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Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by SexytorresE(f): 11:13pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
SocialJustice:so terrible |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by PROPHETmichael: 11:14pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123: DM and I will tell you what to do. Don't forget to come and thank me later. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by SexytorresE(f): 11:15pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
oginga:second to last paragraph thou |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by extol1(m): 11:15pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
reciprocal:may my God bless you ma. I love you for this inputs. I just hope he can yield to your advice |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by ogashman(m): 11:15pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
hybridblood07:ok 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Lilgabby(m): 11:16pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
If you no want make your story be like FCMB MD and her employee .... Think well! A word is enough for the wise. She and the guy dey Bleep like this.... E be like say u no sabi forck ..dat other guy sabi. But if una marry and she born... Go do DNA sharp sharp.. And you fit risk am ooh! Make u wait till you born the 4th one. Wetin i dey talk sef. Goodluck bruh! Naija women smart.... Just knw that. I go talk to you like brother. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by SexytorresE(f): 11:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Kaeboy:I guess he is covering her up as well. I noticed in some of his replies 4 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by SexytorresE(f): 11:18pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
extol1:calm down I don't have none . But wanna be clear of someone 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by chimeziedickson: 11:24pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Really a red flag...Watch it.Dont ever make mistake of going into what will hurt you permanently in life...Word! 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123:Why can't she tell you why she keeps receiving the guy's call Why can't she introduce you to the guy?? Why can't you read the writing on the wall? 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by eghevaare: 11:27pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Do a background check on her. Who is the mother and siblings interms of fidelity? Is it only the dad the mum has been married to? Does she keep her words? If the answer these questions are+, go for her. Do what it takes to get her back. Your village people or hers might just be at work. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by uthlaw: 11:27pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
adexpa:sit her down and talk to her,you are talking like 15years old boy....a cheater will always cheat,allow baba move on! 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Skepticus: 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
EduTechTainMent: Take your virtue-signalling crap and moral judgement elsewhere. You don't know me and i care less about the "wrongs" that you do in your personal life, seeing it is not my business I shared my experiences to make OP see what may likely be going on. I could decide not to, and nothing would happen but i decided to "open-up" since Nigerian men usually fall for women's manipulations a lot. He sought for our opinions/advice and we shared it. The decision is in his hands to make. No one is putting a gun on his forehead to follow their advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
See, i have the same experience with you. Lemme tell you whats going on. That your girl has dated that guy before she get to know you. She and that guy has bang wella. But you re fast on the track to marriage than that guy, thats why she hook with you. Buh the guy too dosent wanna let go. The same thing happend to me, she told me that the guy is just a friend. Then when i did my research, i realise i am only roasting the fish for the fish owner. That guy has been dating her up to 3 years before i met her. Anytime we re together, the guy will call her, and if i ask, she will say its just a friend. See, leave her alone, she is chasing two rats at the same time. Thats what i did bro, If you continue, that guy gon be banging her too, To avoid another DNA saga, leave her alone. Or if you really really love her, dont call her again, if she loves you too, she will come to apologise most times on her kneels, and right there make her promise never ever to have anything to do with that guy again, collect her phone, delete the guys number, she might have it upstairs though. Keep watch, as soon as you notice anything again, cut off with her. So that she wount confisticate your life and future. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Lawalemi(m): 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
This thing called checking of phone will cause a lot of troubles |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by richnankar1: 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
My brother, there's more to love. You need to use your head. Leave emotions aside and use your full senses. It may be very hard for you, but just let the lady go. God will give you someone better. 5 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Komu1048(m): 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123: Bro, continue getting close to the new girl and make her your companion. The fact that the girl is able to leave you for a while to form one yeye vex without wanting to reconcile, means she didn’t love you like you do to her and she sees the other guy as a better choice and that’s why the small love she had for you is fading away cox the dude calls her and she will be more than happy to jump on his arm. How you guys fall in love is still a mirage to me, wetin dem Dey give una chop or how e Dey be sef Maybe, the way I was brought up sha. I didn’t grow up under this lovy lovy, my dad a confirm redpiller. My mum will even be happy any day she receive hug n I’m just a better version. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by reciprocal(f): 11:32pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
