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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 3:40pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
LONGPREEK: You'll end up avoiding dropping the soap for a long time. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:41pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
hammerDK:He fuccked up. Left to me, I would just give up. Take my medical degree and walk out. Let her take everything else. I would just enjoy the remaining life I have on my own terms. 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by genq(m): 3:41pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
delishpot: If women are smart, you would know what to do. But y'all will keep sticking to the same script and continue getting murdered by your husbands abroad. The killings will not end - for as long as Nigerian women continue on this destructive path. When a man has nothing left to lose, the consequences can be deadly. I've said my own. 15 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by chrisj2(m): 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
pocohantas: Relationship break down regardless of nationality but most people still marry from their own country and hope for better. The main difference is that there is a lot of expense involved in bringing someone abroad and many times, those brought lie and hide their true nature or become influenced. Stop talking as if you know what transpires in multi-racial relationships - some oyinbo women are really easy to deal with and you do not spend much on them before and after... The idea that Nja men are all bossy and misogynist is a fallacy concocted. What is it that you think Oyinbo women will not tolerate with a Nja man? You will find out that it has little to do with the sort of relationships that they have with their own kind... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
She has probably turned the kids against him too. The guy must be at ground zero. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Frustrated007: You are more concerned with menopause than the fact that you will go to hell for fornicating and lying. Abi person tear that part of your bible? Leave menopause and read the portions of the bible that will help your salvation. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
angelfallz: Here we go. Men and women are different. So let’s give men a pass to kill people when they feel pushed to the wall? You’re seriously towing this line of argument? I have nothing more to say to you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Dalil8: Omo you go kala gan o 2 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
pocohantas:Yup. It’s often like that. They try it and come running back. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
chrisj2: Then go marry them and stop crying. Don’t come back this Christmas. Marry your dear foreign women ehn. 3 Likes
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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by DexterousOne(m): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR: It's an Afrcan man AND woman problem Short sightedness and ego trip |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
peacettw: The effect of long term isolation can affect the mental state of those affected by it. Nevertheless, we cannot conclude that is the case here. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by lightpurple: 3:45pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR:Trust me, and get this straight, they wouldn’t do that if the average Nigerian men behaved reasonably. Don’t tell me that all Nigerian women have such mindset..women are more prone to having families. The reason why they act that way is because they needed something to change, hence the men erratic and useless self importance behavior, all the while staying at home doing nothing. What a waste 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by delishpot: 3:45pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
genq: SO, you as a man can look around you and believe that death is better than starting life after a fall? Toor, make una dey kill unaselves and wives dey go na. That means all those naija wives that get kicked out back home have not learnt well from the abroad men on how to handle their wayward men who if push comes to shove might boot them out with nothing. They need to learn how to kill those men and if necessary themselves too. So men will learn how not to send wives back to her fathers house just like that. 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by angelfallz(m): 3:46pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: cococandy you must think I'm one of the clowns on NL or Twitter that don't know what they're talking about. Please read the links below, and see for yourself. https://qr.ae/pN2a34 https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/12/emmanuel-eboue-loses-life-savings-properties-wife-following-bitter-divorce/ https://www.opencourt-basketball.com/the-crazy-story-of-stephen-jackson-literally-leaving-his-fiance-at-the-altar-because-she-didnt-sign-prenup/ |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by DexterousOne(m): 3:47pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Frustrated007: It's not so extreme Bros calm down na 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by HisMajesty1(m): 3:47pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Ok then, since you're a citizen and on ground over there I will want to believe that there may be details or grey areas of the laws and these situations that you'd understand better... As someone who sees it from miles away, what we know is what we know and sadly some of our sentiments on this issue will be hard to change. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hammerDK: 3:47pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CSTRR: IT IS BETTER FOR HER TO TAKE EVERYTHING AND YOU KEEP A GOOD NAME. I WOULD HAVE LEFT THAT AMERICA FOR HER. THE DR IS ALREADY OLD SEF. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by SamNaijaboy: 3:48pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
