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Follow your instinct and you will never regret
Cheers

Na this dilemma most girls dey mostly dey wey them take dey make wrong decision...wey dey result to DNA testing. Madam choose the one wey u no go cheat on & sin no more /\

My sister, don't make your choice based on superficial qualities. The fact is, all men are the same; they reveal their true personalities in marriage.

To me, you haven't really seen a husband. That first guy's educational qualification myht become a problem in the future if he's insecure.

Follow the ssce guy. Help him achieve his dream by sending him to school.

Follow your heart.....

Teaveapoet:
Follow the ssce guy. Help him achieve his dream by sending him to school.

Must everybody go to school¿

Op you alone know what you want,so go for what you want

You told us what your two suitors do for a living and left out yourself, And why would your friends tell you that you'll suffer in future if you go for the graduate, or are you allergic to working and making money for yourself?

Let me advise you, never look at a man's wallet when making decisions concerning marriage. If your reason for leaving the graduate is because he's dirty and unintelligent then it's a valid reason and not because he doesn't spend on you. Cos I strongly believe that you don't spend on him as well so saying he doesn't spend on you would be hyprocricy cos you're guilty of the same offence you're accusing him of.

lalalista:
Hello all, I opened an account to post this issue here because I want a honest advice from people who don't know who I am.

I have two men in my life asking for my hand in marriage. One is a working class graduate while the other is an ssce holder who recently lost his job. I like the ssce holder the more because he is more intelligent, neat, generous, fun to be with, more handsome and he's also from my tribe. When he had a job, he always gives me money without me asking him. He takes me out a lot and buys me things. Now he's just into daily hustles that fetches him 2- 5k daily.
On the other hand, the working class graduate is not from my tribe. He has money but spending it is always a big issue. Let me just say that he's kind of stingy. He's not as neat and intelligent as the ssce holder. I need to choose one of them before April. I'm equally a graduate.

My friends say I will suffer in future if I choose the ssce guy because he's got no degree and his chances of getting a good job is very low. They want me to marry the working graduate so I won't have to suffer. Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

Does the SSCE guy have a five year plan or does he want to remain there,if yes i don't think that should be a head ache for you...
You were talking about the graduate being stingy ordinarily,is there anything that would make him become generous in marriage(just asking shaa
If you like get married to the graduate ,person wey go give you money go give ,if he doesn't want want he won't still spend it even after getting married to him....

Since you want to make a decision before April ,I Believe the heart wants what it wants....

Nazgul:
You told us what your two suitors do for a living and left out yourself, And why would your friends tell you that you'll suffer in future if you go for the graduate, or are you allergic to working and making money for yourself?

Let me advise you, never look at a man's wallet when making decisions concerning marriage. If your reason for leaving the graduate is because he's dirty and unintelligent then it's a valid reason and not because he doesn't spend on you. Cos I strongly believe that you don't spend on him as well so saying he doesn't spend on you would be hyprocricy cos you're guilty of the same offence you're accusing him of.

You're Wise Sir

you never see husband all these na cruise

Your lack of self quality and priorities is confusing you.

What do you have and how can you complement the weaknesses in your choice of man?

You sound very just like an average entitled Nigerian lady. The ssce guy spends on you because you have high degree to get you impressed and may have low self esteem that he does everything you say. The graduate is wise to spend only on his wife or is well exposed to ladies right from campus. He may be one of the guys who is tired of ladies and don't want to use material things to determine affection. You are already calling him stingy for not spending on you. Have you given him gifts or buy things for him?

You said he is not neat and didn't tell how you have impacted him in that regard. He is unintelligent but graduate and making money; l see.

Until your presence improve and value in people's life, there is little likelihood for sacrifice.

Haven said all these about him. l think you don't need any advice. You have protected the man your heart seeks for and castigated the one your heart rejects. Love is blind in these regards because we hardly see wrongs with people we love.


You have made you choice. It's not a must to have B.Sc to be successful but being wise to use available resources to your advantage. Since you hold B.Sc, you can complement him. More over you love him.


It's only in Nigeria where ladies marry who is financially stable than who they love.

lalalista:
Hello all, I opened an account to post this issue here because I want a honest advice from people who don't know who I am.

I have two men in my life asking for my hand in marriage. One is a working class graduate while the other is an ssce holder who recently lost his job. I like the ssce holder the more because he is more intelligent, neat, generous, fun to be with, more handsome and he's also from my tribe. When he had a job, he always gives me money without me asking him. He takes me out a lot and buys me things. Now he's just into daily hustles that fetches him 2- 5k daily.
On the other hand, the working class graduate is not from my tribe. He has money but spending it is always a big issue. Let me just say that he's kind of stingy. He's not as neat and intelligent as the ssce holder. I need to choose one of them before April. I'm equally a graduate.

My friends say I will suffer in future if I choose the ssce guy because he's got no degree and his chances of getting a good job is very low. They want me to marry the working graduate so I won't have to suffer. Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

NOTE : I've been out of job too. My job was affected by the pandemic

Because he gives you urgent 2k init?
Imagine the nerve of an unemployed chick dating two hardworking guys, feeling entitled to their pockets!
You probably fucck the both of them as well. na your type dey carry belle give innocent man
Just marry the ssce holder since he's dull enough to spend his hard earned pittance of a salary on an employed, double-dating whoore.

