Hustle2flex:
I have already started reading the book and it's a bomb.His note on oneitis syndrome really opened my eyes.you will wonder how easily people move on and get married (or be in another relationship with another person) after many years of proclaiming the person to be the love of their life.
And yet they will still claim the new person is the best thing to happen to them.smh

I think many guys have some degree of red pilledness in them until they met a woman who he claims to be all he wants in a woman, can't live without her and then he starts misbehaving badly.if you were lucky and saved on time from this illusion and you will then realized that it's all a lie designed to propagate gynocentrism, feminism and emasculate we men and drain our hard-earned resources in the name of trying to be 'a real man'.
But we are now learning fast to reverse this trend.
Thanks for the recommendation though

Richandcuteguy:


dontai: dont listen to what he said about masturbation

if the red pill preaches self development above all else, then surely it is against masturbation

Some cool anecdotal facts about masturbation:

1. It destroys your self esteem

2. It reinforces the scarcity mentality albeit sublimely. If you could bed the woman you desire, would u masturbate?

3. It destroys your looks

4. It weakens your immune system such that you are unable to tide over illnesses and adverse life events. All roads lead to depression here

5. It dulls your spirit self and makes you extremely lethargic

6. Gradually, you will be unable to maintain a rock hard erection with a lady but fully erect when masturbating. All roads lead to eventual and certain erectile dysfunction.

7. It depletes your testosterone. Isnt this what makes a man a man? Without testosterone, what is left of a man? People take drugs to get testosterone and you want to willingly deplete yours?

8. Eventually, your self esteem will be eroded and you will question everything about yourself ranging from your looks, intelligence, self worth etc.

9. Masturbation is the opposite of testosterone. Everything you are able to achieve with testosterone, Masturbation will rob you of it

10. It leads to neurotic disorder

11. It brings bad luck. According to Napoleon Hill, Elon Musk and many other great men, the more Hot you are, the more magnetic your being and personality becomes. You will easily attract people and what you desire this way

12. One of the key components of the semen is zinc. Masturbation will erode your body zinc. Google up all the uses of zinc and know that the exact opposite of those benefits are what shall become your fate

13. Dont believe me but do me a favour. Research other platforms such as reddit, NL, etc and see what people who are able to control their urges and stay away from sex for even as much as 2 weeks experience. Maybe we are all lying but then to what end?

angelfallz:
i am glad you were able to move on, and not go begging for her love. By the way have you read, "The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi?
you can download and read it. It is very eye opening.

Hustle2flex:
I have already started reading the book and it's a bomb.His note on oneitis syndrome really opened my eyes.you will wonder how easily people move on and get married (or be in another relationship with another person) after many years of proclaiming the person to be the love of their life.
And yet they will still claim the new person is the best thing to happen to them.smh

I think many guys have some degree of red pilledness in them until they met a woman who he claims to be all he wants in a woman, can't live without her and then he starts misbehaving badly.if you were lucky and saved on time from this illusion and you will then realized that it's all a lie designed to propagate gynocentrism, feminism and emasculate we men and drain our hard-earned resources in the name of trying to be 'a real man'.
But we are now learning fast to reverse this trend.
Thanks for the recommendation though

PETUK:

Please how can I get the book?

PETUK:

Can you please send it to me?

luminouz:


Lol...you have valid points.

But then, what's now the essence of the marriage in the 21st century. There is nothing like love again, just what each stands to gain,like trade by barter.

The funniest thing is, didn't they all swear an oath on that altar on their wedding day,to stand by their husband in sickness and health and all that jazz?

I'm sorry to say this but marriage has failed in the 21st century. It doesn't have the intended value again and it's nothing more than bondage to the parties involved. I mean,how in hell do I explain why my so-called wife who promised to stand by me would upgrade to 2019 range Rover and yet I have a floundering business she can't help with,after making sure everyone at home is secured. What's her purpose then? What's her value? She is super rich but I still need to borrow form friends when I'm broke? That's some sniper flavoured Bullshiit mehn!!! I have seen marriages around me and frankly,the percentages of those enjoying it is so low, everyone else just tolerate one another and I wonder for how long...10..20..30 years? In that hell hole of a marriage? Yet these same peeps go to church,mosques and attend marriage seminars and talks...yet they can't even love their spouses.. especially the women loving their men.

Funny thing is, when they see me,they shake their heads and wish I can marry so I can enjoy what they enjoy...because marriage is so blissful. Some of their wives are eyeing me lustfully and the rest are nothing but psychopaths who would gladly watch the husbands perish than help him...yet these same men who suffer silently still preach marital bliss to me?


