frozen70:


Why are you guys always randy

Always chasing women to get down with them

Can't you guys hold yourself

Babara1994:
Imagine what 10k can do for me now. This mumu is busy giving woman money. Money she can't give you when you're in need. Smh

frozen70:


It depends on what you people have been debating on about financial matters

10k would not actually get a dress for her and probably a shout and a hand bag

If you have been taking care if that then if you don't give her anything this Christmas, it won't be an issue

She returned the rest to you because she feels that you are being smart with her

She wants to be sure that you gave her nothing this Christmas

So, after your grand mother's burial, seat her down and talk with her to tell you her exact reason why she returned the money, that's if you are still interested in her

And if you are no longer interested in her, let the relationship end with the year and move on from next year

lekki1444:
well at least she has some form of dignity in her. that ought to count for something.someone returning 8000 in this covid season ? she is a princippled and strong willed woman. thats an asset. its your job as the man to channel these her positive attributes into a positive character and not let it stagnate in negative character. all these weak men today, you are supposed to mold her not indulge her and you have the perfect specimen to be molded

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

IkpuMmadu:


You are an idiot
You are a simp
Marry her and die of heart attack before 45..
Marry her and end in premium tears


You be real mumu! Spending 30k on a working babe in this period of scarcity


Her toto na gold ?
U no get sense shaaaa

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other

drlateef:
She is a considerate person. She probably wanted to help you because of your complaint of lack of funds. Otherwise she would have returned everything including the 2000 naira.

TOPCRUISE:

You want to break up with her for refunding the money. You know the worth of a thing when you lose it

paulolee:
she asked for 2k and u sent her 10k for total package and she refunded 8k back saying that it cant get her Christmas things and maybe bone straight and u didnt ask her abt the remaining 2k??
I swear she must refund that 2k before we break up

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!

Mekanus:
Oga no dey talk rubbish. Mr SIMP.

Verysmart101:

How much have u spent on ur mother or your gf if only u have any.Idiot

frozen70:


It depends on what you people have been debating on about financial matters

10k would not actually get a dress for her and probably a shout and a hand bag

If you have been taking care if that then if you don't give her anything this Christmas, it won't be an issue

She returned the rest to you because she feels that you are being smart with her

She wants to be sure that you gave her nothing this Christmas

So, after your grand mother's burial, seat her down and talk with her to tell you her exact reason why she returned the money, that's if you are still interested in her

And if you are no longer interested in her, let the relationship end with the year and move on from next year

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

Kapilta:
Honestly i wanted to praise the lady for being an "Alfa" female before opening the thread didn't know it's actually that OP is doomed.

cooooooks:
Audio story.

When is your novel coming out?

Dididrumz:


At first I did not understand at first, I had to read over and over again to get the gist clearly.

She refunded the 8k because it was too small for her; she said since she can't even manage the 8k to buy clothes for herself it was better that He keeps it.

She's ungrateful.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!

PotatoSalad:




The audacity

Verysmart101:


Honestly u aint wise at all.

quisera:
You want us to advise you on how to break up with her abi wat do you want? Because me I'm not understanding u o. You've made it quite clear you want a breakup so I wonder what you need advice for.