In the end, everyone goes home with their own belief.

Its simply common sense. As a high value man, you should know that life is full of up and down. You can be feeling yourself today and tomorrow you will be down. At that moment, you will need to get back up. The easiest way to rise is through connections. Your ex may have that connection.

An ex that loved you and then you guys broke up will be ready to do a little more for you when the time comes. Maybe even more than a new gf.

Don't expect anything
Don't hope that she comes

But when she does. Enjoy your life with no strings attached

Well debated you guys...
It all boils down to every individual and what they think is right for them...
Abeg let's forget the matter.... We move

Legionx:
In the end, everyone goes home with their own belief.

Its simply common sense. As a high value man, you should know that life is full of up and down. You can be feeling yourself today and tomorrow you will be down. At that moment, you will need to get back up. The easiest way to rise is through connections. Your ex may have that connection.

An ex that loved you and then you guys broke up will be ready to do a little more for you when the time comes. Maybe even more than a new gf.

Don't expect anything
Don't hope that she comes

But when she does. Enjoy your life with no strings attached

At bolded

luminouz:


You still don't get the other faction points.

It's no use trying to explain it to you. You still won't capitulate. So let's shelve the matter,aiit?

I get it. They don't want sex with their ex because an ex is an ex for a reason. Okay fine.

My question: But how does a BF and a GF end up the bitterest of enemies that they can't even help each other by even simply passing on a number so one can get a better job?? C'mon that's just being immature. People need to grow up. And it's usually men who refuse to grow up. Women never have issues with their Exes even tho it's the man who screwed up. Guys need just to grow up a bit.

But if they refuse to grow up they can stay where they are until Life itself teaches them how these things go. It's their choice.

Good evening everyone
So I wanted to post something in this thread
The truth is that I'm very angry with some of you in this thread
So I logged in to nairaland this evening
And as I visited the Romance section
I saw something that made me laugh
So there was a pussycat that created another thread
A thread that was inspired by this thread
But a female version
The hole was trying to educate her fellow vaginas on the truth that every woman needs to know about men
As I opened the thread I was just laughing at the nonsense she was posting there
But then there's something I saw that made me angry
I saw some of our alphas on that thread
Exchanging words with the pussies in that thread
And I became angry
I was just asking myself
So some of you don't know what worth your attention and what doesn't
Some of them were trying to discourage her
Niggars that have been following us in this thread since
And the gyal was even ready for them oo
Exchanging words with them
And I was just asking myself what are we even learning in this thread sef
So some of us don't know when to hold back and when to react
I keep referring to all of us here as alphas because
If you have been following this thread since day one
Or even if you've read from the first page
You have been fed with more than enough knowledge to become an alpha.
And still you cannot apply what you read to your daily lives.
Just imagine some of us here going into a girls thread to go and start fingering pussies there
Even if one of them finds their way into this thread
It's not even worth your attention
I didn't join this thread from day one
But I read from the first page
There was one pipe hole vagina that came here to try and discourage the
Alphas that created this thread for us
By saying nonsense
When I saw it I was like
Who has time for this fool
Only for me to open the next page and see my fellow guys conversing with this fvckstar
As a girl coming into this red pill thread for guys
What do you want to read
Where is the gyal now
Hasn't she left
As alphas una don pass that level
The girl just open thread dey blow lies their
As a guy you con read am con begin dey
Fire the gyal
And u know say girls always dey ready for this kind thing
The whole thread na argument
I con dey see some of our monikers from this thread there
See if you be alpha for this thread and you follow for this people wey go there go dey talk nonsense
YOU FVCK UP
I swear
As you dey now sef e get the kind conversation wey you no suppose dey get with woman
Some nonsense wey she go talk to spark unnecessary words from you
Just ignore am
U can't go out there and start disgracing us please
That place na girls lodge
Na wetin I won talk be this

Legionx:
In the end, everyone goes home with their own belief.

Its simply common sense. As a high value man, you should know that life is full of up and down. You can be feeling yourself today and tomorrow you will be down. At that moment, you will need to get back up. The easiest way to rise is through connections. Your ex may have that connection.

An ex that loved you and then you guys broke up will be ready to do a little more for you when the time comes. Maybe even more than a new gf.

Don't expect anything
Don't hope that she comes

But when she does. Enjoy your life with no strings attached

say it again,
with these coronavirus lockdowns and job losses it's crazy out here. Some guys will find help coming from the least expected places.

