Toronto, Ontario based Nigerian man, Tunde Omotoye @TundeTASH, who is Certified HR Pro tweeted this:

Person sponsor spouse come Canada. The spouse come divorce one month after arrival as per no more feelings. Unfortunately, by law, the sponsor has to financially take care of the spouse for the next 3 years even if they divorce.

Na the matter them dey try to settle for Toronto.

https://mobile.twitter.com/TundeTASH/status/1346233751823642631


Fictional story, I guess

Tales everywhere

I will find a way of leaving Canada to US or any other country for the woman. To avoid taking care of her for 3years and also committing crime. Cos i may be tempted to kill the woman.

There are many cases of how some men killed their wives (mostly nurses) in US after bringing them to US from Nigeria, financing their school fees to become professionals.

Honestly, if one wasn’t careful as a man, one might kill the woman

Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
Even Paul and Peter wey komot Belle the same day, we all saw how it ended
You went through primary, secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
And it's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility within yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, "the right one" will always bring you Grand premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes".
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders.
Have you wondered why all of a sudden her character changed after marriage?
You were the prey and she was the trap and traps are always stationed with irresistible goodies to attract preys.
After you're caught in it, excruciating pain and death follows
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

Failed love stories every where. To the person above me- Please , be calming down, LOVE IS A .BEAUTIFUL THING only that it is sudden abused.

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

I agree with you...most times the signs are there. Just that many men are blinded by a non-existing love. A woman that will divorce you after just one month in marriage will actually have displayed such glaring signs but most men foolishly choose to ignore them.

I learnt one bitter truth in relationships. Who isn't yours isn't yours, never force anyone to love you.

Never endure anyone who's character isn't compatible with you because you love them, it will end in premium tears because people don't change they only get worse.

Never invest heavily on a partner to win her heart, your investment will earn you her body but not her heart.

Never go into conflict with your parents or siblings because of a partner. You'll be on your knees begging when your relationship goes south. (This one applies to females as well)

Never try to change or rebrand a partner, you'll end up getting frustrated. Go for the one that exhibits the characteristics of what you want and date her.

Never fall in love with a girl you love, rather fall in love with a girl who loves you. When you fall in love with a girl you love, if she doesn't feel the same way, you'll spend all your time in that relationships trying to gain her affection. She will torture you emotionally, drain you financially, manipulate you into doing things for her against your wish... etc. But when a girl geninuely loves you, she'll go any length and give anything just to be with you. Flee from home, borrow, make sacrifices...just to make you happy.

Finally, men should be wise, flying your spouse abroad isn't bad, but make sure she has earned your loyalty, trust and love.

This issue is a very tricking one...


If we advise men not to sponsor their spouse to abroad cos once they get to abroad they change character it will look like one is wicked....



Do whatever works for you..

ok

Well the cycle never breaks.

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

Three Gbosa for the two person wey born you

A prenuptial agreement


I'm protecting My interest in case any funny thing happened

Tolexander:

I will find a way of leaving Canada to US or any other country for the woman.

That's if it's that easy to do

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

In that Tweet, did the tweeter clarify the gender of the sponsor or the sponsee? You just jumped into conclusion

Marital failure here and there

JaneYave:
Failed love stories every where. To the person above me- Please , be calming down, LOVE IS A .BEAUTIFUL THING only that it is sudden abused.

Love is a beautiful thing when it's not forced. And to the topic, as a man, if you have a lot to offer a lady, she ain't dating you, she dating what you offering her. Day you have nothing else left to offer her, then you'd see the demon you've bn dating. Pity men buying love and attention not just with money buh every other thing. Na you go suffer am las las.

Twitter and lies na 5and6

Tolexander:

I will find a way of leaving Canada to US or any other country for the woman.

Why would i leave for her. God forbid. Letting her defeat me 2nd time? I will take my L in peace and live with it. I will heal with time buh i will never leave for the idiat.

dimexy247:
Tales everywhere

It's highly possible. It has happened at least twice in my very before.

One of the men it happened to tells it to every available ear around in SoCal till today.

I've also heard of a man who invited his "girlfriend" in US via letter of invitation and uncle was salivating and waiting for his package in California only to see update in the girl's Facebook account.

Hanty don land for another state and moved in with another bobo (her long time boyfriend) who at that time was illegal alien and couldn't invite her.

Shiit happens bro so never say never.

I know it happens but the rate at which these news emanate makes one to wonder if all is real or just to score points.

J111333:
It's highly possible. It has happened at least twice in my very before.

One of the men it happened to tells it to every available ear around in SoCal till today.

I've also heard of a man who invited his "girlfriend" in US via letter of invitation and uncle was salivating and waiting for his package in California only to see update in the girl's Facebook account.

Hanty don land for another state and moved in with another bobo (her long time boyfriend) who at that time was illegal alien and couldn't invite his babe.

Shiit happens bro so never say never.

JaneYave:
Failed love stories every where. To the person above me- Please , be calming down, LOVE IS A .BEAUTIFUL THING only that it is sudden abused.

Really? How? If it's based on feelings then i beg to differ

Okay

Na dem sabi joor. Nigerian men are the most stupid fools on earth. Majority use money to lure ladies. NONSENSE! I never spend on any lady and, if I do, na to buy food wey we go chop together. Even my wife, I no dey buy am anything and she sabi vex for me... I no care joor.

After being responsible for like 90% of our living expenses, I go come dey buy am stuff.. Really? When I no craze...

E don happen

Person sponsor spouse come Canada. The spouse come divorce one month after arrival as per no more feelings. Unfortunately, by law, the sponsor has to financially take care of the spouse for the next 3 years even if they divorce.

Na the matter them dey try to settle for Toronto.

Feelings kee her dere as Ogun kee(d) dis stupid fan the other day.....

Wahala for who dey find wetin no lost in the name of looking for a soul mate.

It's Normal naaa

Why?

The marriage was just a transport...





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This is ruthlessly vicious!

The did has been Done....


Na to japa to another country...



But which kind yeye law be this, taking care of a divorced spouse...

Wetin concern me sha, up canada