Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

The earlier you stop looking up to men for help the better. That is not to say its totally wrong to seek help sometimes because i mean... It is more honorable to beg than to steal but you must know the kinda place and people you seek help from. You could go to your church or any Christian family you know but not some random guy who's out to take advantage of any girl that crosses his path.

Also be prayerful and keep reminding God that you have no one except Him and I'm telling you, God will definitely show up. That's whom ( God) I've learnt to seek help from and He's never failed me. As in where I least expect, God just sends help to me.

Turn to God and he'll use men to bless you. Don't let any man defile God's temple ( your body) for something that has been freely given to you on Calvary cross.

Shalom.

CalliDora1:
The earlier you stop looking up to men for he'll the better

very true!

JidennaJason:
Women are not left out as well...

I remember when I had some issues at the office, I went to meet our Area secretary who I thought was a "God-fearing" married woman to help me clear the financial mess up, she smiled and said; "It's a little challenge Jason, I can help you reconcile the account but I want us to make love"


I thought she was joking, but the lady was serious.

I had to explain to my boss the error I made and wait for my punishment instead of furcking a married woman.

quite weird though

Welcome to the real world!

Nothing goes for nothing!

Ask yourself why your fellow women are not interested in helping you.

If only women can be half as nice as men, maybe the world would be better. I'm sure by the time you are comfortable, you'd not help someone in need even if it's a woman like you.

To further buttress this point, you were chased out by your flesh and blood who happens to be a woman.

PS: This ain't no misogyny.

MAY BE YOU SHOULD TRY GETTING HELP FROM YOUR FELLOW WOMEN.

Welcome to the real brutal world baby girl. Unfortunately, that's the world we live in.

Op, only God knows what u want, cus i believed i told u stop seeking for help, not everyone who call u are ready to help u. And moreover, i told u what to do already. I dnt knw why u keep opening threads asking for assistance, only if there's more 2 ur story.
However, just do the needful, and i promise u will be fine.

Jemiwizzy:
before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.



I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

a guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
so as a female no male give us anything from his clear mind ?

put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

i can speak for the boys don't know about girls...

If he helps you now without demanding for anything,yoy and your friends will call him mumu, ode.. They've prolly done that to them countless of times...

And also the probability that the girl in question will give pussy to another guy who is not helping her is high, they will even rob it in the helping guy's face that they are fucking another guy....

If you can give a non helping guy pussy, how about giving the one that is helping you too??

So why help a girl when you are not fucking her and end up being called a fool.

I still don't know the type of help you need. I happened to stumble on your thread yesterday. It has all been whining about family and then not getting the needed help. And for a newcomer like me, I wonder, what does she really want? What help do you need? Can you be verified?

Jemiwizzy:
before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.



I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

a guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
so as a female no male give us anything from his clear mind ?

put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

Depressed101:
i can speak for the boys don't know about girls...

If he helps you now without demanding for anything,yoy and your friends will call him mumu, ode.. They've prolly done that to them countless of times...

And also the probability that the girl in question will give pussy to another guy who is not helping her is high, they will even rob it in the helping guy's face that they are fucking another guy....

If you can give a non helping guy pussy, how about giving the one that is helping you too??

So why help a girl when you are not fucking her and end up being called a fool.

same way I have been helping a lady because I feel pity for her! I have. 2 phones this lady begged me she was going to embassy for visa application last week in Lagos she used flight and I believed her and I gave her one phone to use I thought she needed phone for Easy movement and communication or incase she want to book Uber some days back I read through her WhatsApp message because she had her WhatsApp on my phone,, do you know this lady went to Lagos for a dick I read the chat with her friend on WhatsApp!! She went to meet a guy there and she lied to me! See ehen if she won’t have sex to get what she want she should go and meet are fellow woman

If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

twosquare:
I still don't know the type of help you need. I happened to stumble on your thread yesterday. It has all been whining about family and then not getting the needed help. And for a newcomer like me, I wonder, what does she really want? What help do you need? Can you be verified?

I need money to rent a room . you can verify me from soulstalker and others who reached out to me, I need at least 20k to rent it.
you can verify me 100 percent.
am getting depressed already

soulstalker:
Op, only God knows what u want, cus i believed i told u stop seeking for help, not everyone who call u are ready to help u. And moreover, i told u what to do already. I dnt knw why u keep opening threads asking for assistance, only if there's more 2 ur story.
However, just do the needful, and i promise u will be fine.

you need to understand it's very hard staying with friends who lives with family. I mean where I am now am not free at all. I have made up my mind like you told me already

madampresident:
If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

that is very kind of you how can I reach you

Depressed101:
i can speak for the boys don't know about girls...

If he helps you now without demanding for anything,yoy and your friends will call him mumu, ode.. They've prolly done that to them countless of times...

And also the probability that the girl in question will give pussy to another guy who is not helping her is high, they will even rob it in the helping guy's face that they are fucking another guy....

If you can give a non helping guy pussy, how about giving the one that is helping you too??

So why help a girl when you are not fucking her and end up being called a fool.

its condition that brought all of this to me

You help her for free,she calls you mugu.
Some will feel entitled to it. Some women are ungrateful.

mumumugu:
You help her for free,she calls you mugu.
Some will feel entitled to it. Some women are ungrateful.

at least not all. not this type of condition that made me to beg for favour publicly.

I wish I see a way to get a loan all this would have ended

Jemiwizzy:
its condition that brought all of this to me

you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

Some shameless men do that but atimes, chances of it happening also depend on the lady involved.

A slay queen who offers her body on social has higher chances of being a victim when she begs for favor from these shameless dudes than other ladies and do I blame the men in this situation, yes but maybe not too much.

Sorry about your situation, next time choose the shoulder to cry on wisely.

Depressed101:
you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

why are you guys all about sex sex sex. sex for grade sex for money sex for promotion can't we help the helpless one ?

Jemiwizzy:
why are you guys all about sex sex sex. sex for grade sex for money sex for promotion can't we help the helpless one ?

honey sometimes we can't, because life has thought us otherwise really... Pray you find help tho

J111333:
Some shameless men do that but atimes, chances of it happening also depend on the lady involved.

A slay queen who offers her body on social has higher chances of being a victim when she begs for favor from these shameless dudes than other ladies and do I blame the men in this situation, yes but maybe not too much.

you know I begged for help as and support as a family and a friend if it has to be because of offering sex in exchange seriously I shouldn't be here. but I believe all men are not the same and I believe we women help each other too because I know how kind I am to people in need

Depressed101:
honey sometimes we can't, because life has thought us otherwise really... Pray you find help tho

ameen I pray so

It's a bad habit for a lady to make herself vulnerable and always seek for help from men.
Keep updating, work on yourself. Don't always live yourself at a point where it's only men that can help you.

This is the same advice I always give to myself.

Darlingme:
It's a bad habit for a lady to make herself vulnerable and always seek for help from men.
Keep updating, work on yourself. Don't always live yourself at a point where it's only men that can help you.

This is the same advice I always give to myself.

that's a nice piece of advice. am learning

I feel you are trying to manipulate innocent citizens of thier hard earned money, money to flex this december, this is a cheap scam.

Bouz:
I feel you are trying to manipulate innocent citizens of thier hard earned money, money to flex this december, this is a cheap scam.

another one ! we know your type just judge yourself anyhow not me. lemme ask you where did you start your conclusion from ?
typical

Jemiwizzy:
Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

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Your wahala plenty nor be small..

Uyi168:
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Your wahala plenty nor be small..

have you solved any or tried to Bros ?