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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Yomit71(m): 2:54am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Trayceey:will you keep quiet? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oshorstan(m): 5:30am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Afromentalist: at all , at all na bad pass.... nor be so?? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oshorstan(m): 5:32am On Jan 10, 2021 |
BOSMANARIS: Oga even if na #250 bread. e nor mean |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 6:48am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Lol...you go dey wicked...if you will complain cus he didnt get your family gifts on second visit, you will also complain if he doesnt bring gifts once out of 20 times...but always remember, ur bf doesnt owe you gifts...any gift is out of freewill...no be force |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by simeko(m): 8:03am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Trayceey: Seriously, very sad, you guy expect him to take things along with him anytime he comes visit. He is trying to be family now, my in-laws visit my family and it's just normal, we all gist and laugh and dey leave ooo. There are family not gift producing machine 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 8:19am On Jan 10, 2021 |
U sef, with all due respect wisdom is actually far from u, Later u guys will start complaining that man is scarce to marry. All I see is big amateur baby. This is something that concerns u, do u really care about him? u did not act wise at all, from the beginning of your story to the end lacks wisdom! If it is only one instance that u displayed lack of wisdom I will say OKAY, but I can count upto five instances u clearly displayed a total lack of wisdom. This is disturbing! Granted your fiance messed up in not bringing anything along. Moderator please mind the way u push these kind of threads to front-page. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 8:34am On Jan 10, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Haha |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 9:01am On Jan 10, 2021 |
sapporo:Lol so intelligent and straight to the point, the problem is most people don't use their God given brain to think, just imagine if she said this it will have been over, but no she went up to hanging up his phone, Any girl that hang up my phone I will never marry her, my ex try that nonsense with me, I just japa me that I be alpha. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 9:04am On Jan 10, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Can you please give me the address of your family house, do you have a sister, na the type of your family men they hustle for now o |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ziniora: 9:59am On Jan 10, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: Well done to your family better family and yes I can confirm this cus I am married to someone from Anambra. They are over wonderful Inlaw’s to the core, I don’t recall how many times I carry gift give anyone. Her brother just sent my mother foodstuff out of the blues for no reason. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by cescky(m): 11:34am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles: You sound dumber than her mother... Spits.. We are Africans so we're stupid.. Let keep being fooolish We are Africans so at a certain age we put our hands in fire, so lets follow blindly Spits again |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by cescky(m): 11:41am On Jan 10, 2021 |
Trayceey: Fsct you've exposed the poverty mentality in your family.. Weather you get money or not.. I doubt you have any money.. Its not a sin though You're man needs to dodge you.. Your wahala is too much, i guess it stems from poverty, you don't have a mind of your own.. Youd harras the guy when you marry, by bringing your mums "loving" opinion over common sense you should have.. This is the sin.. The mam deserves better 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BOSMANARIS(m): 12:03pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
oshorstan: What if he's not having extra ₦250 for that purpose. Something she's gonna eat and end up in toilet. Where do we put human and physical bond and that we cherish monetary and gifts above them. Money and gift will finish, na human go remain. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by iamL(f): 1:05pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
BusinessCity: From the comments on this thread I now believed that most NL female esp Nigerian girls are broke, lazy and self entitled, they don't deserve a kobo. Is very clear why most yahoo boys are booming. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by iamL(f): 1:05pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Fiscus105: For the first time in my life I will agree that Most Nigeria girls are lazy and are self entitled with nothing to offer in a healthy relationship or marriage. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BOSMANARIS(m): 1:13pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
iamL: The only thing Nigeria ladies has to offer is pu.ssy. Aside that, so useless |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Liposure: 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
spirul77:laslas you turn NGO |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 2:31pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
BOSMANARIS:Fool even at that . Some idiots like you are here calling her names even when he ate in her house yet you all see nothing wrong in not coming with gift , had he gone there and they offered him nothing how would you all see it . No matter how broke you are at least you can still avoid the smallest of gift even if is groundnut is still something. Ode! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 2:33pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:Is really a shame that uptil now you don't know that you are foolish . Wish you all practice what you say here . 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 2:47pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
