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Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Burgerlomo: 5:21pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala:
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Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by onyeogalu1(m): 5:28pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala: Your daughter is still a child and as far she is under 18 years by Nigerian law the mother will be awarded the custody in an event of a lawsuit. So don't kill yourself, if you can stay with the woman good for you but if you can't then move on. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by lereinter(m): 5:29pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
PrimeWatermark: After this comment, any other is a counterfeit |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by banio: 5:32pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala: If it were my sister that child will NEVER be yours. Except You come and marry either the mother or the child. So You are looking for free child. |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by guychidile: 5:37pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
she gave you conditions and you accepted.,arbegi pack well
you don't know what you want. |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by guychidile: 5:38pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
she gave you conditions and you accepted.,arbegi pack well you don't know what you want. if you want your daughter, you settle her and she leaves you and your home...mcheeem 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Openbusiness: 5:39pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala:Don't ever let any babymama threaten you with taking your child away. YOU HAVE THE BLOODY ADVANTAGE. Forget about what you know about America or Western countries, NIGERIA SYSTEM is DIFFERENT. A woman ONLY has legal upperhand to win child custody IF YOU WERE MARRIED (court wedding). But fortunately for you, you didn't marry her. By Custody Law in Nigeria, for unmarried parents, THE FATHER GETS CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD, not the mother. The mother can only keep the child IF the father is not available or didn't claim the child. But once a father makes CLAIM for his child, THE ONLY REQUIREMENT is for him to PROVE PATERNITY. Once you can prove the paternity, child custody is given to YOU. Most men don't know this. IN NIGERIA THE CHILD BELONGS TO THE FATHER, for unmarried parents. The mother can only take custody IF nobody is coming forward claiming to be the father and proving paternity. In Okoli V. Okoli (2003) 8 NWLR (PT. 823) 565 @ 580, the Court of Appeal in discussing the custody of a child born outside wedlock held that the custody of a child born out of wedlock follows that of the mother in the absence of any person claiming custody of the child of being the natural father. This is one of the big reasons to avoid court wedding. As a man, you are literally signing your power and advantages away and transferring those powers to your wife when you sign the court papers. If things go south between the 2 of you, she has the legal upperhand, and the only way left that you can only beat the system is if you are very rich and connected and she's does not have that kind of money to take you on in a fight. Court wedding puts a man in chains. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that IF you are fortunate to marry a very humble decent woman that is well behaved that has genuine love for you. Happily ever after will be your lot. But unfortunately, in our society, this type of woman is very very rare. Na nonsense girls full town. That's why as a man if you are fortunate to find a very decent well-behaved calm woman that loves you, guy hold am well oh, cuz her type don't cum in 2. Na one one God dey make dem. No go dey chase slay queen wen u have a real queen. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by OROSUNBOLB(m): 5:39pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala: You're a spineless man ! What is even manly about you considering the trash you just spewed here ? I sincerely feel like slapping some senses into your head ! Gbewudani,akindanidani ! The paternity of that child you call yours is highly doubtful or do you have any evidence to prove your claim on the child ,Simp ? Ogbeni,chase that useless Olosho out of your house and life now before I wire some very hot slaps to you ! What you term bond between you and that child is nothing but your stupidity playing some pranks on you ! How can you allow a worthless,dirty Lovepeddler to have any hold or grip on your life ? You're a disgrace to manhood ! |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Kunja2: 5:41pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
korilala:you better don't kill yourself Like she said this to you after she gave you an initial condition that you wholeheartedly accepted and you have the nerve to listen to her after saying that rubbish and still giving you condition that she'll take your daughter? This is the first time I'm commenting on this kind of thread cos e no concern me but you need to see the way I shouted Ahhh after seeing what she said to you when you confronted her. Guy! Do you fear this lady? Just tell me the truth. Why exactly did you create this thread? |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by lanreHeda: 5:53pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
banio:Thats not for you to decide.......HE is the FATHER. it's not your place to allow or not. How does a brother decide who the father of his sister's child is ? |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Openbusiness: 5:55pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
OP, send her cheating ass packing from your house and keep your child. Then work out a schedule that she can come visit and go, OR she can pick your child and return after an agreed length of time, like pick on Friday return on Sunday etc, BUT don't do this if you know she has a tendency to run away with your child and she knows you're the gentle gentle type of man that doesn't have the balls to do sh*t and bomb the bomb in her head. As for me, no freaking woman can take my child and run UNLESS she wants to die. I don't joke with my children. And of course she knows she can never try it, cuz she knows me I'm not the kind of man you want to provoke. As i dey follow ppl play reach, still d bomb wey dey my head na nuclear bomb and my blood is fire. If you run with my child, even if you carry a time machine and go to another dimension, I will find you and I go beat you from Earth to the Moon from the moon to Pluto to Jupiter, beat you pass the Sun into another Galaxy, then beat you do u-turn for another milky way and continue beating you till we get back to Earth. IDGAF! My sons are my Life. You can mess with me in another way and I will ignore, but kidnap my child, and only God can save you from my wrath. Na the teeth wey crocodile dey take carry him children for mouth, na the same teeth he dey take tear buffalo to pieces. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Openbusiness: 6:04pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Juz look at my son na, one bastard geh will now say she wanna carry him and run or give me condition? IMPOSSICANT! 10 trillion angels cannot stop me from breaking your head. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Chimeluv(f): 6:13pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
