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She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 3:49pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman. But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father. She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up. She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom. She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice. 17 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by JOACHINpedro: 3:51pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
I thought you were wise bro ![]() 489 Likes 30 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by thesicilian: 3:51pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom. If she's as good as you as you say, the best option might be to continue with her. But don't let anyone pressure you into a quick marriage, find out as much as you can about the father of the child and how close they still are, because whether you like it or not, except he's dead, he's always going to be in your lives because of the baby 220 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by squash47(m): 3:53pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26. She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years. Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her. Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her. 498 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by jidamsel43(m): 3:53pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
26 years with humongous responsibility. She is just 20 years and she has a boy of 5 years which means she has the boy when she was 15years old. Summarily, this girl has been having amorous adventure from 10 years old. You need to consult your family priest to wash off this predicament from your head. 278 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by squash47(m): 3:53pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
thesicilian: Not for a young man in his 20's like the op. Stop giving wrong advice sir. 246 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by youngsahito(m): 3:54pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:what is she hiding concerning her baby daddy? she has to come out plain to you. Use your head. 61 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 3:55pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:nobody is all wise my dear. We all need some advice over pressing issues. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by endsarrrs(f): 3:56pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. . ![]() 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 3:57pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
thesicilian:thanks very much 3 Likes |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by baralatie(m): 3:58pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:so why the but? 8 Likes |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by JOACHINpedro: 3:58pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:It's your action against your words 25 Likes 1 Share
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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Tango123: 3:59pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Op 1. Are you ready to marry now. If this girl were not in the picture, would u say u want to marry now. If ur answer to this question is no, jakpa . Dont marry her 2. Never marry out of pity. Marry because u are ready, and willing, and have found the one u want to marry 82 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Innomama7(m): 3:59pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:bro match non dey start for 1, 0 na 0, 0 he sopos start I non wat say I dey inside my room one small boy go come in the name of come check he pinkin begin shake my wife bean ![]() 32 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Themainboy22: 4:00pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Mtcheeew.. I think it's high time we stopped advising this people. Does it mean our 100 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 4:01pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
endsarrrs:the brain is limited but not to learning. That's why I ask for some advice to upgrade it. We all learn. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Meto1234(m): 4:02pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Tell her to tell u about the father that child or else something would happen.
maybe few years after marriage the father of dat start threaten u. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 4:03pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Innomama7:this is deep. It got me really. Thanks 4 Likes |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
This 2021,people should try and borrow sense o 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by endsarrrs(f): 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:SUCH LADY COULD BE EMOTIONALY HURT AND DESPERATE TO HOLD ON TO A GUY FOR NOW. . . IS HER FATHER ALIVE? 4 Likes |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Kobicove(m): 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Are you financially capable of taking care of a family at 26. Do not allow yourself to be pressurized into marriage at such a young age especially with a lady who has an extra baggage. There is nothing wrong with marrying a single mother but if you do not yet have the finance then you could land in serious difficulties. Forget all that bullsh1t about love, money is the real koko when it comes to having a health marriage! ![]() 38 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
..."She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up. She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom"... No comment. HML in advance. 44 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Freestainworld(m): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
If you are not ready to settle down, don't waste her time, just make her know that you aren't ready yet, and don't ever get embarrassed again about her baby, she's just being her self. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Deoboss(m): 4:08pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
youngsahito: Heard similar story of a very young lady hiding the whereabout of the father of her child. Any time she was asked she gets upset & says they broke up & went their separate way. One day she confided in a close friend of her ordeal. Guess what? She was raped by armed robbers. I hope this lady’s case is not the same. I rest my case 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 4:14pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
squash47:thanks. It seems the portion she gave me is gradually fading off. No wonder a problem shared is half sovled. 14 Likes |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by youngsahito(m): 4:19pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Deoboss:why can't she flush her stomach 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by 22brains(m): 4:32pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
endsarrrs:no.. her father is late |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Ryan03(f): 4:33pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Being a single mother is not the issue. 1. Why is she hiding the story between her and her ex? Marrying someone who can't share secrets with you is a big red flag 2. She wants to leave her mothers house but can't afford it hence she wants to use marriage as an opportunity? Lol, see reason for marriage o 3. It's obvious from your post that she have nothing doing, marrying a girl who can't even feed herself Is not on my dictionary 4. Seems you are not ready for marriage, you want to do it because she wants it. Premium tears loading 101 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by squash47(m): 4:34pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains: Don't try it o. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Angelacruz: 4:35pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
22brains:premium tears awaiting u...better move on with ur life 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Molahnelson(m): 4:42pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
FalseProphet1 master please look into the spirit for this young man, he is confused 6 Likes 1 Share |
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