ArticleBeast:
Stop comparing. By the way the things u miss about your ex are quite silly. You want doggy style, teach ur new babe. You want a type of bj, teach her. Find the special part of ur new babe and enjoy her. Your former babe is currently moaning under a 9 inch rod screaming Ebuka ewulemo o... Nwaiyo nwaiyor and u are thinking of going back

lol... Nawao

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

The root cause of your wahala is impatience. Quick to discharge, quick to meet family, quick to take to family, quick to start a new relationship, quick to start straffing new bird, quick to write off new bird as being boring in bed.....calm down man. Are you from Ibadan?

u are in a spiritual dilemma called ..Soul Ties.

Believe it or not you and ur ex are spiritually tied through sex thats why u think u miss her so much.

Apart from the sex,nothing really connects u

You claim..u had good moments together..which almost every good relationship gets.

my Advice: Go for spiritual counselling and Deliverance..u need to break the spiritual soul ties...thankme later.

That means you haven't move on, you better move on and let go of her

Dayoebe:
If you can't move on then go back to her and iron things out.



Your next post will be like. - Lalasticlala hide my identity, my wife wants to kill me...

Dayoebe:
If you can't move on then go back to her and iron things out.



Your next post will be like. - Lalasticlala hide my identity, my wife wants to kill me...

Dirakamara:
Sometimes break up won't be the solution.
You will still meet another girl and she will probably have the worst character. You might end up with someone else but inside you, you know ur ex is better.
This is why you weigh your options before breaking up, cux u might not find a better replacement in future....
Tnx

there is always a better substitute, people should stop staying in a useless relationship... Cheating is no no, beating is a no no.... It is this you might not find someone better narrative that makes people die in a negative relationship

You are only missing sex not her. Sex is not everything bro. Sex has destroyed many things. Be careful bro that is all I have to tell you

nkwuocha1:
Go back to your ex if you truly love her.
Cheating is bad,but being unhappy is worst trust me.
You will only suffer this new girl if she is not what makes you happy.

My ex cheated on me with someone who she is now married to now.And trust me,their marriage is really beautiful to say the least.The most important thing is to be happy.


I don't believe in that Nigerian fallacies called "once a cheat,always a cheat."
People change,either for good or bad.People learn from bitter lessons while some don't.I have seen saints become sinners and sinners become believers.

The fact your babe collected money from another guy is quite disrespectful to someone like me.Now,if your ex is the kind that believes in building financial relationships,I think there's still a great amount of good in her.

Be happy,life is too short.

I luv this

From all indication your present girl is more homely and can make a good wife than your ex. Sex doesn't make marraige work beside at a point if you cant hit her well another guy will help you still when she's under your roof. guys pls don't allow sex and style take over your sense marraige doesn't work that way , make is all about making mkney and having a Goldly home

Guy move on, you just miss the mind-blowing sex. We have all been there.

Kuns84:
Both your ex and this new babe are cut from the same cloth. Leeches. Ex was outrightly doubledating, while this one doesn't "bill" you because she's been financed by someone else (whom you think is just a friend)

In case you haven't gave it much thought, your ex was having the same mind-blowing sex with the other guy as she was with you; you were going down on her slurping the juices from that other guy's prick and yet you are here wailing because of some filthy sex with your ex.

Nigerian guys are some of the most desperate and weakest dudes I've ever seen in my life!
Nonsense

it's a fact

Op abeg you made your first million at 17 how did you do it?

Premarital fornicative sex sin syndrome is whats affecting u. Bear with the consequences, since u guys alwsys see ppl like us who advocate for purity as stone age n intolerant folks

Kuns84:
People are wasting time advising this guy. He will reach out to his ex regardless - he only created this thread for moral support and to get a go ahead.
Simps tend to suffer from Stockholm syndrome.

na so.

you had conditional love with ya ex, Op you need to learn different between true love and sacred love. you only had true love for your ex and not sacred love


she had sex drive? is it not the sex drive you enjoyed that other guy that's enjoying her pussy enjoyed that made her double date with you?


continue in your fantasy and not get serious with someone that have emotional loyalty for you


reconcile with your ex and lose that new Girl while you settle with your ex then join DNA crew in few years time



some guys no just won get sense. as a real nigaarr, you're expected to keep ya ex as substitute while you build companionship with someone that have emotional loyalty for you

You will break your new girl's heart eventually. You even went ahead to know the family, I will say it's too early for that.
If you marry this present lady, you will end up cheating on her in marriage and the problem continues.
As for your ex, I am mute.
Personally, when I say sai gobe! Its sai gobe.
My good night remains good night, never to say good evening.

