MJBOLT:

when they say "men are the prize" never doubt it.

anyone can be a Prize. Let's not fall into that trap. It's not gender specific.

ubunja:
my friend this "fuq my ex" stuff is part of the Red Pill. Even more so relevant to this thread than partenity and divorce discussions because most guys here are nowhere near married. But are dealing with the ex thing.

Everything is part of the Red Pill.

hmnn... ubunja I don't go with this o. cos last I checked, TRP never taught us to fuçk exes. as a matter of fact: TRP tells us to ghost those exes especially if you know they're too powerless to render any help whatsoever.

fuçking exes and eating their foods? come on! I don't hate her but the only grudge against her is my success which I'm currently working on. and how to let her know she's expendable afterall cos girls have this childish and silly mindset they're better than you when in fact, they ain't shiit.

The last time I knew anything about my last ex was 5 months ago. I never hung around anywhere within her reach (WhatsApp, facebook etc In fact I blocked her).
I intend going that ghost mode for much more longer time (at least 4-5 years) before making myself visible again. Currently using my time to learn new things that'll favor me and add more to my SMV.


so, bottom line is: fuçking exes was never part of the redpill. That's an individual decision.

21cents:
hmnn... ubunja I don't go with this o. cos last I checked, TRP never taught us to fuçk exes. as a matter of fact: TRP tells us to ghost those exes especially if you know they're too powerless to render any help whatsoever.

fuçking exes and eating their foods? come on! I don't hate her but the only grudge against her is my success which I'm currently working on. and how to let her know she's expendable afterall cos girls have this childish and silly mindset they're better than you when in fact, they ain't shiit.

The last time I knew anything about my last ex was 5 months ago. I never hung around anywhere within her reach (WhatsApp, facebook etc In fact I blocked her).
I intend going that ghost mode for much more longer time (at least 4-5 years) before making myself visible again. Currently using my time to learn new things that'll favor me and add more to my SMV.


so, bottom line is: fuçking exes was never part of the redpill. That's an individual decision.

Bro I just have to chip in here.
Based on my understanding of the Redpill it's amoral, and it depends on how one uses it to his benefit whether good or bad.

Coming down to the matter of exes helping someone or giving them sex, I don't see anything bad there. So far as the man is not being manipulated by the woman.

You just pick and what works for you and use it based on your situation.

For me, when am done with an EX I cut her off completely and move on to the option. But if by chance we meet and she offers me something valuable (not sex ) I will accept it, after all it's not like she's my enemy.....

Sorry for typo error

21cents:
hmnn... ubunja I don't go with this o. cos last I checked, TRP never taught us to fuçk exes. as a matter of fact: TRP tells us to ghost those exes especially if you know they're too powerless to render any help whatsoever.

fuçking exes and eating their foods? come on! I don't hate her but the only grudge against her is my success which I'm currently working on. and how to let her know she's expendable afterall cos girls have this childish and silly mindset they're better than you when in fact, they ain't shiit.

The last time I knew anything about my last ex was 5 months ago. I never hung around anywhere within her reach (WhatsApp, facebook etc In fact I blocked her).
I intend going that ghost mode for much more longer time (at least 4-5 years) before making myself visible again. Currently using my time to learn new things that'll favor me and add more to my SMV.


so, bottom line is: fuçking exes was never part of the redpill. That's an individual decision.

redpill is simply putting yourself first.

Seems like most guys here are just flocking after something they have zero understanding of.

ubunja:
redpill is simply putting yourself first.

Seems like most guys here are just flocking after something they have zero understanding of.

No, it's not that they lack understanding. It's because you don't accept any points or views contrary to yours. You always want people to shove down whatever you say. I find that egoistic.

4ckz:


Thank you for this, like you rightly said he has never taken charge of his life, which I am glad he (or probably the lady) is doing now.
And you can't blame his parents for this because his other siblings are doing well even with the family money.

However my stance is a bit conflicting from a point of selfishness as well as a point of caring for a friend.
Selfishness in the sense that I wouldn't like to go back to the days of him calling every now and then to borrow money which he never pays, he calls my heart skips thinking of an excuse to give him before he asks for money.

But I do care about him, he has always been there for me, and since he listens to me, I won't want him to make a mistake.

However, I love my peace of mind the most, I won't like to get involved with his family should he eventually settle down with her.

Deciding not to lend him money every time he asks isn't selfishness. It's you setting boundaries. He must learn how to manage his money. He is not a kid. You have tried as a friend. He should man up. Life is not all about him.

It's safe to say many guys following this thread have overdosed on the RedPill due to the relentless torrent of concepts presented without context and examples.

Guys here is what the RedPill is:
EVERY SITUATION YOU ENTER UPON, ARE YOU PUTTING YOUR SELF INTERESTS FIRST OR NOT. Simple.