There are several men whose wives lie under oath in court about abuse that never occurred. I have heard where testimony was taken as proof of abuse when there was none-no police reports, nothing. It becomes his word against hers and we know how the courts support the women. They go ahead and no adjudicate as if there was abuse. Tell the guy to stay away from the home and then allow the woman to stay in the home. Nigerian women (and to be honest most women) have no issues with lying under oath to get what they want. It pains more if you brought her over and trained her with your own money and you gave her a visa. So I encourage anybody who is thinking of bringing a Nigerian woman to the West to STOP. They will Bleep you up 98% of the time cococandy: 3 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by DasaintHope(m): 3:48pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
obembet:Fine girl. I sent you a mail. let's link up. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:49pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
calm down?!! If you know wetin naija girls don show me ehnn.they deserve every evil that befalls them!!! DexterousOne: 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by angelfallz(m): 3:49pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: Now you misunderstood me. No where did I say it's alright to kill. You were arguing that successful women don't kill their husbands, and I was trying to point out that it's not necessarily the same thing. What would drive a successful man to kill his wife, might not be the same thing that would drive a successful woman to kill her husband. Men and women aren't the same. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by emonis88: 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy:these men were already made before they bring d woman to their country of abode, but if d woman also contributed to what they had y take it all? y not take ur own give d man his own n u both go ur seprate ways. cococandy:these men were already made before they bring d woman to their country of abode, but if d woman also contributed to what they had y take it all? y not take ur own give d man his own n u both go ur seprate ways. abi? lol now on ur number 2 any court il give custody of d children to d woman cus its believed dat she is a better care giver than d man . the children can decide who they want to stay with when they r 18 or 21 for some countries. d woman is not given custody only n only if d husband proves she is not a reliable care giver ie she is mad or a drug addict or mentally unstable. so d woman already has d law on her side concerning d children n d court il make sure dat d children r comfortable, so d house goes to d woman n d children n d man gets to visit. The man becomes a visitor to his own house, if na u il u be happy? upon paying child support to d woman. Dat is y many white men il tell d woman dat if u love me n want to marry me u sign a prenuptual before we get married, meaning she il sign dat if she divorces him il.get nothing from his assets . 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Truth234:First of all only a few of them can afford to pay fees out of pocket for schooling in America. Very very few. Visa fees and travel fees only amount to few thousand dollars. If they are seeing it as something she owes, she can easily pay that back within a month of working. For the very few who can afford tuition, if what they invested in the education is the issue, all that stuff can be paid back in a few years of the wife earning a good income. So when does she stop owing him? If that’s what their marriage is about, then she’s free to do as she pleases once she feels she’s paid back enough. Right? Does that make sense in a healthy marriage? They don’t even think of it like that because it doesn’t help their argument one bit. Many of them talk trash that they know nothing about. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by obembet(f): 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
DasaintHope: I don't have access to my mail now.. I lost my phone and I can't retrieve my number due to NCC wahala. When the strike off, I will reply u |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Eriokanmi: 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nigerians in the diaspora, please and please if you know you can't bear the situation should your wife eventually earn more than you or anything go awry in future which could escalate in irreconcilable differences which could instigate murder, don't dare invite that woman to America or any society where "it's women's world" is the norm, just to live with you. Keep her in Nigeria, no matter the pressures she mounts on you so you could have peace of mind in your later years and enjoy all you've laboured for under the harsh weather. This decision is for the benefit of both of you anyway. There are 2 families i know who are already in a similar mess. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
genq: Toh... Why can't those men just marry white ladies who are already abroad and rest rather than going through the stress of marrying from Nigeria? There are levels to this thing 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Magnoliaa(f): 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
pocohantas: This one, I can understand and whet with a personal story. I know someone that always share his experiences relating with foreign girls with me. He initially always doesn't let on his identify 'cos the black guy's image—not to mention a Nigerian—is soooo corrupted and everything. 1 Like |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
simp! I pray you get ripped off on the first date. You go spend 100k on meals and won't even get a "thank you" Amen! DasaintHope: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
peacettw: You this researcher again? How come your hypotheses always sound somehow They always sound laughable. |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by humilitypays(m): 3:52pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nigerian woman that says she will never give her husband peace of mind and loyalty will only end up in a 6 feet grave. So dear Nigerian ladies in the US, please continue, you will only be regretting your Jezebel attitude towards your husband in your grave, e concern me 2 Likes |
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hammerDK: 3:52pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
NIGERIA DEY SWEET ONCE YOU HAVE MONEY. AKU LUO UNO. WHY WILL HE NOT HAVE A UNIVERSITY OR HOSPITAL HERE IN NIGERIA. FOLLOW WOMAN SIDDON FOR HOUSE FOR AMERICA IS A RECIPE FOR WAHALA. SHE GO SIDDON FOR AMERICA DO HERSELF, I GO SIDDON FOR NAIJA DEY DO ME. NO WAHALA! |
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