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If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 3:00pm On Jan 13, 2021
If you have no option other than getting married to someone who was never your choice what would you do in that case??
Pregnancy is involved and both parents are now aware, what will you do?

Go ahead to marry her, or break her heart?
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by debbydams(f): 3:15pm On Jan 13, 2021
Why will u have unprotected sex with someone u can't marry ehn? Anyway u will have to marry her nd make her your choice.

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Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 3:22pm On Jan 13, 2021
debbydams:
Why will u have unprotected sex with someone u can't marry ehn? Anyway u will have to marry her nd make her your choice.

It was intentional naa. Infact, drugs was taken immediately. But to surprises, it resulted to pregnancy
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by debbydams(f): 3:37pm On Jan 13, 2021
goldenpenny2:


It was intentional naa. Infact, drugs was taken immediately. But to surprises, it resulted to pregnancy
wow, if truly she used the contraceptive forget it she won't get pregnant, some woman are very desperate and smart o,, since both parent are involved do introduction with her let her stay with u who knows u might love her durinh that process and if u dont den let her go nd take care of the baby �.
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by longetivity(m): 3:41pm On Jan 13, 2021
debbydams:
Why will u have unprotected sex with someone u can't marry ehn? Anyway u will have to marry her nd make her your choice.
swear that you have not had unprotected sex before
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by Kiddyong123ayo(m): 3:51pm On Jan 13, 2021
goldenpenny2:


It was intentional naa. Infact, drugs was taken immediately. But to surprises, it resulted to pregnancy

Do you love her small? If yes marry her, if no.

Sit her down and accuse her that you know her plan all along, was to pin you down with pregnancy, and now she has succeeded in getting pregnant, but she has failed in pinning you down.

Tell her that if eventually due to customs and traditions you are forced to marry her, you will make her life a living hell, tell her nothing she Wil do will please you, tell her she will be nothing but a filthy rag in your sight and she will never win your love.

Tell her that it's only a fool that will believe, after taking pills which is 99% effective , the next morning after the sex, she is claiming pregnancy, how is she sure you are the owner.

pull out the card of the numerous times you have suspected her to be a cheat and liar and she is just doing what she does best.

Spill all of this to her face and watch her reaction, but bro your voice has to be stern and your look serious.

See if she will not pin the belle on another guy in 3 days.

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Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by debbydams(f): 4:44pm On Jan 13, 2021
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longetivity:
swear that you have not had unprotected sex before
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by debbydams(f): 4:57pm On Jan 13, 2021
Kiddyong123ayo:


Do you love her small? If yes marry her, if no.

Sit her down and accuse her that you know her plan all along, was to pin you down with pregnancy, and now she has succeeded in getting pregnant, but she has failed in pinning you down.

Tell her that if eventually due to customs and traditions you are forced to marry her, you will make her life a living hell, tell her nothing she Wil do will please you, tell her she will be nothing but a filthy rag in your sight and she will never win your love.

Tell her that it's only a fool that will believe, after taking pills which is 99% effective , the next morning after the sex, she is claiming pregnancy, how is she sure you are the owner.

pull out the card of the numerous times you have suspected her to be a cheat and liar and she is just doing what she does best.

Spill all of this to her face and watch her reaction, but bro your voice has to be stern and your look serious.

See if she will not pin the belle on another guy in 3 days.
sense nogo kill you grin grin
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by SavageResponse(m): 6:50pm On Jan 13, 2021
goldenpenny2:
If you have no option other than getting married to someone who was never your choice what would you do in that case??
Pregnancy is involved and both parents are now aware, what will you do?

Go ahead to marry her, or break her heart?

Break her heart
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 3:34pm On Jan 22, 2021
debbydams:
wow, if truly she used the contraceptive forget it she won't get pregnant, some woman are very desperate and smart o,, since both parent are involved do introduction with her let her stay with u who knows u might love her durinh that process and if u dont den let her go nd take care of the baby �.

she is already pregnant.
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 3:36pm On Jan 22, 2021
Kiddyong123ayo:


Do you love her small? If yes marry her, if no.

Sit her down and accuse her that you know her plan all along, was to pin you down with pregnancy, and now she has succeeded in getting pregnant, but she has failed in pinning you down.

Tell her that if eventually due to customs and traditions you are forced to marry her, you will make her life a living hell, tell her nothing she Wil do will please you, tell her she will be nothing but a filthy rag in your sight and she will never win your love.

