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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by swimnigeria(m): 10:26pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Hmmm... Sorry story but truth be told, women are mostly the reason why a man would suddenly change and start to think of an alternative. Many men wouldn't consider to take a second wife but their wives attitude and behaviours are the reasons they feel pressed to consider this. Women will go to the mountain and do all manner of things to get a man hooked in the sham called marriage and when they eventually succeeds, they feel there is no need to build the home with the man, sad! You cannot be stressing your husband and expect him to endure your bad attitude and character all the days of his life in the name of marriage. Nigerian women are so fond of this. It's alot of logistics for a man to singlehandedly take 3 children away from their mother and take care of them in a Faraway country. This shows you are not a role model and can't be trusted with proper upbringing of your kids. It's not enough to just open your legs and have kids, you also need to be that pillar of care and a role model to your children. What stops you from buying your own ticket to the UK and meet your husband since you're both responsible for your kids? If you like, listen to the left people encouragingly you to go to the embassy and report, if you eventually succeed at deporting your husband, he'll return with your kids to this Shithole and marry you. To all aspiring mum out there, having kids in marriage is just a normal thing as even a goat can have kids. Support your husband and build with him, love and respect him and etc. All these doesn't cost you a thing.... Madam, go and seek the face of God in prayer and ask him to forgive you cos obviously, you've touched your husband at the deepest part the reason he did what he did..... Talking from experience....� 8 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by idahme(m): 10:33pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Slurity: it's bad what the man did, but most times women think they have the monopoly of crime to abscond with children. Most always threaten to abscond with kids, don't know why they do such. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by idahme(m): 10:42pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
PedroEastman: Wow, what an intriguing story.... 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by idahme(m): 10:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
muonemeleviw: That was a very Big joke on her part, even did it frequently according to her. That alone made her husband to declare mission impossible ghost protocol before she does it before him. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Lalas247(f): 11:06pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
First of all The man can bring the kids over to the UK as their biological father also if he can prove neglect from the mother side.... and frankly as a mother 3 children and you had no idea girllll take several seats ... There is no way absolutely no way he can get 3 passports without you knowing ... apply for visa which is another process where he will have to take the kids to the embassy also if he truly is in the UK do you think border force are like naija police ![]() Also he took 3 kids very rare for an irresponsible man to take his children! It's usually the opposite ... I'm just saying make it make sense please .... Any mother will get that there is no way he can take 3 kids ... you must have checked out of that marriage and if that's the case some level of neglect which will cost you your kids .... 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by grim33(m): 11:36pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Eat a fucking dick . You may be worse than the person in question ![]() Zzor: 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by King44(m): 12:07am On Dec 27, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:even if he is a drunk etc he can't just wake up and take the children away for no reason. You don't threaten a man that you would take his children away from him, if I was the man and I hear that from you I might make that make before you attmept it. Be sure that they are in UK Like someone said get a human right lawyer and contact the police, media houses, I don't know much about this but just try. But you started what might have prompted him to take the children away and if truly he is guilty of all those toxicity he is also at fault but you prompted the abduction or whatever. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Emperor4tune(m): 12:27am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Zzor:honestly this is the first time you have ever spoken sense on nairaland.,2021 must be a good year 4 all of us & may oluwa double ur hussle..i love you but think twice oo b4 u love me back..am a red piller not a simp ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 12:57am On Dec 27, 2020 |
humilitypays:Even if he wanted to take the kids, there is due process. He should apply for custody in courts. Follow due process. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 12:59am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Openbusiness:What are you talking about? It’s your type that will not let his wife sit in the living room with him, just to prove that he is the boss. I have no business with your likes, now shift. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 1:04am On Dec 27, 2020 |
InvertedHammer:Work with who? Did I inform you that I am jobless? I have seen how evil men like you maltreat women, and the most painful part of that domestic and psychological abuse is that you blame it in the victim. If the woman refuses to take it you vilify her. Insecure men who want to abuse women to prove their masculinity. May God deliver my daughters from you lot. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Thereishel: 1:07am On Dec 27, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: It's impossible for him to get Visa for them in embassy without your knowledge because they would ask questions about the mother. Another possibility is that he way tell them you are dead and presents a fake dead certificate |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 1:11am On Dec 27, 2020 |
dejol88:First of all its ‘prove’. Secondly, thank me for this legal education no matter how little, it might just save your ass from jail. When a man and woman have kids, one party cannot just take them away without the consent of the other. Doing so will land you in legal hot waters. First of the list of charges brought against you will be child abduction. Ok? I’m not here to fight anyone. Nigerian men don’t like a woman who says her mind. They like women who run mad or die in silence due to years of enduring an abusive marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Exodora: 1:52am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Many Nigerians are mentally deranged just imagine their comments . Nigeria is one last place you should sake for advice . Better kill yourself than asking Nigerians for a solution cos they will so much rubbish You. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Gokoyer0(m): 2:07am On Dec 27, 2020 |