No matter who you're dealing with, are you getting the best deal for yourself? If not, why are you doing what you're doing! Yet it's okay to look out for the interests of those you care about. But this should be a cost you're comfortable paying.

And yes sometimes you'll have to take smaller losses to hit the big gains later on down the road.

Forget what whoever said where, the summary of it is ARE YOU GETTING THE BEST FOR YOURSELF AT WHATEVER YOU'RE EMBARKING ON. Simple.

ubunja:
redpill is simply putting yourself first.

Seems like most guys here are just flocking after something they have zero understanding of.

Ubunja, calm down. If you still f^ck your ex, and still eat from her pot on a steady or when you decide, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck/main chick or buddy. This is simple rationale, and not a matter of morality or amorality or immorality or your level in the redpill.

The continued friendship should be strict, and for leverage, and it makes sense if you perceived she's way better than you or has tighter connections. If not, no reason for it! And even depending on your ex for an upliftment is still like shooting yourself on the toes, however, game is game and we all game to win regardless of the condition involved. But there's a place where keeping your integrity, reputation and pride on guard and guarding it jealously. Except if p^ssy and food is what you're really concerned about.

Claiming exes help their exes, especially help from the female to the male, how many can we number? Many married men today are married and many never married their exes. How many of these men do you think were elevated by their exes? I'm not saying there's none, but you must understand: outliers don't cancel the rule. In fact they prove the rule.

Your ex is your ex for a reason, and bragging about p^ssy and food from your exes, what you can get in a plethora from other sources sounds way too absurd!

So, if you're still in touch with your ex for purposes she once provided; food and sex, sorry, she's not your ex. You're simply spinning plates. And by the way, no one is saying your ex is your enemy, and you should see her as Satan incarnate. No! The friendship is still there, but strict and for Machiavellian/leverage purposes, that is, when you perceived she is way better than you and have tighter connections. Sex and food will not in its entirety upheave a man to the upper echelon.

Thanks.

TheUndercover:

No, it's not that they lack understanding. It's because you don't accept any points or view contrary to yours. You always want people to shove down whatever you say. I find that egoistic.

we will tell you how the game goes. Take it or leave it. Iron sharpens Iron. But if you want to learn by experience it's cool also. When we tell you there's no reason to cut off an ex, there's really no reason to cut off an ex.

Stop thinking with your emotions and learn how Women do. There's a reason women always ask that you both remain friends even after a breakup. Because life is way too unpredictable to burn bridges. If you date trashy women of course you've nothing to gain from them. But when you start dating productive women who have their own you'll realize there's more a man can get from a woman besides pussy. Now take you ego of "I'm the man" and put it aside. And start winning.

That ex will hook you up. Use your head. Not your heart.

CaveAdullam:
Ubunja, calm down. If you still f^ck your ex, and still eat from her pot on a steady or when you decide, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck/main chick or buddy. This is simple rationale, and not a matter of morality or amorality or immorality or your level in the redpill.

The continued friendship should be strict, and for leverage, and it makes sense if you perceived she's way better than you or has tighter connections. If not, no reason for it! And even depending on your ex for an upliftment is still like shooting yourself on the toes, however, game is game and we all game to win regardless of the condition involved. But there's a place where keeping your integrity, reputation and pride on guard and guarding it jealously. Except if p^ssy and food is what you're really concerned about.

Claiming exes help their exes, especially help from the female to the male, how many can we number? Many married men today are married and many never married their exes. How many of these men do you think were elevated by their exes? I'm not saying there's none, but you must understand: outliers don't cancel the rule. In fact they prove the rule.

Your ex is your ex for a reason, and bragging about p^ssy and food from your exes, what you can get in a plethora from other sources sounds way too absurd!

So, if you're still in touch with your ex for purposes she once provided; food and sex, sorry, she's not your ex. You're simply spinning plates.

Thanks.

Here's free game for you guys:
A woman has better sex fvcking an ex than fvcking a new BF.

The way you guys are fighting against your Exes is rather strange because you'll have a better chance getting sex from an ex than from a new girlfriend.

But of course you'll rather starve, buy sex or masturbate because your ex broke your heart so you can't bring yourself to talk to her. She broke your heart? Serves you right. We always tell you LET THE GIRL BE THE ONE IN LOVE.
But of course you always think you know better. Now you're broken hearted. Do things right. This is called Game. Follow the rules. Or get burned.

Over to you.

ubunja:


Here's free game for you guys:
A woman has better sex fvcking an ex than fvcking a new BF.

The way you guys are fighting against your Exes is rather strange because you'll have a better chance getting sex from an ex than from a new girlfriend.

But of course you'll rather starve, buy sex or masturbate because your ex broke your heart so you can't bring yourself to talk to her. She broke your heart? Serves you right. We always tell you LET THE GIRL BE THE ONE IN LOVE.
But of course you always think you know better. Now you're broken hearted. Do things right. This is called Game. Follow the rules. Or get burned.

