ChngedChnges:


I'm sorry I don't make e-trouble neither do I engage in bashing people online.
My point is clear, since the guy is no more, is of no use bringing yourself out. Even you won't do the same if u were in her shoes atleast not making a video of it and posting to the world.

Alwaysachick:



Sorry about the insult, just that men of these days are behaving as if they were birthed by aliens not women.

If you are in trouble, your prayer will be for God to send help especially when you are innocent. And if you are in position to help, sitting quiet and not doing anything will be like a curse and guilt one might live with forever. Only God knows the truth and i pray he makes justice prevail.

SimplyFacts:
The dead don't tell tales

But

Let's fear God ooo

This is definitely a different case from Dilfret's. Aunty Corper is used to taking ikong ekpo abi weytin dem call am sef

ChngedChnges:

Ans:
1) no
2)no
3) no
I've done none of that yet am about getting married. Thank u

moralistic:
this mama is wasting her time... as far the law is concerned, the guy was murdered... it was a clear murder case.... I foresee death sentence or life imprisonment ...no Matter the number of women that will come out to castigate the dead guy, it won't stop odume from life imprisonment or from getting her death sentence. honestly I feel for her and her family... but the law still remains the law....irrespective of whatever, this is a clear murder case


Na ashawo business carry her reach the guy house, the guy do finish he no wan pay, and she killed him.

simple and short

Simeon88:


In saner clan with functional judicial system, she won't spend even a month in prison once investigation reveal she acted on self defense. But alas we are in Nigeria and anything goes. God bless this country! I just hope things could just turn around for good overnight.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

All this talk seems charade to me. Let me analyze it base on what she wrote.

So it was because of a Facebook comment you want to show your self abi?? During all those times when rape stories were trending did you talk? Compare the influence of a treading story and a mere Facebook comment. Abeg people which one get weight?




Imagine?


After saying she Wont pick, now she pick wanting to meet him at such ungodly time.. Can't she postpone it since it is late?? She said jazz, at that time she was thinking in her right senses. Let's continue !!!



Imagine, jazz?
But you allow the jazz to work on you the moment you decide to see him at that ungodly hour.. Lies lies.

Imagine the way she sounded the 'very true' as if she has a witness. Truth is found in the mouth of two witness not one. Lies !!



Lies lies !!

And you had parents? So for those years she kept calm with the whole event ? You didn't tell the police or your parents since you know his house? Please how do people lie without doing a constructive check?



How do she knows the intents of the girl? Am sensing a planned work. The way she's defending the Bea like she have known her for years.

Others to spew lies like the way you have done? May God forgive you !!!

All this girls going around lying about men raping you, may God judge you. If them tell una guys avoid sex before marriage una no go hear. Una see weytin the opposite dey curse

BluntTheApostle:


I was neutral each time.

You won't find my comments in the original post for each of these allegations

But in the post about the commissioner of health, I did make a post when someone said he trusted that the commissioner could not have driven the aggrieved woman out of her office.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright

letskeeptalking:
The comments on this thread are truly shocking. Now I'm beginning to agree that we have a rape culture in Nigeria.

UDUJ:


Lumi too many idiots on this forum. I gave up on them a long long time ago.

I wasn't surprised to see this lady come out and say the dude raped her sometime back. This is their usual modus operandi. Always using the rape card. Rubbish. The Precious lady is a runs girl with well known evil psychotic tendencies and also takes crack. A hardcore olosho with aggressive tendencies. She butchered that dude like a Christmas goat just because a pre arranged sexual agreement was breached or something like that. Too many dumb fvcks on this forum.

Happy new year bro. May success remain with us all through the year. Cheers

OrdinaryNigeria:
If the guy did wat this lady said, am glad he died cold.
He met his match.
And the corp member shud be set free

Simeon88:


This is so so insensitive. She was 18 for God sake. Do you guys even read at all. She said she told her sister and the guy was threatening her too. She even call on other victims to speak up. Have you ever taken a rape case to a Nigerian police station...Am not surprised Sha, forget the whole religious talk and all those bullshit, there are so many perverts on the loose. May God protect our ladies and young boys

Ninisun:
If you haven't been raped or escape being raped,you won't understand the trauma this writer passed through.
Go to the North, this is so rampant, the touch you and you see yourself mumuishly following the guy.
Some will put jazz on a wee of a female,she will fall for the guy yakata.This babe was at least hot and so the guy targeted her and she fell into his trap.How are you sure it wasnt when he was dressing up cos he was on singlet.Not justifying the killing but some men should know raping a lady means cowardice.

BluntTheApostle:


She didn't act in self-defense.

She claimed to have overpowered him. What she should have done next was escape or cry for help.

After you have overpowered someone, whatever act you perpetrate next is no longer in self-defense.

Her self-defense claim has become extremely weak. Now, she needs a lawyer to help establish beyond doubt that the murder was not premeditated.

With a sound case, she can escape a death sentence.

But there is no way she would escape a prison sentence.

Boyooosa:


Baba, this your comment no add up at all, and it's a pity that you have so much likes on it; if people just like your comment based on FTC routine on nl, fine but if they liked based on logic, then, our society is gone! And I'm scared.

Forget the status of the lady confessing now and surround your mind-frame with the scenario of if the claims of the two ladies are true about the guy.

