Nazgul:

My brother telling a girl you claim to love such thing is a direct insult. You're clearly accusing her of cheating without any proof. You must give her the benefit of doubt most especially if she's the loyal type. I wouldn't advice it, I mean why destroy your marriage before it even begins.

The best would be to do it secretly, if the kids are yours then it remains a secret, if they aren't, then you can take whatever action you dim fit to take. But it wouldn't be wise accusing her of sleeping around based on what you heard or read from social media.

Bros love at this generation that don’t care how you feel, I’m married with a kid, before we start talking about marriage I told her that we will run a DNA test on our kids though I say it indirectly

Tony142:





Do it separately, let your wife do her own DNA test 1st , after that then go and do your own DNA test in a different hospital, then compare your result with that of your wife



Note: the hospital u will do yours should be different from the one your wife did hers, and she should not know the name of the hospital were u did yours

Why all this stress. It is easier you just do it even without her consent.

Shortyy:


Why did you lie to your wife that you're fertile when you're not? Na wa o.

Abi u no wan make the lady carry her own child ni? Ig a bu ogbenye buru amusu?

What you can't do, another man has done it for you. Be grateful.

You are deviating from what you said initially. You said a woman should drag her man to do paternity test.

Now you end up saying something different.

Kalatium:


You are deviating from what you said initially. You said a woman should drag her man to do a paternity test.

Now you end up saying something different.

Yes, a woman should drag her man to do a paternity test. Very very important.

And I wasn't deviating to anywhere. I was simply answering your question.

Nazgul:

It is the right of every woman to demand a fertility test from any man she wants to marry. If she doesn't do that, then she has herself to blame.

I personally will run a fertility test on any woman I plan to get married to, I must be sure that she menstruate and ovulate and must be certified fertile by my doctor and it's her right to do the same for me to make sure I'm not suffering from weak erection, low sperm count... etc.

Sleeping with other men to correct an error she entered into due to negligence on her part is like trying to make two wrongs to become a right.

Lmao typical of men, doing the blame games. Shebi na for this Africa where men think they're alpha and omega?

Not all women will garner the courage to do that. Even those that do, the men will do everything possible to conceal it.

Shortyy:


Yes, a woman should drag her man to do a paternity test. Very very important.

And I wasn't deviating to anywhere. I was simply answering your question.

I don't get you. How is paternity test related to the fertility you are talking about above.

Or you mean she should drag her man to do fertility test.

Kalatium:

I don't get you. How is paternity test related to the fertility you are talking aboutt above.

Or you mean she should drag her man to do fertility test.

Fertility test! Yes!

Shortyy:



Lmao typical of men, doing the blame games. Shebi na for this Africa where men think they're alpha and omega?

Not all women will garner the courage to do that. Even those that do, the men will do everything possible to conceal it.

What is this one saying sef.

Are you not aware that in most penticostal churches here in Nigeria you will be asked to do several tests including fertility test before they wed you?

What has that got to do with forming alpha and Omega?

Stop forming what you're not Biko.

Shortyy:



Fertility test! Yes!

So you don't know difference between paternity test and fertility test lol. Maybe it was just a mistake.


BTW

i understand what you are talking about. Yea it is ok to do fertility test on your husband. You need to know his status.

And he should also do paternity test if he wishes.

Nazgul:

What is this one saying sef.

Are you not aware that in most penticostal churches here in Nigeria you will be asked to do several tests including fertility test before they wed you?

What has that got to do with forming alpha and Omega?

Stop forming what you're not Biko.

Forming what exactly? That is a church believe.
Obviously, you aren't exposed at all. Maybe you're those who grew up in the city and know nothing of what women are facing in the rural areas.
Women have no right in Africa, that's the point I'm trying to make to you.

A village girl who wants to be carried out will have no right to ask her husband to be for a fertility test. It's only the girl that will be tested, that's if any test will be carried out at all. While the man, as the man does nothing.

At the end of the day, no child for years, and this girl starts to face fire from all angles for not producing any child, meanwhile, the man is the problem. Finally, who's to blame?

The way you're seeing this life no be so bros.

I'll stop here for now. Maybe when you're enlightened enough, we'll continue.

Shortyy:


Forming what exactly? That is a church believe.
Obviously, you aren't exposed at all. Maybe you're those who grew up in the city and know nothing of what women are facing in the rural areas.
Women have no right in Africa, that's the point I'm trying to make to you.

A village girl who wants to be carried out will have no right to ask her husband to be for a fertility test. It's only the girl that will be tested, that's if any test will be carried out at all. While the man, as the man does nothing.

