GboyegaD:


Oga, post the version you read on here because I have enough corporate experience to know that provided it was consensual, he did nothing wrong.

Corporate experience and you don't understand why this scenario is wrong or the lack of ethics displayed here? No wonder this country is how it is. Educate yourself. I won't do it for you.

Same way Nigerians normalize harassment, then they get outside the country and don't even understand what they have done wrong when they display their 'normal' attitudes.

Smh

Useless MD ..he won't die well if truly he caused the destruction of an innocent man's home and life..he will end in sudden calamity

favor914:
Bet my bottom dollar least she will have is a green card, her children are American Citizens, you can’t imagine the amount of money he would have pushed to her codedly. Md probably already bought a house in the Children’s name in the US.

You are right. But remember even in US politicians, governors, senatoes, even presidents have been punished for engaging in illicit affairs. Am i lying?

So who is this woman that they will excuse her?

GboyegaD:


It has got nothing to do with excusing any act here. Was there any situation that had to do with a party being manipulated? If it was consensual, why can't they? Your position will only hold weight if you can show evidence of either manipulation or undue favoritism.

Are u sure u read d comment/post to which u responded to?

Charly68:
Useless MD ..he won't die well if truly he caused the destruction of an innocent man's home and life..he will end in sudden calamity

Amen!

DarkJeddi:
So why tear your pants on top of the matter?
The Bank has officially opened an inquiry into the story..
If he is guilty,he should be ready to bear the consequences of his actions.

Sure what did he do, that Adam & Eve did not do in Eden in the serpent mythology? or King David did not do? Promiscuity is a part of life, It is a known fact that the poor like to see the rich fall from grace, is what they take pride in, so I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do? But you will be disappointed as usual.

baralatie:

ehn!
sex between an m.d and a married employee is legal to you?

What is the illegality here, I pray tell? If you talk about it from a moral perspective, I would agree based on my moral compass however, my moral compass is not sufficient to judge someone else.

tot:


Corporate experience and you don't understand why this scenario is wrong or the lack of ethics displayed here? No wonder this country is how it is. Educate yourself. I won't do it for you.

Same way Nigerians normalize harassment, then they get outside the country and don't even understand what they have done wrong when they display their 'normal' attitudes.

Smh

You don't need to write too much grammer, point the evidence of harassment here and stop acting.

favor914:
Mention one MD in Nigeria you know that lost his job for sleeping with another man’s wife, on the contrary you will be given a part on the back, they all do it, this is Nigeria.

Why don't you go ahead and tell us how many MDs that you know of,that have been sleeping and fathering children of his married staff?
You can't ask an accused to prove his innocence,you are the person to prove his guilt..
So,go ahead and give us a list of Bank MDs and the married women they impregnated and went scot free.

AsiwajuNdigbo:


Ol boy, point to any society in humanity that allows a scandal like this without a consequence to the offending parties. Name just one.

The case of Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky is one. It was consensual and that was the president of the world's most powerful nation.

AsiwajuNdigbo:


You are right. But remember even in US politicians, governors, senatoes, even presidents have been punished for engaging in illicit affairs. Am i lying?

So who is this woman that they will excuse her?

Tell me one that was punished for having extra marital affairs? JFK was sleeping with Marilyn Monroe? Americans that like to dock like rabbits? Even if you come out as gay chances are you will even be elevated.

GboyegaD:


You don't need to write too much grammer, point the evidence of harassment here and stop acting.

Go and educate yourself, ignorance is dangerous. Ethics. Corp governance. Compliance. Financial institutions. Google is your friend.

GboyegaD:


What is the illegality here, I pray tell? If you talk about it from a moral perspective, I would agree based on my moral compass however, my moral compass is not sufficient to judge someone else.

It may not be illegal,but it is against the ETHICS of his profession and that is not a matter of an individuals moral compass..

ijustdey:
Culled from https://www.nairaland.com/6339937/fcmb-md-adam-nuru-sex

......More than 1,200 people have signed a petition accusing Adam Nuru of an illicit affair that led to the death of the spouse of the bank's former employee



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/434468-alleged-paternity-scandal-fcmb-to-probe-md-as-many-demand-his-sack.html

Those that signed thay petition should also sign petition for bandits and killer herdsmen to be caught, and all service chiefs who are aiding and abetting them to be sacked

tot:


Go and educate yourself, ignorance is dangerous. Ethics. Corp governance. Compliance. Financial institutions. Google is your friend.

Oga, you said nothing. If you have a stronger evidence put it out and stop trying to act smarter than you are. Good evening.

GboyegaD:


Oga, post the version you read on here because I have enough corporate experience to know that provided it was consensual, he did nothing wrong.

Consensual sex between persons not in a solemn oath is allowed.

It is forbidden between parties in a solemn commitment.

Adam Nuru is probably a muslim, i dont know but assuming here. His religion forbids what he did. His arewa culture forbids what he did. The woman is Yoruba, where in yoruba culture or Ifa is a married woman permitted to have "consensual sex" with men other than her husband?

