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8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 6:07pm On Dec 26, 2020
1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Bola146(f): 6:12pm On Dec 26, 2020
I love these
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 6:13pm On Dec 26, 2020
Bola146:
I love these
nice ma
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by chocboi78(m): 6:16pm On Dec 26, 2020
9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia grin

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Beckysexy(f): 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2020
chocboi78:
9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia grin
Thank you. smiley
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by TruthSeeker1: 6:33pm On Dec 26, 2020
The only problem is it's difficult these days to find a partner that will meet ALL of these conditions simultaneously.

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by virginprincess(f): 6:55pm On Dec 26, 2020
Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Danielomisco(m): 6:58pm On Dec 26, 2020
TruthSeeker1:
The only problem is it's difficult these days to find a partner that will meet ALL of these conditions simultaneously.
lol very few or No partner will fit in this all together
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Kobicove(m): 7:00pm On Dec 26, 2020
virginprincess:
Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.

And what about the lady?

Is she just going to be a passenger without bringing anything of value to the table? undecided

Those days where only one spouse carries the whole financial burden of the family are over!

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Womanizer(m): 7:02pm On Dec 26, 2020
Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.


Fvck love! Love does not exist! angry
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by virginprincess(f): 7:06pm On Dec 26, 2020
Kobicove:


And what about the lady?

Is she just going to be a passenger without bringing anything of value to the table? undecided

Those days where only one spouse carries the whole financial burden of the family are over!
So, what makes you a man if you can't carry the financial burdens undecided?
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Kobicove(m): 7:25pm On Dec 26, 2020
virginprincess:
So, what makes you a man if you can't carry the financial burdens undecided?

You had better purge yourself of that archaic mentality!

Marriage should not be seen as a pension or retirement home by lazy women

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Quality20(m): 7:29pm On Dec 26, 2020
Marry an intelligent woman even if she is stark illiterate
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by virginprincess(f): 7:34pm On Dec 26, 2020
Kobicove:


You had better purge yourself of that archaic mentality!

Marriage should not be seen as a pension or retirement home by lazy women
Okay.
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Nobody: 7:40pm On Dec 26, 2020
never marry because you feel it's time

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by tonyson010(m): 7:59pm On Dec 26, 2020
All these doesn't exist in one woman. All are just dreams.
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by yomi007k(m): 8:14pm On Dec 26, 2020
chocboi78:
9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia grin

Some years ago alot of people would say "marriage is not about money".

That statement has landed alot of men in regrettable tumultuous situations.

But what do I know. Just observing.

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by yomi007k(m): 8:15pm On Dec 26, 2020
tonyson010:
All these doesn't exist in one woman. All are just dreams.

Some people will mould their partner in the end using mud and clay when they discover that all the expectations are but a fallacy.

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Nazgul: 8:38pm On Dec 26, 2020
Good write up...I endorse this 100%

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Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by extol1(m): 8:52pm On Dec 26, 2020
queenserah26, what do you have to say because you are one of the very few intelligent lady on nl
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by VanDerWaalforces: 9:08pm On Dec 26, 2020
Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

Nice one!
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Lordswazz(m): 11:06pm On Dec 26, 2020
Are you not the lady that has been ranting for the past few days that your sister threw you out and you had no place to go?

Now now, na "8 advice for those who want to marry" naim you don dey write so. The way some jobless kids dey use old people for this forum catch cruise ehmmm!

The funny thing is that, people were genuinely worked up and were trying to proffer solutions to a made-up story. Chaiii!

Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by donogaga(m): 7:16am On Dec 27, 2020
Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.



Nice post.

However, truth be told, you can't get it all in one piece.

Compromise, wisdom, understanding and most importantly, the FEAR of God are very key when it comes to marriage institution.
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 7:19am On Dec 27, 2020
Lordswazz:
Are you not the lady that has been ranting for the past few days that your sister threw you out and you had no place to go?

Now now, na "8 advice for those who want to marry" naim you don dey write so. The way some jobless kids dey use old people for this forum catch cruise ehmmm!

The funny thing is that, people were genuinely worked up and were trying to proffer solutions to a made-up story. Chaiii!
grow up are you a clown? just because am in a difficult situation I can't post about advice ?
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Lordswazz(m): 7:58am On Dec 27, 2020
Jemiwizzy:
grow up are you a clown? just because am in a difficult situation I can't post about advice ?

Lie give who no get sense you hear? You were sounding completely disoriented, now now you don begin dey post advice. Na you Sabi.
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 8:45am On Dec 27, 2020
Lordswazz:


Lie give who no get sense you hear? You were sounding completely disoriented, now now you don begin dey post advice. Na you Sabi.
I bet you are a kid
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by FanOfMyself: 8:59am On Dec 27, 2020
Hey, have you gotten a place to stay already?
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by millionboi2: 9:30am On Dec 27, 2020
virginprincess:
Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.
Or u have

Edit ur post?expt u are also a tax collector
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by millionboi2: 9:33am On Dec 27, 2020
PopSmoke:
never marry because you feel it's time
Really
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 10:19am On Dec 27, 2020
FanOfMyself:
Hey, have you gotten a place to stay already?
yes I went to stay with me friend in Maraba for few days
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by FanOfMyself: 10:20am On Dec 27, 2020
Jemiwizzy:
yes I went to stay with me friend in Maraba for few days
Are you Fulani?
Re: 8 Advice For Those Who Wants To Marry by Jemiwizzy(f): 10:24am On Dec 27, 2020
FanOfMyself:
Are you Fulani?
why did you ask?

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