Dirakamara:
Sometimes break up won't be the solution.
You will still meet another girl and she will probably have the worst character. You might end up with someone else but inside you, you know ur ex is better.
This is why you weigh your options before breaking up, cux u might not find a better replacement in future....
Tnx

You sound like a cheat.

I pity your partner.

My brother follow ure heart...go back to ure ex...the devil u know is beta than the angel u don't...
Go for wat makes u happy...if truly ure a good fellow u will marry her since and take her to ure parents...don't allow bp to kill u...
People change, maybe she did that becoz she taught ure not serious with her...
Nothing sweet pass who u love...

Your case is like Aso rock situation, confusing Nigerian.. Except you manage your ex with her many boy friend.

The number of weak men in our generation is becoming a source of concern.

Ask God to forgive your sins of fornication

Ukpatiri ukpa oho okpemo Kona ooo

Ukpatiri ona okere oo, adeke , ira gwe mi iyowa

Edo people can relate

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Chii59:
You broke up with a girl you dated 4 years, two months later, you're taking someone else to momma. See your problem? You never had time to heal. I'll tell you why. Your ex's infidelity broke you (not that you're a saint anyway). It broke you and the next thing was to break up.
But instead of you to calm down and heal up emotionally before entering another relationship (to avoid emotional backlog like what you're going through at the moment), you wanted to pepper your ex. To show her, she's easily replaceable and that you've moved on.
See where it got you?
Your memories haunt you. You will most likely end up cheating on your present, maybe not with your ex, but with someone else.
Your refusal to heal will continue to be a problem in this relationship and even the next - if any.

Too many immature people on this forum.

Many ( both genders) are guilty of the bolded and it's backfiring

move on

Rebound.

I pity the New girl.
She will be trying so hard to fit into a new shoe she can't obviously fit.

...
You will never get over this ex you are explaining o. Until you stay off relationships and heal properly.
Sha find a way to let go.
We just can't have it all in life.
Console yourself with the fact that you left for a geniune reason.
Faithfulness is still the first mark some of us thick before any other thing. Once it's not there, you will never have rest of mind in that relationship. Just move on. You left for a good reason. If the New girl doesn't fit. Find another. But Pls, don't go back to that ex.

nanakgh:
I'm currently in the same predicament, in fact my breakup was just a few days ago. I miss her every minute, second and hour of each day, but I've learnt to never let loneliness push me back to a toxic person.

My ex was a hardcore liar and cheat, the kind that never admits anything even if caught red handed. Staying with her made me question my sanity and judgement many times, so no matter how much I miss her, I ain't never going back to that hot mess.

Bro.. Just move on.. I have been there before now I'm over it.
Mine happened December 2019 when we clocked 4years in the relationship. My brother I almost died.
Now I've found someone else and I love her, not because she is prettier than my ex (she's not even close), not because she is sexier than my ex(she's not even close) but because I chose to be happy with her and myself, so instead of comparing my ex and my present babe, I just had to transfer all the love to her.

You will be fine bro

Your ex who cheated on you ll still cheat on you again. I'm talking from experience. Let her be. I'd advise you leave relationship and focus more on yourself

Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

Go and drink sniper naa, mumu

She is not your wife yet so it's not cheating. She is trying to make a better choice .

ArticleBeast:
Stop comparing. By the way the things u miss about your ex are quite silly. You want doggy style, teach ur new babe. You want a type of bj, teach her. Find the special part of ur new babe and enjoy her. Your former babe is currently moaning under a 9 inch rod screaming Ebuka ewulemo o... Nwaiyo nwaiyor and u are thinking of going back

Great advice... Teach her to do the things you love

Hmmm