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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 6:51pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Ordinary mehn that hooked me up in getting properties in a location to buy each time I go there I take bread along and buy wine. It's not entitlement mentality. He was wrong and won't obey traditional values if he's accepted. Check through out scripture all old testament patriarch when attending to elders or persons in positions of prestige, they take along bread, fruit and wine as a sign of respect. Examples David Abraham melchizedek Lot and the angels It goes on and on That he even knew he was going there before he left home and then went empty handed shows you what you'll be getting in future. You've not met your man. If you want to test it. Go to his mum, take nothing along, go alone. And when you get there don't do chores just talk and go back home. It's only then he'll be smart enough to reflect and rethink. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ednut1(m): 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hunger bad 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Klass99(f): 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by thatigboman: 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:sorry to say, but your mother is very mad. But for u, i have nothing to say to u 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by JoeEeL(m): 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Imagine person mama. Chai. Anyway, in case you don't know , it's beyond that. Your mom is scared not just because of failure to bring any gift but because she's unsure of his financial capacity. That's why she's really whining. She's using scope to ask you for verification. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: It shouldn't cause problems although it will be nice if he come around with something, please repackage again if you luv him and put a call across, gifts must not be a reason for rtship breakup. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Teepeettp: 6:57pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I hope your love for him is not based on money |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 6:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
JovialJune: It is very easy to tell those who are troubled in their personal lives. Those who are unhappy. You can tell by how they rejoice and enjoy other people's misunderstandings and misfortune. No matter who they say they are or what they say they have, in reality, it's all just an illusion. A farce! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by humilitypays(m): 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Our Naija single ladies are in big trouble oh, redpill don reach this level too Wahala for Naija lady weh never marry as list of qualities required from suitors continue to grow longer 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by majola(m): 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
If this story is true, i will say your mother is a true definition of materialism. And as for you, i am not sure if you are really mature enough and ready for marriage. 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by spirul77: 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi:even if he's the husband, he's not supposed to be coming to her In Law's house with "full hands" na, so person wey no get money no fit greet him in-law again? If I were the guy I would just japa now because I'm not married yet you are expecting full hand what if I come marry you ni? That means na me go Dey pay your siblings school fees, your mumsy church levy and etc 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by colestephan86: 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Miarose:You are a fool. Even if he is not going to marry the babe , how much is a bottle of non alcoholic wine. You are seeing an elderly Person for the first time. What did he go there to discuss with the woman. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by EzegeNdiigbo: 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
My question is "is it the first time he is visiting your family"?? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kokaine(m): 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi:I swear even if I'm a husband I can do that. Its nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by JasperVII(m): 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Does he owe your mother anything? Africans are just somehow. The likes of you are one of the reasons many men do not want to marry. 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
bjprodint: Was he pointed a gun and forced to go. You don't go to your in laws empty handed. The Bible says don't go to the prophet empty handed. It's the same thing. Tricky tee went to Bayelsa governor empty handed, Nenyi took a gift along, did you notice the different reception they got? A man's gift makes way for him. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by alllivesmatter(m): 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: "We are Africans"... Look at where we are... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ProphetM0hammad: 7:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Are you sure the problem was him visiting empty handed or him not dropping any money when leaving? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by majola(m): 7:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fact! When the foundation of a relationship is laid on materialism, it will definitely end is problems. Miarose: 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by dnapstar(m): 7:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Even if it is 100naira orange or watermelon for 200. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MoneyTrees(m): 7:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Smoke Mali kush & you won't hear All these girls em, a new addiction to smoking jumbo sized Mali kush will be so good for your brain development Why will you call him to ask why he came empty handed... Did you give him money to keep You're supposed to educate your mom calmly that times have changed... In the present world relationship/ marriage is 50-50 ok I hope your fiancee sees this comment My Advice to him, is to run Go & hustle... No kill yourself just to impress There's no where it's written a visitor must always present gift to his host Trayceey: 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by brightalo1010: 7:03pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Which African law said boyfriend must give his girlfriend's mama money when he visits her? 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by AreaFada2: 7:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Chujor1634:Am telling you. The guy just dodged a bullet. The mother even complained about the drink she bought the guy. Chai! We Africans nor try o. African men are really trying. Many Labour lifelong with nothing to show for it. They spend on relatives and inlaws yet nobody appreciates it. The same women who say we are Africans now are those who say we are backward when we expect women to do the traditional stuff at home. Suddenly the women become European. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by colestephan86: 7:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:My dear, be ready to read comments from kids that are still being cared for on this matter. How much is a bottle of non alcoholic wine that I could not buy, and he could still sit and drink there. Sorry that boy is not serious , if he continues arguing about the subject, know thats the first pointer that he isn't ready. Even if you both are not dating, he should still get her something no matter how small 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Shancca: 7:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I wish your fiance reads the supposed hand writing on the wall. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by mofedamijo(m): 7:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I think he should have bought something no matter how small. Aside being Africans, the western word also does same. Non of my American or European or even South African friends will do that, they always go with something. Some of us, in a bid to sound western, we sound highly stupid because the Westerners you are trying to copy will always go with something when visiting, no matter how small. Even if your inlaws are the Bill gates, Go with something, a flower, a bottle of wine, a book..... Its just courtesy not hunger. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kaimaonyeana: 7:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
majola: So buying 500 naira bread and one bottle of eva wine is materialistic. Na wa oo. Abi na lack of money dey cause this kin reasoning? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 001spice: 7:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
To me it seems u ain`t mature 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lankyscot(m): 7:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
DEAD TransAtlanticEx: 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by colestephan86: 7:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Bro oyinbo people give gifts too , don't mind those kids saying trash 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DropsMic(m): 7:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: REDFLAG.... He wasn’t supposed to argue with you. All he needed to do was to apologize to you and your mom but he couldn’t do that... That’s the REDFLAG |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by iyababs: 7:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:very very funny reply .She will be in sefiaaaa pain now.Killer Reply 4 Likes |
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