Let's not burn bridges unnecessarily just for our egos. Peace man.

ubunja:
I get it. They don't want sex with their ex because an ex is an ex for a reason. Okay fine.

My question: But how does a BF and a GF end up the bitterest of enemies that they can't even help each other by even simply passing on a number so one can get a better job?? C'mon that's just being immature. People need to grow up. And it's usually men who refuse to grow up. Women never have issues with their Exes even tho it's the man who screwed up. Guys need just to grow up a bit.

But if they refuse to grow up they can stay where they are until Life itself teaches them how these things go. It's their choice.

Love and hate are intertwined. They are both passion rods with +ve and -ve polarities respectively

Surely you of all people should know that.

SOZINN:
Good evening everyone
So I wanted to post something in this thread
The truth is that I'm very angry with some of you in this thread
So I logged in to nairaland this evening
And as I visited the Romance section
I saw something that made me laugh
So there was a pussycat that created another thread
A thread that was inspired by this thread
But a female version
The hole was trying to educate her fellow vaginas on the truth that every woman needs to know about men
As I opened the thread I was just laughing at the nonsense she was posting there
But then there's something I saw that made me angry
I saw some of our alphas on that thread
Exchanging words with the pussies in that thread
And I became angry
I was just asking myself
So some of you don't know what worth your attention and what doesn't
Some of them were trying to discourage her
Niggars that have been following us in this thread since
And the gyal was even ready for them oo
Exchanging words with them
And I was just asking myself what are we even learning in this thread sef
So some of us don't know when to hold back and when to react
I keep referring to all of us here as alphas because
If you have been following this thread since day one
Or even if you've read from the first page
You have been fed with more than enough knowledge to become an alpha.
And still you cannot apply what you read to your daily lives.
Just imagine some of us here going into a girls thread to go and start fingering pussies there
Even if one of them finds their way into this thread
It's not even worth your attention
I didn't join this thread from day one
But I read from the first page
There was one pipe hole vagina that came here to try and discourage the
Alphas that created this thread for us
By saying nonsense
When I saw it I was like
Who has time for this fool
Only for me to open the next page and see my fellow guys conversing with this fvckstar
As a girl coming into this red pill thread for guys
What do you want to read
Where is the gyal now
Hasn't she left
As alphas una don pass that level
The girl just open thread dey blow lies their
As a guy you con read am con begin dey
Fire the gyal
And u know say girls always dey ready for this kind thing
The whole thread na argument
I con dey see some of our monikers from this thread there
See if you be alpha for this thread and you follow for this people wey go there go dey talk nonsense
YOU FVCK UP
I swear
As you dey now sef e get the kind conversation wey you no suppose dey get with woman
Some nonsense wey she go talk to spark unnecessary words from you
Just ignore am
U can't go out there and start disgracing us please
That place na girls lodge
Na wetin I won talk be this

What thread is that?

This dude AGAIN!!!!!

luminouz:


What thread is that?

Male 101
What every woman needs to know about men
I will not advice you to go there oo

SOZINN:


Male 101
What every woman needs to know about men
I will not advice you to go there oo

Lol...most threads like that are cruise threads. It's just for fun. Don't take it too serious bro

luminouz:


Love and hate are intertwined. They are both passion rods with +ve and -ve polarities respectively

Surely you of all people should know that.

you have not said anything.

ubunja:
we will tell you how the game goes. Take it or leave it. Iron sharpens Iron. But if you want to learn by experience it's cool also. When we tell you there's no reason to cut off an ex, there's really no reason to cut off an ex.

Stop thinking with your emotions and learn how Women do. There's a reason women always ask that you both remain friends even after a breakup. Because life is way too unpredictable to burn bridges. If you date trashy women of course you've nothing to gain from them. But when you start dating productive women who have their own you'll realize there's more a man can get from a woman besides pussy. Now take you ego of "I'm the man" and put it aside. And start winning.

That ex will hook you up. Use your head. Not your heart.

Unfortunately, most nigerian men are used to dating trashy women, women lower than them in societal class because the average lady won't want to date her mate.
So after break up, there is no reason having them around. They will continue to be a drain in the purse and an anchor dragging you down.

ubunja:
you have not said anything.

Yeah..now you can rest easy bro.

Not saying anything is the best way sometimes

While sex is pleasure to men, it is more of a weapon to women.


