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Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Nobody: 2:12pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:oh she begged for it. Did you miss the part where asked for money for soap or whatever it was she begged for? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by lanre316: 2:13pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115: Stop giving her money and watch the relationship die a natural death |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Lomprico2: 2:33pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I will so thank and pray pray for her because I know getting money is not easy in this our today's Nigeria. and note, she does not owe me Christmas money. Hungry geh! |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by phazotron(m): 2:37pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115: You better leave that vamp. With all the money i get if person give me 2k na to sope. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Mummymahdi(f): 3:08pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
DukeJoe17: Am always wandering how girls present themselves in that side of the country , here in the north parent does all these according to their status, a girl will be cousioned if she wear a cloth not bought by her mum or dad. Our responsibility is been transferred to another man eg uncle , brother or sometimes fiance if fatherr not alive or very poor or to the husband after marriage. Thats why rate of prostitution is Very low. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Laideabdulahi: 3:16pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115: My guy, get the best all you can from her. even kn..acks in a very nice manner. Enough kn..acks i means. Then call it off, after u have collected like a total N200,000 from her in three months. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by frozen70(f): 3:18pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: That's the more reason why if you can't meet up leave them alone |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by gerizzim: 3:21pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
the lady shud have not acted dt way considering the situation that d guy is facing at d moment. . It's likly d guy wud have bin asked to make his own contribution towards d burial expenses as it is mostly a common practice in most states here in naija wen sm1 in d family dies siblings nd relatives somtyms contribute as high as 200k or more to support burial rites. D lady wud have bin more understanding. from the sound of the narrative, d young man is currently broke He not bin able to give her a reasonable amt of money at d moment doesn't mean he hasn't bin giving her smth good bfor nw or will not give her smth much more beta in a couple of weeks D burial may be like a burden he is currently obsessing him dt he wants to clear ND not the funfare dt is associated with Christmas the guy wants to drool in I wonder why pple in a relationship are not quick to resolve issues wen they clash BT see ending d relationship as d solution or divorce as in d case of marriage the young man is angry no doubt BT he should kip his cool . e Neva reach to brk up. You have bin with d gal for 2yrs And I am very sure u both must have had a more serious quarrel more Dan dis 10k issue in d past ND u stayed in d relationship. So why ruffle ur feather ova 10k Bro, sit ur ass in der and solve ur shit in dt relationship. wateva method weda passive or diplomatic or wit body language u want to use resolve it ,pls do face ur demon ND make peace with ur bae. All d best youngman |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Elsueno: 3:27pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
kunkelhanspeter: Bros ehn, D amount of cash I saved since I stopped dis dating thing eh...it surprising fa 1 Like |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by samzyini(m): 3:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
no bro she only ask you for 2000 |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:29pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
frozen70: Of course...you women have turn yourselves to goods for the highest bidder...that’s why it’s always funny when u peeps start clamouring for respect from nairaland men/boys... |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by OKVALLY: 3:33pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
If she marries you, she will die of hunger. You will be breaking up every now and then, except somebody that is not sincere with you. Keep the money, when you are ready, take her to boutique and see if you will spend #8,000 on a stand. That can't buy a one year old child cloth and shoe you know?. Stop calculating what you sent because you have not started, except you want to remain single. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Sixfeetbelle: 3:34pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Lomprico2: Even when you know she can give you more than that? Why do men now complain that their girlfriends bought them ordinary boxers and singlet? Is it not gift? Are they not being ungrateful? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Sixfeetbelle: 3:36pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Nuel4: She asked for 2k which he sent and she accepted. Case closed. The extra 8k is a gift which can be rejected. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by frozen70(f): 3:36pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: It's meant for those who can get it |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:38pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: U don’t have to bias becos a female is under torchlight...... Yes she can reject gift, it’s her right.... but she rejected a gift from a man she’s dating under the grounds that it’s not enough....she’s sending a wrong message.... What’s the difference between the 10k and 30k she has been collecting from the guy before..??. They are in the same category....so what is she feeling like.... She’s just feeling entitled.. if someone that’s not her boyfriend gave her 10k would she do the same and say it’s too small..?? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Sixfeetbelle: 3:39pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Just123: I believe it's better to reject 5k that will not be useful in your hand so the sender can find more use for it with someone else than to accept it out of 'gratitude' and waste it. Yes, of course, rejecting it and making it known cause it's small is bad. Courtesy should have been applied here. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:40pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
frozen70: U are totally right....that’s why it’s better to buy, use and toss aside .. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Jamin07: 3:41pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115:the girl cares about you and you want to break up with her? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Sixfeetbelle: 3:42pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: I agree on her feeling entitled based on the way she presented it. It's not her money so rejecting it cause she wanted more is bad. I'm just pointing out that it's okay to reject money sent to you by your boyfriend if you feel it's insignificant to what financial needs you have. People shouldn't see it as a sign of ingratitude |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by frozen70(f): 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: It doesn't matter how it's being handled The most important thing is for you you to get access if she wishes |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by ImaIma1(f): 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115: Does she spend on you? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Okay let me get this straight..... u agree it’s bad that she rejected it on the grounds of being to small that it’s a show of being entitled to what’s not hers......but you also think it’s okay to do so.. How can something be bad and ok at the same time?? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by orlaglobal234: 3:50pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
From November 1 to 30 you spend 30,000 + another 10,000 ��� R.I.P to you in advance hw much did you spend on your mother in a month? hmmmm upon all what you're been spend on her since two years you end up in insult |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by farem: 3:50pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115:At least if you are asked how you spent your 2020, you already have something tangible to point to. There's no need to quit. Quiters never win... Shebi you are struggling to bury a grandparent. I pity your existing parents. By the time you are finished, maybe you go dey beg us to raise t-fare for you to bury dem. Kwantinue! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
frozen70: If she wish.?? ....I thought she’s a mere merchandise waiting to be purchased...does she still have the decency to have a choice like u said.. it doesn’t even matter how shes going to be handled so far she’s has been purchased... |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Sixfeetbelle: 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: How you present things determines how it's perceived. Rejecting gifts shouldn't be seen as a sign of ingratitude. You can send her money for Christmas shopping and she tells you she doesn't need it cause she has already done her Christmas shopping. It's polite and acceptable. She will send it back so you can maybe do charitable works with it or you can tell her to use it and put it in her business. However, if she says it's too small for Christmas shopping and sends it back, then that's impolite and unacceptable. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by coolsegun2002: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Oh I get u now.... still..... If you give ur boyfriend a Christmas Cash gift and he says, no I don’t want cos I already bought a Christmas stuff. be sincere, would u feel weird? |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by Loveknitting: 4:01pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Petsolo1115: I don't get it why do guys give they're girlfriends money, and even make is seem like is they're responsibility to do so. I don't understand, I dislike women with entitled mentality. Most nigeria are actually the reason why most nigeria women are lazy mentally. |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by DMerciful(m): 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
I drew two conclusions from your post Firstly, the money is payment for sex. You know what this is called right? Secondly, a guy dating a girl without sex in the relationship is entitled not to give her any money so long as they are not having sex, right? CalliDora1: |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by DMerciful(m): 4:06pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
This is not just offence but a behavioral issue. Relationship is to study each other to know early warning signs and not just having it for having sake. This girl right her is very unappreciative, entitled and lacks understanding. What makes her think the guy must give her a certain amount of money or nothing? Gkay1: |
Re: She Refunded The 10,000 Naira I Gave Her For Christmas by DMerciful(m): 4:07pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Other people need to learn from others besides it's a faceless forum. What's the big deal? OmoOduduwa01: |
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