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Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by dollarstays: 12:09am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8:The problem is you are focusing your attention on what you have already passed (that is your handsomeness) Take note of this: Let me write in summary 1)Before you reach where a lady is standing : she has already seen and considered your face (for handsomeness sake), your sense of dressing (this helps her to see your class in social market ...your colour roit dressing has it's own meaning ,likewise other modes of dressing), and also she considers your height physique,and complexion and even determine your age by herself..... YOUR WORK IS TO PASS THIS PART BEFORE YOU ESTABLISH CONTACT .....note some persons just easily pass it by possessing material stuff and cash) 2)Next part is meeting herI think this is where your question context is structured) When you reach where she is either standing or sitting and starts talking ,she starts testing and sensing your (i ) confidence--- your eye contact matters, your body posture matters and your use of words matters here too.. (ii) charming----- your use of wit and banter matters here (iii) intelligent-----not school intelligence alone but also street smartness matters here- your intelligent comes in between your comments and suggestions.... ( Confidence,charming and intelligent are collectively called GAMING) When GAMING you must using all of it's tools(i.e confidence,chaing and intelligence) at the same time, not separately and you must use it in relation with her location,her complexion,her dressing,her present activity, herself value ,her use of words,her hair style,her body size etc.... FOR EXAMPLE: Let's say you saw a girl standing just at the entrance of a lecture hall you want to enter and you really would love to talk to her or get to know ... Take note that I said before you approach a girl she has already graded you based on what I said in summary 1....so there is no need to be reasoning on impressing her based on your physique,your dressing, your pink lips or other physical related things when you start talking to her instead concentrate your attention on gaming....which is using the combination of your confidence,charm, and intelligent to talk to her....(but note that some might not notice you before you reach where they are but you don't need to worry because she will still be grading your physical appearance at the same time is getting carried away by your gaming and she will finish it up when you turn you back to leave the scene..... EXAMPLE ON GAMING Let say you reach where she is standing and she is kind of blocking the entrance... Establish eye contact before you reach there or tap her shoulder if she is not looking and Just say with mild laugh or smile in between" hmmm so you have seriously started occupying this door till our Lord jesus comes " and you may conclude by saying with still the mild smile or laugh "weldone oh woman of faith"......let me tell you what you have achieved with above....(i) in confidence: your established eye contact or your tap on her shoulder plus your mild laugh/smile( pls don't make the laugh loud or smile obvious) (ii) charm: you joking wit her blocking the entrance (wit) (iii) intelligent : even when you don't know the Bible but with your ability to relate with such a holy makes you look smart In a cool way.... ........ I would have continued but it's late 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by cassbeat(m): 12:10am On Dec 24, 2020 |
OlayemiAshraf:What if she dey another person life |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Liposure: 12:10am On Dec 24, 2020 |
chineduuf:lol. U be case 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Propsper4521(m): 12:12am On Dec 24, 2020 |
ok |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Liposure: 12:13am On Dec 24, 2020 |
millionboi2:or brethenzone you 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by toscolee(m): 12:19am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Learn to compliment them in a nonchalant way, while looking into their eyes. 1. Don't walk up to her, walk past, then say something like 'fine girl', then open conversation if she responds in a relaxed manner but welcoming manner. If she's tensed, walk away. If you are tensed, smile back and walk away. 2. Walk up to her, and ask for directions, or tell her that she looks like someone you knew way back in school or Kafanchan. 3. DM ladies on social media. Some will ignore you. For the ones that doesn't, flow with them. ADVICE Be free to let them know that you are just starting out with ladies, they find it appealing, but if you don't man up and take charge after some time, anything you see, collect am. Learn to accept rejection and failure as a part of life. You can't win them all. YOU FEAR REJECTION, It's a bad habit. 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by saasala(m): 12:23am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8: It is blessing in disguise bro. We wey get sweet mouth dey suffer am now. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Ruthyt: 12:37am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Reex12(m): 12:46am On Dec 24, 2020 |
