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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by grandlexuz(m): 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
Just marry one and have a confirmed mistress outside. I have seen a couple of friends enjoying life to the fullest through that.

A wife at home and a certified mistress out there. It was same with Prince Charles. While married to Dianna, Camilla was his certified mistress.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by banmee(m): 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
Why stop at 2. I'd marry 10 i were you...
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

I'm not in support of this. But if this is what you have decided to do, let them live in different countries. Maybe one in Nigeria, another one in Ghana. Let each wife never find out about the other one.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by espn(m): 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
Oluromantic:
Me weh come from polygamous background, I no go advice make you marry 2 wives o no matter how much you get money. Forget education, I no wan call you mumu. Who tell you say education dey avoid charm in women...see mumu o. You just wan use your life play game.

Now that you've grown mature and decisive. Get a woman that you're compatible with and groom her to your taste. Let her know your firm standards and stick to her. A good woman will not only respect you, she won't be able to look you in the eye when she offends you.

Two wives no be solution. Once you marry two, the desire to marry the third and fourth will grow in you and your poverty will advance
And may gang up last last against him...
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:28pm On Jan 09, 2021
If your religion doesn't permit it, then keep off.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Taiwojon(m): 10:29pm On Jan 09, 2021
one man one wife!!!!

please avoid such

Jesus save

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by DEBJOCH1(m): 10:29pm On Jan 09, 2021
NAWA OOO, PROBLEM DE SLEEP JEJEJE IYANGA DE GO WAKE AM, ONE WIFE ALONE IS ENOUGH PROBLEM TALK MORE OF MAKING THEM TWO. THOSE WHO DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT ARE THERE SAYING " FOLLOW YOUR HEART" PEOPLE LIKE DANGOTE KNOWS THAT 2 WIVES IS EQUAL TO 200 WAHALA THATS WHY HE CHOOSE TO REMAIN THE WAY HE IS.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by akin101: 10:30pm On Jan 09, 2021
Brotherly.......dont. I repeat dont even think about it.
One wife sef is almost unmanageable.
You want to put two selfish cunning, scrupulous, short sighted and devilish creatures in your house.
Na firewood wey dey burn you won bring enter your thatched straw house be that......
Trouble dey sleep ganga won wake am.
My brother dont be like the fool who had no problems and went looking for misfortune.

My advice if you must go down that route....
If you have two wives......dont keep them in the same house....
keep them as far as possible from each other.

damn dont keep them in the same country if possible.
Spell out exactly what they and their children will get from you by way of inheritance and all.
Let them know no single woman or her child will control your estate especially in your demise.

A better plan
2 or more baby mamas. Let them know You owe them only their kids education nothing more and maybe a premium for their sexual loyalties. You can easily disengage in event of infidelities and avoid their irritating distracting evil small minde drama..

My brother make sure bar dey o. Because no bar you go see how quick the roof falls on your head.
I repeat make sure bar dey o.

This are viscous animals o.
Na money dem dey use tame their useless and vicarious nature.
They are just a neccessary evil. God's inside joke to keep one man in poverty and uplift another from poverty.
Take advice here at your own risk sha
Goodluck......you are gonna need it

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by prciouschika(f): 10:31pm On Jan 09, 2021
cheesy
Ishilove:

You haven't even married one and you're already thinking of polygamy? It is the ladies who will enter your trap with their eyes wide open that I pity.

What am I even saying sef? Na you I go pity las las. Don't try us o, we are deadly grin tongue
. Don't mind him...the brother still they learn work.

The two or more wives will join hands and show him pepper, drain and Chase him out grin

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Hahjascho(m): 10:31pm On Jan 09, 2021
Premium tears loading.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Unrated900(m): 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
Bro don’t marry two wives

Now that you are comfortable on your own as your claimed.

You want to choose a partner.

This is the plan engage your self in meeting ladies

Don’t act as if you got some money or been confortable.

Try to always lied to them that you live in a disgusting area example like Mushin or ajegunle

Anyone amidst those woman who accepted you the way you described your self is your wife.

Marry two wives would ruin your life faster.

Do this and thank me later

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by WeRblessed(f): 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.



Your cross please carry it.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by CHoccolaTE: 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
Op sounds so naive and empty headed grin

Hahahaha

Very immature and childish reasoning. He needs public opinion on whether he should marry two wives, no personal experience, no first hand knowledge of how such a complicated system works, just his fantasies
My favourite part is where he thinks educated ladies will not use charm or find ways to harm each other/each others kids.
grin

Better respect yourself and stay your naive ass with only one woman.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by OlujobaSamuel: 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
Lol, if you do mistake marry 2nd wife, just Kuku make an about 4wives so dem go dey fight for survival as dem no go get time to kill you again, but just 2, buy your coffin ahead.
Biko, wait sef, you don manage 2babes before wey you dey reason 2wives? Seems you don get money pass Tesla, so life don tire you as you don get all things

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by femibig(m): 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

We are in the same picture bro.

