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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by skinny419(m): 7:46pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
MickzyDonald:kkj kee u there |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by muymacho: 8:13pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
OP You must be one of the single guys. Shame no dey catch you? |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
iboboyswag:Oh hush it, you dimwit. |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
muymacho:Shame for nacking kpekus ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Gmajor(m): 8:30pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
bigjackass: � lol |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by thymm50(m): 8:33pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
op you remind me of Antonio bandera in the movie "original sin", but you worse pass am. Na to cut off your manhood send to her as a souvenir na e remain |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Izabel:In the midst of this particular crisis, I asked her what next and said NOTHING. She said he can NEVER divorce her(Same thing she affirmed in her thread). If the marriage had to end it would be on her terms. At that point I realized whatever it is she had on him must be really horrible and strong. I tried to probe and she refused to tell. She only said she'd sacrificed more for him than he had done for her. At this point I had to question her about the paternity of the child. She had previously told me sex was almost non-existent in their marriage. My thinking at the time was that he had pressured her to get pregnant by someone else in order to protect his name. Surprisingly, she told me she could guarantee 100% that the child belonged to him. Unfortunately, it had to take her ill-advised thread for me to unravel that particular issue. The child came via IVF. Something important to note. She had told me he would return her phone he seized. Just like she said, he waybilled that phone 3 days after. So it was obvious she held all the aces in that marriage and still does till today. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Dufil(m): 9:04pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Misscheery:Why |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Aderr: 9:10pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples:You should know what she has over him nah. ![]() The guy already showed her his weakness and fear. If he divorces her, there would be questions and that's the man's fear. If he accuses her of infidelity to nosy family members, she would expose him. It's his nightmare. I don't see that man staying alive for long. The child might even be a bastard. Don't believe her too much. And try to forget her. She is not worth it. She is insecure and is using men to feel alive, inside she feels dead. Take it. 8 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Aderr: 9:12pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples:Don't mind the hypocrite. |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by overdrive(m): 9:17pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples: Bros inasmuch as this is an anonymous forum it’s time you off your mic. You are delving into intimate details which adulteress might hold dear. I suspect you guys didn’t part amicably if not I don’t see the reason for this thread. Do you want to extract your pound of flesh now for being dumped? Bros e don do abeg. 6 Likes
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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by apesinola001: 9:26pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
It[quote author=Aderr post=98269699] exactly my thoughts PEACE 1 Like |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by iboboyswag(m): 9:29pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Nonexistent: From one dimwit to another... That's quite a compliment. |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by sisisioge: 9:50pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Wowzerful! So we are finally in the era of washing our linens outdoor....lobatan. Now I'm scared the OP's husband too may come across the thread. It is well o. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
overdrive:Her earlier thread stated clearly she wants to bare it all. That's what we're doing. No holds barred. Just that we're not disclosing personal details. It is an anonymous forum and when the thread is exhausted, I'm sure we will both deactivate 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by eastOFwest(m): 10:37pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples: She was probably fishing for her next ![]() I read her thread long enough to draw an opinion, probably page 4 or 5. Looks plausible enough. I sensed a victim mentality there. She's probably played the victim card all her life; it surely didn't start when she was 23. That's why certain type of men will always want to "rescue" her. That's why I'm quite certain she would have always been a cheat irrespective of her husband's supposed condition and the circumstances surrounding their courtship and marriage. People with a victim mentality will always look for reasons to be a victim. They will create one out of existing circumstances. Very intelligent people. Oddly proud people. Full of deep emotions. They throw their hearts, heads and soul completely into anything they are into. The best type of people to have an affair with and totally worth every minute of the experience. 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Aderr:Remember she never told me he was impotent. She only said the sex life was practically non existent. I was the one doing all the wondering and guessing until I read her thread yesterday |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
eastOFwest:You're right. It was the most intense one year of my life. Very intense |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by luscioustrish(f): 11:04pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Read both stories...I don't even know what to say, hope it all ends well 1 Like |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Bornu1stSon(m): 11:09pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
luscioustrish: So, you believe this op? |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Bornu1stSon(m): 11:22pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
MLTR: I tire for this people wey no get sense |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Raalsalghul: 11:26pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Can't you people Bleep in peace and let us be? |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 12:04am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Both dilated people and adultress are same person, frustrated he-goat shior ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by narrowpathy(m): 12:05am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Lol. It's so obvious op is still head over heels in love with her hence this thread. He wants her back and is trying to get her attention with this thread. Bro just move on. Even if by a stroke of luck you get her back and become the best lover any woman can ask of, she'll still put you in the position her husband is in right now. She has tasted a form of power that is difficult to relinquish. Kill the feelings, stop fantasizing and just move on cuz right now she has your mumu button and she knows it....even disdains you for that reason. Jazz up bro. stop slipping 1 Like |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:43am On Jan 21, 2021 |
VanDerWaalforces:You are not here to judge but that is what you just did. Her husband is not satisfying her in bed and she is depressed of sex starvation. Rather than commit suicide, she tried to cope by looking outside. What If the husband knew he was not capable her his it from her in under the disguise of virgin till marriage as you churcheous people do..? How should a wife satisfy her self sexually? Oua answer 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by CalmElder(m): 1:58am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Misscheery: You are corrupt. 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Lamba42(m): 2:34am On Jan 21, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples: What’s her zodiac sign? |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 3:36am On Jan 21, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples:In all of this una wata-wata story, you people should stop castigating the innocent husband abeg. Pesin dey quick ejaculate is quite different from impotent! Nothing a week or two of agbo-jedi won't cure. And if not, PE na normal thing for late bloomers B. But, like someone opined above, the adultress is melancholic with lifelong victim mentality. So anything goes, and in her mind she has proclaimed husband 'impotent and so shall it be'. Any excuse to go awhoring. N.B. And stop calling her intelligent/attractive abeg. Pocohantas is regular. Pesin wey dem dey waybill phone give with her crusty ring and bleached skin. Oshi oda *spits* 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by whizzler: 3:41am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Doortun: "There is no good woman, unless she is strictly controlled. If you leave a woman to her options she choose destruction". So much truth in the quoted. I have seen firsthand examples of women/girls who despite all they had just wanted to "rebel" as one put it. 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Aderr: 5:06am On Jan 21, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples:Because her husband already knows what's up. You are not the first she cheated with. The husband may even believe she is doing him a favour by keeping his secret. This life sha! |
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by femi4: 5:26am On Jan 21, 2021 |
DilatedPeoples:you re still in pain of rejection 2 Likes |
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