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Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by joa2013: 11:01pm On Dec 26, 2020
If a woman you're legally married to denied you sex and you forcefully have your way with her, can that be described as rape?
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Bennysam: 11:02pm On Dec 26, 2020
joa2013:
If a woman you're legally married to denied you sex and you forcefully have your way with her, can that be described as rape?
Yes
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Beckysexy(f): 11:02pm On Dec 26, 2020
Yes. It is rape.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Henrywalker: 11:03pm On Dec 26, 2020
Since it's done with force and you guys are married, it can be called a domestic rape. But rape is rape, irrespective of how it happened. tongue
So better run from it like the guy below. tongue.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by yomi007k(m): 11:04pm On Dec 26, 2020
It can be termed some form of sexual abuse.


Best thing is to withdraw your commitment, attention and resources as she withdraws sex.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by GeneralPula: 11:05pm On Dec 26, 2020
A legal matrimonial rape..
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Henrywalker: 11:07pm On Dec 26, 2020
yomi007k:
It can be termed some form of sexual abuse.


Best thing is to withdraw your commitment, attention and resources as she withdraws sex.

Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Flows001(m): 11:15pm On Dec 26, 2020
All of the above comments are wrong.
@Op. Legally speaking, a man CANNOT rape his legally wedded wife. The consent she gave during the wedding runs throughout and the Law does not insist on her consenting to every sexual attempt by the man.
Summary: A man cannot be guilty of RAPING his lawfully wedded wife.
#Law Student.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by odinson1(m): 11:19pm On Dec 26, 2020
Beckysexy:
Yes. It is rape.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by chatinent: 11:23pm On Dec 26, 2020
I don't think so.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Openbusiness: 11:31pm On Dec 26, 2020
The terminology for it is "marital rape". In the past, marital rape was unrecognized and you couldn't legally prosecute a man for raping his wife. But during this new era of "women rights", more and more countries have began to recognize marital rape as a crime. However, it is still NOT a crime that can be readily prosecuted because HOW DO YOU PROVE A MAN RAPED HIS WIFE? They are legally married, he is not a stranger, they usually have been or have consensual sex, now suddenly the woman says the last sex we had was rape. But the 100 sex before that wasn't rape, so how does she prove the rape? Her testimony is not enough, and her penetration or semen deposit is not evidence of rape because her husband is her husband, not a stranger. So it is almost impossible to prove, even physical abuse or marks doesn't prove the sex was not consensual. Couples can have wild disagreement then next minute have make up sex. So because it is nearly impossible to prove, it is almost impossible to prosecute that in a court and win. You can take the case to court but since you can't prove your husband raped you, same guy you have always been having sex with all the time before, then end of case. So I agree with this student lawyer below:
Flows001:
All of the above comments are wrong.
@Op. Legally speaking, a man CANNOT rape his legally wedded wife. The consent she gave during the wedding runs throughout and the Law does not insist on her consenting to every sexual attempt by the man.
Summary: A man cannot be guilty of RAPING his lawfully wedded wife.
#Law Student.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by wwwkaycom(m): 11:31pm On Dec 26, 2020
Flows001:
All of the above comments are wrong.
@Op. Legally speaking, a man CANNOT rape his legally wedded wife. The consent she gave during the wedding runs throughout and the Law does not insist on her consenting to every sexual attempt by the man.
Summary: A man cannot be guilty of RAPING his lawfully wedded wife.
#Law Student.
A married female magistrate told me this many years ago. She said a man cannot be found guilty of raping his legally married wife except if either of the party (husband and wife) have filed for divorce in a court.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Offpoint1: 11:31pm On Dec 26, 2020
Any man who still have erection after the wife says no needs psychological evaluation.

Men learn the power of sex, it's gift embedded in your DNA. If you are really good with your craft, no matter the fight you have with your wife.. She can never turn down your sexual advances.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Openbusiness: 11:37pm On Dec 26, 2020
wwwkaycom:
A married female magistrate told me this many years ago. She said a man cannot be found guilty of raping his legally married wife except if either of the party (husband and wife) have filed for divorce in a court.
Your magistrate is correct. He can be ACCUSED, but he can't be proven guilty of rape. It is almost impossible to prove and the Court is about judgment based on proofs and evidence, not word of mouth alone. Unless maybe she has a camera that videoed the whole event when it happened. But which kind of couples will keep a camera recorder viewing themselves anytime they want to have sex, when it's not like they are shooting a porn movie.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by wwwkaycom(m): 11:57pm On Dec 26, 2020
Openbusiness:
Your magistrate is correct. He can be ACCUSED, but he can't be proven guilty of rape. It is almost impossible to prove and the Court is about judgment based on proofs and evidence, not word of mouth alone. Unless maybe she has a camera that videoed the whole event when it happened. But which kind of couples will keep a camera recorder viewing themselves anytime they want to have sex, when it's not like they are shooting a porn movie.
Good
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by frozen70(f): 12:13am On Dec 27, 2020
joa2013:
If a woman you're legally married to denied you sex and you forcefully have your way with her, can that be described as rape?

