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Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
I thought I was the only one finding hard to fall in love. But how can you marry someone you don't love? There's this guy that has been pestering me. He has everything a woman can ever hope for, but I don't just feel anything for him; or love him. I can't date someone I don't love not to talk of marrying them. 6 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Hisincrease: 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
No. You can love when you marry. Forget all these fall in love stuffs. Marriage is by calculation and God's grace. 9 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Gentlebabs(m): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
A Poem: Love Is Not Enough Curtains drawn as in a Shakespearean play nightfall in paradise in a steamy session cuddling and murmurings still, we didn't hear a word - No doubt, we are in love! Never felt this way nor this secured. Just like a cub in a pride this seemed like home. It was for us a beginning the beginning of an end. No more games! The time has come to hang this booth. Make me a home and focus on tomorrow the one that is filled with hopes. But I am in love! In this journey of "Yes I Do" is love just enough? What about my dreams does it matter to him? He never talks about it. Is this a red flag? I worshiped you Diana when you said "love is all that matters". Did you think about compatibility? What if he doesn't like 69? What if he is SS? Diana, just what if...? Today in my world the economic pendulum is swinging fast in favour of women. What if he is not willing to work? So many “what ifs” left unanswered. But I love you... Is love just enough? We can plan for years use the best wedding planner hire the best artist. So much buzz and pageantry put into an event of one day. What about the marriage? What if she still has baggage? I love sex, she doesn't; I love to club, but he'll pass. Should I lose my life because of marriage? But I'm in love... Doesn't love conquer all? Should I just submit and how for the best? Love is not enough! The real question should be are we really compatible? I have gone through my checklist and suddenly realised we are in love, but incompatible. So, this is where the road ends for decision decides destiny. Babatunde Raimi Author, Life Coach & Poet +2348178827380 & +2348035063895 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by DonBenny77(m): 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
No pls |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
whyteteeth: Give your life to Jesus first and stop having premarital sex upandan. Then you'd get a woman youll fall in love with. 9 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Omezif(m): 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Marriage can be define as the legal relationship between a husband and wife. |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by MondayOsunbor(m): 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Ikjosh04: Oga forget all these bullshit ! Just get money the rest will get in place.money can buy you love in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by kiddkash(m): 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
I prefer growing in love tan marrying for love |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Jonra(m): 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
It's better to walk in love, than to fall in love! You see, falling in love is too risky. But shining ya eyes and walking in 'love' is the way to go. Now, suppose you meet a woman, she looks great and appeals to you - sexually; walking in Love would mean: - Delaying the kissing and close physical contact that could lead to practical strangers sleeping together - TRP brothers sha no go gree But guy too much too soon, and heavy emotional clouds will blind you from really knowing the other person - everything go just be vibes on vibes. Anyways, instead of finding the right person, falling in love, fixing all your hopes and dreams on that one person; try becoming the right person, fix your hope on God and seek to please him through your relationship (I assume you are Christian). If failure occurs, repeat steps 1,2,3... PS: Do as I say 2 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Farki: 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
You can kidnap her and see how it goes, the North does it just fine. |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by TONIOI: 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Ask Google |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Seyzcham91(m): 7:37pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Was Regina In Love With Ned Nwoko before Marriage? Think Of This First before Anything Olunmercy56: |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by ukaface(f): 7:37pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
If I marry without loving my partner,how will I cope in the marriage? Live as enemies? Or friends? Or strangers? With love every other thing in marriage can be put in place. I think at the initial phase of marriage love is needed, paramount. Imagine living with a partner for years with no love, everything would be bland Na. 3 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Lightangel65: 7:37pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
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Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by favour32(m): 7:37pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Na you sabi as na only you ask question and na only get the answer. |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by uthlaw: 7:38pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1:this is just the fact,they marry who is ready or capable but men marry for love....our mumu don do! |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Hisincrease: 7:38pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Olunmercy56:This is not true. You can marry someone you are not in love with. On the condition that he/she is valuable and is ready to join hands with you to make the marriage work. Love is like a seed, it can be planted consciously and nurtured to grow. Husbands love thy wife, not boyfriends love thy girlfriend. 2 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
I'm 24, I have same problem as you inability to love women. I hope to get married at age 34 to any good lady around me by then....I don't have to necessary love her... 4 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: Marrying for love is a major reason many mnarraiges collapse. You need to enter a marraige with a clear head. if you marry a compatible partner chosen with a clear head you will grow to love each other. if you marry out of love you will ignore the danger signs that will come back to haunt you. 8 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by patani(m): 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Aileexa1: May God increase your wisdom... Few women know this 1 Like |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Farki: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Brownpeanut: Is he ugly? 1 Like |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by bossvitality(m): 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Yes. fall, fall and fall again before u marry |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by jaxxy(m): 7:42pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
whyteteeth: To be inlove u must 1st know what it means to be inlove. Some people are just confused about a lot of things. Being inlove isn’t automatic or instant. It’s a combination of things u like and value in a person/partner over time. 2, to be inlove u must know what u want. Do u even know what Ure searching for and does it exist?? 3. Why haven’t u met anyone all this while to fall inlove with or even close? Are u restricting or suppressing ur emotions? Are u confused about ur emotions and the concept of love? Are moving with the wrong crowd?? 4. What are the issues with the people u have met sofar and what’s the reason u don’t seem to love or fall inlove with them? 5. Do u believe in love?? U have to believe in it to an extent to experience it or Smtn close to it. 6. Can u handle love?? Are u mature for love? Can u win it and can u afford to loose it? Love is not obsession. 7. Lastly.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Sofistcatdmoron: 7:42pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Marriage na scam |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 7:43pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Farki: No, he isn't. He's this kind of guy that thinks money is all that matters. |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Love is an illusion. What people term as love is sex or lust, it is a trap. Marry a woman that is willing to submit to you. 10 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by descarado: 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
First of all define love What does love mean to you. From there u can continue |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by judedwriter(m): 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Marriage is built on love. Initially it's all about physical attraction, but love is what sustains marriage. Just like bees are attracted to honey, your partner's physical appearance draws you to him or her, but your ability to love your partner despite all their flaws, takes time, even a lifetime! I wouldn't advise you to enter any marriage until you have learnt how to love your partner really very well. Marriage is full of risks and ups and downs. It's not about infatuation or physical attractiveness. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by richie240: 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
U r asking d wrong question! The right question shd be: "is he/she the right one 4me?" Love can fade. How else do u think divorce rate is ds high? U think those guys didn't love themselves b4 saying "I do"? Shine ur aiz lest u/ur marriage be added to d numbers. whyteteeth: 1 Like |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Denique(f): 7:47pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
@whyteteeth, start with listing out what you seek/desire in a woman. Check among your many options to see the one that ticks most of the boxes, then, try to build the love. You can't love in totality in one day. It's a process. It's part of your marital growth. As you grow older together, you tend to love her more. Good luck finding her 3 Likes |
Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by descarado: 7:47pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Brownpeanut:U can't date someone u don't love 1 Like
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Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Juicethekid: 7:47pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
No you must fall inside a gutter before you marry |
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