FLESHnBLOOD:
Be very sincere with this qstn I will ask you have cheated on him before? If yes is he aware?

nomnso2016:
you asked what he sees in other ladies,

Nothing at all, if you like give it to him each hour, he will still cheat.
it is matter of self-discipline and commitment.
walking away may an option

spinna:
one option..cut him off..[s]or change your sexual flavour..be the one fucking / seducing him.. by the time hes tired he wont be so hungry. Anything in skirt u said..so always overgive him your own

As ur getting married make sure he agrees to do monthly testing for stds and bring d results to prevent disease from outside..dont compromise on that one..ince he said he cant stop he must use rubbers outside

Olakunleyakub:
Break up for now! you would have been fired by him if you were the one cheating on him....men hardly forgive cheating oooooooo!!

As for me, Once you are dirty and a cheat den kiss the relationship or marriage goodbye even if you are Elon musk daughter!!!


]n relationship or marriage, your happiness come first before anything else ma!!!

Psych412:


last sentence, just changed my mind completely

thanks for the advice.

Psych412:
Why does my boyfriend keeps cheating on me and tells me he loves me and wants to be with me.


I caught him cheating on me more than three times.

And now I want to leave but he won't let me be.


I don't have any trust left but I still love him alot.

I have asked him "what does he wants me to do for him to stop cheating on me", he told me his trying to change that I should give him time that he will change (I nearly took the bottle on top the table to hit his head when he said that). I have not been eating well since Sunday we had this quarrel.


I so much love this guy to the point I nearly fought my elder sister and junior siblings(infact I fought her) when she tried changing my mind about getting married to him(we have done introduction and plan to get married once I'm through with my Bsc course). my eyes are opened. The only person am thinking about is his mom. I so much love that woman and she already gave us her blessing when I meet her for the first time. I know this our breakup is going to hurt her. But staying with her son who loves sleeping with anything with skirts for the rest of my life is going to be hell on Earth.


Please nairalanders, advice me. I don't know what to do. Am just tried.

Now.....I really don't know what to say cos am guilty as much.......

I do my own for fun anyways nothing attached....

But......it boost ego knowing fully well u have access to so much pussy......u know that kind feeling??

Olunmercy56:
I don't know if some men are just created to be a cheater Must you cheat on your partner Why not control your mumu long stick Please face your life and precious health, no man who is a cheat is worth dying for. There are still many trustworthy men out there who will not cheat on their partners, they love their partners for real. Wise up

Federalcase:
Psych412
Hmmm i have a friend that is the same as the way you describe your boyfriend. He has a loving family especially his mum, she is too Caring and not only for her son even to his friends and girlfriends. During his universities days he has this loving girlfriend, there's nothing these girl will not do for him and she is very pretty too. His family knew her and they even thought she was the final one for him because the guy doesn't stay one place at all. The problem you are battling with your bf was the same problem his loving girlfriend was battling with then. He cheated alot. Long story short, he later got married to one lawyer that works with their family lawyer that has a law firm. From what I understand, he is just guy that has no problem in his life, he got everything he wanted and he is very intelligent too so he couldn't help but test different pūssy. During the whole wedding ceremony, we discussed and I asked after his loving girlfriend and from his reply, i understand that his doesn't want a loving girlfriend, he just wants a girl that will add value to his life and that lawyer came through when the family had an issue and she loves him very well. The lawyer girl is not pretty as his other girlfriends then but she is standard, she is successful, she has her own car and house before she got married, her dad is not even that rich but she is a very hard working girl. His family paid her alot with begging on top.

You should start thinking for yourself, i am sure his mum will understand when she stops seeing u guys together. You don't owe her any explanation, don't let his mum become a criteria for loving him. She is a grown woman and if she is truly loving as you say, she will want the best for you. As for guys like your boyfriend, trust me when I tell you that he is not even thinking of getting married. He is having fun and at the time getting all the loving he wants from you, others girlfriends and family so he just wants to keep you around just like others. He won't value you now until you have given value to your life and he is burden to you if you want to move forward. Quit the relationship, study hard, finish school and start making your money. Leave relationship matters to God and God will send the best man to you.

Psych412:
I swear, I have not cheated on him. his my first. 2018 we broke up because of his cheating life style, but got back again 2020 thinking he has changed, not knowing he has even increased his rank In cheating.