At the end of the day, no child for years, and this girl starts to face fire from all angles for not producing any child, meanwhile, the man is the problem. Finally, who's to blame?

The way you're seeing this life no be so bros.

I'll stop here for now. Maybe when you're enlightened enough, we'll continue.

You're just struggling so hard to sound logical but believe me, you're doing a terrible job at it. Let me educate you.

Rules in penticostal churches apply to all their branches world wide. Meaning if a rule is issued in RCCG, MFM, depper life or Winners in Lagos, the least branch in that interior village must comply to it.

Churches have what they call marriage commitee, the job of these committee is to ensure that every information you gave them about yourself is true.

They verify your place of work, your house, your medical status, if you've been married in the past, of you have kids already...it has nothing to do with whether you're in the village or in the city. As long as you're a member of the church that's their marriage procedure and you must comply to it.

My church in the village live streams the headquarters program, they obey all the rules of the headquarters in Lagos.

So your argument about being in the village doesn't stand.

Also my dear you're the one who needs enlightenment.

Nazgul:

You're just struggling so hard to sound logical but believe me, you're doing a terrible job at it. Let me educate you.

Rules in penticostal churches apply to all their branches world wide. Meaning if a rule is issued in RCCG, MFM, depper life or Winners in Lagos, the least branch in that interior village must comply to it.

Churches have what they call marriage comitee, the job of these committee is to ensure that every information you gave them about yourself is true.

They verify your place of work, your house, your medical status, if you've been married in the past, of you have kids already...it has nothing to do with whether you're in the village or in the city. As long as you're a member of the church that's their marriage procedure and you must comply to it.

My church in the village live streams the headquarters program, they obey all the rules of the headquarters in Lagos.

My dear you're the one who needs enlightenment.

I'm talking about reality, you're talking about Church? Are you okay? Is it everyone that goes to your Pentecostal church? You haven't met traditional men? How old are you sef?

Please get lost. You're giving me headache.

I'm talking reality, he's telling church. Mtcheew.
My friend, go and wash plates and sleep.

And please avoid my posts, you're too dul to comprehend them.

The way some women would be afraid to see their husband taking their children out from now on ehn! She would be like, "Hope he is not going for a DNA test?"

Shortyy:



I'm talking about reality, you're talking about Church? Are you okay? Is it everyone that goes to your Pentecostal church? You haven't met traditional men? How old are you sef?

Please get lost. You're giving me headache.

I'm talking reality, he's telling church. Mtcheew.
My friend, go and wash plates and sleep.

And please avoid my posts, you're too dul to comprehend them.

I won't trade insults with you cos that's the defence mechanism fools use when they're challenged with superior argument and have nothing sensible to say.

So as a mother based in the village even if you don't go to church you'll give out your daughter to a traditional man without educating her on the basics of marriage. Do you even read what you type at all. You'll sell her into marriage in this 21st century without considering her happiness. It means you're more useless than I even imagined.

If you don't know let me educate your myopic brain. Vllages now have electricity,
roads, schools, polytechnics, college of education and even universities. So I don't even know the kind of village you're even referring to, families have educated son's and daughters who can always speak up for the uneducated in cases like this.

You're obviously a child who knows nothing. Data is cheap these days so every teenager can easily access the internet and begin to vomit meaningless comments.

I'm done replying you, when you wake up to reality maybe I'll consider your comments.

Nazgul:

I won't trade insults with you cos that's the defence mechanism fools use when they're challenged with superior argument and have nothing sensible to say.

So as a mother based in the village even if you don't go to church you'll give out your daughter to a traditional man without educating her on the basics of marriage. Do you even read what you type at all. You'll sell her into marriage in this 21st century without considering her happiness. It means you're more useless than I even imagined.

If you don't know let me educate your myopic brain. Vllages now have electricity,
roads, schools, polytechnics, college of education and even universities. So I don't even know the kind of village you're even referring to, families have educated son's and daughters who can always speak up for the uneducated in cases like this.

You're obviously a child who knows nothing. Data is cheap these days so every teenager can easily access the internet and begin to vomit meaningless comments.

I'm done replying you, when you wake up to reality maybe I'll consider your comments.

Oh please shut it! Just as y'all do here, once someone hits you with facts, you call it insults.

Don't get all emotional on me please, I can't insult you cause you honestly don't worth it lol.

Like I told you, you know absolutely nothing! You might know about your gender, but you know nothing about the female gender.

