1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

I love these

Bola146:
I love these

nice ma

9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia

chocboi78:
9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia

Thank you.

The only problem is it's difficult these days to find a partner that will meet ALL of these conditions simultaneously.

Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.

TruthSeeker1:
The only problem is it's difficult these days to find a partner that will meet ALL of these conditions simultaneously.

lol very few or No partner will fit in this all together

virginprincess:
Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.

And what about the lady?

Is she just going to be a passenger without bringing anything of value to the table?

Those days where only one spouse carries the whole financial burden of the family are over!

Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

Fvck love! Love does not exist!

Kobicove:


And what about the lady?

Is she just going to be a passenger without bringing anything of value to the table?

Those days where only one spouse carries the whole financial burden of the family are over!

So, what makes you a man if you can't carry the financial burdens ?

virginprincess:
So, what makes you a man if you can't carry the financial burdens ?

You had better purge yourself of that archaic mentality!

Marriage should not be seen as a pension or retirement home by lazy women

Marry an intelligent woman even if she is stark illiterate

Kobicove:


You had better purge yourself of that archaic mentality!

Marriage should not be seen as a pension or retirement home by lazy women

Okay.

never marry because you feel it's time

All these doesn't exist in one woman. All are just dreams.

chocboi78:
9..be financially stable or else, u go soffia

Some years ago alot of people would say "marriage is not about money".

That statement has landed alot of men in regrettable tumultuous situations.

But what do I know. Just observing.

tonyson010:
All these doesn't exist in one woman. All are just dreams.

Some people will mould their partner in the end using mud and clay when they discover that all the expectations are but a fallacy.

Good write up...I endorse this 100%

queenserah26, what do you have to say because you are one of the very few intelligent lady on nl

Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

Nice one!

Are you not the lady that has been ranting for the past few days that your sister threw you out and you had no place to go?

Now now, na "8 advice for those who want to marry" naim you don dey write so. The way some jobless kids dey use old people for this forum catch cruise ehmmm!

The funny thing is that, people were genuinely worked up and were trying to proffer solutions to a made-up story. Chaiii!

Jemiwizzy:

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

Nice post.

However, truth be told, you can't get it all in one piece.

Compromise, wisdom, understanding and most importantly, the FEAR of God are very key when it comes to marriage institution.

Lordswazz:
Are you not the lady that has been ranting for the past few days that your sister threw you out and you had no place to go?

Now now, na "8 advice for those who want to marry" naim you don dey write so. The way some jobless kids dey use old people for this forum catch cruise ehmmm!

The funny thing is that, people were genuinely worked up and were trying to proffer solutions to a made-up story. Chaiii!

grow up are you a clown? just because am in a difficult situation I can't post about advice ?

Jemiwizzy:
grow up are you a clown? just because am in a difficult situation I can't post about advice ?

Lie give who no get sense you hear? You were sounding completely disoriented, now now you don begin dey post advice. Na you Sabi.

Lordswazz:


Lie give who no get sense you hear? You were sounding completely disoriented, now now you don begin dey post advice. Na you Sabi.

I bet you are a kid

Hey, have you gotten a place to stay already?

virginprincess:
Nice write-up, also the guy must have something tangible doing.

Or u have

Edit ur post?expt u are also a tax collector

PopSmoke:
never marry because you feel it's time

Really

FanOfMyself:
Hey, have you gotten a place to stay already?

yes I went to stay with me friend in Maraba for few days

Jemiwizzy:
yes I went to stay with me friend in Maraba for few days

Are you Fulani?

FanOfMyself:
Are you Fulani?

why did you ask?