Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

en

SHM. My bro move on. Those qualities u re missing in ur ex might even be what will finished u, when you are not strong enough to handle her at old age.

Stop comparing. By the way the things u miss about your ex are quite silly. You want doggy style, teach ur new babe. You want a type of bj, teach her. Find the special part of ur new babe and enjoy her. Your former babe is currently moaning under a 9 inch rod screaming Ebuka ewulemo o... Nwaiyo nwaiyor and u are thinking of going back

Think?... you've not moved on. The good times over four years cannot be easily forgotten or shoved aside. Love takes time to heal.... but if you keep dreaming and reminiscing you are just digging a wound... how can that ever heal? Whenever she enters your head.... just focus on the reason why the two of you are not together... think of the negative... as in when you were not having mind blowing sex with her... who was? Bro focus on your present relationship..... your gf may not be as good in bed as your ex.... think maybe because she was not exposed to many men as your ex?... see her as an empty vessel... you want great sex... teach her instead of putting her down. Look at the positives in your gf... focus on that... stop comparing or you'll never move on but instead move back to your vomit..... which in time will cause you to vomit again.

Once a cheat, always a cheat

Appreciate what you have now before its too late.....Look at how you keep on laying emphasis on the sex.

Since you have decided to leave a good girl for a refined olosho.....What advice are you seeking again?

You're thinking of going back to a girl who cheated on you for reconciliation? It's like you detest your sanity and peace of mind immensely.

Its over two months you guys broke up, you've found a new girl whose parents you've met according to your story, so what's your problem, why can't you just be matured and focus on your new relationship.

From your write up the only reason you're missing your ex is the mind blowing sex you were having with her. Truth is despite the sexual satisfaction you experienced when you were with her, you were unable to reciprocate by satisfying her sexually that's why she recruited a side kick to fill in the vacuum you left.

Let me educate you, nymphomaniacs are definitely going to end up as cheats even if they get married cos one díck won't be able to give them satisfaction. Therefore bury whatever thought you have concerning going back to her cos that girl can never be faithful to one guy. Even as she's in a new relationship, she'll cheat on her guy with you if you request for sex, and she'll still open up herself to other secret guys she might have which you aren't aware of.

My advice...forget about her and concentrate on your new relationship. Unless you're planning on raising someone else's kid.

Perverted generation,so its all about sex.You need to grow up

Did I see beg her?

If you can't move on then go back to her and iron things out.



Your next post will be like. - Lalasticlala hide my identity, my wife wants to kill me...

Go and get a job, I don't understand why African thinks sex is everything that's why the African continent is messed up, everything sex sex sex, nawa oh.

I wonder..he is just looking for validation to go bak to his ex

Holyfield1:
Once a cheat, always a cheat

Appreciate what you have now before its too late.....Look at how you keep on laying emphasis on the sex.

Since you have decided to leave a good girl for a refined olosho.....What advice are you seeking again?

You should be thankful you found out about her cheating ways before marrying her. What you miss is just sex and you will get tired eventually.
Relationship is more than sex. Loyalty, faithfulness, care and compassion and such other virtues are what you should look out for. Forget your ex, you are just infatuated.

Both your ex and this new babe are cut from the same cloth. Leeches. Ex was outrightly doubledating, while this one doesn't "bill" you because she's been financed by someone else (whom you think is just a friend)

In case you haven't gave it much thought, your ex was having the same mind-blowing sex with the other guy as she was with you; you were going down on her slurping the juices from that other guy's prick and yet you are here wailing because of some filthy sex with your ex.

Nigerian guys are some of the most desperate and weakest dudes I've ever seen in my life!
Nonsense

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

sometimes you have to forgive in order to let go of some troubles. Remember we aren't perfect if perfect is what you are looking for. Then you aren't ready to continue searching

People are wasting time advising this guy. He will reach out to his ex regardless - he only created this thread for moral support and to get a go ahead.
Simps tend to suffer from Stockholm syndrome.

Mtcheew

Abeg Get responsive website + Domain Registration + SEO for 20k. Check my signature for contact details

Your ex is your ex for a reason and never attempt to go back to her willingly unless if destiny bring you back together naturally.


You can grow with this new lady to improve
just like you grew with your ex if she is faithful, contented, neat and has good character with little brain den you can educate her or go see a marriage counselor for the sexual weaknesses you complain about!

Above all, kneel down to your god and ask for directions and guidance!

Peace!!!!!

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

You are not ready for relationship, so the new girl you have is the one you are using as rebound ABI..... The new girl you have should suffer because of the old one who didn't value you and cheated on you,


Oga go and get yourself cleared first.

Go and heal and then find clarity of what you want in LIFE and relationship.... Stop letting sex blind you.

Same mind blowing sex is what your ex gave other guys, can sex not be taught? If you love thr current gf then help her become better.