Women are being coerced or should I say pressured to marry. You think a lady who's pressurized to marry, will care about the fertility of a man? Even the mother won't care.

The main thing is "marry, no time for you again"

"Marry, others are marrying"

You're still here talking about 21st century, like I told you earlier, go to rural areas and see how women are being treated. Don't come here and form shît which you're obviously not!

I'm a child, but I'm schooling you right now. Take a trip to any rural Area in Ebonyi state and ask them about how marriage is done there.

Some even give out their female children on collateral, so when I'm telling you facts, shut the fck up. Your emotional rants won't work on me.

I'm telling him real stuff, he's talking about Educated people. You think it's everyone that's as educated as you think you are?

The day Nigerians realize that the rights of an ordinary girl child is threatened in this country, the better for them.

Please next time, research before you come for me! Peace out!

Nazgul:

Like a poster rightfully suggested, just take the kids out for the tests without the knowledge of your wife. If they're yours, you can pretend as though nothing happened. If they aren't then peacefully separate from their mom and her bastards.

You don't even need to take them out, you just need the hair, nails or blood sample

Shortyy:



Oh please shut it! Just as y'all do here, once someone hits you with facts, you call it insults.

Don't get all emotional on me please, I can't insult you cause you honestly don't worth it lol.

Like I told you, you know absolutely nothing! You might know about your gender, but you know nothing about the female gender.

Women are being coerced or should I say pressured to marry. You think a lady who's pressurized to marry, will care about the fertility of a man? Even the mother won't care.

The main thing is "marry, no time for you again"

"Marry, others are marrying"

You're still here talking about 21st century, like I told you earlier, go to rural areas and see how women are being treated. Don't come here and form shît which you're obviously not!

I'm a child, but I'm schooling you right now. Take a trip to any rural Area in Ebonyi state and ask them about how marriage is done there.

Some even give out their female children on collateral, so when I'm telling you facts, shut the fck up. Your emotional rants won't work on me.

I'm telling him real stuff, he's talking about Educated people. You think it's everyone that's as educated as you think you are?

The day Nigerians realize that the rights of an ordinary girl child is threatened in this country, the better for them.

Please next time, research before you come for me! Peace out!

This girl you're truly sick, we're talking A you're just changing the topic anyhow just to suit yourself. Don't they force girls to marry in the towns as well? Or is it only in villages they're being forced to get married. When I talked about the town you changed to the village now you're giving a reference that's synonymous to the town as well. Biko quit jumping up and down like a frog to make a point.

And lol, you're so funny whose sounding emotional. You don't worth my emotions believe me. I just feel disgusted trying to talk sense into a myopic arrogant teenager.

The Ebonyi you're making reference to I did my NYSC there, so there's nothing you'll tell me about that state that I don't know so quit your whining.

No family will give out their daughter in Igbo land to you without you fulfilling all or more than half of the items on the list they gave to you. So quit lying cos you're already sounding so miserable.

Afikpo has one of the most expensive bride prices in Ebobyi state cos of ceremony they do during the marriage can't spell the name properly.

Ngbo isn't left out

Is it Effium

Ezza

Izzi

Tell me where in these places you'll marry wife on credit. Ebony people that follow tradition to the core would give you their daughter on credit. Go and get your facts right you little teenage liar.

And yes I'm in support of the rights of the female child. Every girl deserves happiness, I've never been against that...

Nazgul:

This girl you're truly sick, we're talking A you're just changing the topic anyhow just to suit yourself. Don't they force girls to marry in the towns as well? Or is it only in villages they're being forced to get married. When I talked about the town you changed to the village now you're giving a reference that's synonymous to the town as well. Biko quit jumping up and down like a frog to make a point.

And lol, you're so funny whose sounding emotional. You don't worth my emotions believe me. I just feel disgusted trying to talk sense into a myopic arrogant teenager.

The Ebonyi you're making reference to I did my NYSC there, so there's nothing you'll tell me about that state that I don't know so quit your whining.

No family will give out their daughter in Igbo land to you without you fulfilling all or more than half of the items on the list they gave to you. So quit lying cos you're already sounding so miserable.

Afikpo has one of the most expensive bride prices in Ebobyi state cos of ceremony they do during the marriage can't spell the name properly.

Ngbo isn't left out

Is it Effium

Ezza

Izzi

Tell me where in these places you'll marry your wife on credit. Ebony people that follow tradition to the core would give you their daughter on credit. Go and get your facts right you little teenage liar.