Ladies, if this guy ever toast you walk away. This is one that will break your heart in future. He will marry you and start engaging in consensual sex with women outside and supporting children outside. Watch out! Mark him.

DarkJeddi:
It may not be illegal,but it is against the ETHICS of his profession and that is not a matter of an individuals moral compass..

Thank you o, I don't understand what is so hard to understand in this. Very disappointing seeing the kind of comments here.

DarkJeddi:
It may not be illegal,but it is against the ETHICS of his profession and that is not a matter of an individuals moral compass..

What ethics? You need to prove beyond doubt that there was some manipulation or undue favor and if there is none that can be proved, then they did nothing wrong ethically.

All I see people blaming Mr. Adams for falling in love with a married woman, it's not an uncommon occurrence and there are more questions that beg for answers for example:
1. How did he not know that the kids are not his?
2. How did Mr. Adams and his baby mama cause his death? it's been over 2 years since she left with her kids.
3. There was no love in their home and he ignored the signs and all this emerging news is just propaganda.
4. What if the man had issues with making babies?
I feel for the family of the dead man, but this man ignored the signs and let everyone move on.

GboyegaD:


Oga, you said nothing. If you have a stronger evidence put it out and stop trying to act smarter than you are. Good evening.

Heya, wearing ignorance proudly like a badge. Good evening to you too.

was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?
was TUNDE also not a staff of FCMB ?

favor914:
Sure what did he do, that Adam & Eve did not do in Eden in the serpent mythology? or King David did not do? Promiscuity is a part of life, It is a known fact that the poor like to see the rich fall from grace, is what they take pride in, so I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do? But you will be disappointed as usual.

Bla Bla Bla..
He is an employee of the bank and he is held accountable for his conducts..
If he is found guilty of breaching the ETHICS of his profession,then he should be ready to face the consequences..
David,Adam and Eve does not have anything to do with the issue on the ground..

DarkJeddi:
It may not be illegal,but it is against the ETHICS of his profession and that is not a matter of an individuals moral compass..

Ethics in Nigeria, You must be kidding? Even Pastors are the worse dawgs, Md’s are learners, Naija a country filled with hypocrites. Obasanjo’s son accused his wife of sleeping with Baba, Baba blamed the woman? You Hypocrites should go and sit down on the floor. Hypocrites.

AsiwajuNdigbo:


Consensual sex between persons not in a solemn oath is allowed.

It is forbidden between parties in a solemn commitment.

Adam Nuru is probably a muslim, i dont know but assuming here. His religion forbids what he did. His arewa culture forbids what he did. The woman is Yoruba, where in yoruba culture or Ifa is a married woman permitted to have "consensual sex" with men other than her husband?

Ladies, if this guy ever toast you walk away. This is one that will break your heart in future. He will marry you and start engaging in consensual sex with women outside and supporting children outside. Watch out! Mark him.

Please grow up, the man is not claiming to be mohammed or jesus christ. No one has heard from the dead man or from the ex wife or the Mr. Adam. We are all speculating without hearing from all sides.

DarkJeddi:
Bla Bla Bla..
He is an employee of the bank and he is held accountable for his conducts..
If he is found guilty of breaching the ETHICS of his profession,then he should be ready to face the consequences..
David,Adam and Eve does not have anything to do with the issue on the ground..

What of Obasanjo? Baba Straffer who complained, who removed him, when he was accused of sleeping with his sons wife? so many big men, don’t want to mention tribe have been accused of sleeping with their children, why all these hypocrisy about 2 consenting adults actions?

Globad:
Looks like a complicated case

Your are on point.
With respect to the dead( Mr Thomas),who couldn't absorbed the shock as nobody knew what he was going through but let's face the facts and reality:
- Many are talking on emotions not law and emotions has no basis in law! For there is no morality in Economics,it's law is on supply and demand!
- Three people are involved here- Mr Thomas,who weded Moyo as wife and the Oga-patapata-Nuru of FCMB.
Mr Thomas( gentle) is dead,nothing concerns him again,as the Contract has ended.
Madam(Mrs) Moyo Thomas- who decided to cheat on the husband,was also a former Staff of the same bank as the 'Big'Chief( MD).If you ever worked in Financial Institutions,you know these women have over-riding power.Very,very Powerful.They go to any extent to get what they want including going out with the top executives in many of these organizations to earn accelerated promotions,live a bigger than lives,thus careless about any consequences.These are the real deal in most organizations and is common and well known to the Public that is crying black and blue now.How come the man could not identified the Children by some notable features- nose,facial appearance,toes etc,still baffles me! The late Abiola then knew all his children through flappy ears!
How come,this lady had been going up and down- traveling here and there with the kids,without any resistance by the husband is a big question yet to be answered!
Mrs Moyo Thomas- entered a marriage as a contract with Mr Thomas(Gentle), not with the Bank MD!
She looked and covet favour of the 'big man' like many of us do,pray and fast for and she got it through dubious manner and by stabbing her husband on the back,which many do and are still doing till date.She is the Devil in humans clothing,she is the hoe ready and indeed dagger her husband to death through her action.She did not care if the Marriage crumbles and indeed just did that by her actions. To cover her misdeeds,she relocated to America and claimed an alibi.Terrible!
Oga- MD is a worker like aunty Moyo.
Is this man a Pope? Is he Born Again as a Christian that obeys one-man- one- wife rule or we( the Public) just wants t punish the M D for being a big man?
Was any Marriage contract signed between him and Moyo?
Supposed this MD is of another faith - says a Muslim,does he has means of getting and taking care of another wife and if the answer is yes,his major problem is that he should have insisted that Moyo should file for a divorce and then possibly claim the children! The man that died may still be alive after all.
For now emotional outbursts may not help and Oga MD might escape.The only thing is the Image of the Bank which the Social Media and the Bloggers have been pounding on.Time will tell where the pendulum swings.Immorality, especially in Marriage is the last weapons of the devil in modern life.Let us Pray!