extol1:Amen. I hope so too |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by extol1(m): 11:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Southbeach:which part of Yorubaland did you come from |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by silento(m): 11:35pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Op u are mumu I have an ex who is married our chat on WhatsApp is Hi and xup trust she has begged me many times to Bleep her on call Girls are more wiser in relationship than we guys use ur brain the guy is get a good respond that's why they keep talking on phone ur girl is smart u are just mumu here 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
sorry to say,.... she is still in her hoeing stage It’s either you talk to her senses or you cut the crap off before it’s get too late,... she has been looking for an opportunity to leave you since,.. so she got some chance by luck 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by madridsta007(m): 11:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123: Ladies are very smart when it comes to cheating. Believe me, if she doesnt want you to know, you wont know. If you like, check everywhere. 5 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by extol1(m): 11:37pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
SexytorresE:for gorgeous lady like you not to have none. please na I am available and single 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by stonecoldcafe: 11:38pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123: Broken engagement is better than broken marriage. At the stage you are doing fiance and fiancee, you all should have resolved trust issues completely. Since she is still talking and visiting the guy and you are dragging phone with her, it's time to reassess what both of you have. She is right to take sometime off, you need it too. If you are still troubled and unsure of the way forward after your time apart, gently let her go 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by efficiencie(m): 11:38pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
@Serene123 run ohhh...before den give you another man pikin...but if she has helped you then you need to investigate why she is exhibiting this new attitude...but please be careful and be wary of paternity fraud. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by silento(m): 11:38pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Linkuizzy524: Are u in Abuja if so u am the guy bro u are really roasting the fish for me but good news I found a better person sef and a baby mama 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by alizma: 11:41pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123:In case you really need a constructive advise Take the new girl out, catch your fun and let the other person enjoy her space. When she is ready and come back, don't be shy not to tell her plainly if you are not ready then. Stop nonsense before you get yourself trapped. If she had nothing hidden, there wouldn't have be any struggle over the phone. Besides she owe you explanation as to why she didn't picked your and you have the right to verify her explanation by all means, including checking her phone. It is true I lock my phone at times but deep inside me, I know that 80% of the times I do that are times when I am hiding something. So who is she deceiving? 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by bettinglord22: 11:44pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123:how did You do it? |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by NobleSeed(m): 11:47pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
This is the only thing I see read for this post. Nice piece you gat there. Take a chill pill get more serious set your dreams and target you want to achieve, pray and work hard earn good money by the time she realized you won't have her time anymore. Try this and thank me later. [/quote] |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Unrated900(m): 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mugu like you What are you still waiting for Millions of women out there You are waiting for advise While she has already forgotten about you Continue loving while your Mate are in SMAN 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Bolaji26(m): 11:53pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Bro.. You are on your own. . We are in the same shoe. I have engaged mine too and she has this guy that always call her on the phone, we fought about it and she told me Ntn is between them. I started feeling uncomfortable the day i heard dem flirting on voice call, so I decided to spy on her WhatsApp and succeeded but couldn't see anything suspicious in her chat. Week Leta, i was spying on her WhatsApp and my mind just say make i go check her achirve . O boy, Wat i saw ehn, she always Archive that guy chat. I compile all d evidence and broke up with her d nxt day . Trust those hoes at ur own Peri 4 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by jaxxy(m): 11:53pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Serene123: A fiancé who’s fone u can’t check even during the height of so much suspicion is that one fiancé?? Look if she wants to be shady let her remain shady and stay away from u or atleast forget that marriage thing. Unless u want to father another man’s child. Let’s stop fooling urselves here. Fiancé/being engaged isnt bf/gf levels now. What is she still hiding on her fone 1 Like |
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