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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kalu61(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
pocohantas:For the first time, l read a comment where you are jovia. Nawao 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 0taPiaPia(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Here ends this argument. You shot yourself in the foot 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by extol1(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
15ssDRIVE:and how does it translate to successful marriage 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by songzDaniel01(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:your mum is wrong to have expected something from your boyfriend, his presence should be more than enough. Your mum should be glad ur bf visited her, not many guys would do that!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mypeople2(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
They want to leech the young man .Your mum could not commend on his behaviour, whether he is a gentle man or not .What about his background? Nothing. Sister you fall my hand .You don't love this guy at all 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:awesome! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bahamas95(m): 7:44pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lol.......Wahala for who go see he potential inlaw empty handed o. If na guy like me I won't make that mistake of marrying OP. I can't be my inlaws ATM cos I prefer to give willingly and not by force. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 7:45pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BusinessCity:Shutup...visits doesnt mean bringing gifts...cant one go and visit and greet someone without giving bread and fruits..is she sick that OP must bring mangoes for her to lick...can u swear with your life that u visits your friends everytime with fruits 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xantel(f): 7:45pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
But females visit their would-be mother-inlaw empty handed? I blame the guy self, all this kind of see finish attitude with some Nigerian mothers. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by iamdapsyj(m): 7:45pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: Don't stress yourself please, she sounds like those girls that are not mature yet and again she doesn't sound like a thinker. That man should excuse himself from the relationship if he does not want issues.. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Lolzzz...When it will favour them they will now remember WE ARE AFRICANS but ordinary to play the role of a true African woman based on tradition they will be forming woke 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: I'm not saying quarreling for the guy was the best approach, she did wrong on that. She should have been calm and used wisdom to tell him. But the guy did wrong in coming empty-handed too. I don't visit family friends empty-handed. I wasn't raised like that and I expect my fiancé to have that at the back of his mind. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by bukatyne(f): 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Shokoloko: Interesting. Are you guys married now? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Emotionss: 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] Mariangeles: A very big lie. Maybe in your family but it's not a must to bring gift EACH TIME you visit your in-laws or potential in law in igbo land. Moreover the young man is her boyfriend and not her husband yet. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Munzy14(m): 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi:Even if he is the hubby, coming along with gift is not an obligation or entitlement. This one na entitlement mentality mother and daughter. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by GossipCheff(m): 7:47pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
On point! This is the perfect summary of the whole matter Graxie: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Miracle1991: 7:47pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
If iam the man I will run like Usain bolt away from you. What if this man later marry you, what will your mom be expecting? Maybe he will ask to bring a car in each of his visit. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Onyemaya: 7:47pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Poverty is often concealed in splendor, and often in extravagance. It is the task of many people to conceal their neediness from others. Consequently they support themselves by temporary means, and everyday is lost in contriving for tomorrow. Nature makes us poor only when we want necessaries, but custom gives the name of poverty to the want of superfluities. Extreme poverty anywhere is a threat to human security everywhere. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: You'll be a parent someday or someone beneath you would accord you without honour, then you'll understand. Your promptness to abuse me without any direct attacks against you speaks about your age, formative processes and character. I wish you well. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Tobiloba2407: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Definitely igbo 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sunnydoo: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Your mummy should have ignored it, and not told you what happened. But it's a poor gesture from your man to be. Even if bus or okada no stop for road, Supermarket is always nearby. The guy is immatured and should be schooled by married ones so he can present himself better next time. Get over it as live goes on. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ipobarethieves: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
; Abeg,just ignore Nairaland "Millionaire boys"even the ones dat drink garri plus kulikuli will insult their mother not Urs.Free them.Dnt bother to beg the guy.If he desire/want u,he'll come back for ur hand.if NOT,pls,move on.If Chinedu nor marry U, Adekunle will marry u.All will be well.Ur mama is precious to u Trayceey: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Acidosis(m): 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Munzy14: The right thing to do was to reject her food/drink. The young man is greedy and a glutton! Omo, how can you visit your mother in law for the first time without a gift, and sit down to eat her food and drink? Let's be honest pls, the young man is greedy and shameless. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kaimaonyeana: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: I'm honestly shocked. Going by these comments here, the poverty level in this country is underestimated. 500 naira bread and 1000 wine would have sufficed. Na wa oo |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97:Every time? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
iamL: His action and I actions are reflections of his character and composure. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by bukatyne(f): 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
KosiGee: And whites don't takes gifts? Even guests take gifts to their hosts. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by songzDaniel01(m): 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:pls can u shut up and make amends!! U bleeped up big time.. Ur mum bleeped up too.. Accept ur mistakes..! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ChiefS(m): 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: It seems your mum is materialistic an overbearing. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OlawaleBammie: 7:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Oga why are u talking like this naaaa U are one of the people i respect most in this forum, i too respect u sir but this u re saying got me a little bit unsettled. Only u can not be right among multitude na, she and her mother are wrong just let her acept it, stop painting black white. Even if its me, do i even have the time to visit my gf not to talk of her mother, visiting her mother alone is a great gesture and should be appreciated but u guys are marring it just cus he didn't come with Ore bread. Bros stop this oo make i no change am for u o 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oyiboman69: 7:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:from your expression,I can boldly say that the visit is not for the purpose of introduction cos he wouldn't have gone there alone and your mother is also alone that's why I said that. In your learned opinion,what would he have taking along to to visit your mother?,or if that is very important as you claim,wouldn't you have suggested what he would have taking along with him to see your mother?.... I'll suggest you go and settle your issue with your guy cos you've been wrong all along...my opinion which you sought.... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by feeloscar(m): 7:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
JovialJune:"Nsidime" just made me remember Akwa Ibom State. 1 Like |
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