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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by toboy: 8:45pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Judybash93(m): 8:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Eeyahhh Pele oOo... But inasmuch as you've said all these, we'll still wait to hear from you husband sha...e get why |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Lambarry1: 8:50pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Lol 1 case out of millions. What about all those women who ran abroad with the children without spousal consent, how many of such women were deported. Hahahahahaha 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by OliverK: 8:53pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Righteousness2: Prayers? Rubbish. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by adanny01(m): 8:53pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: So sorry madam. Please first do a self check and point to yourself your own faults, if possible seek advice from someone who will tell you what bad things you did to deserve such treatment. Secondly, your husband was wrong I admit. You don't want to make more of a mess than it is already. Be bold and get your husband to the dialogue table. Thirdly, your first priority at this time should be their welfare, then find out his plan for the kids and how you can come into the plan. Finally, ask him to make things right by either saving what is left of the marriage or divorce. At this point, hold off any court, human rights, NGO, embassy or police case till you can't get his family to get him to talk. Give the family a dateline when you will report to relevant agencies. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by LadyTianna(f): 8:57pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
This is such a horrible terrible thing to do to a mother. I can't begin to imagine how hurt you've been Op. Carrying 3 pregnancies, raising and nurturing your babies only for your life partner to run away with them. No matter how someone has wronged you, this is just too cruel 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by 79733139(m): 9:00pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Get a lawyer asap! Nairaland isn't the best place to seek for advice. TemiBami2020: 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by ladywise: 9:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Pray seriously against this marine spirits. Giant Half man half fish. This wicked spirits is the course of your problem. And he is married to most women here on Earth. Both married and unmarried women. Pray seriously against this wicked marine spirits.
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JONSYN7154: 9:05pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Harrykn:I work with US embassy here in abuja we've had similar case like that. let her go to UK consular in Lagos or come to UK High commission here in abuja to repot the issue. They'll help her. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Hassanmaye(m): 9:08pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:That's my plan also I need to japa and leave this country sharp sharp |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Machant: 9:08pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Hmmmmmmmm ![]() |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by PrinceFashion: 9:17pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
If you get those papers and they deport him back here madam you're not safe it's either you find your way out of the country or find a way to reach him and you guys can talk ....d man that travel with his kids without telling you na him u wan call back here ...it's very dangerous for your life and at the end your kids will turn stray dogs 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Lehksyen4life(m): 9:19pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor: This is the most sensible advice you've given lately. More of this always! 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by jaxxy(m): 9:19pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Lifecanbeamazin: 9:19pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Go to the embassy to file a complaint asap. Make sure you have his picture and that of your children as well. You don't own anyone any explanation about your marriage on this platform. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by AwesomeStormy00(m): 9:21pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Do you've pictures of your kids? Are you legally married? Do you have all the papers to your kids births call uk high commission, they can track him down with his passport number and visa no panic |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by jaxxy(m): 9:23pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: Deceptive how? What did u do? People don’t act this way all of a sudden So what transpired btwn u guys lately or this year. The clue is always there bt I understand u may not want to say it. ![]() |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Hassanmaye(m): 9:27pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:No be your gender again? If the man is beating the hell out of her she will have stayed and endure it |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Hassanmaye(m): 9:29pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Draslo:Haha
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Verysmart101: 9:39pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: Madam ur a chronic liar.A bad wife will never admit she is.For a man to runaway with his kids,madam e get y can ur consience will judge u if ur d reason.Honestly madam,just move on with ur life |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by PeacenLove2: 9:39pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: Op, I really empathize with you. This must be disconcerting but please try to relax so your next move wouldn't aggravate the situation. Don't be quick to rush to the British Commission. Consider your condition and that of the kids, ask the right questions. If your kids are brought back, can you cater for them without chasing their father for support? If the kids are better off in the UK, could you have visitation rights and all? Would it be better if you could co-parent long distance? If after considering everything and your best option is to approach the British Commission, then do so by all means. May God strengthen you at this time. Your husband is a very mean man. An act like this could destroy a mother completely. Shame on all those who support this disgraceful demonic act. Op please try to establish communication with the man through his family especially. They probably knew of his plan but regardless, an amicable solution can still be reached. Hopefully, there are reasonable people in that family that can influence him. You don't have to stay married to raise your children. God help you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by posh4545(m): 9:41pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
if this your write-up is truth forget it you don't pay attentions to your kids how can a man plan all this without any of your kids telling you..u see your life.. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by lereinter(m): 9:54pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Is your husband a UK citizen? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by katyamizotta: 9:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: I wish you had turned the story around. Pretend to be a man whose wife abducted the kids and went to the UK. You would have received more help and information from people here. Most of the members of this forum do not think much of women, including women. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
I also want to add this: 1) No matter whether you are the worst wife on earth, does not give anyone right to take your biological kids from you without your consent. You owe no one an explanation about your marriage, I wonder why you included details about your marriage. Seriously that was uncalled for. The embassy knows that.the rules, so go find out whether a consent may have being faked on your behalf. 2) Stop involving his family members with your next plans. You need to contact an expert/lawyer immediately cos your life may be in danger. If a death certificate was faked for you, his family may be trailing your movement and planning to physically kill you inorder to silence you. This depends on your next move. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 9:58pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Gokoyer0: They will as well. The very reason why she should let him know before doing such so that they can have a discussion about the situation. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by 360command: 10:00pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
If truly he did that without the wife's consent,that is kidnapping. That alone is his crime, whatever reasons for that, judge won't hear. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Olaideolayemi(m): 10:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:don't say so!!everybody with there weakness... |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by providencia(m): 10:04pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Mynd44:So that the kids will come and suffer in this shithole country. Instead of u to advise the woman to make peace with the man through the man's family and go get her visa too. Na wa for una 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Olaideolayemi(m): 10:06pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
debbydams:I try to get in touch with you,but I don't know,how to reach you!!!I hope you feel better now ![]() |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by debbydams(f): 10:21pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Olaideolayemi:yes.thanks |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Mrgreg5295: 10:25pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel:including your dad |
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