She's pulling two people down hmmmm

GboyegaD:


What ethics? You need to prove beyond doubt that there was some manipulation or undue favor and if there is none that can be proved, then they did nothing wrong ethically.

Do we really have to go into what is ethical and non ethical about a Bank MD sleeping and impregnating married staff?
Really?
There are reasons such acts are frown on by companies and we are witness to it..
You don't think that this SCANDAL is a situation that the bank would prefer to not be dragged into?
DISREPUTE,that is the word you should look into..

favor914:
What of Obasanjo? Baba Straffer who complained, who removed him, when he was accused of sleeping with his sons wife? so many big men, don’t want to mention tribe have been accused of sleeping with their children, why all these hypocrisy about 2 consenting adults actions?

Like I said..
IF he is found guilty of breach of ETHICS,he should be ready to face the consequences..
That everybody is doing it,doesn't make it right..
When you are in a sensitive position,be careful how you conduct your business..

DarkJeddi:
What's complicated about the matter?
Those children looks suspiciously like him and it is evident for everyone to see..
Blood doesn't lie..

Try and reconcile: "looks suspiciously like him" and evident for everyone to see"

Bluntemperor:


Your are on point.
With respect to the dead( Mr Thomas),who couldn't absorbed the shock as nobody knew what he was going through but let's face the facts and reality:
- Many are talking on emotions not law and emotions has no basis in law! For there is no morality in Economics,it's law is on supply and demand!
- Three people are involved here- Mr Thomas,who weded Moyo as wife and the Oga-patapata-Nuru of FCMB.
Mr Thomas( gentle) is dead,nothing concerns him again,as the Contract has ended.
Madam(Mrs) Moyo Thomas- who decided to cheat on the husband,was also a former Staff of the same bank as the 'Big'Chief( MD).If you ever worked in Financial Institutions,you know these women have over-riding power.Very,very Powerful.They go to any extent to get what they want including going out with the top executives in many of these organizations to earn accelerated promotions,live a bigger than lives,thus careless about any consequences.These are the real deal in most organizations and is common and well known to the Public that is crying black and blue now.How come the man could not identified the Children by some notable features- nose,facial appearance,toes etc,still baffles me! The late Abiola then knew all his children through flappy ears!
How come,this lady had been going up and down- traveling here and there with the kids,without any resistance by the husband is a big question yet to be answered!
Mrs Moyo Thomas- entered a marriage as a contract with Mr Thomas(Gentle), not with the Bank MD!
She looked and covet favour of the 'big man' like many of us do,pray and fast for and she got it through dubious manner and by stabbing her husband on the back,which many do and are still doing till date.She is the Devil in humans clothing,she is the hoe ready and indeed dagger her husband to death through her action.She did not care if the Marriage crumbles and indeed just did that by her actions. To cover her misdeeds,she relocated to America and claimed an alibi.Terrible!
Oga- MD is a worker like aunty Moyo.
Is this man a Pope? Is he Born Again as a Christian that obeys one-man- one- wife rule or we( the Public) just wants t punish the M D for being a big man?
Was any Marriage contract signed between him and Moyo?
Supposed this MD is of another faith - says a Muslim,does he has means of getting and taking care of another wife and if the answer is yes,his major problem is that he should have insisted that Moyo should file for a divorce and then possibly claim the children! The man that died may still be alive after all.
For now emotional outbursts may not help and Oga MD might escape.The only thing is the Image of the Bank which the Social Media and the Bloggers have been pounding on.Time will tell where the pendulum swings.Immorality, especially in Marriage is the last weapons of the devil in modern life.Let us Pray!

The highlighted is everything, Hypocrites they don’t care, a person in misery, only wants others to be in misery like them, that is why I tag them poverty minded. They fear the one they call wifey is doing the same thing, which is 90% affirmative.

Globad:


Try and reconcile: "looks suspiciously like him" and evident for everyone to see"

You that is talking,don't you see the resemblances to the man?
I don't know the whole story,but those children are carbon copies of his PHENOTYPE..