Tell her that it's only a fool that will believe, after taking pills which is 99% effective , the next morning after the sex, she is claiming pregnancy, how is she sure you are the owner.

pull out the card of the numerous times you have suspected her to be a cheat and liar and she is just doing what she does best.

Spill all of this to her face and watch her reaction, but bro your voice has to be stern and your look serious.

See if she will not pin the belle on another guy in 3 days.


I actually love her as a human being but the qualities I want in my dream wife is no where to be found in her.... one thing that keep me calm is that, she is respectful and willing to learn and adapt with me.
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by Derare(f): 3:53pm On Jan 22, 2021
Why not discuss it with her,e go pain shaa but what can you do?

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Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 4:29pm On Jan 22, 2021
Derare:
Why not discuss it with her,e go pain shaa but what can you do?

I have discussed it with her. Initially, she is not ready to get pregnant before marriage. I was the one persuading her to keep it.

But later, am beginning to have double mind.
Am just being confused weda to go ahead and marry her or ask her to abort it
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by Derare(f): 5:29pm On Jan 22, 2021
goldenpenny2:


I have discussed it with her. Initially, she is not ready to get pregnant before marriage. I was the one persuading her to keep it.

But later, am beginning to have double mind.
Am just being confused weda to go ahead and marry her or ask her to abort it
Omo you have to carry your cross then

I am still saying the same thing ....since you don't want the baby nor marriage,why not sit her down and discuss it again ...don't go ahead marrying someone you don't have affinity for.we all know how painful this might be but ..
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage...


Peace

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Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 6:31pm On Jan 22, 2021
Derare:

Omo you have to carry your cross then

I am still saying the same thing ....since you don't want the baby nor marriage,why not sit her down and discuss it again ...don't go ahead marrying someone you don't have affinity for.we all know how painful this might be but ..
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage...


Peace


my heart is full of pity.
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by Ikennamurphy: 6:36pm On Jan 22, 2021
goldenpenny2:
If you have no option other than getting married to someone who was never your choice what would you do in that case??
Pregnancy is involved and both parents are now aware, what will you do?

Go ahead to marry her, or break her heart?
My dad will always tell me
son, any woman that is not good for you for marriage should never be good also to be laid
Your question is answered
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by Mikester: 7:44pm On Jan 22, 2021
And yet the dangers of premarital sex surfaces... Chastity remains the best. If you're angered by this comment, raise your standards
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by abimic(m): 10:54pm On Jan 22, 2021
And why would any sane man have sex with who was never his choice? when it's not as if the girl was a prostitute. Been careful of our actions save us from unnecessary drama and confusions. Well, you just have to recondition your mind to start seeing her as your choice. I just hate seeing the situation of baby mama or been with a child out of wedlock, it's a highly irresponsible act. She is your choice, just see her good more than her negatives, you both would have peace Las Las. In the end, attitude is everything when it comes to peace in marriage.
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by goldenpenny2(m): 11:52pm On Jan 24, 2021
Mikester:
And yet the dangers of premarital sex surfaces... Chastity remains the best. If you're angered by this comment, raise your standards

Am angered by this statement. What do you mean by raise my standard? Pls explain
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by debbydams(f): 1:28pm On Feb 02, 2021
goldenpenny2:


she is already pregnant.
wow..it is well dear God will see u tru
Re: If You Have No Option Other Than Getting Married To Someone Never Your Choice. by soundOsonic: 3:48pm On Feb 02, 2021
Kiddyong123ayo:


Do you love her small? If yes marry her, if no.

Sit her down and accuse her that you know her plan all along, was to pin you down with pregnancy, and now she has succeeded in getting pregnant, but she has failed in pinning you down.

Tell her that if eventually due to customs and traditions you are forced to marry her, you will make her life a living hell, tell her nothing she Wil do will please you, tell her she will be nothing but a filthy rag in your sight and she will never win your love.

Tell her that it's only a fool that will believe, after taking pills which is 99% effective , the next morning after the sex, she is claiming pregnancy, how is she sure you are the owner.

pull out the card of the numerous times you have suspected her to be a cheat and liar and she is just doing what she does best.

Spill all of this to her face and watch her reaction, but bro your voice has to be stern and your look serious.

See if she will not pin the belle on another guy in 3 days.
Contraceptiveives pills works according to ones body weight. Most times it doesn't work for fat ladies, you need a more powerful contraceptiveve pills for her weight.
No contraceptive is 99℅ accurate my brother.
But it is possible she is lying

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