Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

To have abit of peace of mind you may need to speak with this so called ex

Kobicove:
What exactly is the offence here? Replying a season's greeting?

na small small chicken dey dance into cooking pot. Anything ex should be cancelled.....

GUY YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE IF WHAT YOU TYPE UP THERE IS HER OFFENCE AND WHY YOU WANT TO DROP HER

YOU WILL HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEM IN MARRIAGE

YOU ARE INSECURE
YOU BETTRR REMAIN SINGLE THEN

Icedplane:


Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture .
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

But u saw the signs all along and tried to fight it now ur eyes done clear. You better run as fast as u can bro. Life is too short don't make urs shorter

Sanchez01:

So because a lady is with you means she can't communicate or reply an ex? All these Boyz II Men sef.

The you read, where she said if she don't have option she will back to ex

Marriage is not ment for boys it for men. Just this and got angry. Bros dont bring a private matter that can be solved in seconds to us jst to shame her.

ARE A MAN OR A TEENAGER?

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Never go into a relationship with one who keeps talking about the Ex!
It shows they haven't moved on from it and there is a huge chance that your gf could easily fall for him again esp if what separated them wasn't much!

LaReinaa:
So she shouldn’t reply compliment of the season because she is your girlfriend not husband oooo..

Is she in a relationship with you or dictatorship

She is even begging you and you’re feeling like a demi god, please collect your phone and let the poor girl have peace..

Nah insecurity and sense of entitlement dey worry you

No body is arguing with you. If you find a mumu man who is ready to watch you as you open your legs to every man, no problem. But you see guys of today, we don wise.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

You never ready for serious relationship.

That small offense is what is making you furious like this??

You never pay dowry you don dey claim person pikin? Lol... If you like but the whole world for her. She's not you wife yet.

My advice for is to calm down and don't take irrational decision, she has learnt her mistake just forgive her and make her to see reasons that you don't like such things and please don't reason what she said before to the guy before she met you, just move on with her and be happy.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Guy, forget the money spent on her and dump the girl or else, you go dey spend while another guy go dey fvck the girl.

Don't be a simp!!

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Her mum did not beg you for money.
She did not beg you phone.
She did not force you to meet her people
Are you ready to marry her asap?
Soon her ex will help her find job or make her one of directors in his company and you will cry again.
Z-generstion and online questions

Freestainworld:
how old are you?

I'm 17teen.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

she will 3ver be faithful to that dick , dump her now.

Abeg be done fast fast. Ordinary replying of message. You want her to show him that she's still bitter. Carry your mighty self and be going

TheKingIsHere:


Guy, forget the money spent on her and dump the girl or else, you go dey spend while another guy go dey fvck the girl.

Don't be a simp!!

Nairaland guys and fvck!

Do you guys think about any other thing aside fvck?

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

The worst thing you will ever do is to marry a woman whose heart is with another man. Let her go

Arianna Grande just broke my heart! So after my secret overwhelming admiration for her, she instead preferred one Dalton Gomez! My solace is in d fact that celebrity relationships don't last.

JONSYN7154:
You see these words "my ex is not my enemy " has destroyed so many marriage and relationship.

Exes are biggest threat to every relationship and marriage, yes they are not your enemy but they are something one needs to avoid then if you two meets by chance then you can greet ,gist and walk away.

Many women with such mentality "my ex is not my enemy "therefore I want to go to his place and invite him to my wedding, from there" can I get a last hug?

That was how they ended up in bed, from ordinary hug it turned to kissing, this is how many married woman got pregnant for their exes.

Many will be saying that they are matured spiritually to handle such, but forgot what the Bible said in 1 Corinthians 10:12 ...

Men on the other hand usually have the same mentality too, she is just a friend this and that...they forgot most times we fall in love with someone you didn't intend falling in love with by simply spending time with them, it may start as casual friends ,colleague e.t. c by spending time together you start seeing the beautiful qualities of the person that you don't know, from there intimate feeling can start building up.

When you are in a relationship/marriage you should respect your spouse feelings, and stop all this "we are just friends.

Yes that you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't allowed to make friends but know your limits..

Have this in mind �
What a man doesn't want to eat he shouldn't take it close to his nose, because the nice aroma might be tempting to resist ��

Any lady that checks & chat her ex regularly, or who reply with.... Smile, missing you, love u, dear for every guys on social media, claiming that she doesn't mean it, but just courtesy . FEAR her.

(101%, they are cheats,in fact they are types who cheat without single atom of remorseful.)

those girls shouldn't consider for 'ordinary' relationship but banging, no wonder ex pushed her off and " latter come in and out in her life as pleases him. He had her remote permanently.

So many foolish guys, writing jargons that its being insecured, little wonder they bring bastards for them to father.

For me, i will advice the girl to run for dear life. You sound convincingly, a jealous and insecure tyle.

Bro, you are the problem, not her. Work on yourself.

chinnasa:
Marriage is not ment for boys it for men. Just this and got angry. Bros dont bring a private matter that can be solved in seconds to us jst to shame her.

ARE A MAN OR A TEENAGER?

Lol.. e show say the dude never ready for marriage. He should expect more bigger offense in marriage

You never know women ,....

Hello bro, please, my own advice definitely she's not done with her ex. To avoid unhappy home, is better you let her go back to her ex, cos her love for her ex is much stronger than how she love you.

You can't imagine her ex left her to married another girl, but after the lady died, her ex came back for her, which she's stylish accepting him back into her life. Common sense is telling you, she's not done.

If her ex, tell her to come to hotel, she will go & her ex will impregnated her & that's how future problems will start for you.

I'm not good in marriage counseling. cos am not marry yet too. Still finding right partner.

just think about it very well. May God help you and I .

Ashawoooooo

pretydiva:

Including your sisters

The kind of things one reads here.

This is main reasons we must marry a godly girl...temptation will come but spiritually she will be ready to fight for her marriage. ..ready to fast and pray. ...
you told her but her body was too weak to resist. .
he obviously has something you don't. ..

(Matthew 26:41), where Jesus tells his disciples: “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but
the flesh is weak .”

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

You sound so jealous and immature.

You seem like the type that CONTROLS women with money because money is the only thing that will make a girl consider you.

Tufiakwa.

Nwoke m, you need to grow up, seriously.

Nonsense.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

OP, you mean she replied her ex's compliment of the season and for this reason you're mad at her? Are you mentality stable? You need to see a physiologist.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Shit talk