When you are tired of her drama you will take action without consulting anybody |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:17pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: The OP is a fool A woman cohabitating with you as a baby mama that has the nerves to cheat with her EX would still do it if she was legally married. He should kick her out of his life 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by omooba969(m): 6:18pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
[s] RedPanthar:[/s] Na so u com write epistle on top another person matter, nawa for you o! Wetin be the meaning of SIMP sef? Simp dey call him fellow man simp - so easy to advise. |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:20pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Openbusiness: Even for married couples recognized by the customary court, a father can file for a child's custody once the child is above 7. Av witnessed such cases before |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:23pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
omooba969: Will you shut up your mouth? I'm beginning to think this thread was created by a woman to discourage us from getting baby mamas but it's not working. See how all the women are masturbating on the thread.. Awon okorosss |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:26pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
onyeogalu1: This is wrong... The custody of children above 7 are awarded to Fathers, except the man no follow up the issue for court |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Openbusiness: 6:28pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead:Regardless, married or unmarried a father can always make claim for child custody BUT the woman has the upperhand for married parents. If she can demonstrate she has the capacity to keep custody, that is to say, she has her own accomodation, job etc, she will win the custody. But the father will still get visiting rights, BUT the child will be with his wife, and then the Court will also tell him to pay her child support for the upkeep of the child. So, this equation favors the woman. Unless the man na one wealthy man with connections that can use big money to buy his way and bend the rules. But it's a DIFFERENT BALL GAME for unmarried parents, the Father has upperhand to KEEP custody of his child. The woman will get visitation rights, and the man won't be paying her 1 Kobo for child support, cuz the child is with him. So, in Nigeria, child custody favors the father for unmarried parents but favors the mother for married parents aka court wedding. But if na traditional wedding only, na the father get the child 100% 3 Likes |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by onyeogalu1(m): 6:34pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead: I am not a lawyer so I can't calm to be correct. However what will he tell the court to award him the custody of his little girl? |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:36pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Openbusiness: YES, traditional marriage cases on child custody are usually adjudicated in customary courts, we are saying the same thing. |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by omooba969(m): 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead: Goan sit down joor! Yeye dey smell |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by omooba969(m): 6:46pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
inumidun2010: Don't be scared, marriage izza beautiful thing. Btw, Nairaland is quite toxic for marriage matters. |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Openbusiness: 6:48pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead: Traditional marriage = ✓ Church wedding = ✓ Court wedding = BONDAGE = ❌ Court wedding puts a man at a huge disadvantage, unless the man is fortunate that EITHER: 1) he married a "good" woman. They are very rare, u prolly stand a chance of finding a real-life breathing dinosaur or finding the chariot that took Elijah to Heaven than finding a "good woman" nowadays . 2) he married an "illiterate" woman. Not in terms of paper education, she might have PhD sef. I mean in terms of being WOKE. If he marries a woman that her eyes ain't open to capitalize on her advantage. Lucky him. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Sammyclark31(m): 6:48pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
what a shame,another simp in d house |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by SlurUsername1: 6:52pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Openbusiness: Can one even marry in church these days without first having to do a court marriage or obtain a certicate from a marriage registry? Most churches these days ask for either a court marriage certificate or marriage registry certificate. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by meobizy(f): 6:52pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
She is a baby mama, her job is to always take the child from you or blackmail you with it. At least she takes care of the child and doesn’t complain about necessities. If you married her things may have turned different, but since you can’t make a LovePeddler into a housewife then pushing through life is the surest bet. Focus on your life and making yourself into a better man. That child will come back to your life at the age of 18. Next time don’t stick your unprotected organ into a lowlife of a female. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Nobody: 6:54pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Foolish man. Okpo dey condition ur life and u expect to see road? Na ur daughter i pity. Imagine the things she will be picking up from her useless mother subconsciously... that's if she's even ur daughter sef |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by Absoj(m): 7:15pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
u bad I swear. specialmati: |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by inumidun2010(m): 7:25pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
omooba969:I go talk say u talk am.... |
Re: My Baby Mama Wants To Take My Daughter Away From Me by shegzydave(m): 7:29pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Guy you are toooooooooo weak Mehn Am in a similar situation with u, In the first place you have let her know your weakness that why she is telling u that u better dont kill yourself and also accepting her condition... Send her out of your house asap Let her go with the child and threaten her too, that nothing must happen to you baby girl, I also have a daughter who is now 7 years old When I threathen her that nothing must happen to my baby girl, I went to report her at welfare there was a day when I heard my girl is sick I threathen her that if anything should happen to my daughter she will rot in jail, Bro take the bold step let her go with the child she will end up returning her to you just like my baby mama did when she is 3 now she dont even know where I am staying let Alone tracing the girl to my house, I change my number and everything she can use to get in touch with me |
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