Only dogs return to their vomit.

See as person just dey use im hand Wan buy trouble back into his life...

No amount of good advise been given to you here by nlanders would change your mind, kindly do your wish but I so pray that you make the right decision.

Once a cheat... Always a cheat!!
The above alone should reset your thinking faculty.

Ok

ArticleBeast:
Stop comparing. By the way the things u miss about your ex are quite silly. You want doggy style, teach ur new babe. You want a type of bj, teach her. Find the special part of ur new babe and enjoy her. Your former babe is currently moaning under a 9 inch rod screaming Ebuka ewulemo o... Nwaiyo nwaiyor and u are thinking of going back

Mind blowing sex...Kai!


God please have mercy on this generation oooo

SpicyMimi:
Mind blowing sex...Kai!


God please have mercy on this generation oooo

Those things actually keep a man

Lol

The only thing i'll tell you is don't hurt that innocent girl you're currently dating. If you are not yet over your ex, don't enter a new relationship. Una no dey hear word.

I'm not surprised though. Men are sex addicts. Even if you give them the most virtuous woman on earth, they'll abandon her and go get someone that will be banging them all day and night.

Just go and beg that ex and continue enjoying your sex life.

You broke up with a girl you dated 4 years, two months later, you're taking someone else to momma. See your problem? You never had time to heal. I'll tell you why. Your ex's infidelity broke you (not that you're a saint anyway). It broke you and the next thing was to break up.
But instead of you to calm down and heal up emotionally before entering another relationship (to avoid emotional backlog like what you're going through at the moment), you wanted to pepper your ex. To show her, she's easily replaceable and that you've moved on.
See where it got you?
Your memories haunt you. You will most likely end up cheating on your present, maybe not with your ex, but with someone else.
Your refusal to heal will continue to be a problem in this relationship and even the next - if any.

Too many immature people on this forum.

Chii59:
You broke up with a girl you dated 4 years, two months later, you're taking someone else to momma. See your problem? You never had time to heal. I'll tell you why. Your ex's infidelity broke you (not that you're a saint anyway). It broke you and the next thing was to break up.
But instead of you to calm down and heal up emotionally before entering another relationship (to avoid emotional backlog like what you're going through at the moment), you wanted to pepper your ex. To show her, she's easily replaceable and that you've moved on.
See where it got you?
Your memories haunt you. You will most likely end up cheating on your present, maybe not with your ex, but with someone else.
Your refusal to heal will continue to be a problem in this relationship and even the next - if any.

Too many immature people on this forum.

Not that he's saint o. Lmao, I like that part. He was probably sleeping with other girls, but that particular sex the ex gave him, was extraordinary. Oga can't stop reminiscing

Shortyyy:


Not that he's saint o. Lmao, I like that part. He was probably sleeping with other girls, but that particular sex the ex gave him, was extraordinary. Oga can't stop reminiscing

Exactly.

I'm currently in the same predicament, in fact my breakup was just a few days ago. I miss her every minute, second and hour of each day, but I've learnt to never let loneliness push me back to a toxic person.

My ex was a hardcore liar and cheat, the kind that never admits anything even if caught red handed. Staying with her made me question my sanity and judgement many times, so no matter how much I miss her, I ain't ever going back to that hot mess.




Update: 15th June 2021. We’re back together

Go back to your ex if you truly love her.
Cheating is bad,but being unhappy is worst trust me.
You will only suffer this new girl if she is not what makes you happy.

My ex cheated on me with someone who she is now married to now.And trust me,their marriage is really beautiful to say the least.The most important thing is to be happy.


I don't believe in that Nigerian fallacies called "once a cheat,always a cheat."
People change,either for good or bad.People learn from bitter lessons while some don't.I have seen saints become sinners and sinners become believers.

The fact your babe collected money from another guy is quite disrespectful to someone like me.Now,if your ex is the kind that believes in building financial relationships,I think there's still a great amount of good in her.

Be happy,life is too short.

nanakgh:
I'm currently in the same predicament, in fact my breakup was just a few days ago. I miss her every minute, second and hour of each day, but I've learnt to never let loneliness push me back to a toxic person.

My ex was a hardcore liar and cheat, the kind that never admits anything even if caught red handed. Staying with her made me question my sanity and judgement many times, so no matter how much I miss her, I ain't never going back to that hot mess.

Run ooooo.
This one na double edged sword.

nanakgh:
I'm currently in the same predicament, in fact my breakup was just a few days ago. I miss her every minute, second and hour of each day, but I've learnt to never let loneliness push me back to a toxic person.

My ex was a hardcore liar and cheat, the kind that never admits anything even if caught red handed. Staying with her made me question my sanity and judgement many times, so no matter how much I miss her, I ain't never going back to that hot mess.

The bolded is on point. The thing is OP wanted to pepper his ex, but instead hurt himself.