I strongly believe that the crime scene was decided by the dead guy.
And I'm very sure when they accosted the girl, they didn't see money belonging to the deceased with her nor any part of his body with her where we can establish a case of robbery or ritual killing against the lady.

It is possible for the lady to have overpowered the guy one way or the other, in the process of struggling for her for life; I can see that the lady looks physically fit and she might have undergone some basic training in the camp or elsewhere....this is very possible!

The other girl testifying to be a victim some years back, she might be saying the truth; reason being that, I don't think she has any previous relationship with the accused until established.

Examining her testimony and relating it to your two assertions here:
1. That she reluctantly gave him her number promising herself never to pick the call but eventually picked up the call
2. That she reluctantly went to the guy's house even after bluntly refusing initially in excuse of sacrificing to waste her own time.

One, I dont know what attracted her to the guy but she knows; beauty, stature, complexion, loneliness, will to have new friends, gut, confidence etc but the truth is, she was ready to start a friendship with the guy (mind you, open to friendship is not a consent to sexx or invitation to rappe).
She might be carried away with the fact that the guy called her exactly where she met him and thereby assumed that the guy was actually stucking her based on deep and sincere interest he had in her....any 18yo would have fallen for that. The reason I guess she picked the call, she might be curious to find out the real person the guy was.
That being mentioned

On the second note, they had met.
They had discussed.
She had seen few things about the guy attractive and might be willing to give him a chance; a guy does not necessarily need a charm or jazz before you confuse a lady further for your lust for her if you choose your words appropriately and deliver them the way a Shakespeare would deliver it, rheterically...confidence from the guy must be part of his charming features.
The line 'ive told my aunt much about you and she will be willing to meet you' can sweep a 18yo off her feet even a married woman without joy in her marital front.
You might need to confirm this from your female friends, sister or even your mum.

Conclusively, let's focus our minds on the corper girl as a subject: whichever way we look at it, she needs help; 1. She is a murderer and you should know that her life can never be what she dreamt of in her life
2. Let's assume that the allegations from the two ladies are true; that the guy was a serial rapist or even killer, would we have allowed an innocent girl that struggled to rescue her life from someone like that by incidentally killing him to just bear unworthy cross.

Well, on this part, if I'm wrong with my speculations against the truth, may the people in authority see the reason and strength to prioritise justice.

Thank you

Beremx:
See the kind of comments coming out from men of nairaland? Very senseless and heartbreaking.

Nairaland has lost sensible posters on sensitive issues.

SMH

Alwaysachick:



" Or something like that" So you weren't there?

Then allow those who have the capacity judge the case.

BRATISLAVA:


In line with your neutrality, why do you feel there is hypocrisy in domestic violence reportage?

Have you been neutral when cases involving women come up? Have you stood at the true side? Because neutrality permits great evil to go unchecked.

Hypocrisy in domestic violence began from men, but now with equalling rights, some ground has shifted.

When a woman is battered, it's her mouth, she talks too much, what could she have done/said to make a man a beast? She should apologize to him. She pushed him.

When she's cheated on, she must have been hoarding sex, she deserved it, all women are cheats and hypergamous.

When he's not caring, she should go and pray, she must've killed his emotions.

When he offends and abuses her, she should go on her knees and apologize to him, no matter what, even if he's absolutely wrong.

When she reports her son was raped and demands compensation, they knew it! Women are always after money.

When she's raped, she must be a prostitute in a soured transaction.

When he kills her, she must have pushed him, some women can turn a gentle man into a beast. We need to hear his side of the story, this is not normal! But you see, fear women!

When he draws her blood, that's a lesson to all other women to behave themselves.

When she pours acid on her husband, she's a devil, fear women, evil women.

The above is not hypocrisy, but some of the responses men give. Why is it that women cannot give excuses the way men have done for centuries?

I'll come to edit this when I can.

But above are some instances we see commonly and a perusal of comments shows it's the general sentiment.

I've seen a real life case a woman was forced to kneel to apologize to a man with her face swollen black and blue from battery. She never touched him. And he was feeling good at the hypocrisy since it favored him. The men presiding the settlement saw nothing wrong. But flip the coin and see what commentary and demonization would follow a woman who does the same

collinsuchendu:

Go and set her free. Nonsense

freemi:
u sabi lie. How did u meet ur wife?

moralistic:
this mama is wasting her time... as far the law is concerned, the guy was murdered... it was a clear murder case.... I foresee death sentence or life imprisonment ...no Matter the number of women that will come out to castigate the dead guy, it won't stop odume from life imprisonment or from getting her death sentence. honestly I feel for her and her family... but the law still remains the law....irrespective of whatever, this is a clear murder case


Na ashawo business carry her reach the guy house, the guy do finish he no wan pay, and she killed him.

simple and short

ModestGal:

Very very shocking, I really don't know if these naira landers are human being, I really don't

Bikonze:

Every day for the thief,. He met his match.

ayusco85:


If they can prove that it was in self defense oga she will walk free or bag a little jail time

Beremx:
See the kind of comments coming out from men of nairaland? Very senseless and heartbreaking.

Nairaland has lost sensible posters on sensitive issues.

SMH

Alwaysachick:



Sorry about the insult, just that men of these days are behaving as if they were birthed by aliens not women.

If you are in trouble, your prayer will be for God to send help especially when you are innocent. And if you are in position to help, sitting quiet and not doing anything will be like a curse and guilt one might live with forever. Only God knows the truth and i pray he makes justice prevail.