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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by walexbiz(m): 11:55pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Thats why Obasanjo is dead 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Cousin9999: 11:58pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
1. Unhappy with spouse 2. Was never attracted to spouse 3. Unhealthy relationship with intimacy 4. Stressed, tired, or similar problems 5. Undiagnosed medical issue 6. Natural low intimacy appetite 7. Poor health/nutrition 8. Nonblack 9. Conflicted about intimacy because of religion 10. Retaliating 11. Bored with spouse 12. Spouse makes unreasonable demands 13. Spouse is bad at intimacy 14. Spouse has strange desires 15. Feel they're bad at intimacy 16. They have strange desires 17. May have health issue that makes intimacy painful 18. Spouse has gained too much weight 19. They feel they've gained too much weight 20. Impotence 21. Cheating 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by banmee(m): 12:00am On Jan 18, 2021 |
kayzeesoft: That is not the reason. We as men tend to forget the amount of responsibility women/wives shoulder. Especially in this day and age. Our wives will cook, clean, and be expected to go to work as well. They are human. Not superheroes. I first noticed this after my first kid and I would tease my wife about not doing everything she used to do for me before and when we first got married. Manicure my nails, massage my back, etc. It got worse after my 2nd kid and I really began to have an issue with it. We got into a fight once and she made a remark about me not understanding how hard it's been for her but I was too angry to listen to anything and went to bed. Saner heads prevailed, so the next morning we had a long talk. She was like "dude, I cook, clean, take care of the kids, go to work and when I come back from work I still have to prep the kids for the next day. How romantic would you be if you had to do all that". Then it hit me. She needed help. Things changed tremendously after that. On my part, I became a master chef which reduced the cooking pressure on her and I helped her out on things around the house which freed up more time for us to do things together. We started working out together and going out more for no reason. You see, I'm married to a goddess and I love showing her off. I'm pretty sure I handled it right because we've been married for over 20 years but it feels like yesterday. I will highly advice you to take this approach when you get married. 30 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:01am On Jan 18, 2021 |
mosdii: Hey,you don't have to use the word "all"...you can simply say the ones you have dated,meet,or whatever.. The kinda word you used include your mum, sisters, aunties, female friends.. You haven't meet a decent Nigerian girl doesn't mean you should be Saying all Nigerian girls are useless...I have seen different kinda comment about Nigerian ladies e g they are useless,they like money, urgent 2k,etc Not all Nigerian girls are cheap, useless like you said,lack dignity or whatever.. You just haven't met them or you might have met them but out of your carelessness,you lost them.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by pawn89(m): 12:02am On Jan 18, 2021 |
a mother of two kids; she will need to take care of the kids, cook, house chores... etc and this is even with the support of the husband ( assuming he's sensible enough to help with house chores), all the running around would make the woman tired and worn out... when would she get the time to get aroused and engage in sexual encounters. The moment kids start coming in and the family does not have adequate help with her daily routine, it becomes a struggle for her to get sexually excited. Kids will drain one financially, emotionally, physically and in every other way and to not have a helping husband is just the final straw that breaks the camels back 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by mariahAngel(f): 12:02am On Jan 18, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by kapelvej: 12:03am On Jan 18, 2021 |
esthel:There is no.point bringing in his family people . These people may not be in support of his ideas. Just chastise him and leave his mother and others out of it. Please 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Sterope(f): 12:04am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Switch roles with your wife. Do the house chores she does before going to work, prepare the children, go to work, come back, and continue where you stopped, including letting your children direct all their complaints and issues to you. Do that for a week and please report to us. bizme: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 12:04am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Biglittlelair definitely suffers from some sort of obsessive disorder. Engage her once and she will continue stalking you all over this forum whether you like it or not. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by banmee(m): 12:04am On Jan 18, 2021 |
pawn89: No need to ask. You are married. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by mariahAngel(f): 12:05am On Jan 18, 2021 |
banmee: Omg! ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by shadowmancer(m): 12:07am On Jan 18, 2021 |
mosdii:We reflect the same thoughts. Check my posts. this thread doesn't even relates to their twisted ways. |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Dearlord(m): 12:10am On Jan 18, 2021 |
bizme: I like these your factual ideology very similar to mine, I will say that things changes with time and most of these factors contributing to these changes are our unequivocally social inclinational variation. |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Theoutsider: 12:11am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Sterope: A job that I can pay a child to do. This is why you have to worry about the tongue of a woman because its riddle with lies. What she didn't tell you is that often the work men do is 3x harder than her work... You feminist wanted to work along men. Well you got it. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by stormborn28(m): 12:12am On Jan 18, 2021 |
zainabicy:what a big fvck |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:13am On Jan 18, 2021 |
KingLion007: Thank God you said "hardly." There are,but it's just hard to find them truly like you said 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Theoutsider: 12:14am On Jan 18, 2021 |
bizme: once she has kids she has biologically achieved her purpose. However, she will require you to produce just as the day she meet you. Men biological purpose is to replicate as much as possible. So his biological purpose never ends. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Chicastle: 12:18am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Olunmercy56: Some married women said most of their husbands concentrate on work than having SEX with them 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 12:21am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Nuel4: Exactly, a lot of people don't give a fucck about their female relatives. Therefore the rebuttal of "your sister,mother, gf" is simply dead on arrival. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Okfrank25: 12:21am On Jan 18, 2021 |
esthel:Good man 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by pawn89(m): 12:22am On Jan 18, 2021 |
I get this first hand, I have to understand, and to support and engage more in vacation ( get a baby sitter), creativity ( ambient light to set the mood ) and a whole charade. Kids are exhausting... I can only image the struggle families with some sort of financial constraints are facing banmee: |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by DrDax: 12:23am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Armchair philosophers ![]() Do as I say, Not as I do. Human behaviour is too random and extraneous for your postulation. Come back in 50 years to update us on how your "polygamy" went. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 12:31am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Cousin9999: Huh? Explain this please. |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by davit: 12:33am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Even some with maids still fail to be available CalliDora1: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Seyzcham91(m): 12:34am On Jan 18, 2021 |
you on point! bizme: |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 12:36am On Jan 18, 2021 |
DrDax: Why wait 50 years for Risen's update when we have Ned Nwoko ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by olumike001(m): 12:36am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:My real issue with your point is the amount of likes and shares you got from this piece. Polygamous the solution ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Oyiboman69: 12:42am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Kingosytex:He's right... 'Cheaters and cheats are the same thing. you people should stop trying to wrong what is right.... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by banmee(m): 12:45am On Jan 18, 2021 |
pawn89: Well said. And role play come in handy too. hehehehehe |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by DMerciful(m): 12:47am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Women think sex is not food that's why they downplay it. But offer any man sex or food and see the one he'll choose CalliDora1: |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 12:49am On Jan 18, 2021 |
The antidote to female sexual desire is wedding cake. Facts acknowledge that wives desire sex less frequently than husbands. wives desire for sex starts off somewhat lower than husbands’ and then declines rather sharply over the first five years of marriage, whereas husbands’ desire remains constant or even increases. Thus, over the early years of marriage, wives lose desire for sex, and this damages the marital bond. It's a universal thing, it's only the grace of God that can prevent an average man from cheating. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Sterope(f): 12:52am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Okay Theoutsider: 1 Like |
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