Then,after all these observations... Why dafuq do any logical man, still go ahead and do wedding? Is it just me or am I so fuqin alien that I'm not human anymore? Something is not right with me,I know...most times I feel like that matrix guy living in a machine ruled world,knowing that something is wrong but everyone else thinks he is crazy.

*Sighs* Maybe I'm fuqin crazy after all.

oyolohi:
I see an unmarried man and I'm happy for him;

The next time I see him, he tells me he's married. I feel sorry for him; I ask if he has kids yet: he says no --and I feel a sudden glimpse of hope for him.

A few more years, I hear his woman has littered 3 kids already. My glimpse of hope for him evaporates as the news sinks in.

****

I've studied the human body and come to agree that our DNA is the most selfish part of us (men for example) --not even the pen!s. It is so selfish that it must achieve whatever hidden agender it has --even at our cost. It is ironic, I know, as "Our" DNA is part of us and ours --or is it?

Consider your DNA as a baton (mater-of-factly, it is a baton) that only needs to be passed around in a relay race. The baton doesn't belong to the athlete, he only need to stress himself running with all his might just to pass it on: as as soon as he does, he lost relevance to the next athlete while the baton lives and feasts on its next host --another athlete willing to stress himself running to pass it on. The baton doesn't care if you stumble or break a bone; it must be passed on. Athletes see how their fellow athlete gets tired yet they feel compelled to experience the pointless race --forgetting that they have a choice --a choice to walk out of the tracks as soon as the baton is passed to them; A choice to seat under the comforting shade of the beautiful big mango trees surrounding the tracks --enjoying the view of the billions of athletes still in the field spending their lives ridiculously passing batons.

If YOU could hear the baton speak (like the athlete who now enjoys the cool breeze), you'll hear the baton say words like "Good dog, good dog, fetch!" while it throws mango fruits inches forward for you to fetch/race ... mangos the athlete can only enjoy the SWEETNESS for a few minutes...more accurately put: a few SECONDS. The athlete fails to realize he can actually enjoy the same mangos + an extra bonus --the shade --without having to stress himself running around to pass batons!


"Good dog, good MAN, good micro organism, procreate!"

-oyolohi

emmaodet:


Assuming i know what i know now, i would have stayed very very farrrrrrrrrrrr from marriage and i do tell my wife that if she leaves for any reason/die(God forbid), am through and done with marriage. Don't need any more.
Knowing that you are only valued and cared about because of what you bring home sometimes make me feel like crying. Knowing that nobody will have my back if/when am down and the only and last person am counting on, empowering with large cash to set-up or struggling to process a visa for so that we can travel and have a better life won't reciprocate if table turns, has activated a signal/an alarm bell in my brain and right now, with the awareness of TRP and other lamentations on nairaland, am already taking dressing and covering my side sharply before i fall victim.

Skepticus:


You are married. There is no need for remorse. Just be grateful that you are married within the laws of Nigeria. No one will kick you out of your own house for a woman, nor force you to pay a woman for 18 years whether she had kids that are yours or not (as I have seen so far, in Nigeria).

Be hopeful for the best and appreciate the woman you have, but be PREPARED for the worse and be on guard. It's not all about NEGATIVITY. Despite the promiscuity and manipulations of our ladies, the little "conservativeness" and low influence of "simping" laws in Nigeria still make them "manageable" for long term relationships, though I'll personally chose not to deal with them on a long term.

Richandcuteguy:


dontai:[s] dont listen to what he said about masturbation

if the red pill preaches self development above all else, then surely it is against masturbation

Some cool anecdotal facts about masturbation:

1. It destroys your self esteem

2. It reinforces the scarcity mentality albeit sublimely. If you could bed the woman you desire, would u masturbate?

3. It destroys your looks

4. It weakens your immune system such that you are unable to tide over illnesses and adverse life events. All roads lead to depression here

5. It dulls your spirit self and makes you extremely lethargic

6. Gradually, you will be unable to maintain a rock hard erection with a lady but fully erect when masturbating. All roads lead to eventual and certain erectile dysfunction.

7. It depletes your testosterone. Isnt this what makes a man a man? Without testosterone, what is left of a man? People take drugs to get testosterone and you want to willingly deplete yours?

8. Eventually, your self esteem will be eroded and you will question everything about yourself ranging from your looks, intelligence, self worth etc.