bloody simp used to see girls as innocent creatures in my sec days but once i entered uni i overdosed on the redpill ....they are nothing but useless bag of flesh with a pretty face waiting to devour on a mans resources..with this mindset they chase after and not the other way around lot of hoes still yearn for me. be redpilled |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Tango123: 12:47am On Dec 24, 2020 |
EdricBond: This guy u funnyooo. If them quote u, ignore them now |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by pyro62(m): 12:48am On Dec 24, 2020 |
EdricBond: Bros, I been no want quote you oo, but at a time, I gats tell you say your conment na concrete. You took the words out of my mouth |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by hopexter(m): 12:51am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Derrylatei: Smile and courage isn't what he's asking. He meant lyrically. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by stubbornman(m): 12:52am On Dec 24, 2020 |
LikeAking: What about Cancer Men |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Happy2020: 12:57am On Dec 24, 2020 |
With Nigerian females, that’s easy. “Hi, you wanna”. Whatever you do, don’t show any sign of having more than 10k to your name 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Openyamind111(m): 1:14am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Mrscarter(f): 1:25am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8: Just remember girls are only humans too n for all U know she could be as nervous as you are. Just be yourself. Never be someone your not. Best thing try make her laugh or smile. I like it wen my man makes me laugh. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Churchill6767: 1:26am On Dec 24, 2020 |
dollarstays: Omo you get time o, abeg come help me wash clothes.. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by femi4: 1:27am On Dec 24, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2:More like, I will be your slave |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Mrscarter(f): 1:32am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8: Tell her I want to talk to you but your beauty has me at a loss for words Then do Ur best to make her laugh. If a girl thinks Ur cute or nice she'll talk to you n if she doesn't try another. All girls are different we are interested in different things 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by alizma: 1:37am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8:Just approach the girl greet her and ask how she is doing, then tell her she is beautiful and you always feel happy whenever you see her around and you will be happier if she will agree to be your friend. If she agree to be your friend then you can take it up from there. if not, you can quote me and ask to know what to do next. I wish you success 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Jacksparrow7(m): 1:56am On Dec 24, 2020 |
No b only you |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by blamingthedevil: 2:05am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Start on friendly note... forget with toasting |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Funjosh(m): 2:15am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by akilo1: 2:36am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Tell them say u wan harvest them and thank me later |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Memberclub(m): 2:51am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Ugly Nigerian girls for that matter |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by King44(m): 3:15am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Twenty8:Yours is even better but mine is worse. Once I see the girl I like so much like this, I would admire from afar and just walk away. Shebi you can even move closer. But I am doing fine talking to girls online than offline then when we see offline everything is set. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Tribalism123(m): 3:20am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Humor does it all. Start a joke. Feel relax and ur joke will calm the situation. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by King44(m): 3:20am On Dec 24, 2020 |
blamingthedevil:lol... Nigerian girls, once you get closer they start seeing you as a threat who wants to approach them thus they would give you the don't come near me attitude or feeling superior and some have no kobo they worked for. But I disagree with that person up there who said Nig girls are ugly maybe the one you keep seeing in your area. Nig girls are pretty but attitude is another thing I can't say so much about. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Map1(m): 3:23am On Dec 24, 2020 |
dollytino4real:set awon 2k urgently |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by King44(m): 3:24am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Mrscarter:Expo 101... My jotter is almost finished. This 2021 I most man up and talk to female offline baba God take the wheels 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by Cutiekatty: 3:26am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Adoboko: Lovely dress. But the doll look like a doll straight out of a horror movie. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by seunak2016: 3:27am On Dec 24, 2020 |
CryptoClub2018:don't be afraid of insult or rejection from girls, just see it as fun otherwise you will get discouraged and will reduce your self esteem...talk to any girl you like, the highest she will do it's ignore you, NO LADY WILL BEAT YOU |
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