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Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Sixfeetbelle: 1:10am On Jan 17, 2021
Nazgul:

Ayam not understanding you again. Shabi is you that say you're not doing Nairaland love. undecided

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Somebody cannor play with you again
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:10am On Jan 17, 2021
SweetCunt97:
How does that concern you? Is it ur butthole?Ajayi olofofo oshi
Oniranu ... Ajayi seshe do eh ni idi tan abi
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:15am On Jan 17, 2021
PrinceofAgoAre:
Oniranu ... Ajayi seshe do eh ni idi tan abi
Back to sender.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:20am On Jan 17, 2021
SweetCunt97:
Back to sender.
Crap.. Why would u be a guy posing as a female, is it ur dream to be transgendered?
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:29am On Jan 17, 2021
PrinceofAgoAre:
Crap.. Why would u be a guy posing as a female, is it ur dream to be transgendered?
What gave u that impression?
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by MrCEO69(m): 2:26am On Jan 17, 2021
You will be jealous of mine tongue
But u v said my mind
chatinent:
I can, and will.


She's the best thing that happened to me. Like Adam for Eve, God designed her for me. She's the most beautiful woman in the world. Not just facial expressions, the beauty speaks volumes in everything about her.


Romeo and Juliet will be jealous!


It will be a blessing marrying her.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by LoveTalk(f): 3:38am On Jan 17, 2021
DeAlphaMale:
Don't mind him maybe his GF is here in nairaland with him
We might not tell sha grin

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Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 6:54am On Jan 17, 2021
SweetCunt97:
What gave u that impression?
I've been watching u 4 a long time.

ur moniker is nt something a girl will pick up nd use comfortably except you're one of those girls.


In some of ur write up, u've given off male vibes, severally.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by iamL(f): 9:54am On Jan 17, 2021
LINTUNE:
as usual, u expected me to trade banters with u, well I'm happy I disappointed u..happy new yr..

I don't do banter that's something I don't dig, I simply sense you felt offend cos I called u an 18yr old hence my apology. So pack well abeg.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by LINTUNE(m): 12:16pm On Jan 17, 2021
iamL:


I don't do banter that's something I don't dig, I simply sense you felt offend cos I called u an 18yr old hence my apology. So pack well abeg.
y should u care if I felt offended na..what were u expecting initially, I should feel excited that u said those rubbish?
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Mvena(f): 1:23pm On Jan 17, 2021
Crunchyg2:

I will like to know you more more
I no see any number
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Crunchyg2: 1:39pm On Jan 17, 2021
Mvena:

I no see any number
It's on my signature or click on my profile
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Candycrushy(f): 5:04pm On Jan 17, 2021
Crunchyg2:

Sorry about that, are you still dating him?
No, I left...lol
Im fine now anyway, thanks
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Cratols: 6:14pm On Jan 17, 2021
mabella123:
I used to see forever with him but I am no longer sure if that is what I want.
Why the uncertainty? I guess my ex had this testimony too grin
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Nazgul: 7:15pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


cheesy cheesy cheesy

Somebody cannor play with you again
Hmmmm. Ok, It's let's talk offline then.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by pansophist(m): 7:36pm On Jan 17, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I am single. If I am to date, na whitey. Nigerian men no be am at all.

Ghanaian nko?
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Sosanya93(m): 11:39pm On Jan 17, 2021
Yes I can and I'll by God's grace
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jan 17, 2021
mabella123:
I used to see forever with him but I am no longer sure if that is what I want.

After today I swear I can relate, just started to look at the relationship without emotion and one will realize they are killing themselves just to make someone happy.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:23pm On Jan 18, 2021
pansophist:


Ghanaian nko?

Any species apart from Nigeria men, no wahala. I go take am.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by YorubaPrince: 10:41am On Jan 19, 2021
LoveTalk:

I like your sincerity.

Men are liars and pretenders.

Men like mynd44, Lexusgs430 and lalasticlala smiley are rare. They don't lie and cheat.

angry
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by LoveTalk(f): 10:48am On Jan 19, 2021
YorubaPrince:

angry
What again?
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Mcslize: 10:57am On Jan 19, 2021
The problem I have with ladies regarding relationships is the way ladies convert it to money making venture. Even those that are working will still want you to spend on them.

You can't have a peaceful discussion chat with a lady without her bringing in money issue.

Let's turn the table around. Guys stop forming big boy to girls to stop them from billing you. When you meet a girl, from the get go tell her you are broke even if you are rolling on top of money. Stop discussing your actual source of income with a lady you really want to be with, to know if she will truly stay with you if you don't paint yourself to her like Dangote. If she is the gold digger type, she will milk you with billing.

Most guys saying they will marry their supposed girlfriends here now is money they are using to sustain the relationship o. Some spend unnecessarily just to keep their babes. That's not love brother.

If you are using money to sustain your supposed relationship and you call that love, you are deceiving yourself. The true girl that truly loves you is the one you spend no dime on but she is still with you.

If you spending on a girl and you claiming she loves you as a guy, you are deceiving yourself. Remove the money whether she will still stay with you.

So brothers, don't use money to maintain a relationship and think the girl loves you. How you know if a girl truly loves you is when you don't spend on her but she still chooses to remain with you. That's how you know a girl that truly wants you.

But if you are using money to bribe her and you are here claiming she loves you die. I put it to you brother, it's your money she loves not you.