Over to you.

But your ex was once a new girlfriend.

Ejaculation is the apex for sexual pleasure for men, every other thing is mere formality and since I'm putting myself first, why should I dig deeper when I've achieved my apex?And why should a man be bothered about sex with an ex somewhere when he can get it through game, pick up artistry, seduction or worst case scenario from prostitutes?

My nigga, it's not a matter of getting burnt or her choosing you. It is a matter of keeping your sanity and reputation intact. Sex, is the least thing that bothers men. So, getting it from other islands is not a big deal not to talk of f^cking an ex.

Ubunja, please calm down. And I mean it.

No more shalaye.
We move.

CaveAdullam:
But your ex was once a new girlfriend.

Ejaculation is the apex for sexual pleasure for men, every other thing is mere formality and since I'm putting myself first, why should I dig deeper when I've achieved my apex?And why should a man be bothered about sex with an ex somewhere when he can get it through game, pick up artistry, seduction or worst case scenario from prostitutes?

My nigga, it's not a matter of getting burnt or her choosing you. It is a matter of keeping your sanity and reputation intact. Sex, is the least thing that bothers men. So, getting it from other islands is not a big deal not to talk of f^cking an ex.

Ubunja, please calm down. And I mean it.

No more shalaye.
We move.

if sex was easy to get there would be no prostitutes and porn my friend. Sex is easy to get only for women.

Your ex was once a new girlfriend and for her to start a new sexual relationship with a new guy is along journey because she still has to maintain an image with him plus she's still using Sex to control him so she's not giving him full sex. So even she is starving for full sex. Hence she'll hook up with you, her ex. Because you've done everything with her, even things that will take her and a new BF a whole year to do. That's why sex with an ex is better for a woman than with a new man.

ubunja:
we will tell you how the game goes. Take it or leave it. Iron sharpens Iron. But if you want to learn by experience it's cool also. When we tell you there's no reason to cut off an ex, there's really no reason to cut off an ex.

Stop thinking with your emotions and learn how Women do. There's a reason women always ask that you both remain friends even after a breakup. Because life is way too unpredictable to burn bridges. If you date trashy women of course you've nothing to gain from them. But when you start dating productive women who have their own you'll realize there's more a man can get from a woman besides pussy. Now take you ego of "I'm the man" and put it aside. And start winning.

That ex will hook you up. Use your head. Not your heart.

LOL! Who's talking about ending all communication with an ex after a breakup? Winning what exactly? You have totally mixed everything up.

If you know you're still going to be intimate with your ex, why breakup then? I only talked about establishing boundaries when dealing with an ex. No one said you can't gain anything from your exes. Not every relationship ends in a bad way. I ONLY TALKED ABOUT BOUNDARIES, THAT'S ALL.

Like I said, someone cutting off an ex is a personal choice. Sometimes you have to do it. There's a reason for every action. If you decide to stick to exes that's your own choice. You can't shove your personal choice or desires on someone.

CaveAdullam:
But your ex was once a new girlfriend.

Ejaculation is the apex for sexual pleasure for men, every other thing is mere formality and since I'm putting myself first, why should I dig deeper when I've achieved my apex?And why should a man be bothered about sex with an ex somewhere when he can get it through game, pick up artistry, seduction or worst case scenario from prostitutes?

My nigga, it's not a matter of getting burnt or her choosing you. It is a matter of keeping your sanity and reputation intact. Sex, is the least thing that bothers men. So, getting it from other islands is not a big deal not to talk of f^cking an ex.

Ubunja, please calm down. And I mean it.

No more shalaye.
We move.

Thanks for this input. I feel he's just too egotistic.

it's good we all share our views regarding to ubunja's views about the ex thingy but can we all just sheath our swords and close that particular subject already??

it's making the thread unnecessarily long.

TheUndercover:

LOL! Who's talking about ending all communication with an ex after a breakup? Winning what exactly? You have totally mixed everything up.

If you know you're still going to be intimate with your ex, why breakup then? I only talked about establishing boundaries when dealing with an ex. No one said you can't gain anything from your exes. Not every relationship ends in a bad way. I ONLY TALKED ABOUT BOUNDARIES, THATS ALL.

Like I said, someone cutting off an ex is a personal choice. Sometimes you have to do it. There's a reason for every action. If you decide to stick to exes that's your own choice. You can't shove your personal choice or desires on someone.

you only talked about boundaries? Did I say there should be no boundaries? Because here you are admitting you can benefit from an ex. So really where did I speak specifically about not having boundaries that you felt the need to speak about boundaries?

CaveAdullam:
But your ex was once a new girlfriend.