But mind you, don't ever ever marry two wives. The headache isn't worth it.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by mastermaestro(m): 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
Mocata:


I see grin

You want to be dipping your wick in a different sump every other night. It's the classic male fantasy but like they say in Africa, sweet food is usually injurious to health.

If you were a muslim I'd have said go ahead, look for two sweet young muslimas and get them both pregnant, seeing as you're christian though, the chances of you getting ladies compliant with your degenerate fantasy are quite slim. Good luck in your carnal quest for heaven on earth bro

You almost killed me with laughter. grin grin Line of the night: Carnal quest for heaven on earth. grin
I can go to bed now. grin grin

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by EzegeNdiigbo: 10:33pm On Jan 09, 2021
Na Wa Oo
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Wartsnigeria: 10:33pm On Jan 09, 2021
doggedfighter:
You are not even talking like a man that can befriend two women comfortably not to talk of marrying them.

You think it's all about enjoying two pussies?

And have them fight for your attention?

Gerrrrrarahia grin






Why do you girls think everything is about sex? Anyway that's the only thing am average Nigerian girl can offer to a man.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Grandmisty: 10:33pm On Jan 09, 2021
doggedfighter:
You are not even talking like a man that can befriend two women comfortably not to talk of marrying them.

You think it's all about enjoying two pussies?

And have them fight for your attention?

Gerrrrrarahia grin







thats d only advantage all dis men want - 2 pussies.

1 advantage and uncountable disadvantages.

the stress of one woman alone not to talk of 2.

you wan bury urself before your time

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Alexpetra: 10:33pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
seriously bah this thought hit me day-before-yesterday like just get one child for all the whole 36 State

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Successmind(m): 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2021
Na me wan feed and satisfy them? Continue jare... Carry go
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Jeromejnr(m): 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2021
Wiifesnatcher:
having financial stability got me, Op like you're worth 100million? na your type dey take LAPO loan to do traditional marriage



when you meet one Lady, you don't always feel love but the impression of having two ladies make you feel love?


you talk to some ladies but they declined/feel remorse but some ladies accepted and you think those that accepted to do that have true love or won't betray you?


no ladies that have true love for you we agreed to go in a polygamous marriage with you, Mr man you're wasting your time and deceiving yourself emotionally


work on your stained emotional trait, disguise and continue finding your true love. polygamous marriage is not something you should be having in mind in your 30's because there are many things staring at you in the future

Lol...your comment has made me laff tire.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by alllivesmatter(m): 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2021
Op don kolo ooo. Someone should make a move before guy go enter Express o

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by FashionCookie(f): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2021
How much you get sef wey u no want allow us rest? Go and marry na, we hold you? With your thin waist, yen yen yen yen...ogbeni si eba pwo!

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by michlins(m): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2021
You're your father's son. Don't let anyone stop you from chasing your dreams. Education however doesn't make people less diabolical. Just make sure you marry like four women if you want to go polygamy. That way, the women will be competing for your love

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by PS712: 10:36pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
Ie.
Start with one first, then come back and tell us if you can afford (not finance-wise o) to add another.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by jaxxy(m): 10:36pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.


If u want to have 2 wives I think u shud have 3 concubines to balance the equation. Incase the 2 wives gang up against u bro.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Jeromejnr(m): 10:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
AnonymousRebec:


I'm not in support of this. But if this is what you have decided to do, let them live in different countries. Maybe one in Nigeria, another one in Ghana. Let each wife never find out about the other one.

This your advice..and you say you believe in Jesus Christ.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by toprealman: 10:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
FCMB.....you get it right?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by MemoriesAndMe: 10:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
Are you Christian or Muslim?
One religion attempt to condition us to stay married to one woman till death separates us, the other allows you to marry as many as you want as long as you can afford them and spread your love equally. Same God, many religions and beliefs contradicting one another.

So, whatever you choose to do will contradict what one or more religions say you must do. So bro, just do you, f...k society and religion that brainwashed everyone to this point. Make yourself happy bro. Its only two options - hell or heaven. At this point, it doesn't matter anymore after life. Life is already hell for many people, can anything be "heller" that hell? Nobody dey fear hell anymore jare.

So bro do whatever works for you. Just bear in mind that one wife is one problem, two wives means additional problems.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by maiquel: 10:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
Two too small... marry six.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by favinvest: 10:38pm On Jan 09, 2021
bro..

thats the voice of the devil..

please resist it ok

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