Once a woman is not willing to go down with you and you went ahead, it's a rape

It's supposed to be consentual

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Nobody: 12:28am On Dec 27, 2020
frozen70:


Once a woman is not willing to go down with you and you went ahead, it's a rape

It's supposed to be consentual
after paying for her dowry?

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:42am On Dec 27, 2020
Learn to distinguish between law and culture.

SmellySperm:

after paying for her dowry?

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by SimpDetector: 1:16am On Dec 27, 2020
This is why marriage is bullshit. Normally if a woman denies you sex you simple ignore her for days and find someone else to smash. It's her that will come begging for your attention and give you the pussy on a platter.

But since you have married her and sworn commitment to her, you don't have a choice but to bargain and beg for sex. And she knows you don't have a choice. Even when you decide to sleep around you are just soiling your name and reputation since you are bound to this woman by law and by religion.

Marriage is just an enterprise that favours women.

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by OGWILLS123: 1:40am On Dec 27, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
Learn to distinguish between law and culture.


Why didn't your father take law instead of dowry undecided
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Nobody: 2:01am On Dec 27, 2020
No man has ever and will ever be found guilty of raping his wife

They both made a vow
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by chinecherem97974: 9:31am On Dec 27, 2020
:It can be termed some form of sexual abuse.Best thing is to withdraw your commitment, attention and resources as she withdraws sex.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 10:04am On Dec 27, 2020
joa2013:
If a woman you're legally married to denied you sex and you forcefully have your way with her, can that be described as rape?

Yes
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by wwwkaycom(m): 10:14am On Dec 27, 2020
chinecherem97974:
:It can be termed some form of sexual abuse.Best thing is to withdraw your commitment, attention and resources as she withdraws sex.
This one tough o!
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Dreadlock69(m): 10:19am On Dec 27, 2020
Lemme talk like a guru
If she withdraw sex from you since that what she can offer mirror her also.
Don't eat her food ,don't give her anything she wants but give her what she needs, don't come home Everytime , be protective with your phone , Bleep other lady sex is free now why should you be begging for it, start dressing nice change wardrobe and put on cool accessories
Don't worry after this she will do giveaway for you .you can't use logic to mirror emotion it doesn't work just mirror the other person
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Mrscarter(f): 11:11am On Dec 27, 2020
joa2013:
If a woman you're legally married to denied you sex and you forcefully have your way with her, can that be described as rape?

Yes. It's still her body.
If U didn't want sex n she manage to force U somehow U wouldn't like it yeah?

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by hashtagged(m): 11:15am On Dec 27, 2020
According to the law she gave unlimited consent when she married you hence marital rape isn't possible even by force. Marriage is being one so your bodies belong to each other.

But there is another thing called morals and it's not nice to go against someone's will. If your wife doesn't give you sex don't force her, anything done with force is wrong, just go get a side chick and leave her alone and she should dare not conplain
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Flows001(m): 11:18am On Dec 27, 2020
wwwkaycom:
A married female magistrate told me this many years ago. She said a man cannot be found guilty of raping his legally married wife except if either of the party (husband and wife) have filed for divorce in a court.
It's true, that's the only exception, it's not necessarily filing for a decree of dissolution of marriage (divorce) in Court, it suffices if it is just an order for Judicial Separation(where both parties live apart). On a normal ground, no man can legally rape his lawfully wedded wife.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by nigeriansamurai(m): 12:28pm On Dec 27, 2020
PopSmoke:
No man has ever and will ever be found guilty of raping his wife

They both made a vow

OG ive seen a court case of domestic rape around April this year the wife won the case

it is a real crime my brother she can claim she was damaged (injured or bruised) anyhow you veiw its just as if she was beaten

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Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by BlessedNuel: 12:30pm On Dec 27, 2020
This matter get as e be
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by Shortyy(f): 12:51pm On Dec 27, 2020
Women are doomed.
Re: Is It Possible To Rape One's Wife? by mrblessed(m): 1:01pm On Dec 27, 2020
SmellySperm:

after paying for her dowry?
No, sir. Men pay bride price not dowry. We know most women weaponise sex, yet it is inappropriate to use force when she presents resistance.

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