And yes I'm in support of the rights of the female child. Every girl deserves happiness, I've never been against that...

Which topic am I changing?

You're the one who brought up the topic of education, that's your point. And I'm telling you not everyone is as educated as you are to know
What a girl child right is.

And please we're not talking about bride price lmao. You truly did your research as I asked you, but you forgot to finish it.


We're not talking about the price of the bride you dumb , we're talking about the RIGHT. Oya stick it in your brain, THE RIGHT of the girl.

And I never said you're marrying one on credit.

You're so dumb, it bring tears to my eyes.

Now let me give you some instances because obviously, you're very very dumb lol and of course, your fellow dumbos have already started liking your trash a usual lmao.


In a certain family where they're not doing well, and happen to have a girl, this family having nothing to fend for themselves gives their daughter to the highest bidder, in exchange for maybe the education of this child, and overall well being of the family.

Now in this situation, is the girl aware of the fertility of the man? Does the family have time for a fertility check when the man is taking care of them? Are they even that enlightened to know that all these things are necessary? Does the girl even want to marry this man?

Now go back to your google and research again. Don't just read the part that interests you. Read every damn thing.

And PS, all those places you listed there are a bit exposed. Lmao. See his mouth like Afikpo. Afikpo was the capital of Ebonyi state before it was moved to Abakilii. Why won't they be exposed? Yet there are still some unexposed places there. Like Afikpo south.

And no, the township is not a village. Township people are enlightened enough.

And again we're not talking about bride price you dummy, we're talking about a family being enlightened enough to know that a man is supposed to take a fertility test before marrying their child, and we're also talking about the right of this girl.

Don't just jump in and comment, read and assimilate!

Again, I never said, you're marrying someone on credit, read my post please lmao. Stop embarrassing yourself.

Shortyy:




Which topic am I changing?

You're the one who brought up the topic of education, that's your point. And I'm telling you not everyone is as educated as you are to know
What a girl child right is.

And please we're not talking about bride price lmao. You truly did your research as I asked you, but you forgot to finish it.


We're not talking about the price of the bride you dumb , we're talking about the RIGHT. Oya stick it in your brain, THE RIGHT of the girl.

And I never said you're marrying one on credit.

You're so dumb, it bring tears to my eyes.

Now let me give you some instances because obviously, you're very very dumb lol and of course, your fellow dumbos have already started liking your trash a usual lmao.


In a certain family where they're not doing well, and happen to have a girl, this family having nothing to fend for themselves gives their daughter to the highest bidder, in exchange for maybe the education of this child, and overall well being of the family.

Now in this situation, is the girl aware of the fertility of the man? Does the family have time for a fertility check when the man is taking care of them? Are they even that enlightened to know that all these things are necessary? Does the girl even want to marry this man?

Now go back to your google and research again. Don't just read the part that interests you. Read every damn thing.

And PS, all those places you listed there are a bit exposed. Lmao. See his mouth like Afikpo. Afikpo was the capital of Ebonyi state before it was moved to Abakilii. Why won't they be exposed? Yet there are still some unexposed places there. Like Afikpo south.

And no, the township is not a village. Township people are enlightened enough.

And again we're not talking about bride price you dummy, we're talking about a family being enlightened enough to know that a man is supposed to take a fertility test before marrying their child, and we're also talking about the right of this girl.

Don't just jump in and comment, read and assimilate!

Again, I never said, you're marrying someone on credit, read my post please lmao. Stop embarrassing yourself.

which part of Ebonyi do give out woman on credit biko,
or you just want to ridicule the state because of the hate you have for them of which they don't care, which part exactly or they told you?

cigwe:


which part of Ebonyi do give out woman on credit biko,
or you just want to ridicule the state because of the hate you have for them of which they don't care, which part exactly or they told you?

I did not say credit. Oh my God! Are you people just deliberately dumb or what?

I have a friend that's currently schooling in Futa, do you know that the husband to be is the one sponsoring her Education?

Jeez. Y'all should try and understand someone before jumping to comment.

.

can you guys pls ignore this girl,
what's the point of engaging with someone so deranged?

All i need is their samples and the rest is history. I dont need to inform her

Shortyy:



I did not say credit. Oh my God! Are you people just deliberately dumb or what?

I have a friend that's currently schooling in Futa, do you know that the husband to be is the one sponsoring her Education?

Jeez. Y'all should try and understand someone before jumping to comment.

Your are just been bias as in eeh coconut head, So your using Ebonyi State to illustrate your stupidity, So if person dey train his girlfriend for higher institution she must be an Ebonyi okwaya

Shortyy:




Which topic am I changing?