I told one I am a primary school teacher. Hehehehe see the speed she take vanish eh. Gold diggers everywhere.

So you expect me to tell you my actual me so you will start bombarding me with billings.

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Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Mcslize: 11:38am On Jan 19, 2021
Beze992:
Just got out of a relationship that made me question whether love actually exist and lose faith in humanity. It made me realize that you can never be completely sure of anyone. I guess people interpret love the way that suits them. Will only marry when I meet someone who understands what commitment means.

Ladies define commitment in many ways. To some, a committed guy is a guy that spend on them only. But they forget that, spending on a girl is not in any way a form of commitment.

If you don't spend, you are not the committed type. If you don't take them out for flexing, you are not the serious type.

Relationship goes beyond those materialistic enjoyments.

Most overlook emotional commitment and focus too much on materialistic commitment. That's why when they meet the materialistic commitment type of guy that squander money unncessarily on them and just when their hopes are high and already seeing themselves walking the aisle with such a guy, and boom, after all the flexing, they find out that those are the enjoyment type of guys who spend recklessly and jump from one babe to another with no actual commitment.

My advice to ladies, a guy that invest in you emotionally is worth more than thhe one that invest in you materially. Cuz the emotional one have high rate of building a perfect future with you than the one that flex you around, take you for shopping and the rest as that's what majority of ladies term as caring. But unknown to them, such guys don't stay committed.

Ladies should start looking beyond material things when choosing a life partner.

If I give you all my attentions, support you emotionally, encourage you, captivate you, motivate you but do not spend a dime on you, you may think I am not perfect for you. The money factor is always what ladies look at which always make them end up with jerk types of guys (Omo Baba Owo, the money dispenser).

They overlook the other factors I mentioned and focus too much on the financial capacity of a guy. This mostly make a lot of them fall for Wanabes types of guys that are only good at blowing owo with no actual commitment.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by tellsblinks(m): 11:51pm On Jan 20, 2021
LoveTalk:

I can settle their bills.
I'm not a broke girl and I'm not crushing on any of them. grin
I made a joke out of it

Don't take it personal. you're rich, I agree
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by tellsblinks(m): 11:56pm On Jan 20, 2021
Lexusgs430:



Don't mind him jooor...... Oya select one......... tongue

My boss, are you serious??grin
I choose the 3rd one, counting from your right.

Don't worry, I'll pickup sir.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Lexusgs430: 12:10am On Jan 21, 2021
tellsblinks:


My boss, are you serious??grin
I choose the 3rd one, counting from your right.

Don't worry, I'll pickup sir.


No forget to come with your AK47...........


I dey wait for Google watch and oneplus watch, to fill the last 2 spaces................ cheesy
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by tellsblinks(m): 7:47am On Jan 21, 2021
Lexusgs430:



No forget to come with your AK47...........


I dey wait for Google watch and oneplus watch, to fill the last 2 spaces................ cheesy

Cheiiii cry

They suppose give you title ooh *odogwu smartwatch* grin cheesy
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by yinkaOdutuyo: 8:37am On Jan 21, 2021
virginprincess:
Hmmmm, Don't know o, still studying him sha, wink wink wink.


And the guy will be simping up and down, that he has a woman in his life, not knowing she is a time waster
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Peacefullove: 9:56am On Jan 21, 2021
Mcslize:
The problem I have with ladies regarding relationships is the way ladies convert it to money making venture. Even those that are working will still want you to spend on them.

You can't have a peaceful discussion chat with a lady without her bringing in money issue.

Let's turn the table around. Guys stop forming big boy to girls to stop them from billing you. When you meet a girl, from the get go tell her you are broke even if you are rolling on top of money. Stop discussing your actual source of income with a lady you really want to be with, to know if she will truly stay with you if you don't paint yourself to her like Dangote. If she is the gold digger type, she will milk you with billing.


Most guys saying they will marry their supposed girlfriends here now is money they are using to sustain the relationship o. Some spend unnecessarily just to keep their babes. That's not love brother.


If you are using money to sustain your supposed relationship and you call that love, you are deceiving yourself. The true girl that truly loves you is the one you spend no dime on but she is still with you.

If you spending on a girl and you claiming she loves you as a guy, you are deceiving yourself. Remove the money whether she will still stay with you.

So brothers, don't use money to maintain a relationship and think the girl loves you. How you know if a girl truly loves you is when you don't spend on her but she still chooses to remain with you. That's how you know a girl that truly wants you.

But if you are using money to bribe her and you are here claiming she loves you die. I put it to you brother, it's your money she loves not you.

I told one I am a primary school teacher. Hehehehe see the speed she take vanish eh. Gold diggers everywhere.

So you expect me to tell you my actual me so you will start bombarding me with billings.

They are heavily invested in the relationship with their money lol , why won't they wanna marry her over and over again.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Mcslize: 10:28am On Jan 21, 2021
Peacefullove:


They are heavily invested in the relationship with their money lol , why won't they wanna marry her over and over again.

Lol, exactly and that's why it's hard for such guys that have invested so much on a girl to move on even if they catch the said girl cheating on them.
Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Crunchyg2: 9:18am On Jan 25, 2021
Candycrushy:

No, I left...lol
Im fine now anyway, thanks
Ok, that means we can get to know ourselves. That was why I asked that question. My number is on my signature chat me up.

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