pcguru1:
I wish I could give a positive advice, but after facing my own wahala, whatever wrong will go wrong, even you marry him issues, if you don't issues , regardless of what choice you choose, nothing but demise await all of us regardless of our intent. You could leave him and find a wrong choice or marry him and deal with all the wahala that comes with it. There's no happy ending dear, just choose your own demise is all I will say. Sorry for being negative but that's just real life. We are all doomed eventually

UncleKoboko:
Weyrey
You don't need any advice...
What you'll do is in your mind already...

InfernoNig:
I won't advice you to be his baby mama. But I will advice you to follow you heart.

OlayemiAshraf:
10millli to be his baby mama... what are you waiting for? Collect ham joor...

Nousername4356:


Hmmm..thanks but is the wahala that comes with it usually worth it?

Nousername4356:


My heart says Yes but my mind says No

Kobicove:
Is it that you're so ugly that you can't get an unattached single guy to show interest in you?

Womanizer:
Na which kind dilemma be this sef?

Sunnymatey:
If you love him, pls marry him. He is LEGALLY divorced so his ex has no business interfering in your home.
Every other issue can be sorted.

We all condemn Regina for marrying Ned but what matters most is her happiness where she is now.

pcguru1:


The only way to find out is to engage in it, who knows ? It might toughen you as a person, it just a matter of how much of a masochist you are. Left to me, I'd rather go with mindset that I'll do what it can to find someone that will treat me right , rather than settling but I also get it too, you can marry for love and the person might not offer you as much as you'd want when this baby mama parole can work, ill be honest with you, the game is the game, we are all here just forming Saint, within us demon dey, if such offer were made for guys, lot of guys will jump in it. So it all depends on you, do you want to be in love or be comfortable? If you are looking for Happy ending marriage in Lagos good luck. Like I said we are doomed anyway.

Mikester:
Don't mistake those that are around you for those who are there for you. That man seems to be up to something. Nothing is free in this world. No sane man who worked his ass to where he is now would just want to lavish such amount of money on a non family member. I don't trust his agenda

Nousername4356:


My heart says Yes but my mind says No

Nousername4356:


Well, I dont know that one ..but you feel I can get someone else right?

Nousername4356:


Hmmmmm..maybe...but he has been a good good friend and lover. Also, he can afford that amount of money without neccesarily breaking the bank.

InfernoNig:


You have to make the decision yourself. No one will do it for you

Mikester:

The heart is not enough in making decisions. The mind and gut feeling are mostly accurate. If you feel something is wrong somewhere, chances are there is. You need to leave love aside now and be logical

- If he was so perfect, why did his wife leave?
- Why is he seemingly obsessed with you?
- Would you want your child to be like him?

You need to ponder on this

thebosstrevor1:
This so called man "love" you but want you to be his baby mama for 10 million naira.

I know your story smell of fake fake fake fake

Nousername4356:


Hmmmm...word!
Well according to him, the wife left on her own accord. She was keeping late nights without any justification neither was she remorseful. That caused lots of arguments and friction in the marriage. He claimed he was never violent with her and even went to her family house to beg her to come back but she refused. Calling him 'done and dusted"
About the obsession part, me I dont know oo. He just seemed to like me very much. Too much perhaps..he calls me 'raw gold'
Well, I would like my child to have some semblance with him in some areas, although not all areas

Denique:
I don't know your faith but according to God's word, it is a sin to marry a divorcee...he remains married to his ex before God. Only death can bring a union to an end.

As a babe and one bound by the constitution of Nigeria, it is not illegal to do so.

As a gold digger, I'd say, be a baby mama. 10m plus other Alhajis and/or Chiefs.

As it is my tradition, after every advice, I always leave the decision making to the advice seeker so they can never say I ruined their lives.

In the meantime, drop his number, pls. I'd like to counsel you two.