Ejaculation is the apex for sexual pleasure for men, every other thing is mere formality and since I'm putting myself first, why should I dig deeper when I've achieved my apex?And why should a man be bothered about sex with an ex somewhere when he can get it through game, pick up artistry, seduction or worst case scenario from prostitutes?

My nigga, it's not a matter of getting burnt or her choosing you. It is a matter of keeping your sanity and reputation intact. Sex, is the least thing that bothers men. So, getting it from other islands is not a big deal not to talk of f^cking an ex.

Ubunja, please calm down. And I mean it.

No more shalaye.
We move.

I agree with you. Why go back to an ex? She is an ex for a reason

Lol. Ubunja, sex is easy to get for a certain type of man. I know this for a fact.
I've always encouraged men to work towards being the type of man that can get sex easily.

The men that patronise prostitutes and pornograpyh are the type of men that find it hard to get sex simps/beta males.

ubunja:
if sex was easy to get there would be no prostitutes and porn my friend. Sex is easy to get only for women.

Your ex was once a new girlfriend and for her to start a new sexual relationship with a new guy is along journey because she still has to maintain an image with him plus she's still using Sex to control him so she's not giving him full sex. So even she is starving for full sex. Hence she'll hook up with you, her ex. Because you've done everything with her, even things that will take her and a new BF a whole year to do. That's why sex with an ex is better for a woman than with a new man.

ubunja:
my friend this "fuq my ex" stuff is part of the Red Pill. Even more so relevant to this thread than partenity and divorce discussions because most guys here are nowhere near married. But are dealing with the ex thing.

Everything is part of the Red Pill.

Of course it's part of the redpill but we have overflogged the issue and the solution still comes down to individual differences.

I felt it was time to move on.

angelfallz:
Lol. Ubunja, sex is easy to get for a certain type of man. I know this for a fact.
I've always encouraged men to work towards being the type of man that can get sex easily.

The men that patronise prostitutes and pornograpyh are the type of men that find it hard to get sex simps/beta males.

How does visiting prostitutes or watching porn make you a beta male?

angelfallz:
Lol. Ubunja, sex is easy to get for a certain type of man. I know this for a fact.v
I've always encouraged men to work towards being the type of man that can get sex easily.

The men that patronise prostitutes and pornograpyh are the type of men that find it hard to get sex simps/beta males.

and that type of man is not in the RedPill.

ubunja:
and that type of man is not in the RedPill.

An alpha male, that's the kind of man.

cappucino925:
How does visiting prostitutes or watching porn make you a beta male?

If you could get sex without visiting prostitutes/porn would you visit prostitutes/watch porn?

angelfallz:


An alpha male, that's the kind of man.

guys who get sex thrown at them you'll never see them in the RedPill because they have no use for it. They don't even have "Game" because they don't really need it.

luminouz:


Of course it's part of the redpill but we have overflogged the issue and the solution still comes down to individual differences.

I felt it was time to move on.

I honestly told people to stay in their lanes. To stick with what they know. Guys should not act like I didn't mention this.

ubunja:
guys who get sex thrown at them you'll never see them in the RedPill because they have no use for it. They don't even have "Game" because they don't really need it.

Ubunja don't mind them

They keep copying redpill quotes from reddit, twitter, and memes and now they think they understand everything.

If you're earning 50k a month and your ex helps connect you to a job of 200k a month. Will you reject?

Don't rely on your ex.
Don't expect anything from her
But when she comes with an offer.. take it with shakara

Legionx:


Ubunja don't mind them

They keep copying redpill quotes from reddit, twitter, and memes and now they think they understand everything.

Easy hommie. Don't sound like we are just clowns here. We may not know everything about the redpill but so do you. Why acting up by being acrimonious?

Legionx:
If you're earning 50k a month and your ex helps connect you to a job of 200k a month. Will you reject?

Don't rely on your ex.
Don't expect anything from her
But when she comes with an offer.. take it with shakara

judging by what most guys here are saying, they'll reject. Because they have nothing to do with an ex and accepting anything from an ex makes you desperate. There are billions of other women out there!! Smh.

For a group that's pushing being logical over being emotional it makes you wonder are guys here really redpilled or not??

Legionx:
If you're earning 50k a month and your ex helps connect you to a job of 200k a month. Will you reject?

Don't rely on your ex.
Don't expect anything from her
But when she comes with an offer.. take it with shakara

We are done with this issue hommie. Do what pleases you,aiit?

ubunja:
judging by what most guys here are saying, they'll reject. Because they have nothing to do with an ex and accepting anything from an ex makes you desperate. There are billions of other women out there!! Smh.

For a group that's pushing being logical over being emotional it makes you wonder are guys here really redpilled or not??

You still don't get the other faction points.

It's no use trying to explain it to you. You still won't capitulate. So let's shelve the matter,aiit?