I promise not to bore you with long story,i met this lady during lockdown...and we get along..I really want a serious relationship she told me she isn't dating anyone then....we started the relationship and it was a smooth sailing I do visit her almost every weekend...and shes always not happy when am about to leave her side...I met her mum...and she likes me...I was feeling loved by them....after the lockdown they resume school....I promise to visit her in school she was happy to hear that...I travel the longest distance ever to meet a girl...it's worth it though,i spent the weekend with her..she replied a chat on her massager and I asked whos was that and she told me it was one egbon from were she works during lockdown that he's like a brother to her that he has a fiancee I lockup,the day I was about to leave I was looking at pictures on her phone when a Facebook message pop up it was a love message from that same egbon...I was angry....is this not the egbon that has fiancee....sending this to you early morning....she beged that she won't chat him again...I just don't want wahala at the early stage of our relationship...I told her to know what shes doing....I left that day.....fast forward to xmas...i asked her what she needs for Xmas she listed them and I gave my younger sister money to help me get those stuffs cus they are ladies stuffs,when she visit I gave her and she said thank you....then she was in a hurry to leave that day cus I was to take her to my bar and the new apartment I just got cus I was staying with my brother....I showed her the bar...but I wasn't happy that she's leaving soon but she didn't show concern...after the bar I dropped her tfare inside her bag...that I want to go back and sleep that I can't take her to the apartment again...after that day she refused to pick my calls for complete 1week...till on the first of this month...I ask her what is my offence...and she said the stuffs I got for her is not good enough for her...that she didn't like them...I was mad at myself but I didn't show it...I just begged that I will get her new ones.... and since then she as changed...to me...no calls until she sees my miss calls wch is not happening before...I just tried all my possible best to get her back to before... everything prove abortive...until one day she said shes in need of urgent cash...I sent it to her...Since then I was just thinking why didn't she appreciate what I got for her for the first time...

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Are u kidding me.. If this story is true my brother u are single.. U are just a second choice move on stop calling her dont beg for love.. It doesn't worth it pls

Oluwasaeon:
Didn't read

why u comment ..go back nd read lazy nigeria youth

Pele Mr Simp. You have a long way to go with women.

When a man has money more than wisdom, he becomes a mumu and he'll be proud of it even when it's glaring that he's a mumu.

I consider it an insult to advice you bro. But know this fact..not an advice..it's a fact. ...The relationship is shitscrap. That girl was never yours, is not yours and she'll never be. You have successfully wasted your money, time and energy. Next time budget that same amount of money for orphanage every month and get blessed for it

BTW, how old are you?

That girl is not yours anymore. Leave the relationship

ludobaba:
I promise not to bore you with long story,i met this lady during lockdown...and we get along..I really want a serious relationship she told me she isn't dating anyone then....we started the relationship and it was a smooth sailing I do visit her almost every weekend...and shes always not happy when am about to leave her side...I met her mum...and she likes me...I was feeling loved by them....after the lockdown they resume school....I promise to visit her in school she was happy to hear that...I travel the longest distance ever to meet a girl...it's worth it though,i spent the weekend with her..she replied a chat on her massager and I asked whos was that and she told me it was one egbon from were she works during lockdown that he's like a brother to her that he has a fiancee I lockup,the day I was about to leave I was looking at pictures on her phone when a Facebook message pop up it was a love message from that same egbon...I was angry....is this not the egbon that has fiancee....sending this to you early morning....she beged that she won't chat him again...I just don't want wahala at the early stage of our relationship...I told her to know what shes doing....I left that day.....fast forward to xmas...i asked her what she needs for Xmas she listed them and I gave my younger sister money to help me get those stuffs cus they are ladies stuffs,when she visit I gave her and she said thank you....then she was in a hurry to leave that day cus I was to take her to my bar and the new apartment I just got cus I was staying with my brother....I showed her the bar...but I wasn't happy that she's leaving soon but she didn't show concern...after the bar I dropped her tfare inside her bag...that I want to go back and sleep that I can't take her to the apartment again...after that day she refused to pick my calls for complete 1week...till on the first of this month...I ask her what is my offence...and she said the stuffs I got for her is not good enough for her...that she didn't like them...I was mad at myself but I didn't show it...I just begged that I will get her new ones.... and since then she as changed...to me...no calls until she sees my miss calls wch is not happening before...I just tried all my possible best to get her back to before... everything prove abortive...until one day she said shes in need of urgent cash...I sent it to her...Since then I was just thinking why didn't she appreciate what I got for her for the first time...

