Uzomacharles:
Wetin dey bad wey she do??

If you no want the money abeg send am come

At first I did not understand at first, I had to read over and over again to get the gist clearly.

She refunded the 8k because it was too small for her; she said since she can't even manage the 8k to buy clothes for herself it was better that He keeps it.

She's ungrateful.

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

don't mind them ....who knows if some people will start posting videos or picks from the other room soon....

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

they will never learn cos they are all sissy

Nigerian women are expensive the earlier we realize that...the better.

lekki1444:
well at least she has some form of dignity in her. that ought to count for something.someone returning 8000 in this covid season ? she is a princippled and strong willed woman. thats an asset. its your job as the man to channel these her positive attributes into a positive character and not let it stagnate in negative character. all these weak men today, you are supposed to mold her not indulge her and you have the perfect specimen to be molded

Hmmm, Mr molderator.. Tuale ... U go learn, no worry

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

I am not understanding u... what's there to talk about, ufan?

If its your guy that asked you to help him with 2k you won't even make move to help. You are not married and no matter how little it is one should appreciate it. Open your eyes very well. She will never be satisfy if you ended up marrying her.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

you are still contemplating when the future signs are staring at you with big eyes. My brother use your head oooo

owowa145:

Hmmm, Mr molderator.. Tuale ... U go learn, no worry

i done learn already, when i got my woman she was rough around the edges but principled. today she is a very principled considerate loving GOD fearing woman

took a lot of work but by the grace of YAH the project was completed. thats your job as a man is to mold these women. half of them dont know what they want and are confused and need positive guidaance and wisdom, and the other half are just hedonistic, those hedonistic ones you let the streets have them. the streets gotta eat. streetz is hungry

Training Training Training

You can continue investing money on her business and ass if you don't have anything to invest your money on or else break up with her.

Sammy07:


University of Ibadan teaching hospital cures all kinds of ailments.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

I wouldn't blame you, YOU ARE A WOMAN!!!! YOUR SELFISH SENSE OF REASONING IS OBVIOUSLY WARPED!!!

Can you imagine the audacity of your response, and adv3to the young man!!!!

DO YOU KNOW WHAT HE'S GOING THROUGH TO MAKE MONEY THESE DAYS?!!!

I'M NOT TOO SHOCKD THOUGH, YOU ARE ALSO AMONG THOSE THAT USE THEIR P*SSY TO MAKE MONEY FROM MEN!!

like someone described such business venture : CLITOCURRENCY MOGULS!!!

WAITING FOR YOUR REPLY.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

You we're talking smart until you mentioned 20k.....
All y'all are same,who do una dis thing

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

Ufan abadie?

HabaHaba:


I wouldn't blame you, YOU ARE A WOMAN!!!! YOUR SELFISH SENSE OF REASONING IS OBVIOUSLY WARPED!!!

Can you imagine the audacity of your response, and adv3to the young man!!!!

DO YOU KNOW WHAT HE'S GOING THROUGH TO MAKE MONEY THESE DAYS?!!!

I'M NOT TOO SHOCKD THOUGH, YOU ARE ALSO AMONG THOSE THAT USE THEIR P*SSY TO MAKE MONEY FROM MEN!!

like someone described such business venture : CLITOCURRENCY MOGULS!!!

WAITING FOR YOUR REPLY.

I have nothing to say to you.

Shalom.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

I normally ignore this type of msg, but u guys make it seems loving someone is a trap and a full time job, na we go dey do the talking, most can't even create meaningful conversation, na we go they show attention, care, money, resources all for what? kpekus, no wonder most people visit porn hub. It's just not worth it. Try to put ur selves in a guy's position and u will see it is not easy at all.

Bmaster:
You we're talking smart until you mentioned 20k.....
All y'all are same,who do una dis thing

Na una do us.

My brother waiting you wan make men do nahh, nahh boyfriend we go get? I swear these Nigerian girls are just poison shortening men’s life span..

Nonexistent2:
Dump her ass. Did she give you any money to keep for her? I'm sure she is acting up because of the latest bone straight hair trend. I laugh at guys who claim to have girlfriends.

CalliDora1:


Na una do us.

Una see the reason we confidently say Nigerian girls are useless.. any more doubt?

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

As u lay ur bed, u lie on it. U haven't started. Pls continue doing father Christmas for a woman u haven't married

Gkay1:
I think some of the guys are getting it wrong.
someone requested for 2000 and u sent 10000, she told u that the money will not be enough for her and she refund 8000. so y are u angry. is she not your girlfriend ?
sometimes, we offend we each other and we still need to forgive each other. call her and sort it out amicably.
merry Christmas to u all.

Oga, have you read the OP explanation well?!!!

The lady also does business!!!! So, why is she asking the guy for N3K when she can afford it?!!!

Haven't you noticed that most Nigerian ladies have the entitled mentality that their guy must remain their Bread Winners when they it yet married YET THEY DATE OTHER GUYS/MEN and when caught they will dare you with the notion that DID YOU PAY MY BRIDE PRICE?!!!

ABEG, GUYS WISE UP AND LER LADIES ALONE. IF YOU NEED SEX, GET A SEX LADY TO PAY AND RELEASE YOURSELF AND MOVE FORWARD IN YOUR BUSINESS.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

If she wants more than 10k, doesn't she no were to find a job?

DSC7:
Nawa oooo.....
and i dey here dey find money.......
dis life sha.....

I
the life no balance my broda

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Wtf why are u even seeking public opinion before breaking up with her. If she can’t even appreciate the fact u giving her money for Yuletide like she is your daughter that needs Christmas clothes break up with the bitch. Girls with bleep mentality everywhere smh

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

You're a foolish person, I confirmed it today.

Babe asked you for 2k you come send 10k and she returned 8k you're here complaining. Rubbish! You have time. I see nothing wrong in what she did anyways.

What she did may seem rude but what makes you certain she didn't do it out of a good heart. Talk to her and know her reasons first before ranting on nairaland biko

CalliDora1:



I have nothing to say to you.

Shalom.

Shalom! Babe, Shalom again!!!

But your real Shalom should start with your mentality. STOP ASSUMING IT'S YOUR MAN'S PREROGATIVE TO CATER FOR YOUR LIFESTYLE AND NEEDS. YOU HAVE PARENTS AND RELATIVES.
UNTIL YOUR BOTH MARRIED, HE DOESN'T HAVE TO FEED OR FEND FOR YOU. YOU'RE BOTH EQUAL IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

MEN MUST NOT KILL THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY NEED EMOTIONAL SUCCOR AND SEX FROM WOMEN!!!

Be understanding and supportive to them and DEMANDING!!!

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

But this one is a reasonable post na ? Just think about it and give him a reply

LOL YOU GIRL HAS ANOTHER GUY WHO CATERS FOR HER FINANCIAL NEEDS AND DOES NOT NEED YOU FOR ANYTHING SO ITS EITHER YOU BREAKUP OR WAIT TILL SHE BREAKS UP WITH YOU WHICH SHE WOULD SURLEY DO