Most guys here will almost never simp for a lady, however, we fail to ask ourselves questions such as: if sex was a being, am I a simp for it?
Can I willingly say no to sex even with an erection?


You wouldn't be far from liberation the moment you start asking yourself such questions. The day you stop simping for sex among other weapons such as religion, government, etc., you'll attain a bulletproof state in a world full of gun welding individuals.

— oyolohi

Meanwhile this is my first ever communication with this vigina person whom I sure she's less than 23 years old
She's already asking for airtime, who does that?

As we all know that the REDPILL is all about self development, I think we should also be dropping links, lectures, ideas etc on how to better ourselves (financially, mentally, academically, how to draft that business ideas, steps to get grants, opportunities to learn new skills, etc) in this new year.


A couple of days from now, I will be sharing with the Alphas some good materials on how to trade cryptocurrency and forex for free.



LET'S KEEP INGESTING THE REDPILL.

angelfallz:


If you could get sex without visiting prostitutes/porn would you visit prostitutes/watch porn?

so what about men going thier own way ?

oyolohi:
While sex is pleasure to men, it is more of a weapon to women.


Most guys here will almost never simp for a lady, however, we fail to ask ourselves questions such as: if sex was a being, am I a simp for it?
Can I willingly say no to sex even with a erection?


You wouldn't be far from liberation the moment you start asking yourself such questions. The day you stop simping for sex among other weapons such as religion, government, etc., you'll attain a bulletproof state in a world full of gun welding individuals.

believe me that is virtually impossible

emmaodet:


Unfortunately, most nigerian men are used to dating trashy women, women lower than them in societal class because the average lady won't want to date her mate.
So after break up, there is no reason having them around. They will continue to be a drain in the purse and an anchor dragging you down.

True. guys need to remedy this.

Because of hypergamy the average lady doesn't date her mate. At the same time an average man can catch a top woman's attention if he's physically in shape. Because beauty =money (for both genders). But by the way most men have an aversion to hitting the gym that's never going to happen. So they'll stay dating trash. And not wanting anything to do with that after breakup. It's a shame. Because men can do better.

ubunja:
True. guys need to remedy this.

Because of hypergamy the average lady doesn't date her mate. At the same time an average man can catch a top woman's attention if he's physically in shape. Because beauty =money (for both genders). But by the way most men have an aversion to hitting the gym that's never going to happen. So they'll stay dating trash. And not wanting anything to do with that after breakup. It's a shame. Because men can do better.

I just sent you a WhatsApp message. Please boss, I will be grateful if you look into case I presented to you.

ubunja:
judging by what most guys here are saying, they'll reject. Because they have nothing to do with an ex and accepting anything from an ex makes you desperate. There are billions of other women out there!! Smh.

For a group that's pushing being [b]logical over being emotiona[/b]l it makes you wonder are guys here really redpilled or not??

Lol, they keep screaming ex this; ex that. Maybe if it's an ex wife, maybe they could have had a point. No one mentioned getting married with an ex, but if getting back with her once in a while is going to be beneficial to me to an extent. Why the f**k should I ghost her cos she carried the tag "ex"?

I've had many exes, can't even remember some of their names not to talk of still reaching out to them. But I ghosted majority of them because I believe they're way below my league. But the ones making things happen for themselves, no way I'm cutting off completely. It's called being logical!

Imagine yourself having someone as rich as one of Otedola's daughters as an ex but you broke up and because she's an "ex", you don't want to have anything to do with her again Does that sound logical or emotional?

Once someone is not beneficial to me, I have no reason relating with you, I still have a long way to go, and cutting out rich/beneficial exes won't get me to my destination faster but not cutting them off might not get me there faster either but it could reduce the distance.


Like I said earlier, focus on yourself and leave women alone, but if one of those women is going to help you achieve some of your goals, biko run after her because she has turned your goal. It's all about you!

geedot:

Lol, they keep screaming ex this; ex that. Maybe if it's an ex wife, maybe they could have had a point. No one mentioned getting married with an ex, but if getting back with her once in a while is going to be beneficial to me to an extent. Why the f**k should I ghost her cos she carried the tag "ex"?

I've had many exes, can't even remember some of their names not to talk of still reaching out to them. But I ghosted majority of them because I believe they're way below my league. But the ones making things happen for themselves, no way I'm cutting off completely. It's called being logical!

Imagine yourself having someone as rich as one of Otedola's daughters as an ex but you broke up and because she's an "ex", you don't want to have anything to do with her again Does that sound logical or emotional?