You're the one who brought up the topic of education, that's your point. And I'm telling you not everyone is as educated as you are to know
What a girl child right is.

And please we're not talking about bride price lmao. You truly did your research as I asked you, but you forgot to finish it.


We're not talking about the price of the bride you dumb , we're talking about the RIGHT. Oya stick it in your brain, THE RIGHT of the girl.

And I never said you're marrying one on credit.

You're so dumb, it bring tears to my eyes.

Now let me give you some instances because obviously, you're very very dumb lol and of course, your fellow dumbos have already started liking your trash a usual lmao.


In a certain family where they're not doing well, and happen to have a girl, this family having nothing to fend for themselves gives their daughter to the highest bidder, in exchange for maybe the education of this child, and overall well being of the family.

Now in this situation, is the girl aware of the fertility of the man? Does the family have time for a fertility check when the man is taking care of them? Are they even that enlightened to know that all these things are necessary? Does the girl even want to marry this man?

Now go back to your google and research again. Don't just read the part that interests you. Read every damn thing.

And PS, all those places you listed there are a bit exposed. Lmao. See his mouth like Afikpo. Afikpo was the capital of Ebonyi state before it was moved to Abakilii. Why won't they be exposed? Yet there are still some unexposed places there. Like Afikpo south.

And no, the township is not a village. Township people are enlightened enough.

And again we're not talking about bride price you dummy, we're talking about a family being enlightened enough to know that a man is supposed to take a fertility test before marrying their child, and we're also talking about the right of this girl.

Don't just jump in and comment, read and assimilate!

Again, I never said, you're marrying someone on credit, read my post please lmao. Stop embarrassing yourself.

You're obviously deranged, lonely, timid, insecure, unable to keep friends, always pissing people off. That's why you come to the internet to make yourself feel better. But deep down you know that you're as useless to yourself as you are to those around you that's why they all avoid you.

So stop throwing your frustration at me, I'm not the cause of your misery. See all the nonsense you sat down to write just to make yourself feel better. See I don't have strength for your stupidity, today is Sunday and I have better things to do with my life and time than to trade words with a failure like you. If you're tired of life, sniper is affordable get it and end your misery.

Go get a life and fúck off my mentions...I'm done with you.

Nazgul:

You're obviously deranged, lonely, timid, insecure, unable to keep friends, always pissing people off. That's why you come to the internet to make yourself feel better. But deep down you know that you're as useless to yourself as you are to those around you that's why they all avoid you.

So stop throwing your frustration at me, I'm not the cause of your misery. See all the nonsense you sat down to write just to make yourself feel better. See I don't have strength for your stupidity, today is Sunday and I have better things to do with my life and time than to trade words with a failure like you. If you're tired of life, sniper is affordable get it and end your misery.

Go get a life and fúck off my mentions...I'm done with you.

Chai ya. So this is how the interesting topic ended? Eiya ndo o

Next time, know your mate.

cigwe:



Your are just been bias as in eeh coconut head, So your using Ebonyi State to illustrate your stupidity, So if person dey train his girlfriend for higher institution she must be an Ebonyi okwaya

Whether Ebonyi or not, was just using Ebonyi as an instant, cuz I've met people who do that there.

Shortyy:



Chai ya. So this is how the interesting topic ended? Eiya ndo o

Next time, know your mate.

Cry me a river...I don't trade words with failures and lowlifes. A useless entity who everyone around her is avoiding because of how useless she is to herself. What was I even thinking trading words with a frustrated soul like you in the first place?

You internet is the only consolation you have that gives you joy and happiness so go on with it.

Nazgul:

Cry me a river...I don't trade words with failures and lowlifes. A useless entity who everyone around her is avoiding because of how useless she is to herself. What was I even thinking trading words with a frustrated soul like you in the first place?

You internet is the only consolation you have that gives you joy and happiness so go on with it.

Awww. Thanks boo

DNA test is a must. If you are foolish enough to trust a woman blindly, you will weep later. Fuçk trust.

My humble advice to evry1 on dis DNA test mata is to trend wit caution. God created us wit difrnt individual physical and facial feature. My pple say na eye dem de take no corn wey done mature. If a man can not identify ur own child ur leaving wit by looks or character then ur not worthy to fada dat child. We cant put 100% trust in technology bcus there evidence of error in it. I wil conclude by saying "blood is ticker than water" 6no de for river make soup come enter ur eyes oh.