There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

I thought you were wise bro

There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom. If she's as good as you as you say, the best option might be to continue with her. But don't let anyone pressure you into a quick marriage, find out as much as you can about the father of the child and how close they still are, because whether you like it or not, except he's dead, he's always going to be in your lives because of the baby

You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

26 years with humongous responsibility. She is just 20 years and she has a boy of 5 years which means she has the boy when she was 15years old.

Summarily, this girl has been having amorous adventure from 10 years old. You need to consult your family priest to wash off this predicament from your head.

thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom

Not for a young man in his 20's like the op. Stop giving wrong advice sir.

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man want in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This make me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

what is she hiding concerning her baby daddy? she has to come out plain to you. Use your head.

JOACHINpedro:
I thought you were wise bro

nobody is all wise my dear. We all need some advice over pressing issues.

Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom. If she's as good as you as you say, the best option might be to continue with her. But don't let anyone pressure you into a quick marriage, find out as much as you can about the father of the child and how close they still are, because whether you like it or not, except he's dead, he's always going to be in your lives because of the baby

thanks very much

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man want in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This make me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

so why the but?

22brains:
nobody is all wise my dear. We all need some advice over pressing issues.

It's your action against your words

Op

1. Are you ready to marry now. If this girl were not in the picture, would u say u want to marry now. If ur answer to this question is no, jakpa . Dont marry her

2. Never marry out of pity. Marry because u are ready, and willing, and have found the one u want to marry

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man want in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This make me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

bro match non dey start for 1, 0 na 0, 0 he sopos start
I non wat say I dey inside my room one small boy go come in the name of come check he pinkin begin shake my wife bean

Mtcheeew.. I think it's high time we stopped advising this people. Does it mean our men boys of nowadays, lose their common sense of reasoning at the sight of this Vagina people or what went wrong? A grown man of 26yrs asking wether to succumb and marry young girl of 20yrs, with a five years old pikin?. Which means she got pregnant at the age of 14/15yrs, beside more than other ten red flags staring at his face?. *spit!.

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?!

the brain is limited but not to learning. That's why I ask for some advice to upgrade it. We all learn.

Tell her to tell u about the father that child or else something would happen. maybe few years after marriage the father of dat start threaten u.

Innomama7:
bro match non dey start for 1, 0 na 0, 0 he sopos start
I non wat say I dey inside my room one small boy go come in the name of come check he pinkin begin shake my wife bean

this is deep. It got me really. Thanks

This 2021,people should try and borrow sense o

22brains:
the brain is limited but not to learning. That's why I ask for some advice to upgrade it. We all learn.

SUCH LADY COULD BE EMOTIONALY HURT AND DESPERATE TO HOLD ON TO A GUY FOR NOW. . . IS HER FATHER ALIVE?

Are you financially capable of taking care of a family at 26.

Do not allow yourself to be pressurized into marriage at such a young age especially with a lady who has an extra baggage.

There is nothing wrong with marrying a single mother but if you do not yet have the finance then you could land in serious difficulties.

Forget all that bullsh1t about love, money is the real koko when it comes to having a health marriage!

..."She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom"...



No comment.
HML in advance.

If you are not ready to settle down, don't waste her time, just make her know that you aren't ready yet, and don't ever get embarrassed again about her baby, she's just being her self.

youngsahito:
what is she hiding concerning her baby daddy? she has to come out plain to you. Use your head.

Heard similar story of a very young lady hiding the whereabout of the father of her child.

Any time she was asked she gets upset & says they broke up & went their separate way.

One day she confided in a close friend of her ordeal.

Guess what?

She was raped by armed robbers. I hope this lady’s case is not the same. I rest my case

squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

thanks. It seems the portion she gave me is gradually fading off. No wonder a problem shared is half sovled.

Deoboss:


Heard similar story of a very young lady hiding the whereabout of the father of her child.

Any time she was asked she gets upset & says they broke up & went their separate way.

One day she confided in a close friend of her ordeal.

Guess what?

She was raped by armed robbers. I hope this lady’s case is not the same. I rest my case

why can't she flush her stomach

endsarrrs:
SUCH LADY COULD BE EMOTIONALY HURT AND DESPERATE TO HOLD ON TO A GUY FOR NOW. . . IS HER FATHER ALIVE?

no.. her father is late

Being a single mother is not the issue.

1. Why is she hiding the story between her and her ex? Marrying someone who can't share secrets with you is a big red flag

2. She wants to leave her mothers house but can't afford it hence she wants to use marriage as an opportunity? Lol, see reason for marriage o

3. It's obvious from your post that she have nothing doing, marrying a girl who can't even feed herself Is not on my dictionary

4. Seems you are not ready for marriage, you want to do it because she wants it. Premium tears loading

22brains:
thanks. It seems the portion she gave me is gradually fading off. No wonder a problem shared is half sovled.

Don't try it o.

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man want in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This make me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

premium tears awaiting u...better move on with ur life

FalseProphet1 master please look into the spirit for this young man, he is confused