..Another brother Ode in 2021.

Chai. So you gave your sister money to do Christmas shopping for a girl that's not your wife? That was very bad of you.

Listen...when a girl officially agrees to date you, and she tells you she doesn't have any guy or has cutoff from all the ones she has, and along the line as the relationship progresses, you discover that she's replying romantic chats with guys, just leave her. Such girl will end up breaking your heart at the end of the day so it's best if you leave first for your own mental and emotional health.

When a girl starts lying or acting funny towards you, know that someone has taken over your position. Don't try to quarrel with her by demanding to know why she's changed and who the guy she's always talking to is cos she'll lie to you by telling you what you want to hear. Just end it peaceful with her and move on. Life is too short to waste on dishonest people.

When your girlfriend who shows appreciation for the least thing you give her even if it's a sachet of pure water suddenly start telling you that you bought her trash, just know that she has someone who has started giving her something much better. So she cares less about your trash and can easily tell you to your face to stop bugging her because of the trash you gave to her.

When it wants to rain, even if it's at night, you'll suddenly notice that the atmosphere will become windy, if you're outside your home, you'll hasten up so as to get home before the downpour. That's how it is with cheating. The signs are there, just that many people deliberately choose to be dumb, thereby falling victims of theses leeches who fake a false love in order to wreck them.

My advice? Forget about her and move on. And go and apologize to your sister for not getting her a Christmas gift, despite using her to play the role of an errand boy for your girlfriend.

O lord,how long will i continue to pray and fast for the SIMPS on this forum??Hear my prayers o lord,cause my next move na to invite sango to strike them if they don't wanna be emancipated.

Hmm

Oluromantic:
When a man has money more than wisdom, he becomes a mumu and he'll be proud of it even when it's glaring that he's a mumu.

I consider it an insult to advice you bro. But know this fact..not an advice..it's a fact. ...The relationship is shitscrap. That girl was never yours, is not yours and she'll never be. You have successfully wasted your money, time and energy. Next time budget that same amount of money for orphanage every month and get blessed for it

BTW, how old are you?

30 bro

ludobaba:
30 bro

You need to leave this relationship.

I hope you have banged her sha

Damnnn niggarrrr
Ogbeni don't be a pussy ass niggarr

no matter what advice you give him, it won't work until the op learn in a hard way. premium tears loading........

Newly graduated simps keep springing up... Tueh!

The fvck

Niggarr!!

My niggarr that is a parasitic relationship.

You are the host, she is the parasite.

Do I need to spell it out, she feeding off you niggarr!

Level up!!

.......I supose give u spiritual baptism.......

If this story is true and you're 30 as you claim, bro you disappoint me.
If I give a girl 5naira and she doesn't appreciate it, that's a red flag.
Just know today that she's not Ur girl.
If u beg for love na u go suffer.

Are you really 30? Even though I'm far younger than you, I can't be this soft. You have money but you don't have wisdom. I'm sorry to say that. I only go after a lady, woo her and lock up. She will be the one chasing me afterwards; she won't even dare bill me, not to talk of not appreciating anything I give her no matter how little it is. Don't beg for love, you will surely be taken for granted.

Funny but make I tell you something bros

See eeh...The lady don use you cash out unto onye aghogburu Ka agbara way

Op Na better maga and ATM machine to the girl . It will surely end in premium tears. Smh

ludobaba:
30 bro

30 And you did this?
You must be joking

Bros op Abeg u need a dose red pill..
Kindly read this from beninging
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/