagging then graduates to brazen infidelity and more. The man snaps hits her or do anything harmful in the heat of the moment, she calls the authorities and there goes the beginning of the end of all a man's hard work. (Especially for men who brought and 'established' their wives which is mostly the case). And you expect a typical Nigerian man at heart regardless of how long he has stayed in the US to suck it up like his white counterparts will? Only exceptional Nigerian men like the uncle of that poster early in the thread can do that. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 3:33pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Dalil8: Hmm.. Women are necessary evil is the problem that is Me thinks that Prenup will put everybody in line as there is no side benefiting ahead of the other 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Womanizer: No gun law can change this event. Except you are suggesting a protocol enshrined in their constitution is totally expunged and you know that would never happen. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
lightpurple:Is a medical doctor lazy? Or you need him to wash plates and spoon before he can be hardworking? 5 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Uniquekriss(m): 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
JaneYave:God bless you for this. This is where d change starts. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by delishpot: 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
genq: I said if they marry a wicked man. Did I say they all marry wicked men? Or that all women marry wicked men? You as a man, will you enjoy life if your spouse dictates your life from waking up to retiring to bed? Sometimes men should pinch themselves to know how it feels when others are pinched. This wickedness masked as control is not natural. We need to change. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by lightpurple: 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
pocohantas: Jesuuuu girl. Hahahaha. You peppered them pepperly. Such ungrateful empty barrels they are, some lack common sense. Not too long ago in a previous thread, they all agreed that the average black men treat foreign women with more respect than theirs, but here they are spewing nonsense. Some of these men don’t deserve anything 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
angelfallz: From your perspective, they do. Because they don’t get to send their wives away empty handed into the cold dark night. For a typical selfish nairaland male, if that doesn’t happen, then they’ve lost everything. But in real life. What happens is an equitable distribution of family assets (if they even have any) and varying custody arrangements depending on the ages of the kids. But y’all not ready for the facts. It doesn’t suit your talking points. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:35pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
delishpot:Look at this one. I am a gentleman to the core but I don't tolerate nonsense. Talk well or don't talk at all. 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 3:36pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
jajeri3216:Lol Not to go ad hominen but it's obvious most of the guys complaining here have not lived in the West. I'd say to dudes here, if you think an average Nigerian lady no dey hear word, try a proper English girl (in her prime) and you'd come running back... Many have towed that path and ran back 6 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 3:36pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
theemy: Indians and Chinese, Filipinos bring their spouses to the US to live with them yet such attacks seldom happen. I think we need to change our orientation generally. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:36pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
you wey your ovaries don almost dry finish? Who wan send you money Probably some money miss road who doesn't know his worth pocohantas: 4 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by blazer90707: 3:37pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Aren't you tired of constantly having to educate these nairaland people. The arijies dat guy posted I watch them on YouTube. Fact is she's actually Bengali and not Indian and also half of the stuff her husband does, the average nigerian man would never do it. Please leave then to their foreign princesses because if they would be sincere to themselves they don't behave same way with a foreign wife as they would a Nigerian . So please rest and leave all this people 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Magnoliaa(f): 3:37pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
VNTS: Exactly. It's not "really" about women's servility, but men's attitude towards women (and their exploitation of the behaviors bred in women). Indoctrination and conservatism are largely tools that have been used to keep women subdued, and things are fast changing. We cannot go back to the wives in the fifties' era. So the gender wars will persist if men refuse to change and adapt. Why should women be the ones to remain below for men to be satisfied? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 3:37pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nairalandwizerd: Where in the article was it written she slept around? 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:37pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Why not? |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
oz4real83:I just feel like kissing you for this most sensible comment. But that would be going too far. Many people will never understand what you typed there. If only they took a minute to think, they'll realise this is gold. Thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by lightpurple: 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR:At some point this so called favor he did by bringing her to the US ends. You hear me? It expires. It now becomes a situation of how they can both contribute to the welfare of the family. But the Nigerian man would expect the wife to kiss his lazy staying at home a$$ everyday only because he brought her over. Don’t forget Nigerian women also marry Nigerian men and bring them over to the US. But you don’t her them whining over it 4 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hammerDK: 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR: SPOT ON! THEY DONT REALLY CHANGE, THEY WERE JUST UNDERSTUDYING YOU, BEFORE THEM SHOW U, SAY THEM TOO NA BOSS. THEN THE MAN PERCEIVE IT AS AN AFFRONT, REACT LIKE A STINGRAY, BEFORE HE KNOWS IT, HE HAS COMMITTED MURDER. THE DOCTOR TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT, RATHER THAN FACE THE CONSEQUENCES. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Your uncle in Albany New York has not met all of the 300+ million Americans in America. I can’t even speak for other Americans yet I’m an American citizen who’s very familiar with life in a few American states. That’s not how statistics works. People will mostly see what fits into their preconceived notions. HisMajesty1: 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Frustrated007: Toor! If you like don’t send to an evening newspaper. All these young girls will chop your money and run. They still have all the time to chop enough. Last last you’ll keep crying on how Naija girls are scum. Na you no use your head. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:Why is it only happening in the African immigrant community.? Asians don't change much. They keep the same customs and traditions even in America. Yet their women are not going off like wild animals. 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by delishpot: 3:39pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR: Yínmu. I have heard 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by igbowoman: 3:39pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
GayPontiff: Please be quiet. At least you admitted he was a drunk,do you know the damage he must have caused them in his drunkenness Have you heard her own story of the hell he must have put them through or just the story from that of the drunkard uncle is the full story? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:39pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Isaiah 4:1 and in that day, seven women shall take hold of one man saying, we will eat our own bread and wear our own apparel, only let us be called by your name to take away our reproach. A huge chunk of you ladies will enter menopause without seeing a man to marry..make una go mark am. There's no word of God that will go unfulfilled Magnoliaa: |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Dalil8: 3:40pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
hustla: Prenup isn't good enough for me. Just me, my kids, and my money and i'm good. No distractions. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:40pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Some days I have energy blazer90707: |
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