Marry your heart, thats how fulfilling decisions are made, thats passion, but I hope ur feelings is not materialistic, otherwise u need to work on ursf.

I feel like saying you are mad but then again, i just have to be civilized on social media.


You no get job you come dey wahala two guys wey dey try for themselves and their family.

Follow the ssce guy. Help him achieve his dream by sending him to school.

just imagine the words of a typical Naija Farm Tool who doesn't bring anything to the table but caught in the web of a Simp and SMAN.
She wants it all for herself, educated and open handed. it doesn't work that way, tit for tat.

My signature says it all.

The ssce holder is certainly not ready for marriage in my opinion because he earns 2k-5k. Better start weighing your options with the other one. Note his pros and cons and weigh them. If not, u never see husband.

lalalista:
Hello all, I opened an account to post this issue here because I want a honest advice from people who don't know who I am.

I have two men in my life asking for my hand in marriage. One is a working class graduate while the other is an ssce holder who recently lost his job. I like the ssce holder the more because he is more intelligent, neat, generous, fun to be with, more handsome and he's also from my tribe. When he had a job, he always gives me money without me asking him. He takes me out a lot and buys me things. Now he's just into daily hustles that fetches him 2- 5k daily.
On the other hand, the working class graduate is not from my tribe. He has money but spending it is always a big issue. Let me just say that he's kind of stingy. He's not as neat and intelligent as the ssce holder. I need to choose one of them before April. I'm equally a graduate.

My friends say I will suffer in future if I choose the ssce guy because he's got no degree and his chances of getting a good job is very low. They want me to marry the working graduate so I won't have to suffer. Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

NOTE : I've been out of job too. My job was affected by the pandemic

If not for condition shaaaaa.

Tbh.. I'd advise u go for the SSCE holder. I'm a guy... The Graduate guy might be this kind of pretender thou ... You might later get to know the real him in marriage.

Chill babe... Within 2mins.. everywhere fit burst. If you strongly believe in the SSCE holder and try to ask him his 5years-to-come plans.. if he has visions... You can just stick to him and try to build up you guys world...


*Nothing Wey No Fit Happen* babe.

The dark forces are after you. I see you making an error in marriage.

FalseProphet1:
The dark forces are after you. I see you making an error in marriage.

back to sender

lalalista:
Hello all, I opened an account to post this issue here because I want a honest advice from people who don't know who I am.

I have two men in my life asking for my hand in marriage. One is a working class graduate while the other is an ssce holder who recently lost his job. I like the ssce holder the more because he is more intelligent, neat, generous, fun to be with, more handsome and he's also from my tribe. When he had a job, he always gives me money without me asking him. He takes me out a lot and buys me things. Now he's just into daily hustles that fetches him 2- 5k daily.
On the other hand, the working class graduate is not from my tribe. He has money but spending it is always a big issue. Let me just say that he's kind of stingy. He's not as neat and intelligent as the ssce holder. I need to choose one of them before April. I'm equally a graduate.

My friends say I will suffer in future if I choose the ssce guy because he's got no degree and his chances of getting a good job is very low. They want me to marry the working graduate so I won't have to suffer. Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

NOTE : I've been out of job too. My job was affected by the pandemic

so you’re currently dating both men and cheating on them

Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

Since you want my honest opinion.


The graduate, like many other Nigeria youths is battling Nigeria factor. To me, He is not stingy. He is only working on his future, omolomo , meanwhile stinginess to you means the other guy who gives more than him. Im very sure he is still doing for you not just as steady as the guy who wants to compliment his lack (education) by marrying an educated fine lady. Whereas, the graduate see you as another baggage. He is a fuvLken AlpHa. To the question, The other guy is a simp who you will still fvck if your heed to your friends. Please don't do that, just marry the ssce guy

shege45:
so you’re currently dating both men and cheating on them

of course

lalalista:
of course

����I swear, I no fit trust woman for my life.

Deep inside you, you know the best for yourself. Pray to God and choose the one with good communication and affection. Money is nothing compared to real love.

Lady.. Just go ahead and marry the Sim.p, I mean the SSCE guy.

You be happy in the Long run.

Choose the right one for you.

Nazgul:
You told us what your two suitors do for a living and left out yourself, And why would your friends tell you that you'll suffer in future if you go for the graduate, or are you allergic to working and making money for yourself?

Let me advise you, never look at a man's wallet when making decisions concerning marriage. If your reason for leaving the graduate is because he's dirty and unintelligent then it's a valid reason and not because he doesn't spend on you. Cos I strongly believe that you don't spend on him as well so saying he doesn't spend on you would be hyprocricy cos you're guilty of the same offence you're accusing him of.

Well said. Don't mind the op.

My own point it:
Those your friends telling you who to go for and who not to go for, I hope when things go south, they won't leave you to your fate.
Make your choice alone, trash whatever your friends say.