Sanchez01:

There is no conventional approach to it. The essence of pushing for a DNA test in the first place is as a result of suspicion. A cheating woman will get angry and throw tantrums when confronted or told to her face. In a situation whereby the man tells the wife and she knows deep down that the man isn't the father of the child, there are chances that she will result to emotional blackmail and vain threats.

Blood stained garments, chewing gum, cigarette butt, licked envelope, licked stamp, semen stain, skin tissue, toothbrush, fingernail clippings, snotty tissue, hair, earwax on cotton bud, used band aid, etc are samples needed for paternity test. One can get one or more without having to tell the wife.

Anyways, I have seen too many upclose dramas just around November-December of 2020 to suggest that men owe themselves DNA tests of their kids to avoid stories.

Ladyhippolyta88:

They truly are no wonder they impregnate the wives of their fellow men

decimator:
Just did mine in Nov 2020. 2 children and myself cost 250k.
Test excluded me as the biological one. I plan to sue her for false allegation, character assassination, obtaining by tricks etc. except I get a public apology.

iamyemiakins:


You've been asslicking ur fellow evening newspapers for a while now. Stay one place, no confuse the thunder wey go fire all of una.

Sanchez01:

I could have liked this post if I didn't experience an over-one-year adultery case, involving devoted, fine lady who has been married for six years and the church's keyboardist. I guess they are not 'in the Lord' people, shey?

nams77:
Well it should be around 100-150k.
If you are in warri, I can give you referral

Ishilove:

Well spoken

GboyegaD:


Nonetheless, it still remains the man saying he needs conduct the test for his comfort. Some do have doubts that are genuine while many are just band wagon effects.

Another thing I have come to conclude is that our married men are cheating with other people's wives for them to start getting on the edge once DNA is mentioned. In essence, both parties are very guilty.

CalliDora1:


Test the spirit to know those are truly regenerated souls not just church goers pretending to be born-again. But to be able to do this, you too must be a certified and true born-again xtian.

Not all that call him Lord will enter His kingdom.

Sanchez01:

It is a vicious cycle. News of paternity crime do not freak me anymore because I have been hearing about it almost all my life and have witnessed it up close. Worse is the fact that it is among religious folks. Trust is the primary reason why any man will push for a DNA test and it will be unwise to stoke an already tensed environment by announcing to one's wife that you would love to subject your kids to a DNA test. It is not worth it. There are certain secrets worth taking to one's grave and one of such is a DNA test, save you understand that you are married to an extremely forgiving and forgetful woman. If it isn't the case, you might as well be ready to invite both families and explain why you did or thought about doing what you did or want to do.

irrefragable:
we are not fighting or competing against each other. Moral sense dictates that You should support the bill irrespective of whether men make up lawmakers or not.

Sanchez01:

Test the spirit ofo wo The lady in question claimed she has married a virgin and kept a no-sex-until-until-marriage policy but six years down the line, she was booking hotels around her area, rendezvousing with the church's keyboardist...

The Zonal pastor that was caught claimed he had never cheated on his wife before while the woman swore before a council that she had never cheated before...

The national music director who is a saxophonist was ready to die with his secret until he took ill and was near death before the G.O charged him to confess. The same man that the Holy Spirit isn't far from his mouth.

You cannot 'test the spirit' of men and you wrongly applied the passage. Humans are erratic and capable of doing the opposite of what they swore they wouldn't do with time. These things aren't new from where I am standing.

Even the scripture says the heart of man is DESPERATELY WICKED.

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

GboyegaD:


Why act like a coward? There is no crime asking for a DNA test and the man should be able to face whatever the outcome is.
Truth is that we all are sneaky irrespective of gender from the reactions I have read.

Karleb:


Boss, stop wasting time with that fellow.


Obviously, she is just repeating what her pastor said on the pulpit.

Reality is often disappointing, sadly.

GboyegaD:


This is the easiest thing in my opinion. I guess one of our challenges is that we live to please the society otherwise, it is no big deal to say I'm suspicious and have a discussion around it.

The test should be because the man is still not convinced after the discussion about paternity of the child/children involved. At that point, it only helps for the sanity of those involved. Most importantly, both should be ready to face the outcome of the test.

It is unfair if the man feels the wife would leave if he's the father because she feels insecured and doing such secretly without her knowledge means the man wants to eat his cake and have it.

ehinmowo:


If you have to have eternal problem in your relationship. Tell your wife you want to do DNA test. The hatred will compound when the result come out negative.

Sanchez01:

I don't intend to goof here and I apologise if at all I do but I doubt you have ever dealt with a woman owing to trust. The moment you let it out is the day things begin to fall apart, EVEN IF SHE IS INDEED CHEATED OR HAD CHEATED IN THE PAST. Everything will come pouring after that.

I wouldn't even counsel my most hated enemy to inform the wife of a paternity DNA test. The allegation is grave, albeit indirect.

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

Sanchez01:

Test the spirit ofo wo The lady in question claimed she has married a virgin and kept a no-sex-until-until-marriage policy but six years down the line, she was booking hotels around her area, rendezvousing with the church's keyboardist...

The Zonal pastor that was caught claimed he had never cheated on his wife before while the woman swore before a council that she had never cheated before...

The national music director who is a saxophonist was ready to die with his secret until he took ill and was near death before the G.O charged him to confess. The same man that the Holy Spirit isn't far from his mouth.

You cannot 'test the spirit' of men and you wrongly applied the passage. Humans are erratic and capable of doing the opposite of what they swore they wouldn't do with time. These things aren't new from where I am standing.

Even the scripture says the heart of man is DESPERATELY WICKED.

CalliDora1:


Do you trust boko haram? Go spend a night in sambisa forest even without losing any guard and see .

YourCoffin:
I don't know why Nigerians especially the women see DNA testing as an abomination. It should have been a normal procedure by now. In the US before a father's name is appended on a child's birth certificate, a DNA test is usually carried out. Same thing should be applicable here.

AltCtrlDel:
Help!!! Pls Where Can I Do DNA/Paternity Test & How Much?

Please help a brother

DaniDani:


Pls give me referal. Pls direct me on how to go about it in Warri.

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

RisenPhoenix1:


My sister. Trusting someone does not mean that the person cannot cheat you. Let us trust, and still do our due diligence. A positive DNA result will even make the man's heart grow fonder; and if he's paying for it, how does it disturb you?

If I was a woman, I'll even insist on my husband doing DNA test after every birth...unless... I want to hide something of course.

decimator:
Just did mine in Nov 2020. 2 children and myself cost 250k.
Test excluded me as the biological one. I plan to sue her for false allegation, character assassination, obtaining by tricks etc. except I get a public apology.

TransAtlanticEx:
I heard the procedure is expensive too even though I don't know how expensive it is.
Cc missjekyll unfortunately
Medics
Dokyoloye ,ogbuefi677