Once someone is not beneficial to me, I have no reason relating with you, I still have a long way to go, and cutting out rich/beneficial exes won't get me to my destination faster but not cutting them off might not get me there faster either but it could reduce the distance.


Like I said earlier, focus on yourself and leave women alone, but if one of those women is going to help you achieve some of your goals, biko run after her because she has turned your goal. It's all about you!

you put it better than I have.

And true, if these brothers dated a better class of women who actually brought something to the table, they wouldn't be so quick to cut off Exes and burn bridges.

A friend of mine even got help acquiring SA citizenship through his brother's ex girlfriend who took him to her relatives deep in the villages to make it happen. I know a lot about getting hooked up by exes. These guys here just repeat things they read online: "an ex is an ex for a reason". They need to realize this is Africa, we are a poor continent and we need all the help we can get. Every single connection counts. Or you gonna starve and be homeless forming alpha for nothing.

Martinez39s:
I just sent you a WhatsApp message. Please boss, I will be grateful if you look into case I presented to you.

okay bossman. I'm watching out for it

emmaodet:


Unfortunately, most nigerian men are used to dating trashy women, women lower than them in societal class because the average lady won't want to date her mate.
So after break up, there is no reason having them around. They will continue to be a drain in the purse and an anchor dragging you down.

yeah that's true
this comment speaks volume

LOL! The comments up there still proves that even if we continue discussing/arguing about this ex or no ex matter, it will continue to still get mixed up!

Anyways, I don tire to dey shalaye. RTUTS!

LutanFyah:
As we all know that the REDPILL is all about self development, I think we should also be dropping links, lectures, ideas etc on how to better ourselves (financially, mentally, academically, how to draft that business ideas, steps to get grants, opportunities to learn new skills, etc) in this new year.


A couple of days from now, I will be sharing with the Alphas some good materials on how to trade cryptocurrency and forex for free.



LET'S KEEP INGESTING THE REDPILL.

This is commendable bro. I'm staying tuned

Another simp ready to be hanged..infacy this one deserves to be shot and killed by firing squad to be precise..him even give us advice on top stupidity

ubunja:
people should stick to their level of Game. Stick to the level you're comfortable/experienced with. Otherwise you'll screw up your life. What some of us can do not everyone can do. Because we're all at different stages of our redpill journey. If I start to tell you about the stories some guys are living, how Exes are hooking them up, even tho married, you'll say I'm lying. Stick to what you know. And what you're comfortable with. Redpill is too wide and too broad to be limited by your small views of love and loyalty.
Ultimately the RedPill itself is not enough to explain the reality of the world we live in man. These things are not as simple as ABC.

Eg. Do you know what the latest underground trend in SA is at the moment? Especially in Johannesburg and Durban (among the Zulu), it's men asking other men to fvck their wives while they watch. Cuckoldry. Some guys are busy insulting these husbands because it doesn't make sense. Of course it doesn't make sense. Sex is never about sense. Same as the Exes thing. Don't apply too much sense to it. It is what it is. Why do you think women cheat a lot with their Exes? Why do you think women keep checking up on their Exes? Lol even your GF still has her ex's number on her phone lmfao. And you think they don't talk? Lol Because women know the game. They'll always fvck their Exes. As do players. Boss if you date my Ex just know I'm still messing with her. Period. And many guys feel like that. And do that. How you feel about it won't change anything.

Women are always fvcking their Ex boyfriends. That's why in partenity fraud many cases find that the baby belongs to the ex. It is what is. Make peace with it and move on.

Ubunja, I like you and I read your threads. But pardon me if I say you are not a redpiller. You are a gamer. Stick to what you do best. It is good to preach games to redpillers, but bad when you are preaching games as redpill.

Redpill is not about women and pussy. It is self awareness about yourself, your society and interpersonal relationships with the opposite sex (female) and how to weather those storms without getting hurt.

I cut off my best friend recently cos he did something he should not have done. He is not a female, but my knowledge of redpill warrant me not to accommodate bullshits.

For the last time, redpill is not about women. It is about self awareness and maturity that makes a man A MAN.

ObinnaValentine:
Another simp ready to be hanged..infacy this one deserves to be shot and killed by firing squad to be precise..him even give us advice on top stupidity

This is very irritating to read.

Like men are no longer men anymore. Western men are worse off than African men.

Is there something they put in their water supply or food that made them this docile? Atrazine perhaps?