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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nazgul: 9:18pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
mezico96:Village elders are very authoritative and rude towards younger people. So the issue of talking to them in the form of advice wouldn't fly cos in his own perception he would be a coward if he can't confront the young man and tell him what's on his mind without mixing word. My own is that if any man wants to marry he must inquire about the culture of his wife to be. It's very important. A friend of mine got married in one area like that in Abia state. According to their tradition the girl must not accompany her husband to his home after the traditional marriage. She must spend her last night in her father's house then pack her things to her husband's house the following morning. So the husband goes home lonely after the marriage and waits for his wife the following morning. The culture differs from place to place. But like I said, it's no big deal, he can still have easy access to her whenever he wants. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Molahnelson(m): 9:30pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
We like to believe that we love God but our actions are always contradicting 4 Likes |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by PrinxArthur1(m): 9:37pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Humanoid01:simp 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Humanoid01(m): 9:46pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
PrinxArthur1:Oh you have no idea. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Michelle55: 9:50pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
They are officially married na. Church wedding is simply a borrowed culture besides the Bible didn't say Jesus attended a white wedding. We overdo things here in Nigeria. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by merieam16(f): 10:57pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
BusinessCity:So after the wedding, he stops being her father abi... 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by femi4: 6:24am On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96:He's wrong Traditional wedding is the only type of wedding recognised by the Bible. Church wedding is a white man doing not scriptural 4 Likes |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by bmasz(m): 6:43am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin: I am confused which one is the wedding night. Church wedding night or traditional wedding night. I believe that the traditional marriage ceremony is the real on and all others are add-ons. I am still waiting for Christians to show me from the bible the marriage ceremony that was conducted at the synagogue or temple. From where did we get this irrational degradation of our culture. The father should stop putting asunder to what God has joined together. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Ketamine9000mg(m): 7:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Softboy001: I have always said it, if traditional marriage is not enough, let the lady come and be going jejely. The idea or doing 3 weddings (Christianity, Court and Traditional) in one marriage is total madness 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by silento(m): 7:32am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Some guys dey mumu if Na me I will collect my bride price and find my way the father is mumu and ur friends is more mumu Even the Bible only recognized the bride price once a father collects it oboy the girl is not under her care and control The white wedding saga might be a tricks to delay so that the pussy tighten soap will work well 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Kondomatic(m): 10:11am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Saao:They've been legally married before God and man since the day of their traditional marriage. Or didn't the father hand her daughter over to the groom's people that day? Church wedding is irrelevant to me. We have our own system of marriage before the whites came and it's as good as their own. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Bansempire: 10:26am On Jan 22, 2021 |
���� wahala o...only the post wey person dey see about marriage dey make man think twice about getting married |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by sojfarm: 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Very simple, abandon the their family altogether until you understand why. Of, course there more to it than ordinary |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Tjah: 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:Wat do u understand by d word marriage?? 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by LoveJesus87(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:so the traditional wedding is not the 'marriage' abi? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by HenryThegreat1(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
But traditional marriage supposed supersede other forms of marriage shall. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by abimic(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin:What gave you the conclusion she's a virgin? 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by 12345baba(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2021 |
If na me be ur guy I go even increase am to four months. He suppose thank the man and use the two months for mad grooving |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by rajiedreez: 10:28am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:So what did they do, traditional divorce abi? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Collins4u1(m): 10:28am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Mstttteeeeeeew Woman is legally married to the man. And traditional rite has been done and completed. Chizoba |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 10:28am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Then let them return the dowry till the white wedding na...what if something goes wrong then who is to blame. It is totally wrong. The recognized marriage in Nigeria is the traditional and the registry, church wedding is a choice. Humanoid01: |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:28am On Jan 22, 2021 |
What is church or white wedding? When bride price has been paid, all this na rubbish for my ear.. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
rajiedreez: Let it reach God for approval first. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
LoveJesus87: Let it reach God for approval first. Thank you |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by SeniorGee(m): 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Lol.. the father no trust his daughter ni? Tell your friend to use this two months to mentally prepare for life together forever with her. Boyfriend and girlfriend is very different from marriage oo. Let him be calming down. I see no issue here at all. As you have paid homage the whole world knows she's your wife. Our elders say pesin no dey rush go where e go sleep. A little patience brother. 2 Likes |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Emaxwell(m): 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
12345baba: You for kuku marry your daughter your self After traditional marriage church weeding And the guy should be patient so as not to have issue with the father in law after all na still your wife little patience |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Minjim: 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: I believe you meant after the wedding But which wedding again? The only acceptable an compulsory wedding in the Bible is the Traditional, and he had done that already. So after which wedding exactly are you talking about. I didn't even have a church wedding. My wife and I had concluded on that |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:29am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Tjah: Marriage is coming together in the presence of God. Let it reach God for approval first. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:30am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Minjim: Let it reach God for approval first. Thank you |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by joey150(m): 10:30am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Michelle55: If you are a Christian how can you say church wedding is borrowed? The white or church wedding is part of the Christian tradition. It's not a "white man's" thing, it's a Christian thing. Oh, Jesus was a Jew while he was on earth? Why aren't you Jew? Since Jesus wasn't a Christian in the Bible. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Sijo01(f): 10:30am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Will our opinions change the bride father's mind 2 Likes |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by abimic(m): 10:30am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Humanoid01:One would hope he doesn't draw up unnecessary interferences with his daughter's marriage later on. |
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