BOSMANARIS:Idiot I even thought you have sense seff. She never mentioned whether he has visited before or not here. Besides what is wrong in buying something for your in-law to be . If he see something wrong in buying her something while coming and then sees nothing wrong in eating or drinking in her house "in-law" I guess you are the fool here . What if he had come from a far distance and they offered him nothing how would he see it . No matter the size of the gift it is still a gift . Besides what is he going to her house to do when he knows his woman isn't around . Head of SIMPS ! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
GayPontiff:Even the white people you immite still go long with a gift , is either a flower or a wine or as little as cup of sweet or cake . Stop immitating nonsense . You are African and you can't erase it so is high time you start living as one . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:I love you so so much . You see all them yarning sh#t here are all from poor homes . How on earth can somebody in his right sense see a gift as wrong. Once visited my uncle , he is very rich so I was wondering what to buy for him and besides he doesn't accept visit or eat in people's house but I was very glad that he asked his wife to wash the apples I bought him and started eating them while I was there . I study German language and I love their way of life . Do you know that remaining your food after being served is very wrong but we see it here as nothing . When you are served and you finished everything it gives it cook a different joy to want to do more but here is different. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 3:08pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
ststyreal:Apology my foot ! If I may ask why did he go there exactly , even when she told him that she wouldn't be around . He still went and the woman gladly gave him her drink he drank and felt comfortable with it if she had brought food he would have still eat . Sometimes i feel so ashamed for people since they have no face let me be ashamed for them. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 3:17pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:I don't think is hatred . You know what I think , I think is lack of home training . Even as a child during Christmas once we all come together as family we always visit my grandma's sisters house we always go with a gift like palm wine , kola , fowl etc , and then they will sever us food and also gift us while we are going back. There is nothing wrong in gifting . This is Africa we should behave as one . Could remember some year back we visited my cousin's husband's home town .We went with wine , birds @ fowls , bitter kola , kola and many other things . Even though he is madly rich he was glad that we came with those gifts is not even as if he will eat any of them seff but he will show them off to his friends and then ask his cooks to prepare them for visitors . You wouldn't belief what we went home with that day for just gifting him those things . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BOSMANARIS(m): 3:18pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Exodora: I understand your plight and we know your type. No need to reply this cos the write ups really revealed your kind of personality. Make I run 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 3:29pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
stupidmod2:A gift is a gift no matter the size . Even the white people that we immita still go long with at least a flower . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Exodora: 3:42pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:I am really glad somebody is making sense finally . Some people don't have face to be ashamed of , i should be shaming the sham for them. I grown up don't even know simple etiquette . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:45pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Yeah the did not try, but the girl acted like a full grown adult with a new born baby sense |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:46pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Yeah the fiance did not try, but the girl acted like a full grown adult with a new born baby sense 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:You're just disgracing yourself throughout this thread. E be like say your own Igbo different from the one practiced why the whole of Igboland because I no understand again. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by eseh1(f): 5:51pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Maybe my opinion is too late but ..sincerely we have to show responsibilities to who ever we are with and possibly extend it to their families if capable ....both men and women. Firstly your boyfriend/ fiance must not always visit with gift unless the visit is like an August visit or a special one ... Secondly, people have diff upbringing, he might not kno the importance of coming with gifts and whether or not it's disrespectful to do So...you can direct him stylishly in that manner and explain d role it plays in his appearance to his would be in-laws Thirdly, some parent ain't greedy, they might just want to know how sincere and capable the fiance is ...it's believed if you go extra mile , you might be really into the child. You messed up by telling your bf bluntly on what your mum said...it's a shame really. Mend this if you can and want to...but for sure, there's already a grudge between both parties..You can repair it by doing d gift out on behalf of your fiancee pending when his own grudge subsides and takes over .. But ability to give gifts opens doors and respect to every1 and we should learn to embrace it ..I will not be comfortable visiting empty handed sha... |
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