I know pretty well that the kids will be deported as well. I am just amazed about some comments here. What is she gonna gain if those poor kids are forcefully ejected out of UK with thier father? I can bet it that the kids will never forgive her if she push for their deportation. The only way out of this is to resolve the couple's differences so that both of them can raise their kids together. If I don't hear the husband's side of stories, I ain't gonna judge anyone GboyegaD: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 2:12am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Gokoyer0: And how sure are you they will do well in the UK? It takes a home to raise good kids and for him to be able to take the kids without the wife knowing, there is a high tendency he is going to hustle. What that means is that he might not have enough time to raise the kids properly. My take is "omo ta ti bi yi ma travel, a se ori re". No need to rush things. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by NoToPile: 2:14am On Dec 27, 2020 |
It seems the craze for abroad has affected the thinking of some people. She should let 3 children go because they are in the UK? Very warped thinking. Terrible people everywhere. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Gokoyer0(m): 2:18am On Dec 27, 2020 |
If they are deported, I think the marriage will be much more difficult to redeem. So what difference is that gonna make in the lives of the poor kids? At the bolded, I can't really say anything about that. GboyegaD: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by sunnyfats: 2:20am On Dec 27, 2020 |
You yourself needs to calm down first, for the fact that you know they are fine wherever they are is good enough. Take time to rest from all the trauma. I would have blamed you a bit, but I LL let it pass. For your hubby to travel out with the children without your knowledge shows he's been planning it for long.....that you have no idea about all these is quite amazing. Becareful of your actions at the moment because if you force them back home(which you can do), what benefit if it going to be. The best you can do right now is to get the contact of your husband and start pleading for forgiveness, just incase you have offended him. I pray that the Lord will comfort you at this trying time and restore your family to you peacefully. Trust God for them, everything will be fine. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 2:26am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Gokoyer0: This isn't as difficult if both are sincere with themselves. They could have a discussion and think of a resolve. He acted unfair to her and would likely have lied to get his documents. Most importantly, , location isn't the only key to success. He should reach out and, they should find a resolve. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by tunapawizzy: 2:58am On Dec 27, 2020 |
authority2006:Yes, he is wrong if this story truly happened |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 3:24am On Dec 27, 2020 |
AdaNri1: You're also judgemental and there's no difference between you and her, cos your comment on the previous person you quoted proved that. You based your summation on your previous knowledge of something similar, hence you're also judgemental. A clear case of pot calling kettle black. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by efemena5050(m): 4:28am On Dec 27, 2020 |
Righteousness2:busy body |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by cococandy(f): 4:45am On Dec 27, 2020 |
NoToPile:it’s appalling 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:57am On Dec 27, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:you threatening and he execute. Leave them, your children will find you when the time come, they've escape this Sithole country, don't force them back, you don't know what their destiny hold, as for your husband, he will come back begging you mark my word. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:59am On Dec 27, 2020 |
NoToPile:and you are very terrible here in Nigeria but you don't know, |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 6:01am On Dec 27, 2020 |
NoToPile:and you are very terrible here in Nigeria but you don't know, if she can predict their destiny, how come she has no idea of the husband plans till they get to UK? She shouldn't tamper with her kids destiny and you can stay with your one Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by InvertedHammer: 6:20am On Dec 27, 2020 |
AdaNri1:/ Devil comes in both genders. Toxic women believe only men are evil--a man is always the aggressor. Yet we have had women who killed or ordered hits on their husbands. Is your husband still alive? If Yes, thank God. If no, what happened? / |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:49am On Dec 27, 2020 |
sunnyfats:women of this Era don’t apologies. They see it as let down. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Giantfarmer(m): 7:09am On Dec 27, 2020 |
AdaNri1:you just committee a fallacy....called Hasty generalization... don't say Nigeria men say some Nigerian men pls. and it also depends on The manner you express your mind.some women are verbally abusive 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Giantfarmer(m): 7:13am On Dec 27, 2020 |
InvertedHammer:and some women are verbally abusive which causes men emotional trauma... infact some of this women are quick to shout foul 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Openbusiness: 7:49am On Dec 27, 2020 |
AdaNri1:You have no business with my likes, so why are you mentioning my comment on this thread, when I never even quoted you before? Your self-confusion is legendary. Do I look like a man that wants anything to do with your likes of ultrasensitive bitter super-nagging low-IQ confused triggered females? Definitely not me! I only relate with and appreciate decent, graceful, well-mannered, refined, classy, humble wise women with maturity who respect, honor and are loyal to their husbands and use their wisdom and good character to build their home and marriage, and not tear it apart like tissue paper. You're obviously not in that category of women, so what's my concern with you? And I'm not responsible for your heartbreaks so don't wail at me abeg. (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞ That's the way out of my mentions. 2 Likes |
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