9. Masturbation is the opposite of testosterone. Everything you are able to achieve with testosterone, Masturbation will rob you of it

10. It leads to neurotic disorder

11. It brings bad luck. According to Napoleon Hill, Elon Musk and many other great men, the more Hot you are, the more magnetic your being and personality becomes. You will easily attract people and what you desire this way

12. One of the key components of the semen is zinc. Masturbation will erode your body zinc. Google up all the uses of zinc and know that the exact opposite of those benefits are what shall become your fate

13. Dont believe me but do me a favour. Research other platforms such as reddit, NL, etc and see what people who are able to control their urges and stay away from sex for even as much as 2 weeks experience. Maybe we are all lying but then to what end?[/s]

Evolutionlove:


I've never seen so much level of Ignorance and Stupidity like this In my lifetime. I hate It when someone Is confidently spewing nonsense and garbage.....

Raphael20:
@Deejay1000,have sent you a PM

Skepticus:


You are married. There is no need for remorse. Just be grateful that you are married within the laws of Nigeria. No one will kick you out of your own house for a woman, nor force you to pay a woman for 18 years whether she had kids that are yours or not (as I have seen so far, in Nigeria).

Be hopeful for the best and appreciate the woman you have, but be PREPARED for the worst and be on guard. It's not all about NEGATIVITY. Despite the promiscuity and manipulations of our ladies, the little "conservativeness" and low influence of "simping" laws in Nigeria still make them "manageable" for long term relationships, though I'll personally chose not to deal with them on a long term.

saladinnoir:
They (women) tried to justify it. Do we need to say more.

emmaodet:


Assuming i know what i know now, i would have stayed very very farrrrrrrrrrrr from marriage and i do tell my wife that if she leaves for any reason/die(God forbid), am through and done with marriage. Don't need any more.
Knowing that you are only valued and cared about because of what you bring home sometimes make me feel like crying. Knowing that nobody will have my back if/when am down and the only and last person am counting on, empowering with large cash to set-up or struggling to process a visa for so that we can travel and have a better life won't reciprocate if table turns, has activated a signal/an alarm bell in my brain and right now, with the awareness of TRP and other lamentations on nairaland, am already taking dressing and covering my side sharply before i fall victim.

ichidodo:
So You're Married? Ehya....Sorry. Anyway, At least you understand TRP,So therefore you can still turn lemon into lemonade as far as this Marriage thing is concerned...I "hope" to get Married someday especially now that TRP has opened my eyes to endless possibilities and eventualities of the female psyche....Before TRP getting married was like going into a gunfight with a knife but after TRP I'll be damned if I don't go into marriage with a 1000 megaton nuclear device, if she do anyhow, she'll see any how..

emmaodet:


Assuming i know what i know now, i would have stayed very very farrrrrrrrrrrr from marriage and i do tell my wife that if she leaves for any reason/die(God forbid), am through and done with marriage. Don't need any more.
Knowing that you are only valued and cared about because of what you bring home sometimes make me feel like crying. Knowing that nobody will have my back if/when am down and the only and last person am counting on, empowering with large cash to set-up or struggling to process a visa for so that we can travel and have a better life won't reciprocate if table turns, has activated a signal/an alarm bell in my brain and right now, with the awareness of TRP and other lamentations on nairaland, am already taking dressing and covering my side sharply before i fall victim.

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Always protect the core of your essence, should you choose to let her in, never let her in completely. See yourself as a castle, let her into the castle, but do not give her the key to the heaviest door. She will notice the door is closed. She will ask you what’s behind the door and if “you can let her in?” Ignore her protests and manipulations. Never open that door. Not a woman alive other than perhaps your mother is worth opening this door for. If you believe love entails “sharing everything,” you don’t understand love.

ichidodo:
So You're Married? Ehya....Sorry. Anyway, At least you understand TRP,So therefore you can still turn lemon into lemonade as far as this Marriage thing is concerned...I "hope" to get Married someday especially now that TRP has opened my eyes to endless possibilities and eventualities of the female psyche....Before TRP getting married was like going into a gunfight with a knife but after TRP I'll be damned if I don't go into marriage with a 1000 megaton nuclear device, if she do anyhow, she'll see any how..

Regex:
Not to derail, but I've got one thing to say.

If that thread opened by one adulterer(knowingly misspelled her name) made you angry, maybe you should slow down on some truth.

It is not enough swallowing the truth in this thread only to feed your anger on how your cheated in your past relationships.

Slow down, make peace with the truths you've learned because no matter how angry, downplayed or trolly you become, it's never going away. Just make peace with it, and use it as an amor for your next escapade.

Fool me once.... You know the drill

demanuel:

I just want to confirm; are you the same person that sometime ago posted about training your spouse up to PHD levels?

JasperVII:

A chilled bottle of beer for you, na man you be.


People couldn't even wait for her to finish before judging whether the stories were lies or not, or saying if she what she did was morally right or wrong. Same way they attacked the guy that told a similar story that made him stop.

Martinez39s:
Do you have the link to the thread?

Martinez39s:
Do you have the link to the thread?